Want to know how a Taurus man and Taurus woman match? Let me help you. If you’re a Taurus woman interested in a Taurus man, here’s all you need to know about how compatible your signs are and how you can bring him closer.
When a Taurus man meets a Taurus woman, it’s not likely that sparks will fly at first. Instead, the attraction will be deep, mutual and enduring. In the sign of Taurus, it’s the little things that matter—your scent, your hair and your intelligence.
Did you think that, because you’re a Taurus woman, you’d be perfectly compatible with a Taurus man?
Boy, were you ever shocked when that didn’t turn out to be all that true, right? It may have been incredibly sensual, even if you’ve never met, Taurus.
You are both incredibly romantic, deeply sensitive people and, for the most part, you have an emotional stability that serves each other very well.
You’re both ready to settle down and that would be the end goal of your dating game. It may seem as though the compatibility here should be a match made in heaven. But it really hasn’t been, has it?
Though the two of you have so much in common, you also have the capacity to be the absolute worst enemies either of you has ever encountered.
Neither of you likes having to compromise, you both want to get your way, you are both stubborn and neither one of you wants to bend that steel will for the other. Because you two are so much alike, you may really not seem compatible at all, once you try it out!
Loyalty is a big deal for both of you, and you can both be remarkably jealous or possessive. So, cheating doesn’t seem like an issue, except, you both also tend to want the very best.
And if one or both of you hasn’t decided that’s what you’ve got, it can be a recipe for disaster! This can hold especially true if one of you gets a bit more possessive of the other and then someone feels they’re being unfairly “punished”.
Sometimes, a Taurus, male or female just ups and decides that if they’re being punished they may as well enjoy whatever it was they were being accused of!
You are actually both very possessive and capable of deep jealousy
Though neither of you is inclined to show it, and neither of you tends to put up with that sort of thing for very long. You may feel suffocated, or he may feel like it if this happens. This is because way too often, it’s easier to give than receive on that end of things and you can both dish it out. But you just can’t take it.
The thing of it is, once you two have decided that you’ve found the one, there’s very little that can undo this, except yourselves. You both have such sweet, loving natures-and you inherently dislike explosive dramatic displays or arguments.
However, if you do get into it, you may find that hurtful words said during the heat of anger may cause long-lasting resentment. For which, well, neither of you is keen on showing or apologizing for.
There is, however, a bright side and this can be the most healthy relationship you’ll ever have. You two both need to focus on what you bring to the table and understand the way that you both differ.
He may feel that when he’s being solid when he’s determined to get his way. He’s right in that. Whereas you do it and boy he gets mad at how stubborn you are. Either an argument ensues or he just goes silent treatment on you. Not much fun.
Your Taurus man partner truly is a reflection of yourself, Taurus woman
You two can actually have one of the most long-lived, loving and stable relationships of any other sign match. You may watch couples around you fall to pieces whereas the two of you definitely stand the test of time.
The way to do this, however, is going to be understanding that all those things you just find annoying or obnoxious in him are actually traits you have, as well.
If you’ve ever been in an argument with your Taurus man, you probably have either said or heard the words, “But you do it too!” or some variation.
Of course, the same holds true of him. Those things that just irk him about you are definitely things he does. And deep down, he knows they’re damaging, just like you do, which is why you both get so eaten up by them!
Now, it doesn’t particularly matter what stage this relationship is in or what you two have been through together…
You are both very passionate and you’re definitely invested in having the life you deserve. Both of you are more than willing to work hard to make things work and both of you are extremely faithful. This, of course, lends itself to excellent compatibility.
But if it gets boring for one or both of you, a big problem may happen. Neither of you may want to face it, let alone address it. Unfortunately, you have to.
You need to do everything you can to keep the two of you from falling into a rut and if one of you does it, the other will suffer for it. Which may, in fact, be why you’re here, right?
Did he go silent all of a sudden? Does he just not do what you want him to or seem to understand you? Well, there may be a reason for that.
First, Taurus Woman… KNOW THE TOP 5 TAURUS MAN TURN OFFS!
I go into these in greater detail and so much more in my book, but these tend to be the top deal breakers for a Taurus man. If you think about it, they’re probably quite similar to your own deal breakers, Taurus woman!
1. Someone’s being pushy
What you may see as tenacity on your part, what you may feel is just you showing him you care and not giving him room to doubt. He may see as you being a nag. Or you being bossy.
If you have sent him lots of texts with no response, it’s time to stop that. Same goes for phone calls and other ways of communicating. If the way you’re trying isn’t getting the result you desire, it’s time to knock that off. Real talk, the more you do it, the more he will distance himself.
2. Not knowing that you actually care
If you were feeling unsure about how to tell him how you feel, odds are, he was also having those same doubts.
3. You confused him
He’s like you- he’s very proud. If you went back and forth or if you haven’t been absolutely clear, he may have taken this as a confusing batch of mixed signals. As you are well aware, hard to get really isn’t something you like and neither does he.
4. Head games
You know better than anyone- someone tries to play you and you are ready to go to war! Whatever you do, do not do this to your Taurus man.
You, especially, understand him well enough to play that head game very, very well. But, don’t make this relationship end by mistake. You know when someone does it to you, it’s like they gave you the scissors to cut them from your life, themselves!
5. Did you act like you were “above” him?
Oh, you know how that feels when someone talks down to you or acts like they know better. And this is something that attacks both the Taurus sensibility and in this case, his male pride.
That’s NOT to say play stupid: you also know very well what a turn off that is. Just converse with him on his level and don’t patronize him.
Now, if you’ve done these things to a Taurus man, Taurus woman…you can work around it, you can fix it- but, you’re going to have to take some steps to course correct here.
Double the Earth Sign Stability, Double the Fixed Sign Stubbornness!
Now, you want to think because he’s an Earth Sign, and you are an Earth Sign, this is going to work out well. You’re both also Fixed Signs- which, also seems like a no-brainer in terms of compatibility.
The thing of it is: Earth signs are incredibly complicated as you well know, being one yourself. Yes, you are stable, loyal and very tolerant of others. But, has it ever been particularly easy for people to understand where you’re coming from? Is it easy to understand him?
How To Use Your Strengths and Fight Your Challenges With Ease, Taurus
I mentioned your modality a little bit above, Taurus- you’re a Fixed sign. I go more into all of this in my book, but Fixed signs do tend to have a bit of a hard time getting changes moving.
Now, when it comes to the two of you being able to accomplish something together- once you get going, you really get going. You’re willing to put in the hard work to take care of things and progress through whatever the goal may be: including your relationship.
The problem is initiation. Neither one of you may be all that inclined to want to change, which can cause a big problem if you disagree on fundamental levels.
Though you probably share quite a bit in terms of broader strokes, you are both unique people in your own right and you may find that you feel things are important and he doesn’t or vice versa.
Because you are both incredibly stubborn, if you disagree on serious matters, you might find the silent treatment is a fairly regular routine. You’re both going to have to learn when to let up and compromise. But, it has to start somewhere, Taurus.
You should understand- both of you being ruled by Venus is a big asset. You can be the most loyal “ride or die” types for one another anyone’s ever seen, but you’ve got to come to a point where you meet in the middle, first. It may be that you take those first steps towards that, and your Taurus man will follow suit.
So, what does all of this mean? Well, there are 3 different modalities of the zodiac: Fixed, Cardinal, and Mutable. You share this Fixed sign modality with your Taurus man, of course, but also with Scorpio and Aquarius.
This is a very stable, yet tenacious energy. It typically means that you don’t really have a problem with pushing forward to get what you want. But, you may be inclined to push others away in the process without meaning to.
Moving onto the Earth signs: there’s a stubbornness there, too. An earthy more primal sort of feeling and a very solid vibe on all fronts, but also, a very practical, “emotions below the surface” sort of thing,
Taurus, and though you may not be as stoic seeming as say, fellow Earth sign Capricorn, often, the feelings you both have go so much deeper than those you allow to show.
Nobody cuts another person off like an Earth sign- and you’ve probably done this yourself. When you’ve done it, think about why you have done it.
And if he’s doing this to you or if you are getting that silent treatment, think about why you have also done those things in the past and what made that happen. You also know that trust is not a given for you- it must be earned, and he is exactly the same way.
Big time sensuality with a Taurus man and a Taurus woman!
So, of course, you know or maybe you suspect that in the bedroom, the two of you won’t come out for days if you can help it. Whether you’re doing the deed or just laying around, enjoying each other’s company- you both know how to make sex and relaxation a huge part of your lives.
More than just sex- it’s sensuality. And that sensuality actually transcends the bedroom. You two do not slouch when it comes to treating yourselves and others. Fine foods, wines, clothes, these are things that are like catnip to both a Taurus woman and a Taurus man.
I want to think about, then, how this plays out in other ways. Particularly when paired with that famed Taurus possessiveness. Deep down, you want to know that he is yours. So, wouldn’t you think the same thing would hold true for him, as well?
You may note when you get to spend time together, whether you’re chatting on the phone or in the bedroom- it’s like there’s no one else in the world. But what about when there is? If you REALLY want to make a Taurus man crazy about you, give in to your inner Lady, Taurus.
Allow yourself to dress up and wear your best perfume. When you’re out and about, make sure that you subtly indicate that yes, you are with him. Nothing major in terms of PDA but an arm around his waist and other subtle signs really go a long way with his psyche.
If you’d like to see a behavior in him: 9 times out of 10, you’re not wrong. You DO understand him better than most. So, do what you want him to do? Don’t knock yourself out with it if he’s not reciprocating though.
Just like any other man, sometimes, you just get a dud Taurus. If that’s the case, you should probably just move on. However, in MOST cases, you will find that mirroring behaviors works effectively. Think about it a minute: going back to the “bad” behaviors I mentioned. If “you do it too!” can apply there, it can most certainly also apply to the very positive behavior you’d like to see.
If you want to see change- take the initiative and meet him halfway there
The biggest issue that Taurus man and Taurus woman couplings encounter: again, that stubborn refusal to bend. It’s not “losing” or “settling” to meet someone halfway, though sometimes that pride can indicate otherwise.
However, that same tenacity works in your favor should you decide to take some steps. Odds are pretty good since you do inherently want the same things: a bit of frank communication about that, to clarify your position can help.
You might also find that though you may feel the relationship has some of the worst pitfalls ever. Neither of you is inclined to officially call it off, either. If he’s gone silent yet, the two of you haven’t really had a lot of conflict, this may not be at play (though you might be a bit afraid that’s what’s going on).
Just like you sometimes need a bit of space- so does he. Respecting his desire for it will go a long way in showing him you care: much farther than attempting to push him out of that comfort zone. Think about when someone tries to pull that on you and how YOU respond, Taurus! You know it’s true- push the Bull and you get those horns.
What will end the relationship- and how you can avoid it
Two fixed signs in a relationship. It means you’re going to butt heads. Probably a lot. However, this is also something that you can use to your advantage. I mean, what happens when two very stubborn people get on the same page? Magic, that’s what.
When you find yourself at odds, take a step back. Ever see the cartoon where the little guy is ferociously charging at the other and he just steps to the side, which causes the other to fall flat on his face? It’s pretty much just like that. Except, prepare yourself to soothe that wounded ego when he does. Understanding and communication go a very long way in that.
What I mean is, if he’s being stubborn, you must let him make that mistake. He’s never going to learn if you don’t allow him to. And, if you attempt to control the relationship and him, he’s going to vanish.
If he’s already out of touch, you may want to lay off just a bit on the communication. One of the best things that you as a Taurus woman can do when the Taurus man goes into silent mode? Shoot him a message or a letter telling him you understand.
Let him know that you will be there when he’s ready. Without any pushing whatsoever. Do not attempt any sort of emotional manipulation. Simply let him know you understand where he’s coming from and you’ll be there. T- then, honor what you said by allowing him to think of some things.
What you MUST Remember About The Taurus Man even though you are a Taurus Woman!
Of course, you are both very practical, reliable and loyal people. You both adore to be out and about in both natural and decadent surroundings. It’s probably a good idea when you are in touch to keep a sense of sameness to things, even if you’re more the explorer type.
This same thing holds true for your emotional expressions towards him. Mood swingers need NOT apply! And you know this when you think about it. Because you, yourself cannot tolerate someone who’s enmeshed in drama for too long.
As a man, particularly, a Taurus man, what appears to be you going through your process may come across to him as being moody. It’s a good idea to have your emotions worked out before you express them. And never, ever say something you do not mean.
All too often, if you’ve been stewing on your feelings rather than working them through- there can be a fairly big explosion of anger. He understands this, as well, because he does this as well.
However, understanding it doesn’t necessarily mean forgiving it. And you probably understand that all too well from your own personal experience. Be mindful of the things you say, particularly in the heat of the moment.
If he’s done this (barring actual abusive behavior, of course), strive to understand that he was probably speaking from a place of hurt and frustration, too. In this, you both can relate really well. So, why not use that to your advantage?
While of course, we all want the same things in life- satisfaction, happiness, stability and love: you two, both being Tauruses, are actually in lockstep when it comes to your deepest desires. Though you may express this differently- at heart, this holds true.
It’s important to find out what blockages you have- and what blockages he has in communicating your feelings and compromising with each other to have the love you’ve always wanted.
You both hold the potential to offer it to one another- so, why not take a chance on yourself and allow your own walls to come down so he can see you more clearly.
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