Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Taurus man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Taurus man or improve your relationship with one in April 2020.
Attracting a Taurus Man in April 2020
1. Respect His Privacy
Whether he’s clued you in or not, the Taurus man will need more space than usual for rest and reflection in April 2020.
With the transit Sun highlighting his twelfth house of ending and completion in Aries until April 19, the Taurus man may be feeling more impatient, repressed, and sentimental than usual.
In astrology, the Sun says a lot about what the Taurus man wants to experience and achieve on an external level.
The Sun shows us things like how other people see him, how he experiences life, how he expresses his personality, and what his current focus is at the moment.
As a man who enjoys the luxury of comfort and having a good time, this transit may be challenging for him.
During this period, the Taurus man will be most attracted to the woman who not only understands his need for privacy and seclusion but also respects it.
Because he’s easily triggered, especially during the beginning of the month, it may be in your best interest to follow his lead and let him guide you through his do’s and don’ts. Let him show you through action the way he desires to be loved.
Taurus men are honest, reliable, and trustworthy by nature. But with the transit Sun highlighting his house of secrets, you may notice what I like to call “sneaky behavior.”
Instead of attacking him for being distant, try talking to him first.
Although he may be acting standoffish, you shouldn’t neglect him during this time.
Taurus is a very sensitive man, and he needs to know that he can rely on you to be there for him, even when he’s being cold or aggressive.
If you ignore him or mistreat him, instead of just giving him the space and downtime he needs, your relationship may experience some issues when the Sun moves into his first house of self and vitality in Taurus on April 19.
The opportunity for him to return all the love and respect you’ve given will come during Taurus Season.
2. Comfort Him
In relationships, Mercury shows us how the Taurus man shares, responds to, and receives information on an internal and external level.
Mercury uncovers the secrets of his love language, and this helps you connect with him on a level that he can relate to and understand.
With transit Mercury in Aries highlighting his twelfth house of endings and undoing until May, the Taurus man may appear more withdrawn, insecure, and reactive than usual.
He will respond well to the woman who is genuinely comforting during his time of need.
The twelfth house also represents healing, so he will naturally want someone who he finds mentally soothing, who knows how to clear his mind and help him relax.
It’s important to remember that Aries energy is fast-paced, and with Mercury ruling the mind, his thoughts may be everywhere—this can be unsettling for the calm-minded Taurus man.
Although the Taurus man can be stubborn and closed off in a relationship, don’t be intimidated by his aggressive front.
If you care about him, then comfort him—feed him rich, healing foods, bathe him in a scented bath, sing him his favorite love song, motivate him to get back in the gym, encourage him to get more rest, and show him that you’re not afraid to love him in every form.
He loves a woman that is motivated to please and comfort her man.
Read next: 7 Things To Say To A Taurus Man To Impress Him
3. Build a Genuine Friendship
In astrology, Venus tells us a lot about what the Taurus man will want and need out of a relationship.
Venus influences what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
With transit Venus in Gemini, highlighting his second house of comfort, the Taurus man will be most attracted to women who are friendly, easy-going, and expressive in their romantic approach.
During this period, Venus in Gemini encourages the Taurus man to let his guard down.
For this reason, this is the best time to build a friendship with him and connect through familiarity.
It may be fun to show him around your neighborhood and do things that you know you both will love.
This could be something like getting ice cream or even just watching your favorite movie.
Although it may feel uncomfortable showing him so much of who you are, Taurus men need to know that you are someone they can marry. They don’t like to waste their time or energy.
With Gemini being a sociable air sign and the second house associated with upbringing and childhood conditioning, it may be a good time to get to know his friends and family—even virtually—or share stories about your childhood.
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, Venus in Gemini encourages you to be transparent with your Taurus man on every level.
Instead of taking an aggressive and domineering approach, I’ve found that building friendship and giving your relationship the time and space it needs to organically bloom is the best way to attract a Taurus man in April 2020.
Read next: 5 Types Of Taurus Men According To The Position Of Their Venus
4. Help Him Build His Empire
For the Taurus man, Mars symbolizes how he expresses his sexuality and physical desires; it shows how he asserts himself in life and love.
With transit Mars in Aquarius highlighting his tenth house of career and ambition, the Taurus man will be attracted to an intellectual, purpose-driven, and idealistic woman. He wants someone committed to helping him build his future.
During this period, get involved in his dreams.
It doesn’t matter whether you are a professional or a stay-at-home mom—find unique ways to support his goals.
You should also think about ways that you can contribute to the community and the global environment as a couple.
As a fixed earth sign ruled by Venus, the Taurus man can become indulgent and wasteful of the resources he has worked hard to earn, so you should help him find ways to be more sustainable.
By helping him conserve and use his resources to help others, you inspire him to reach his full potential, and this makes him eternally grateful for your love in his life.
Sexually, the influence of Mars in Aquarius arouses the Taurus man’s strong desire for conversation and foreplay.
You should take your time when showing affection in and out of the bedroom. The Taurus man is attracted to women who understand the power of anticipation.
If you stick it out with him in April, there are so many good things to come for you in May. So make sure you stay updated with the blog for “How to Attract a Taurus Man in May 2020.”
Just remember that the Taurus man is full of secrets, so for you to build and maintain the relationship of your dreams, you need to understand the Taurus man on a fundamental level.
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Share your experiences in the comments below—I’d love to hear them!
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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Hey, I’m Aysia and still in high school. I like this taurus and he likes me. Our friendship has very very slowly been developing into a relationship but it does get complicated or confusing at times. I’m a libra so a lot of articles have said we’d actually be great together but i dont know, a lot of the things your articles say about him are actually accurate. I hope you can respond to this so you can give me advice on for when we go back to school after covid-19 settles down to what i should do to get us as a official couple and what can keep us together. Thank you, I just need to see if you can get me to have a better understanding of what to do with a teenage taurus boy.
Hi Aysia!
Just be honest with him about what you want and how you feel. He needs to know that you like him and would like to be more. If he doesn’t want it, he will let you know but if he does, he’ll definitely take you up on it. Just be sweet, kind, loving, and treat him well. You’ll find that he responds well to that.
Sigh…my Taurus guy is obsessed with me. I’m the one who needs space. I’m a Cap. He needs too much from me. And he seems to lack emotional empathy the majority of the time.
This was sooo helpful! Exactly the reassurance I needed from what I had been expecting to happen! Thank you so much!
How can I support my Taurus ‘friend’ who lives on the other side of the world but has cut me off for now, as he’s dealing with a very ill family member. I’m hurt as I thought we were friends as well as lovers but obviously not.
Hi Julie!
It sounds like he’s dealing with some heavy stuff right now and isn’t able to focus on love. I would tell him that you’re there for him if he needs or wants to talk to you. Show him you’re a pillar of strength for him. By giving him your support, you’re opening a door that may not have been opened before. If you really care for him then be patient. He is dealing with something very difficult and so he is inclined to put love on the back burner in the meantime. I’m sure you might do the same if it was you.
Hi Anna,
Please forgive me for being detail oriented. I feel if I leave anything out then some puzzles are missing. Things went great in the beginning, he was then hot and cold, and then completely withdrew.
I am a Libra; completely confused with a Taurus I met in November 2019. It was quite strange that we met at his late father’s ceremony; my parents are friends with his family. I have met his older siblings before – he grew up in a different city. However, I recall crossing paths with him as a teenager and college student. I suppose during those times he was visiting family in town.
When I met him recently, I felt a strong chemistry but did not think much of it. I noticed he kept orbiting and gazing continuously at me with a graceful smile.
After the ceremony, I had lunch with his mom and sister – one of his older brothers blurted out that I was a bright gal and recommend linking me with one of the single ’sons’.
I noticed when the older brother mentioned that, Taurus and another younger brother came and sat next to their mother. However, the sister formally introduced me to the Taurus after briefly asking me for my age and etc. I genuinely smiled at him and simply said, ‘Hi’ as I am introvert and can be extremely shy.
I then helped his family clean up and he kept thanking me for helping clean and engaging with his family especially during difficult time losing their father. He continued to converse with me and asked tons of questions about me – also sharing some of his personal info. He mentioned he would like to get to know me more and asked for my instagram. Instead, he gave me his phone number and later that day he asked me out on a date. The date went well; he poured his heart and life story to me. I comforted him and assured him I am more than happy to help him in anyway I can as I have went through loss of loved ones.
He then asked me to hang out afterwards since his family was cooking/bbqing for dinner but I regretfully declined. When he left back home the next day to southern CA, he notified me and said he wanted to stay longer for Thanksgiving but had no choice. I exchanged kind comforting words with him and reassured him I am more than happy to help with the healing process.
Following days, I would send him quick texts to check in and see how was doing (basically every other day or so). He was so grateful for that. He kept telling me how things are getting better for him since he met me and that I was a blessing. He would then FaceTime – giving a tour of how his home looks like down there (he shares a home with his sister and her family). He would text me throughout the week, even sending me photos of him at work showing that he is doing better. Basically, keeping me updated with his progress. I sent him a small yet thoughtful Xmas gift to cheer him up and then surprised me by saying he wanted to send me a gift through his mother and if I would be okay to pick it up from her. He then sent me a photo of him and friends on NYE during the countdown – ‘wishing me a happy NY from him and his friends’ as if he wished to include me in the celebration lol.
Few days after new year, he surprised me with a text informing me he was in town and would like to take me to dinner, and would like me to join him and his family for another ceremony for his late father. He was very mysterious and not as talkative, but paid for dinner as he had offered. He dropped me off at home and gave me the biggest hug and smile … thanking me over and over again for joining him for dinner. Next day, I attended the ceremony and I could sense the feelings he had through his actions towards me in front of his family. Seems like he was falling for me even deeper. His mom and siblings were very welcoming. His mom talked about how we should visit the beaches in southern CA and attend festivities together etc. She also shared with me her birthday is coming up in February and I took it as a hint lol. I spent the whole morning and afternoon with them. When I got home he asked me what I was doing and couldn’t stop thanking me for spending time with them. He shared with me that his mom really likes me and I shall make a trip down in April to attend festivities. I agreed and he mentioned he can’t wait for me to meet his friends and show me around his town. The next day we had lunch together before he took off home and he couldn’t stop thanking me for spending time with him and his family and how amazing I was. He wanted to tell me something before we departed but felt like something was holding him/us back.
So then, we continued to keep in touch and through out the month of January. He would also keep me updated on his mom and also asked her to talk to me lol. Until, I went on a business trip to Washington DC end of January. We kept each other updated through out that week; he’d send me photos of work/outside of work and so did I. I also let him know that I was planning to send his mom a bday gift and if it was okay. He said it was fine.
So the day the I return back home from DC I don’t hear from him. I didn’t bother to contact him as I tend to get upset with his hot and cold communication style. We went on a few days with no communication whatsoever until his moms bday gift got delivered…I sent him a text to see if she received it. He simply replied ‘yes, they are gorgeous. She said thank you’. I simply replied, ‘she is very welcome’.
Then the next day after work I get several texts from him saying he didn’t mean to ‘ghost’ me, he apologized, explaining the day I returned from DC he got into with his sister and messed up big time. He then mentioned he wasn’t happy with himself and needing time. I felt a punch in my stomach and I replied ‘I completely understand, no need to apologize. I know you are going through difficult times’. He quickly responded, ‘thank you for understanding’. The conversation ended when I texted ‘I hope you find happiness within’.
I haven’t heard from him since and I respect him asking for time. I decided to move on with my life yet it has been quite challenging to forget him when, Anna, I keep receiving emails from you on tips on how to get him back. Honestly, I read the emails yet failed to take actions based on your tips. Until last night I received an email where I felt like the universe is telling me to take action immediately (given also that I have been continuously thinking of him and ran into his family a week ago). I took a step to order the book and read about the Taurus full on. Yet, I do not plan to take the initiative to contact him. After all, he asked for time and I respect his decision.
Thank you in advance for reading my long story yet short book
— from the confused Libra.
Hi Nancy!
It’s alright to think about him as much as you do but in some way you need to release your grip just a bit. Thinking about him so much is generating this energy that may be suffocating for him at times. Try to put focus on your own life path and goals in life. Do things that make you feel really good about yourself in life. That will help take some of the pressure off a bit. Seeing you do well will make him feel good too. Touch base with him once in while just to say hi and that you hope he’s doing well. He’ll appreciate it and he’ll feel that you haven’t abandoned him in any way. I wouldn’t do it more than once a week or so until he’s ready to talk again though. You don’t want to pressure him. Good luck honey!
I forgot to mention when he informed me (back in January) that his mother really likes me and I should make a trip to southern CA during April festivities and also wanted me to meet his friends and show me around town — he also shared with me that he would like for our ‘relationship’ to grow and hope that we can continue our ‘relationship’. I failed to clarify with him what type of relationship did we have. Instead, I assured him I felt the same way.
The more I tell myself to move on with my life, the more I think of him, and up to a point where I miss him. Moreover, due to the unfortunate current situation our world is in with the pandemic, I find myself missing him more and more each day. But again, I respect his decision.
Thank you again in advance, Anna.
I am a Taurus too want to marry a person who is also a Taurus but he doesn’t love me he frequently get attracted to another women though he gets everything from me
plz help me
what should I do?
Hi sanchari dey!
Yikes, if he frequently is drawn to other women then it means he either thinks you aren’t the one or he’s not ready to settle down. Please be careful with yourself. Don’t try to commit to someone who isn’t fully committed to you. You deserve to have a man who is all about you and has no interest in other women. This guy doesn’t sound like he is the right one for you nor does he deserve you. Please be careful!
Maybe he looks at you as a therapist.
Stop giving him everything, but still
text him and make him feel loved by
you. He also may be testing you to
see if you’ll give up on the relationship.
Hi JB!
I’m not sure if that would really work if he’s always interested in other women. He seems to not be committal or at least not to her. When he is ready to be that way he will either straighten up or he’ll find someone else who he thinks is a better fit for him. He doesn’t deserve her with the way he’s acting.