We have all been there, the relationship is going ok but you are wondering if he means business or is just playing the field? Find out how to make your Taurus man commit forever to you!
You already know that being a Taurus your man does want a committed relationship; he wants a home-cooked dinner; picket fence; he wants to grow old with the girl of his dreams but – does he already know that you ARE the girl of his dreams?
Being a man of few words, you can hardly expect him to say what’s on his mind. What you CAN do is show him what you have to offer. So let’s dive into the secrets of how to make your Taurus man realize you have what he wants and make him commit to you!
#1 Give him time
Never rush a Taurus into commitment – This is a creature of habit who hates being put into a corner and you don’t need resulting stubbornness and obstinacy ruining your chances. The first thing you need to grasp in order to understand him is that he hates changes. Period.
Second, he needs time to weigh all the pros and cons of any possible change, of any big undertaking. He is cautious, he abhors taking risks and he needs to feel secure and 100% convinced that committing to you is the right decision.
Rushing him would only make things worse. And yet, you might wait forever because he tends to get stuck in a rut. Taurus prefers familiar things; he likes things as they are – “Better a devil you know than the one you don’t” is surely a quote from a Taurus – which is why he might keep your relationship on ice for years. So HOW can you make him change his ways without rushing him? Read on!
#2 Make him see your value
His bachelor uncommitted lifestyle is a habit he needs to kick. But if the two of you are already in some sort of a relationship you are on the firmer ground for he dislikes change in all area, which means he would leave you only if push came to shove – relationship with you is also a kind of habit.
He likes his freedom but he likes you too, so we need to tip the balance in your favor, make him WANT to make the change of taking your relationship to the next level. For a Taurus, the relationship is an investment. He invests in what he finds valuable, and he values stability, endurance, dependability, industriousness, safety, security, reliability, pleasures, comfort, honesty, and most of all – a comfortable and pleasant home life.
Can you provide him this? Your goal is to show him your worth, to show him that what you offer is so VALUABLE and appealing he will WANT to grab this perfect picture of a life with you and change his bachelor MO – commit to you.
Taurus is a simple creature so there’s no need for acrobatics, just give him this feeling of pleasantness, stability, and endurance he has been chasing his whole life. Make him see that it pays off to be with you, make him an offer he cannot refuse by dangling his picket fence dream in front of his nose. Taurus might be slow to start, but once he sees his goal shining before him, he will commit to it with full determination.
#3 Be the girl he can count on!
Taurus man wants a girl he can depend on; he wants to know you will be there for him, he wants to see you are in for the long run. There are lots of ways you can assure him of this, and it doesn’t have to be anything big.
On the contrary, it’s more important that you are consistently reliable, that your presence provides a constant sense of stability in his world, for this is what he craves. Try not to change your mind too often, or cancel plans unless you really have to; don’t turn off your phone if you had plans that day, and don’t fall short on your promises.
Put simply – don’t be fickle when relating to him. Show support for his problems and goals, be a reliable companion and adviser, a rock, a safe harbor. If he asks for your opinion you are in girl!
But refrain from forcing unwanted advice on him or trying to change his mind when he is clearly being stubborn about it – don’t fight windmills, chose your battles wisely. Integrity is important to him and is a part of “being there” so this doesn’t mean you should be dishonest, just wise when voicing your opinion and providing well-meaning support.
#4 Be his best friend
Yes, Taurus man loves sex, and he likes the “homemaker” type of girl, the feminine type, the Aphrodite – but for him, friendship is also a BIG component of a successful relationship. No need to overwhelm him with cooking, seducing or dressing up, just be yourself and be his pal also.
He values a relaxed attitude and he needs to know he can enjoy a quiet, uneventful evening on the couch with you; talk to you openly; confide in you; hang out without playing games or watching his every word – just like you do with your friends. So, relax, be his pal and a sincere friend, not just a lover, and allow him to be your friend too! This is the basis of every good relationship and Taurus knows this very well.
#5 Make him feel at home with you
Home life is of paramount importance to a Taurus, he values a beautiful and comfy home and relationships which provide a sense of retreat from the rat race outside. He seeks a feeling of sanctuary, safety, and pleasantness.
Whether you are already living together or visit each other’s places, here is your chance to shine. Show him what a good homemaker you are! Make your living space as comfy and delighting as possible when you invite him over; bring him something nice and of quality for his own home; cook for him (better yet, invite him to join you, he will like the opportunity to show his own skills); ask him for his opinion if you plan to decorate or redecorate your (or shared) living space.
Appeal to his good taste and interests! Tease him with what is to come if he chooses you for his life partner, tease him with the sense of safety, coziness, permanence, pleasure. Just remember to do all this in an unassuming and spontaneous way for he hates artificiality and a sense of being pressured into something.
#6 No Stepford Wives act, please!
As much as he likes traditional settings and home life and will enjoy your home cooked meals, beautifully decorated living space, cozy Netflix and Chill evenings – do not go overboard. Taurus is a simple man and one with an innate sense of integrity so he will sniff artificiality.
He will sense if you are not being spontaneous but simply playing a role to please him and will be repelled by a big show. He will value your homemaking skills and you as a wife material only if he sees that you are a woman of common sense who is able to stand with two feet firmly on the ground. Just be yourself! (Unless you are a Leo, in which case tone it down a bit.)
He will feel delighted, even proud if you dress up when the two of you are entertaining or going out, but he also wants you to look and feel relaxed when you are alone with him. No need for going to bed with fake eyelashes and tons of foundation for fear he will see you without makeup in the morning – Taurus values natural beauty and wants to see your easy going and playful side. You don’t need to be perfect around him, just feminine, so unleash your Earth goddess! Earth knows all seasons and all weather conditions but is ever present, a constant in his world. Draw on that!
#7 He wants an Earth Goddess – industrious and commonsense!
While it’s surely a plus if his Venus has long and beautiful hair, without each hair needing to be in its place all the time, she does need to have something between her ears too. Taurus values the material reality and will want to see you being able to cope with this material world.
Taurus men sometimes tend to “buy love with gifts” while some even play sugar daddies, but unless you wanna see where this road takes you and whether you can beat the odds and become a trophy wife – it’s wiser and safer to go about it the other way. Show that you embody his values, show that you appreciate the material world by being commonsense, shrewd, and practical about it.
Taurus likes luxury and beauty but more importantly, he likes quality and endurance. And he likes to get a good deal. Show that you are money savvy: do not waste your or his resources, instead capitalize on them – show him that you too are a good deal in the long run! An industrious woman of good taste who is also practical about spending; one who will help him build his life; a woman who will enable your mutual projects to grow and prosper.
Taurus is a practical guy who wants the same trait in his lifelong partner and would not want to commit to someone who is a drain on his wallet, one who is lazy or irresponsible about the material side of life. Show that you are a worthy and useful “business partner” he will want to partner up with for life!
There it is ladies, 7 easy and commonsense tips to make your Taurus man commit, so make sure you apply them consistently. Yet, if you are already doing all this for a long time and he still doesn’t value you – please respect your inner goddess and move on, you wouldn’t want to waste your inner resources and femininity on the wrong guy, would you? Do tell us about your experience with your Taurus man in the comments!
If you’re just scratching the surface with your Taurus guy, you should really learn all you can about his sign. It may help you in the long run. Click here for more details on him.
Hi… A taurus co~worker of mine and I we’ve been spending time together and loving every moment, Does it mean something?
Hi Lorato! Thank you for commenting about your tricky situation. Truly it’s hard to know whether a Taurus man thinks of you as a friend or if it’s more. You’re going to need to actually try to figure out where you’re at in his mind and the only way to do that is by asking. You’re going to need to ask him what he thinks about you hanging out. Tell him that you’re developing some feelings for him and would like to explore what there may be between you if he’s up for it. Ask him if he’s feeling this way also. If he is, he will take you up on it. If he isn’t, he should at that point truthfully tell you that he’s only interested in being friends then you’ll know for sure what his intention is and where you two stand. Of course there are many other things you should probably take into account or learn about the Taurus man. Check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” to help you.
Hi Anna, Please tell me that this same advice will work for a gay Taurus Man? I am a gay Capricorn Man.
Hi Designer! Yes! It should still apply to your situation. I’ve had other men buy the books I have to offer and write in for their VIP consult. They found my information to be highly useful in their situations. In fact, if you’d like to know more, please do check out my books “Taurus Man Secrets” as there may be lots of information that can help you in your personal situation.
They are high maintenance. I am a Cancer woman, perfectly matched and he kept putting me on ice. One moment hot, then, cold. I am not a yoyo.
Hi, my classmate is a Taurus man. And i like him. Actually, in love with him. So sometimes he was acting so cold. there were times he didn’t say hi to me. Like i don’t exist. But he is kind and flirty. I guess he likes me as well.i asked why he acts like that, he was like ” i don’t like our classmates,you are the closest to me” and he told me why i don’t talk to him, or why i forgot him” and i was like “no, you are making some walls that i can’t climb”! But we are good now. So can we marry?
Hi Lala!
Wow that’s a bold move! This is something that has to be cultivated over time. Though he shows interest, a bond needs to be created and then worked at via friendship thus moving into more with time. It’s not a quick process and I would imagine marriage would be that much further down the line but definitely possible if you two can become close. I wish you the best! Take your time.
Hi..I broke up with him as ive had felt that he’s no longer into our relationship anymore..it’s always me who puts effort on our relationship..now my question is..will he go back to me and tell me to give our relationship another chance? As far as I remember he doesn’t want me back..I still love him that’s why I’m already on the process of letting him go for good.. Aries
Hi Indira Cale,
You won’t know unless you actually talk to him and ask him about it. Address your concerns, tell him how you feel, and tell him where you see things going. Ask him to tell you how he feels and what he wants and at that point you should be able to gauge whether or not this might work. Wishing you best!
It was great with my Taurus man in the beginning. I am a Gemini and we really had great chemistry between us. I’d never felt anything like it before with any man. I told him i loved him after one month, though he never told me his feelings, he would show how he felt with his actions. I really felt it wS going somewhere. After 5 months he started going cold on me..I’d call and text him all thd time. Sometimes i texted too much. I know they don’t like that…Finally he told me he needed time to get his head together. Its been a 7 weeks since we last got together and i miss him so bad. I still love him but i have stopped myself telling him this now. I realise he needs time to realise what he truly wants.He hates pressure , so i’m taking a back seat by not texting him much now.
Hi Cheryl Knowles!
So he basically start to slowly back out while ignoring you or not initiating. When they are in doubt, this is definitely what they do. They also do it when they’re planning their departure from the relationship. Sadly, they plan it out instead of just making a decision. It’s good to take a break and keeping your distance but don’t do it for too long or or too often. You need to make sure he understands that you’re still there and you haven’t given up on him. Naturally if you go a long period of time without him changing or improving things then you may need to move on. I wish you nothing but the best!
Hi…I’ was in a relationship with a Taurus man’s younger brother, who happens to be a scorpio and all through the time this Taurus man had an eye on me from the first time he saw me, he kept asking everyone about me,he’ll flirt subtly with me, asking me to go the movies with with him & I was paying attention,but didn’t respond & things ended btwn his brother and I, few months later I texted him, and he took it up and always keeps the conversation, so I asked for him to define the reason for our so much texting and why he wants to know about me,and asking for pictures, he said he’ll like to be there for me for as long as I get someone to settle with as nothing serious can happen between us due to circumstances surrounding our friendship, & I said no, that if I will want to be with him & not a side piece till whenever I settle as he propose,…lol, I really do like him alot,buht I’m willing to let him go. Any idea on if he’ll ever commit to be as a partner…please reply.
Thanks Anna. I’m an aquarius woman
Hi Sucre!
Thank you for writing in. It’s hard to tell if he will ever change his mind. He will have to be friends with you for a very long time and you’ll have to show him that you’re the right one for him to even get his interest in that way. He probably likes you but is afraid of relationships or is busy with other parts of his life and cannot maintain one right now. You really should read my book “Taurus Man Secrets” as I really think it will help you learn about him. You might be able to entice him with time and lots of patience.
Hey Anna I am really tired we are together for almost 4 years and he is completely chnge now he only values me when I am oky when I got sick and asks him he either doesn’t respond or breakup with me I don’t know how to handle it he always worn me of breakup and then after few days if I message him he is fine but all he wants is a good control over me before this for almost 2 years everything was perfectly fine plx let me know he really wants to end up with me or no it’s just his cold side
P.S he is nowadays very busy in his work and I know it’s true
Plz reply me I am unable to sleep at night
Hi Katie!
Yikes, yes some Taurus men can be rather dominant and want to control. Don’t let him do that though. If you give him that power, he will keep doing it. It sounds like if you space out a bit, it makes him miss you and wonder what is going on. Some Taurus guys need this. If he is busy then yes, he will space off and not reach out as much. Work is important to Taurus men as it’s their safety blanket and means of ego lifting. There is no way I can tell you if you’re going to end up together or not. You have to ask him that. If he has no intention on giving you what you want then you will have to decide if you will continue waiting for him or if you will move on. Trust your gut. You can also read more by reading my series “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hi
I have been seeing my Taurus man for 4 months now. I can Jones say I’m falling for him. I’m 32 years old mother of two and he’s 46 divorced father of two. Despite the lockdown we see each other very often because we decided to bubble together. He’s the most charming, calm, attentive and sensual lover I have ever met. The only thing he he never talks about himself or his work at all, I know he runs his own business but never says anything and I don’t know what he does really in fact it took him a good month before he even gave me his last name. We text each other every day even when he’s busy at work he always make time to chat to me, I let him call at his convenience since he’s most of the time buried with work. I really hope and wish he could share a bit more about himself because a part of me feels like I’m falling for a stranger. I visit his house and he visit mine and we always have such an amazing time. I noticed he’s a little possessive and jealous. I once took a picture at work during break and he asked about the flowers at the background if they’re mine and if so who gave them to me. Whenever I send him a photo he’ll ask things like have you sent it to anyone else or uploaded it on social media? I really don’t know how long it takes a Taurus men to open up just a little because I want to know a little about him, I don’t care about his past I just want to feel like I know him a little. I’m being very patient and never bring the subject up just waiting for him to do it in his own time but he makes me wonder if he actually feels the same about me as i feel about him. Is there anything I can do to make it easy for him to open up just a little a d tell me about himself. He’ll always come to my place when he’s had a stressful day at work but doesn’t talk about it. We go on days not calling each other but we chat every single hour of the day and exchange voice notes and everything.
I’m a little confused I don’t want to feel this much love if he isn’t on the same path as me.
Hi….i have a mentor 4 years older than me who is a taurus…we started talking through online platform…nd when we started to talk there was an instant attraction between the two of us like on the very first day we talked…now we are gradually developing our relationship over time he is being sweet to me nd admits that he likes me nd thinks about me…do you see a scope of us being together i am a libra woman myself
Hi Anisha!
Since I am an Astrologer, I rely on birth data and looking at your charts to see what your compatibility truly may be. I cannot tell if two people are going to end up together or not. Something like that would have to be assessed by a Psychic perhaps. The good news though is that I do offer VIP Consultations. If you would be interested, I’d be more than happy to help you. I wish you all the best!