Have you met a Taurus man during a trip and are smitten with him? Maybe you met one online and haven’t yet met face to face. Is it likely that a relationship will grow and become something more while living at a distance from each other? There are some things you should consider when you’re in a long distance relationship with a Taurus man.
In The Beginning
If a Taurus man begins talking to you with frequency and with interest; then there is a chance it may end up being more. If you’ve already established that you’re dating then he’ll take his time getting to know you.
Since Taurus man is a slow mover; he tends to be very careful in getting to know the woman that may become more in his life. Being long distance allows him to get to know everything about you and what you want out of life.
He basically can get to know whether he’s compatible with you on fundamental levels. The only thing missing here is the physical aspect if you’ve only met online. If you’ve already met; then you’ll probably already know if you’re attracted to each other or not.
Taurus men aren’t in the habit of one night stands so if you’ve slept together upon meeting and have now developed some type of relationship via calls, texts, or social media; then it’s a process.
In the beginning, he’s gung-ho and may be the one to initiate talking to you or even suggesting a trip to come see you. He may even offer to pay for your plane ticket to come to see him if he lives at a longer distance than comfortable for driving.
When It Becomes Complicated
At some point; you and the Taurus man will both want to actually spend time together. Face to face is absolutely necessary for a Taurus man to continue a long distance relationship.
The thing is; if he becomes really attached to you; he’s going to want some type of incentive for being with you. If you cannot visit each other often in the early stages of your relationship; you may want to try video chatting.
It allows you to sort of be face to face and provides you both with a bit of comfort while you wait until you’re able to be together 100%. The complication arises when he realizes that he cannot be with you while you’re at a distance.
He could become cold or restless thus sending you fewer messages or calling less. The Taurus man is in need of physical interaction with the woman he’s been spending so much energy on.
Again, this won’t last if you don’t find a way to visit him or let him visit you. The video will be a temporary patch but you’ve got to spend one on one time or it will start to fall apart.
Taurus man is patient and laborious but at some point, he wants what he wants and if what he wants isn’t around; he starts filling the void by spending time elsewhere.
Build A Future
As much as a Taurus man will pledge his love and talk about making you his wife; he will also still have some sort of reservation whether or not it will work because he isn’t able to spend actual time with you.
One of you is going to have to compromise to make this work. However; this is a very scary process for you both. Taurus man may easily say “yes, move in with me and we’ll have an awesome life together” but then he hangs up and thinks otherwise.
He begins to let it set in that “what if it doesn’t work” or “can I even give her what she wants”. He’ll mull over several different scenarios which again; will make him seem reserved, cooled off, or withdrawn.
He IS a busy guy and he does suck at communication first and foremost. However; he will unusually pull back if he has too much on his mind and is unsure about whether or not it’s going to work with you.
While he cares for you or even loves you; he is second-guessing himself as well as you. This is a normal pattern for a Taurus man. To best build a future; it’s almost better to move into your own place in the same town with him if you can.
That way you still have personal space and can see if the two of you are going to work out or not. THEN if he SEES it; he’ll step up and be more able to go through with the commitment.
No Face To Face, Doesn’t Work Out
While you can easily get swept away by a man hundreds or thousands of miles away; the Taurus man can also break your heart. He is all talk until he realizes that you’re getting serious.
I can honestly tell you that unless you meet with him face to face; there isn’t any room for comparison and he will NOT 100% commit to you no matter what he says.
Taurus man is a touchy-feely guy who has to have access to the woman he’s trying to build a life with. He’ll go for a while without it while getting to know her but at some point; he’s going to want her in his arms.
If it’s nearly impossible or doesn’t happen within a time frame he deems acceptable; he will suddenly stop responding, stop reaching out, and will basically phase the woman out.
So the answer is; YES; a long distance relationship CAN work with a Taurus man but you’ve got to be willing to show him the light at the end of the tunnel otherwise he’ll just move on.
Show him that there is something you two can work toward and that you CAN spend time together periodically to ease the physical loneliness you two may feel when you’re apart. Video chatting will help with this as well.
If you’re just scratching the surface with your Taurus guy, you should really learn all you can about his sign. It may help you in the long run. Click here for more details on him.
That is for 100% work.. Cause i was 1 year date by relationship with Taurus man, then we getting married, they are the gorgeous man in relationship.. Love my hubby so much… ❤
Hi de1568petter!
Yes it is work. It’s not easy with a Taurus man but if you two really love each other then it can and will work out. I am so happy to hear that you will marrying him. This is wonderful news. Congratulations! If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
For now due to the pandemic my ex bf who is born under Taurus sign, he tell me that in the future(when I can go back to my hometown which is same place where he stay) he will discuss about our relationship and he tell me that we can be friends for now at the same time he still care of me even if we’re no longer together for now so what step shall I do? I try to comminucate with him but he is very busy on his internship at the same time yet used to say to me if I was here with him because he more to physical
Hi Han!
If he is very busy then there isn’t much you can do than what you’re already doing. If he insists on waiting then you’ll have to do that if you truly want to stay with him and build something. You need to decide what you truly want and what you’ll do. Long distance is difficult so you both need a clear picture of what your goals are. If you want to learn more about Taurus man, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
I’ve been dating a Taurus for a year but not officially in a relationship. I’m not seeing anyone else and he says he isn’t and just wants to take our time. We dated years ago and moved really fast and he just ghosted me. He drives trucks so he’s gone a lot but we see each other when he’s home. We communicate daily. I’ve met his children, have keys to his home and he’s really sweet to me. Could he be using me for convenience or could he see potential in us and is just taking his time
Hi Cynthia!
Ah yes, truck drivers find it very hard to commit simply because they cannot fully give of themselves to you being on the road like they are. Unless he starts slowing down on the trucking, I don’t know if things will change but if you really care for him then all you can really do is ask him for exclusivity so you know he’s not talking to or being with anyone else for sure. That way you can take comfort in waiting for him patiently otherwise, you’ll need to think about whether or not you can storm him being gone so much. I don’t think he’s using you.
Hi Anna,
My boyfriend and I just broke up a couple days ago. We’ve been communicating for more than 3 years and decided to make our relationship official this year in June. We’ve been through a lot of challenges in the past years that could’ve easily ended our connection but we keep coming back to each other. Until like what I said, we made it official this year. But obviously it didn’t last long. After 3 years, our distance has probably taken a toll on him making it even harder when we decided to be committed to each other, probably that’s why he suddenly just got tired of his phone (which is obviously the only thing we have right now because the pandemic won’t let us be together) and decided to let go of me. And somehow I understand no matter how painful it is for me. We love each other but not being together is making it extra hard for him given the years we’ve been doing back and forth text and calls. He’s getting tired of his phone and he tells me he can’t give me what I need anymore which is time and talking. I know showing him the end of the tunnel is the only way to salvage our relationship, but even that is so difficult right now. I would fly to him in a heartbeat, but I can’t because there’s still this approvals on visa and flight restrictions still going on. I just feel so heartbroken knowing how strongly we feel for each other but the situation and timing is not on our side. Do I just let him be and wait until he comes back to me? Do you think he will still wait?
Hi Aries Z!
I am sorry you’re going through this sweetheart. I can totally see a Taurus man getting tired of his phone. He already doesn’t like it much in the first place but the only way he can connect with you is that way which starts to build irritation with him over time. Yes, the distance is definitely difficult for the Taurus man if he doesn’t see a solid future. It’s hard to see that because of the pandemic. I think giving him some time may ease the difficulty. He’s not going to forget about you so that isn’t something you should worry about. Have you ever suggested video chat via the computer instead of phone? It might be worth trying when he’s ready to talk again. Trust your intuition sweetheart!
Hi anna
Me & my boyfriend were together for a year n our love always growing up day to day, our face to face dates were nat even a week n we apart for a year, he treat n protect our relation more than me n he is always good but we haven’t seen each other about a year, n even we are nat talking by video, only by text n calls, so is it drag to our love n what can i do to our relationship
Hi Mia!
That sounds like an incomplete relationship sweetheart. I would ask him if he still wants to stay together or not. You need to know the truth. Either he’s going to improve or he’s going to tell you that he’s not really into it. You’ll have your answer then and you’ll know what to do with it. I wish you all the luck of the stars!
Hi Anna
Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship. We did see each other when we first started dating and after that it’s been 17 months that we’ve been living in different provinces and it’s very difficult to meet up. For the first 10 months he felt close, always texting, calling and doing video calls but now for last 7 months he’s always busy, says he’s phones damaged and doesn’t get it fixed so he keeps saying he can’t call. He also doesn’t respond to my calls or texts and can sometimes not bother to respond my messages when we both online what’s app. I tried talking about the situation and he’s respond was ” I’m just so busy “
Hi Patrisia!
I really hate to hear this sweetheart. I think he’s making excuses not to talk to you. If he really wanted to hold things together he’d get a new phone and would make time to call you. He’s detached because he has other things going on in his life and it takes away from relationships. I am so very sorry sweetheart but I would confront him and ask him for the truth. I wish you all the very best in love and in life as you DO deserve it!
Hi Anna,
I’ve been seeing a Taurus man for two in a half years. We met on Facebook during Covid and have only seen each other three times in this time span. He travels a lot for work and is based in Tampa and I’m in NY. He had a place here but he rarely gets to come back. When I ask him when he’s going to be back he says most probably soon. He is either texting and asking to FaceTime or gets quiet and then texts again after a short while. In the beginning he would call and text almost everyday. He says we are dating and that he’s not talking to anyone else. I can see a future with him, but I get frustrated as we barely get to see each other and I feel like he’s not putting much effort into making that happen. What should I do? Currently he’s being quiet again.
I miss him and care for him but I’m struggling and just want clarity as to how he is feeling and if he wants to make this relationship work or not.
Any advice you may have will be great.
Thank you,
Vivian
I’ve been seeing a Taurus man for over a year now. The relationship is long-distance and complicated. I’ve known him for 24 years. We met when he was 17, and I was 21. He always liked me, but I was never interested because I thought he was too young. We always kept in touch. Over the years, he will always text me to check on me. He eventually got married and divorced before I got married and divorced. He started seeing someone else who he is currently living with and has children with her. He reached out to me in May 2022, and we have been seeing each other since then. I didn’t know about the kids until May of 2023. By this time, it was very hard to let go. I’ve tried to walk away many times, but he wouldn’t let me go. He told me that he is in love with me and working on getting himself together to leave his situation. I feel horrible because he has kids with this woman. But I know he loves me, and i love him. I just don’t know what to believe and what to do.