When a Taurus man misses you, his heart grows fonder. A Taurus man who has set his sights on you will make you his because he just loves commitment and longevity. This isn’t a man who beats around the bush or plays with your feelings.
Taurus men are lovely, loyal, and stable. Anyone is lucky to be with a Taurus man because he will make you feel so loved and secure in your relationship.
However, he does take quite some time to warm up and open his heart to someone… This is why it is so important to learn the tips and tricks to work yourself into his heart to make a Taurus man miss you. Trust me, it isn’t too difficult at all.
I might be a relationship Astrologer for all the signs, but if there is one sign I know the best, it has to be Taurus! I am married to a Taurus man, and there is nothing you can teach me about them. So now is my turn to share the wisdom!
So, are you ready to find out all the ways you can make a Taurus man miss you and what the signs are a Taurus man misses you? Then keep on reading to find out more.
How To Make Your Taurus Man Miss You (7 Sneaky Tips)
Taurus men may be stubborn, but when they love, they love hard. They are very committed and loyal to their partners. And when a Taurus man falls in love, he tends to miss his partner like crazy.
Learn more about signs a Taurus man is ready to commit here <<
And, if you want to make your Taurus man miss you and think about you all the time, here are all the sneaky ways you can do to make him miss you:
1. Spend Time Apart To Spice Things Up
If you are constantly together he will never have time to miss you. Though he may not like it; you can try spending more time with your friends and/or family without him. Tell him you need “you” time.
Some Taurus men don’t do well with it but some will depend on who they are as a person. He’d like you to be happy and successful in whatever it is that you choose to do in your life.
If you can find a time that you can spend some time apart; he will miss you. There are those Taurus that are so strong in nature that they don’t want to show you how they feel. However, if he truly loves you, he will tell you “I wish you were here”.
Allow him time out with his friends also. It’s absolutely normal to spend some time with friends without your significant other. It’s not only healthy but it should help your relationship maintain balance.
He’ll love you for the freedom and he’ll show you that though he had a good time without you being there; he did in fact, miss you.
2. Hold Back A Little On Texting Him
If you try not to text him as often as you’d like to, he will miss you! A Taurus man likes to text a lot to stay connected with you and when you pull back just a little; he wonders if you’re thinking of him.
It will stimulate his inner need to be the “man” and take charge. He’ll let you know he misses you and cannot wait to see you again. He may also ask you if everything is Ok. It’s worth the risk though right?
Having constant contact with him will make him feel a little too comfortable and have no reason at all to miss you. Rile him up a bit and grab his attention by blowing him off just a little bit.
3. Send Him A Seductive Text Or Email
While I did say to hold back a little bit; when you do finally text him or email him, make it really tasty!
It doesn’t matter if you live with him or not. Sending him a very well thought out text or email that gets his motor running; he will miss you. He will want to get off work as soon as possible to get to you.
Taurus is very sexually charged so sending him attention-grabbing messages; you’ll make him miss you in the worst and best way possible. He’ll be wiggling and trying to contain himself until he’s able to see you.
Not even kidding! If you send him something racy enough, he’ll stop what he is doing and come straight to you to fulfill the urges he’ll feel from what you’ve said to him. He will show you in person how much he misses you at that point.
If you want to master your Taurus man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send him, then there is only one thing you should do. Check out my Taurus Text Magic Guide. He’ll come running and want to make sure you don’t get away thus romancing you.
4. Mark Your Scent
Men are driven by being able to smell you on their personal items. You can spray some of your perfume on his sheets, or pillow or leave him a scented letter on the dresser for him to find.
Even leaving a pair of your panties under his pillow with your scent on it will drive him wild. Especially if you know you won’t be there for a while. If you live with him then you’ll be at work or whatever you do with your day.
He’ll think about this all day and will inevitably miss you whether he wants to or not. His tendency to be all man will make him respond in ways he might not otherwise behave.
It’s like the female way of marking their territory. He’ll love it though! After all, he is one of the most faithful of the signs.
5. Sizzling Pictures
Without even saying a word; you could send him a sexy picture of yourself randomly. Just wait to see what he says back! He’ll love it. Remember, don’t overdo it though. Just once in a while.
You can do it some random time during the week and shake the time up a bit by exciting him. He’ll love the spontaneous side of you and it will possibly get him to miss you.
The best thing you can do is make sure that you stay on his mind when you’re not around. It’s hard to achieve with a Taurus but it’s still possible. Just do small things that he’ll snap to thinking of you instantly.
If you don’t live with him, leave him a sticky note somewhere he won’t see right away like in the refrigerator. Say something witty or intellectually sexy. He’ll really dig that.
6. Play On His Security Issues
Until a Taurus man fully commits to you, he’s still in pursuit mode which means he’ll be the one constantly doing what it takes to get you. This also means there is no time to miss you if he’s always there.
When he finally does get you and secure you in a commitment; he will then feel comfortable enough that you’re not going anywhere and thus doesn’t feel the need to miss you.
This is where the Taurus man can be a bit stubborn and difficult. In his eyes “absence only makes the heart grow fonder” if he’s actually absent. If you’re in a full relationship with him, he will make sure there aren’t many opportunities for this.
Its age old, once he gets what he wants after chasing you; he’ll calm down and become very cozy in your new life together. The only way you can make him miss you is by finding ways to be absent.
While it may play with his ideal security; you may try finding ways where you can be apart from him for awhile. Go visit family or a friend who lives out of state for a few days.
Perhaps if you stayed somewhere else for a week, he may start to question himself and this will in effect force him to miss you. Just be careful not to do this too often as he’ll then see it’s you pulling away and he’ll end things.
7. Be Less Available
Taurus men like to be the one who does most of the pursuing. That also means that if you’re available to him at all times, this could become boring and of course; no reason to miss you.
Make sure that you have your own life, your own friends, and your own desires in life that don’t necessarily include him. That doesn’t mean ice him out. There is a huge difference between the two.
It means that if you are less available to his whims or desires, he will want you more. He will also find himself missing you in between the time he saw you last and when he gets to see you again.
He will find something to look forward to if you aren’t around all the time. Otherwise, if he obtains you and has all your time; at some point he’ll get stuck in a habit and then decide it’s not a challenge anymore.
Once it’s not a challenge anymore, he may get bored or he may feel as though he has nothing to worry about. This means when he goes out of town or has extra work to do, he will not miss you much because he knows you’ll be there.
Telling A Taurus Man You Miss Him — Should You Do It?
I don’t often recommend telling a man you miss him, but when it comes to the lovely Taurus man, I think it is actually quite alright. These sensitive souls enjoy affection and love and it is important for them to know that they are desires, or else they might never make a move.
He is a man of simple pleasures, so telling a Taurus man you miss him shouldn’t be made into too big of a deal. If the two of you are texting or having a chat on the phone, just casually tell him that you miss him.
It doesn’t have to be anything crazy. I do suggest doing this when you feel safe and comfortable in the connection… Don’t do this out of insecurity or when you feel that something is wrong in the relationship.
You don’t want to come across as too strong with a Taurus man because he does like to take things slow and if he feels pressured by you, it might make him want to run away. So just keep that in mind when sharing that you miss him.
Will A Taurus Man Miss You When You’re Not Around?
The awesome thing about Taurus men is that they love routine and get set in their ways very quickly. So if the two of you have been spending a lot of time together recently, then he is going to get used to it.
This means that when you are not around, he will definitely miss you and think about you very often. You don’t even have to worry about this, I can guarantee that a Taurus man will miss you!
5 Clear Signs A Taurus Man Misses You
You might wonder how to know when a Taurus man misses you… Luckily, this man is pretty simple and the signs are very straightforward which should help you to know when a Taurus man misses you. Here are 5 signs to look out for:
1. He Contacts You Out Of The Blue
It might have been a while since the last time you saw your Taurus man. You might be busy with work and haven’t had the time to see him. So he calls you or texts you out of nowhere!
This is a lovely surprise, and quite a big deal for a Taurus man to do because he isn’t really the type of man to take risks. This means he must really like you to do this.
He isn’t the type of guy to make a move if he isn’t 100% sure about your feelings. He doesn’t want to make a fool of himself or make you feel uncomfortable in any way.
2. He Is Active On Your Social Media
A Taurus man is very passive, he is unlike the fire signs like Aries or Sagittarius who will just make a move on someone by instinct. He will take his time and slowly scope things out before making a move.
However, if you notice a Taurus man on your social media quite often, liking your pictures or sending you DM’s, then chances are quite good that he might miss you at the moment.
He might want you to reach out and talk to him. Send him a friendly hi and ask him how he is doing. You never know where this might lead to.
3. He Makes Plans To See You
If you have been leaning back and letting your Taurus man do the pursuing, then chances are good that he is probably starting to miss you. This will be confirmed once he starts making many plans to see you.
For a Taurus man to reach out and be the one to initiate spending time with you, is a massive deal. You have clearly made an impression on him because he often would rather spend time on his own.
You obviously mean something to him because a Taurus doesn’t waste his time by spending it on someone he doesn’t enjoy.
4. He Offers To Help You With Your Problems
A Taurus man is very handy and knows how to really fix things. If you have mentioned to him that you have a problem say with your car or shelf in your house and he offers to come to fix it for you, chances are good he misses you.
This means that he wants to be around you and that he wants you to see him as someone you can rely on in times of trouble. A Taurus man doesn’t offer this to just anyone.
You’re a lucky woman, be sure to take him up on his offer, and perhaps suggest going for a drink with him to say thank you. This could be a golden opportunity for you to get closer to him.
5. He Tells You He Misses You
This is a major deal and something that happens only on rare occasions, but when a Taurus man tells you he misses you, it must really mean that he has deep feelings for you.
A Taurus man can often struggle to be vulnerable and show his softer side because he is so afraid of getting hurt and having his heart broken. This is why he will wait for the woman to make the first move to make sure that he won’t get rejected.
So if a Taurus man tells you he misses you, then you have really made a strong impression on him. You are definitely a lucky girl! Try to make plans to see him and see where this could go.
FAQ On A Taurus Man Missing You
You might still be confused about the actions of a Taurus man. Here I have compiled a list of questions you might have about Taurus men to give you the confidence to know that he does in fact miss you!
My Taurus Man Says He Misses Me – Should I Trust Him?
What I love about Taurus men is that they are so incredibly loyal and reliable. This isn’t the type of guy to lie to you. He will always be honest and trustworthy. He hates lies and dishonesty.
When a Taurus man says he misses you, I can promise you with certainty that he definitely means it. You can trust him that he is being honest, and why would he lie?
You may also want to read: Is My Taurus Man Using Me? 7 Warning Signs A Taurus Man Is Playing You
Will A Taurus Man Miss You After A Breakup?
Without a doubt, a Taurus man will miss you after a breakup. Taurus men are notoriously bad with breakups and letting go of their relationships. This is a sign that is incredibly sentimental and nostalgic.
When you have broken up with a Taurus man it will take him ages to get over you. This means that he will constantly be thinking about you and miss you and what the relationship meant to him.
However, if he got hurt really badly then he would probably show a very tough exterior and pretend like everything is okay, but deep down he is actually hurting quite badly.
Here’s how to move on from a breakup with a Taurus man <<
Will Giving A Taurus Man Space Make Him Miss Me?
Absolutely, giving a Taurus man space will make him wonder where you have gone to. Whenever anything feels slightly off in his routine or like someone isn’t acting the same it makes a Taurus man feel very insecure.
If you lean back and don’t give him as much love and attention as you usually would, you are going to drive him crazy wondering what is going on and why he hasn’t heard from you.
This will definitely make your Taurus man miss you. Giving space is a wonderful way to make a Taurus man realize what he is missing. You should try it and see if it works out for you!
Normal Dating Advice Can Backfire With Your Taurus Man…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Taurus man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Why???
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Taurus.
You see, Taurus men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Taurus, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.
He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Taurus is NOT like other men… at ALL.
So go here now to find out the specific things your Taurus man needs to hear to melt his heart <<
Love and light,
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna
Thanks a lot for posting this … it’s very helpful and almost everything is true….my best friend/ best buddy is almost described here perfectly….
I have been seeing a Taurus man for 3 months. We started dating and he was between jobs. After a month he said we were friends. We have been sleeping together after 2nd date. Always at his cottage. For 2 months he was working whatever job he could but it wasn’t paying him his worth. He now has a better job but is staying with family. We have been friends with perks. We text everyday. He asked me what I was doing and that he was thinking of driving up north but he decided to stay in town. I asked him to go for coffee and he didn’t answer that question. We still texted for a little while and again yesterday. Could I just be a habit or could he be having feelings and that’s why we didn’t go up north to his cottage or am I fooling myself.
I think he could actually be interested, just not as much as he was before when the two of you started talking. I don’t think you should have sex with him or see him for a little while. And, I believe you should be a little unavailable to him. If he’s used to texting you and always getting a response, don’t respond a few times. Or if you do respond, keep the conversation light and then tell him you’re about to be busy and can’t continue texting but you’ll talk to him later. This should make him feel drawn to you and maybe even increade his interest level. However, if you do these things and he continues pulling away, he was no good for you anyway. And be thankful that you didn’t waste too much time on him. I wish you guys the best!
Am a Leo woman loving a Taurus man for 3months now in a long distance relationship. I sometimes tend to doubt his feelings for me. He wants to marry me and I want him too but he thinks am not giving room to breathe. I dont want to lose him, but I have such a boring life that’s why am focus on him more. What can I go to get him to miss me,,?
I know our signs are not compatible but, I know we can have a great love and that’s my goal.
Karla – I happened upon this page via a google search. Your comment is very similar to my situation. How are you doing? Are you still with your Taurus?
I’m a Scorpio woman who have been dealing with a Taurus man for about 7 months. Things started off fast but I don’t regret it because life is tricky & full of lessons. When we first started out it was more friends with benefits… He’s someone I can see myself with in the future. Recently he went through a hard time in his life because he lost his dad and I was completely understanding so I gave him space. However I felt he went and got comfort from another woman which had me pissed I decided to leave him alone for 2 months but eventually I went back to him. He told me he didn’t cheat on me but I don’t believe him however since we’re not really a couple I just dismissed it. Once he unfollowed the girl I knew she was just a fling. He began to act out for attention and I didn’t take it seriously because I know the real him. We are back on good terms and everything about him is slowly coming back. He admitted to me that he loved me and that in the future we might have kids. Even though communication is key I know that he is a very busy person so I keep in mind that I have to respect that. He’s very family oriented and cherish his mom like no tomorrow. The key to a Taurus man heart is to give them what they need and sometimes what they want which is love and attention. Always tell them the truth even if it’s disgusting. This way they can build trust and respect you more as a woman. Recently I went to see him and all my feelings came back we stayed up all night watching movies and when I fell asleep I woke up with his hands in mines. I feel legit love in this relationship but I don’t want to ruin it because of my trust issues. I know that I can be an emotional wreck but I decided to compromise for him and instead of being crazy I decided to be more loving. Now he texts me all the time and is more consistent then how he was before. I want a relationship but at the same time I know I’m not ready for one. At first I thought this was lust but it’s definitely love and anything to make him happy I will do. His birthday is coming soon and I want to buy him something special so he knows I’m not as cold hearted as I seem to be.
To Michelle Johnson,
Cherish this person with all your heart. Most Taurus men like nice things but with thought. The more thought you put into it the more he will like it. Taurus men tend tolike high quality expensive items with thought. But again analyze him and what he likes. When he sees you put in effort or thought he will absolutely love it. The number one thing is that you remembered and even thought to buy him something which is giving him attention. Taurus men in love are beautiful and I wasn’t as fortunate as you. You may not receive this much love from another sign. Enjoy it cherish it and just think how hurt you would feel if this ended and you had no more communication with him. They tend to shut down and shut out anyone who plays with their emotions or hurts them and maybe you will never forgive yourself for this lost opportunity of love. I wish you luck and all the blessings of happiness and love with your Taurus man.
Need advice on this one. I am a Scorpio Woman who’s been talking to a Taurus man consistently for 2 years. We’ve known each other collectively for 6 years. We live in different states but recently I traveled to visit him. The chemistry between us were fireworks immediately. During an intimate moment I indicated to him that for a year I’ve been practicing celibacy. To my surprise he still stayed the night at my hotel and was comfortable snuggling and kissing. Now I’m back home and I’ve noticed he is distant. Didn’t even text to see if I’d made home safely. Has he lost interest? Whenever I mention coming back to see him he responds with “lol”. We’re both from the same state and he will be here in August to visit family, I just don’t want to get my hopes up if he’s good on me. Am I thinking too far into it? Any help/advice is accepted.
He’s seeing if your serious about him .
I dated a Taurus man years ago. Long story short. I broke up with him bc I was so broken. Years later we got back in touch, he flew me out to see him, then after I left he started ignoring me. I found out I was pregnant month after. He all of a sudden was very cold to me. I must have did or said something to piss him off while I was out there. Anyway, again fast forward, we spoke during my pregnancy (he was overseas), recently he was here for a month spending time with his child. Now, what confuses me is he treats me better than any man Ive ever been with. As far as doing things around the house, almost like how a husband cares for his family, yet he told me he has no feelings for me barely talked to me while he was here and told me after I asked that he had no intention to ever speaking to me again if i hadnt ended up pregnant. So confused. Avoided any contact with me! Lol I reached out to get something out his hair, he pulled back as if I had the plague. No feelings for me, obviously ONLY dealing with me bc our child but when he comes to visit child, it was almost as if we were a family. Soo confused. Left alot out but wish a Taurus man had some insight. This man is trully my regret. I would never tell him how much I love him, how he makes my heart smile bc he is so cold towards me. I just wish I knew what I did.
So hurt and confused
I’m a taurus…. And so is this guy I’ve been talking to via social media for a year I really need help. Hes told me he loved me and he’s told me he misses me… He tells me a whole lot of beautiful things but things have gone weird with us… He made me cry over an argument and I told him and now we aren’t talking . He is the type to step away if he hurts me he’s the type who thinks “I can’t do this to someone” and now I can’t get through to him no matter what I try to do…. We couldn’t go a day without talking unless he was busy and now I feel like he can’t stand me.
Hi I’m a Taurus woman involved with a Taurus guy for 8 months now. We’ve been intimately involved around the third week and non stop since. We hang out from time to time. It started out once a week then it ended up every two weeks back to recently once a week. I told him from the get go that I want a committing relationship then eventually marriage. He’s met my kids around the 6th month even though I had to push it a little because we were getting involved heavily. Even though he asked me once to be his woman, he withdrew back and told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship. A few months prior to me he broke up with his ex. So, I tried to be understanding of his decision even though my feelings involved really quickly. He’s told me he’s cared for me. He spent about $300 on my bday after only knowing me for three months. He’s brought me coffee a few times when I had to work double shifts. He offered to assist me with buying my boys’ school uniforms before they began school. I didn’t ask, he offered. When I had to pick up my oldest son, I asked if he could take me which he did without hesitation. He’s talked to my boys when they needed that manly talk. We’ve went out of town once to see a comedy show which I paid for as an early bday gift to the both of us. I’ve even recently purchased a couple massage for us last week and brought breakfast and bowling. Just to reciprocate my appreciation towards him. I just trying to be patient because I don’t want to get involved in another situationship. I really care for him and at times I feel like we are way more but I have to tell myself to calm it down. Because besides my first love and this second serious relationship I was involved in, he’s the only one I see a future with. He doesn’t have kids except for his beautiful lab mix so I’m afraid of the two different lifestyles. I told him he’s became my one of best friends because we literally can talk about anything and have the most silliest debates lol. We’ve had a few major arguments even didn’t talk to each other for a few weeks which was super hard. At times I feel intimidated that his ex is trying to come back into the picture but he’s told me that he doesn’t want her back. We joke about certain future scenarios about us but I don’t know if he seriously want a true future with me. I’m just so afraid of getting hurt. I’ve expressed myself to him on this level more than once. He’s a really wonderful guy totally different from what I’m use to but I’m afraid if I’m getting super deeper than he is with me.
I meet my Taurus online. We’ve been talking for 4 1/2 months. Lately I feel we’ve gotten closer to each other. He’s opened up a bit more. And we talk all the time. He always finds the time to talk to me. BUT…. I was supposed to go out to meet him, and we’d planned this months ago, but now I’ve had to put it on hold because he wouldn’t finalize the date in which I could fly to see him. He still vows he wants to meet me but… does he? Also his profile is still up. I’m trying to be patient. He IS a workaholic. I know this, but I’m just wondering how serious he is about me, if at all. We both admitted to feeling an extreme “ fondness” for each other, and we laugh ALOT, but I’m just unsure.
I’m a cancer. Of course our astrology says we’re a match made in heaven. I don’t want this to b long because I REALLY need some good advice. I’ve known him for over 10yrs as friends and we recently reconnected. We’ve pretty much been inseparable since then up until yesterday. If we weren’t on the phone we’re together or txting. He made me feel like I was the only one, treated me like a gf but wouldn’t make it official which confused me because in the beginning he would introduce me to everybody as his wife. I recently broke things off because he got REALLY drunk, said and did a few things I wasn’t comfortable with (ex: telling me I have to share sometimes) I sent him a very long message. .blocked him & deactivated my fb. He’s reached out several times but of course I refuse to answer.
I have NO clue what I’m doing. He is VERY controlling & wants things to go his way almost all the time and I’m not with that. I don’t think he’s used to strong women but at the same time I haven’t felt so connected to someone in like forever and we enjoy each other’s company. I’m heartbroken. Do I stick it out and give him another chance & hope for the best or kick rocks?
Hi Queen! I think that you have a very valid reason for feeling uncomfortable. If I were you I’d just tell him exactly how you feel and what you want. If he’s not into giving you what you want then you should just go ahead and cut him off so you can move on. You don’ t need someone playing games or playing with your heart. Whatever he said when he was drunk may have just been the booze talking but either way, you deserve to know what he wants and if he is willing to work toward an exclusive relationship or if he just wants to remain friends. You have every right to express how you feel just as you have every right to walk away if he cannot or refuses to give you what you want. If you’d like to know more about the Taurus man and how to handle him, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
I’m an Aries and I met this Taurus guy last nov 2018,he told me upfront that he wants marriage from me at first I was skeptic about it…during January he invited me to his place because we stay in different states.i visited and we had sex then he started up with some stories that we got no connection and that his parents said we won’t work that they want someone they know and all.i visited again during valentine and we had sex just once and I told about our relationship n he said he feels like giving up and I said okay that if his out I’m out too and I left but while leaving he put his pants in my bag and said I should take it home and he called the next day to ask who he is to me and I responded my boyfriend and he said he just wanted to be sure and he hasn’t call me again…I feel his seeing other women and I’m pretty confused cos I like him.
Hi Keyla! Thank you for sharing your really puzzling situation. Your guy doesn’t sound like the typical Taurus guy at all. A Taurus man never moves that quickly and tells a woman in advance that he wants to marry her. He has to take copious amounts of time to figure out if she’s even someone he wants to be in a relationship with. Also, him going back and forth the way he makes me feel like he’s trying to scam you in some way. Whether it is for sex or money, he wants something from you and the only way to make sure you’re going to give him what he wants is by keeping you hanging on and saying things that make you believe he’s committed to you when he may not be at all. This is a red flag sweetheart. Though, you should try to get to know more about what a REAL Taurus man is like so that you can decide for yourself whether this guy is the real deal or a scam artist.
I need urgent advice.
I am Aries dating a Taurus guy and from all i’ve read about Taurus…he is a typical Taurus. We met online while he was in another country and we got talking, over time we started getting really close and emotional and we both admitted we have feelings for each other and want to date but then we would like to meet first. after 3months we finally met and he told me he is content with me and wants a relationship with me. We officially started dating in August 2019, I spent every Friday night at his place and slept over till Saturday, he gives me gifts, suprises and really care about me, he hugs me for long minutes, look into my eyes and always wants me to cuddle him. He always sends me VN thanking me for loving him back and BTW, the sex is so good although he can be a little selfish. Towards the end of August 2019 he told me he’s traveling for studies for a year and asked if I am OK with him not being around, I told him I need to know how he feels about us and if he really wants us together… He said yes and that he really loves me and would want us to continue and grow our relationship so I said it’s fine. It’s been a week since he traveled and we talk everyday but then last night he told me about a girl he has been talking to, that this girl chatted him up months ago when she discovered they will be studying in same school and same program and he mentioned the girl sends him photos and video and they have been chatting for months before the program began but when he got to school and met the girl for the first time, the girl wasn’t really excited to see him and he could tell from the way she hugged him, now the girl chatted him up apologizing and asking that they meet for lunch or dinner on Monday. He sent me the screenshot of the chat and it shows they were chatting by past 1am when my boyfriend even forgets to tell me Goodnight sometimes since he traveled and I always wondered why he was online that late but doesn’t chat with me. Now I don’t know what to think, I don’t know if I should be worried or not, I looked this girl up and she is cancer, now I am really worried. I told him if he is gonna have anything to do with any girl he should tell me and he says it’s not in his agenda at all. I have decided to take a 3days no communication break from him without telling him. Please I need advice. I really love him.
Hi Tee!
Thank you for writing in about your Taurus man situation. Honestly, he’s telling you everything and showing you to help you feel secure about him. He wouldn’t be telling you anything about her if he was doing something he shouldn’t. He’s being up front and letting you know there is nothing for you to worry about so if you trust him at all then you should trust him in this as well.
Hi, Sagittarian Woman
Been with my Taurus Man for 5 months now and we started hot and heavy. Full on communication and how he missed me and couldnt wait til the weekend was over to see me. Now, this was very over-bearing energy, but I adjusted to it, it was exhausting, but I have never had a relationship where detailed conversations existed. He wanted to know everything I was doing, and always sent me fb messenger photos to prove he was home from a night out of DJaying. He has introduced me to his inner circle of friends, even tho he says he doesnt have any. lol. and has allowed me to come to his job and meet his friend there, and has shown me to his world of aquaintances and we are trying to get his scorpion son to blend in with my kids hahahaha or at least like me with his dad .. not happening.. I fell in love with him in the 2nd month. Geez….
But after that, we were breaking up weekly, any changes i wanted in the relationship, he got mad. Doing what I want to do with certain group of friends, he has a shitty attitude. My insecurity of his loyalty to me was shaken by not closing the door on his ex fucker, had me really fucked up, and lying to me of how they even got back in to contact and then wanting to take me to a concert where his ex fuckers dad was playing on stage. So, 6 times we broke up. I can not stand a relationship where my feelings and thoughts should not be said and /or should be supressed. Thats utter boulshit. (Excuse my language), the expectation of my Taurus man is full trust, yet some of his words and actions are so contradicting. Im quiet happy to leave the relationship if my partner gets too upset too often, but he kept coming back. So if we break up again, its done.
A woman like me who has been hurt every time, cause im quiet gulliable and able to meet the needs of my partners, making their job easy. lol. My taurus has done wonderful to be there and support when I ask for it. Hes really bad at picking up intimate ques when I need him close, and so when i ask for it, he resists, probably cause he didnt initiate it hahah
which I find confusing… he thinks its because I want to dominate him… and then apologies when I explain.
Anyway, so this relationship is inconsistent with how much time we spend together. My love language is quality time, acts of service and words of affirmation. His… buying me stuff. I can connect materialistically, but I can not feel love radiating from them. He does not need to see me all the time, where I feel most safe and secure when we do. So he can be full on one week and then okay with taking a break this week because hes planned the next week to be full on. Its too much for me to deal with! but why? Its still plans of seeing me.It should be simple and consistent. His calls are regular morning/after work, and hes doing amazing at his job, so messages and calls are less during the day. When we do talk, its mainly about him. I dont mind at all. He knows when im frustrated and want to be heard.
I love my taurus man. I do feel undervalued at the moment and learning patience has been a challenge, I can not stop the fiery rage within me when he says he will see me, and then change his mind and wants to go watch sports instead. Its confusing and I dont think hes serious as he thinks he is. Is he? He has calmed right down in our connection and is quiet happy to see me when he finds time, which varies weekly.
Hes worriessome when Ive got personal stuff going on and asks me to chill out and that hes still likes me. One day he said, he thinks he loves me? what the fuck does that mean? I dont expect the same flow of love I give him in words, but if a taurus man is indecisive, pulling right back and wanting space for self-care (which is fair) and wanting to hang out with friends more. And not worried about my needs in the realtionship. Are these warning signs?
Please help, I no longer want to be taken advantage of. and I need to stop going crazy over my Taurus Boyfriend.
I adore him and I just want him to be happy and me being in a low place right now in my life and not sure how to use him for support cause Im use to dealing with it all by myself, I want to see him free, but cause we have already broken up 6 times, cause of his anger and misunderstandings and his need to have full control of me, which naturally is impossible. I want to let him go… hes vibrating the highest and doing so well at work and his eating habits. im loving his growth, why is my life opposite of his hahahahah its usually the other way around. lol.
Do u think its time to move on? or am I being a sagittarian wanting to run from a good thing? which im not use to either. Is he serious about me?
Hey Kelly,
Sag woman here too with a lot of the same things you said. I’m trying to figure it out too. I’m trying to be patient. He’s not in a great place in life right now and I feel like our lives revolve around him in every way. I find myself very frustrated and I can’t even talk to him about it bc he gets mad. I love when it’s great and we are on the same page, but we have our moments of confusion often.
I feel the same as you, are these red flags?? Do I need to back off? Ugh!
Hi Kelly! It seems that you two have a communication disconnect and is why things are so confusing. You two need to sit down and have a very deep conversation about what you want, how you feel, and where think things are. Don’t hold back. Don’t talk to him in anger and don’t tell him “you’re not doing this” or “I feel like this because you did this”. These types of statements make him clam up, shut down, and cease good communication. It makes him feel insecure. Whether or not you realize it, Taurus men are very insecure and if they feel they’re not holding the line or taking care of business, they feel like less than a man which can result in a breakup. You’re going to have to get down and dirty and talk to each other. Make time for each other to talk for hours because that’s likely what is going to happen when you do finally talk. If you need more helpful hints, you may want to check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
HI. I met a Taurus guy for 4 days and spent some great time with him. I felt like even he was enjoying himself a lot. All the signs that show that he is interested in me were there. But there are a few problems. 1. He is my brother’s really close friend. 2. I hardly meet him as we stay in separate cities. Now there is hardly any way that i’ll be able to spend more time with him anytime soon and i dont think my brother would be much in favour of anything happening between the two of us. But the guy didnt accept my insta follow request. What could it mean?
Hi Anonymous,
It sounds like exactly what you just figured which is that he thinks your brother wouldn’t approve and no chance in you two being able to see each other much so he cut it off. Anytime a guy doesn’t respond to your requests then he’s saying to you loud and clear with his actions that he’s done or doesn’t want any of it. I’m glad you enjoyed your 4 days with him but it’s plain to see for you both that there is too much conflict for it to work and is why he’s doing what he is.
Im a Cancer woman. Met a Taurus man online almost 7 months ago. I travel for work. We spoke and video chstted everyday. Weve been intimate. Now all of a sudden he tells me “I dont want to hurt you. Find a new man, you deserve happinesss. Ect” Im just curious where this came from all of a sudden. Ive been giving him space, but we do still speak. Hes in Philly, and Im moving back next week. I do like him but who knows. Hes 31 and the only child of a VERY interesting single mother. He lives at home.
Hi Meme!
It would seem that your guy figured out that you’d be back in town and he freaked out thinking you’d basically expect him to keep towing the line with you. He isn’t looking for a relationship or he’s already in one and is sneaking around. Either way when he tells you what he told you, he is either terrified and has low self esteem or knows you’ll be very hurt to know he’s not free. Either way it doesn’t fare well. I’d ask him flat out for the truth in reminding him that you’re moving back. Ask him why he would back out after everything was going well.
Ms. Ana, i would really appreciate your response to my case.
I’m a 26yr old Sag.,and in love with a 41yrs old Taurus man. He’s still not married despite of his age. We met almost 2yrs ago now…I was very vocal of how I feel for him. He knows that I love him. He is really the man of my dreams, and we met aftr i prayed for a soon to be bf/husband. We didn’t get any chance to be together alone (just the two of us)..we’re always in a circle of friends and family. He met my family and I’ve met his family too. Everyone around us is assuming and expecting the two of us to end up together. But this Taurus man is not courting me until now. Although he is showing signs that I’m special to him. Even his family notices his unusual behavior and actions when I’m around. Especially the first time that I’ve been to his house, his family we’re surprised bec aftr a long time of not having an affair with anyone, he let me in to his house. He also invited me over in his dad’s death anniversary. He also sent his mom to our ancestral home, wen my auntie died, wen he couldn’t make it bec his office as too far, and he’s just coming home every weekend. He’s also willing to go with me and my friends/relatives to far places. He even does long driving for us even he has work the nxt day. He’s a typical Taurus man hu’s hard-working, family oriented and very gentleman with his actions. He acts nervous when I’m around, as if he doesn’t know what to do, especially if there’s a lot of people around us. Everytime we meet he has something to give to me, especially food. He doesn’t verbally expresses his feelings for me, but I couldn’t help but feel special wenever he offers to drive us home (me and my mom/friends)..coz he doesn’t do those simple yet special things to them wen I wasn’t there.
I always send him messages every now and then to remind him to drive safely on his way to his job. He sometimes answers, sometimes if ny messages are not that important, he doesn’t response. But if a go for a week or two without sending him messages, he would say he misses me. But he still doesn’t ask me out for a date. (Coz i personl, i want to have some quality time for just the two of us.)
I asked him for so many times if he doesn’t like me at all,coz most of the time he is busy. But always answers , “No, it doesn’t mean I don’t like you. I’m just really busy.” (BUT HE NEVER SAID THAT HE LIKES ME)…he told me twice that, “It doesn’t mean I don’t like you, it’s just that your still young and I’m already old. There’s a lot younger than me.”
I asked him, “So, you’re rejecting me?”….he didn’t answer the questions, instead he asked me something…”may i know what happened to you and your ex bf? Why did you two break up?”…and then I explained everything to him. I honestly opened up everything to him to him that I already slept with my ex bf (coz he asked me about that)..I told him, “I know aftr this revelation you might reject me for good. And you might look down to me, but I don’t want to keep any secrets to you. I want to be real.” I assumed that he will loose his interest to me…
But..a few moments after that he became more relaxed on talking to me. Unlike bef.that he seemed shy and uncomfortable. Now..he’s once a week he asks me to send him sexy pics…he asked me about my experiences with my ex bf, and he told me, he never had sex with anyone except his ex gf’s. And told me, he didn’t even do this thing with other girls.. that we’re doing now..but he still doesn’t ask me to go out and have sex. But he always wants a videocall pretending that we’re together and doing that. He’s telling me someday we will do that but not now..
I’m confused..is he just using me to feed his fantasies? Or he really has plans going on in his head, and still a typical Taurean that is taking a loooong time of thinking? Is everything going to work out someday? Or should I leave now?
I would really appreciate your response ms.ana! Thank you in advance!
Hi Fruity!
This Taurus guy sounds like he is either up to no good as in he has a woman already and is talking to others on the side OR he’s just non-committal. The fact that he’s asking for sexy pics is a red flag. That means he’s looking for “spank it” material from you but isn’t investing any of his time with you. Taurus men do get comfortable with their partner and do tend to back off a bit communication wise when they’re busy but if you are saying he doesn’t even tell you whether or not he likes you then, he’s finding ways to sort of blow you off but not enough to let you go. Asking you when you’re going to collect your things is a dead giveaway that he’s done. I don’t think he was ever in love with you. For Taurus, it takes a great deal of time. This guy didn’t know what he really wanted and got skiddish. I think you need to cut him lose and move forward on your own path honey.
Hi all. I’m going through a really hard time right now too. We’ve been fighting a lot lately, he’s a workaholic self employed guy. He’s been super stressed with work and I feel like I’ve always been the punching bag for him when times get over bearing.
Anyways
We had a massive fight. We both said some hurtful things to each other and I broke. I called it off and left his place. I waited about 2 weeks before contacting him (every fight we’ve ever had, I’ve had to fix, he has too much pride to reach out) I was thinking about everything that had happened at what was said and I realized that I ended our relationship because I was hurt and angry.
When I reached out to him, he snapped on me about all that happened, get got it all out. We agreed to meet in person a few days later to talk.
When we met up, we both cried while we held hands. I told him I wanted to fix it and that I loved him. He said that he didn’t want to fix it this time. We went our separate ways that night. A few days later, I sent him a plant to his place in to show him I was thinking about him. He sent a text with a thank you. I asked to see him a couple of days later, he agreed.
The night we were supposed to meet, he cancelled. Sent me a text saying he had way too much work to do and he had to prioritize. It became an argument. He then told me that he wanted me to move on, it was over and that he was no longer in love with me.
That broke me.
How could you fall out of love with me after a couple of weeks? When a couple of weeks ago, we were talking about marriage.
Again, gave it some time and contacted him to find out when would be a good time to go collect my stuff from his place. He replied with the details, but then asked “how are you” I froze. I had no idea how to reply. I finally replied an hour later with “alright I guess, living life”. The conversation continued with a bit of small talk, then ended.
Why would he ask me how I am? Seriously? You know how I am!!
It gave me a sense of false hope and now my mind is going a mile a minute. I have no idea what to do. I want to continue the no contact but I’m dying inside. I miss him so much and I don’t know how to handle my emotions.
I want him back and I can’t help but continue to blame myself.
His family and I are very close too. It breaks my heart that I won’t be there at the dinner table on Sunday with them. Instead, my seat will sit empty. Will he ever regret his decision? Will he ever reconsider?
Thoughts?
Hi Sare!
I’m sorry you went through this harrowing time. It sounds like he’s prioritizing his work and career over you and until that changes, he’s not going be able to offer you his all. He knows this and that’s what stresses him out. He feels you deserve better and he can’t provide it for you. He also knows it’s not right to fight with you like he does and that it’s mainly his fault. This makes him want to step away so that you can find someone else who will give you all the attention that you deserve. I wouldn’t try to get him back unless he starts to slow down a bit otherwise it will be more of the same and more hurt. I think giving yourself and him some time may be what is needed. There is no way to know whether or not he will regret it or reconsider. He has to get in a good place in his life and in his head to do this.
Dear Anna,
I would really appreciate your respond to my message
I am really in a doubt and do not know what to do. I am a cancer woman (27) and dated Taurus man (34) for about 6 months. When we met first time we’ve been inseparable since then and everything went perfect, we got along so easily , we made our relationship official right away and he even introduced me to his family and was talking about potential future. He had serious intentions. Was always courting me, buying me cute presents, took me out loads of times. And I gave everything I could from my side as well, took care of him, cooked/cleaned for him, was always there for him. The connection was great, we barely had any fights (and if we did we found compromise right away) and were just perfect for each other. Then eventually we had some problem (health related issue). I gave him some small infection (not std but more like sti which is curable and not so harmful but still could be dangerous if left untreated). He was not angry at all first time and just told me: “Babe, let’s fix it together”. Then I did not take it seriously and was prolonging my treatment for a month and he kept reminding me to get tested again and again cause it affected our relationship and that I had to do it for my own good first of all. He was very patient like all Tauruses are. Then at some point there was an explosion. After 6 months he asked me again whether I got tested and I was only about to the next day. He was really pissed off and angry. He is a pilot and he had a flight that day and said that we should talk once he would be back. I felt something was not right. I really screwed up, big time. I was so lost and did not know what to do. He dropped me off home. Then I messaged him asking what exactly he wanted to talk about and he said there was nothing to worry about, just about few issues between us and that’s all. We were talking after that like nothing happened and when he got back I asked if he still wanted to talk and he said yes so I went to his place. We were cuddling and snuggling for the first 30 minutes and then when I asked again what was wrong he said that our relationship did not feel right (cause of that infection) and that throughout our entire time being together he always had to worry about this disease. And that he was unhappy. So eventually he said he did not want to be with me. I was broken, could not keep my tears and kept saying: “ let’s try to fix it “. And he said it was late already (being stubborn as usual) Then I went home. After 1 day he messaged me like nothing happened sending me some funny pictures from our favorite show etc. Then for the next 2 weeks we were just chatting but did not see each other. I sent him text that I was sorry and that I was so careless about that and understand his reaction. I did not expect any reply and added that he did not need to reply to his message. After that we kept texting in a friends’ sort of way, like how your day went/how work was and yada yada yada. Then one day I decided to call him and ask how he was and all, then based on his talks I realized he said his friends that we were broken up already, so I went to his place to collect my stuff. Then I just thanked him for everything saying how great he was, what he did for me and that he would always be a special person in my life. Then he started crying, literally there were tears in his eyes. He cuddled me and kept crying. Then he tried to kiss me and make out but we did not sleep together, I said it was no right. I went home after that and we kept texting like before, then he went on a layover to Japan and brought me some small gift. Then after one day he texted me that one of his friends saw my old profile on Bumble ( we met on Tinder and I deleted it) and just asked: “So are you back on Bumble?”. I was shocked since I did not even realize my old damn profile was still there, I did not bother to delete long time ago. I denied and said it was an old profile (even the photo was very old). He did not reply to that. Then after 2 days of course he asked me to collect the rest of my stuff, and I agreed. I went over and eventually we slept together. The next day he flew back home (we live in Dubai and he is from UK) and spent there around 2 weeks. We were texting/messaging during this time but not super intense. When he came back I found out that he met up with his ex (which was a total psycho and weirdo, and we had mutual connection with her), and I found out about it. It hurt me so much. I did not complain to him at all I just said that I heard that they met and added that his ex was still stalking my social media trying to drag my attention( posting pics from his flat etc) which was 100% true. And I just ignored her cause I am just better than this, I never even blocked her. He said that he was done with girls completely and that yes he did meet her and not going to do any relationship with her. He felt that I was super upset about that. Then I stopped replying to his texts which made him message me even more and being more enthusiastic. Earlier he never questioned me about my plans for day and now he was. Till today we are still texting in a friendly manner but I really badly want him back. We loved each other and I can still feel he loves but just being stubborn and following his principles. Next week I need to collect my watch from him and I do not know how to behave myself . Should I give him some time more to be alone so he will miss me more or what I can do to get him back. Dear Anna I really hope that you will respond to my message, and I really appreciate your assistance. Thanking you in advance!
Hi Natulya!
I think that when you go to collect your watch, you should talk to him again. Tell him that you’re really missing him and what you’re feeling. He needs to know and he needs to know you’ve not given up on him or the love you two could still have. Tell him you want to show him that everything CAN work and that you’re not one to just give up and he shouldn’t either. Typically ignoring a Taurus or putting them off will piss them off more than draw them in but your guy seems to be a little different given he jumped into a relationship with you so quickly. Either way, I think you should talk to him and be 100% transparent with how you feel and what you want.
Dear Anna,
I’m a cancer woman and just my luck, I managed to match with a Taurus man on a dating app in the midst of this pandemic (risky I know!). The connection was so flirty and sweet we wasted no time exchanging phone numbers. While the initial nature of the match was hook-up related, we had managed to carry on a lovely conversation with each other within the two days prior to us meeting in person. When it came down to meeting in person, he was just as sweet and genuine as he was via text. He bought all my favorite snacks, had no issues getting my favorite foods delivered since we were in quarantine, and did not rush or force me to do anything sexual. We spent so much time cuddling and watching movies that our meet up didn’t even revolve around hooking up! Eventually that night things did get steamy and we did the do. Even then I felt so secure and safe; His attitude towards me never changed and I didn’t feel like just a hookup. The next morning he kept telling me how lovely, sweet, and kind I was. He even asked me why I was single, took interest in my dating history, and vice versa. He made it clear that he’s interested in commitment and expressed that he was excited to see me again. I must admit that I left his place feeling really good. Even that same night he kept thanking me for driving to come see him, praised me for being intellectually stimulating, and stated that he would like for us to see each other again. I responded to his text messages and stated that I too would like to see him again, I told him that I was open to weekday/weekend visits, and I concluded by asking him what were his quality time needs were. I sent That text early this morning but I have not heard from him since. I’m beginning to feel slightly insecure as we are in quarantine lol. I like him a lot, everything is so friggin new (4 days in) and I don’t want to worry myself into pushing him away. Given everything that I just stated, I’m just wondering if you had any advice on how to navigate this Taurus male so that he doesn’t End before it takes off.
Hi CoCo!
Thank you for writing in! First off, it sounds like you two made a connection which is good. Taurus men start to get cold feet when they really like someone. They over analyze and make themselves a hot mess. The other thing is that Taurus men don’t do well with texting. They really are old fashioned when it comes down to that type of deal. That means that if he doesn’t answer you right away or within a few days doesn’t mean he’s lost interest or he’s done. He’s probably caught up being busy with other stuff and so he is distracted. Don’t panic. Hang in there and send a text checking in on him. He should reply unless he’s had a change of heart. I wish you the best but if you still need more help, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hey Anna,
I met a taurus man virtually about two months ago. We have been talking everyday non stop every since I messaged him on instagram and found that we get along so well and had a lot in common. The First few weeks, we were texting back and forth, even calling each other over FaceTime and he was really warm, flirty and had a reassuring behaviour. But the past week or so he’s been very distant, didn’t reply to all my messages and didn’t answer with the ‘enthusiasm’ he’s shown at the beginning. We haven’t been talking for about 3-4 days which really isn’t like anything that’s happened before, you could see our conversation as a 7 weeks long one, never ending. And now he’s kind of put a stop to it, but still watches my stories and likes my posts. You should know through everything that’s happened in this pandemic, we still haven’t met and I am stuck in another country even though we both live in the same city usually. I don’t know if he got bored since well.. i can’t help but be available, I’ve tried taking time between replies but it didn’t really seem to help.. Or if he’s kind of sick of this virtual wall between us, and would rather just keep away for now since we’ve got to know each other so well that all there is left to do is for us to meet and let reality put things into better perspectives. I am a little hurt that he started pulling away and all of a sudden just wished me a great evening and hasnt spoke to me since. I know its only been a few days but consistency is important to me and now that I’ve finally managed to get a flight back in 3 weeks time, i don’t know how do let things play out.. should I casually message him or wait for him to message me after taking the time he needs to assess things? And in the case where I message him, but he lost interest, am I making things worse or better? He knows I like him because I’m very forward and honest with how I feel, but sometimes i wonder maybe i should’ve made myself more desirable? Anyway, I’ve gone on a rant but this has really been weighing on my heart and i didn’t know what to do or where to turn. This is my first experience on an astrology forum so I hope this’ll be helpful or just give me a better understanding of where i stand with him. Thank you for your help!
Hi Amanda!
Yes after a bit of time, you should check in with him and see how he’s doing. “Hey there, I hope all is well with you”. type of thing. It’s non invasive and actually kind of sweet. Give that a try and see if he responds to you. If you need more information, you should check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
I’m a aries and been with a taurus for 14 years we have a daughter that’s will be 14 in a few days. From day 1 I have said hes my 1 night stand “started out that way ” that lasted 14 years. im an aries and i no i can be a hard person to live with and love. But I’m loving and honest and loyal never have i lied to him but im far from perfect.what i am seeking is help do all taurus men lie leave every time things get hard then come back after a few weeks after he’s told so my bad and hatful things to his family that aren’t true. He’s living with his brother at the moment he walks out of my daughters and my life 10 minutes before my grandfathers funeral because I was being mean. yes I was bitchy and upset but i was hurting worried we were going to be late but I and he wasn’t ready dragging his feet because he didnt really want to go didnt mean to i see it that he needs not i didnt mean to be mean i said to man up not leave and for once be there for me in stead he left me to go to his family’s its been a month since that day pleaee help I love this man with evey inch of my soul can I do anything to get his heart to feel the same and stop lieing and blaming everything on me but most importantly will he stop leaving us thank you
Tami k
Hi Tami!
Oops yes, Aries and Taurus tend to butt heads. You’re both head strong and set in your ways. Moody behavior from one or both of you can cause turmoil. That’s no secret. Both of you would need to find compromise and a new way to communicate that doesn’t cause such rage emotionally between you. You’d have to start working on your side of it and let him see that you’re doing it. Try meditating or something like that and tell him that you’re self helping. Tell him you never meant to hurt him or piss him off. Tell him you want him back and that you want to compromise and find a better way to communicate and go back to the way things were before. It’s worth a shot.
Hi Anna,
Your article about Taurus men is super insightful and has made me understand the Taurean I am talking to. However, hoping you can give me insight on how to navigate this situation…
For starters, I’m a Scorpio. I connected with this Taurean on a dating app around the end of Oct. The conversation was light in the beginning: short, and two texts per day. Realizing that work has been keeping him busy and that he also is new to the area — I made the first move to get him out and to show him around his new “home.” We exchanged numbers. Our first date went great — I planned and made reservations as we met back in November — so with limited capacity during a pandemic I had options for him to choose from.
During dinner our waiter had mentioned that a few staff members were betting that my date with the Taurean was either a first date or that we’ve been dating for more than a year. Seemed like we had great chemistry to attract that kind of attention. I don’t kiss on the first date, but because he’s a “touchy feely” bull he managed to sneak in a first date kiss. It was really sweet — adorable actually.
After our first date, he travels to spend Thanksgiving with his family. I had not reached out to him until he texted me with a text message that made me realize that he was thinking about our first date and had to let me know. We began texting and he opened up a little about his time away. He returns from his trip, and I’m busy working full-time and wrapping up classes until mid-December so not much texting/planning to meet up again.
After my semester ends and my schedule lightens up I reach out to communicate that I’m more free to meet up again. To my surprise — my hectic schedule and his hectic schedule made us two pretty busy people yet out of instinct — I looked back on the dating app to notice he updated his dating profile. He responds with being open to getting together again, but that work is keeping him busy so he selects a tentative date. The day comes and he cancels. I wasn’t holding my breath.
I work in retail so with the holidays making things hectic I stopped reaching out to him. Surprisingly, he comes into my work to see me one night. He was holiday shopping for his roommate and thought to surprise me (not knowing if I was going to be there or not). We talk for a bit and he notes that during his move he does not have a winter jacket in his arsenal. This is an inside joke between us (from our first date; THE thoughtful text) He said to me, “I need to have a solid winter jacket to be able to go on dates.” Without clarity, I assumed that he meant “dates” with other women.
I followed up with him later that night because at this point all we had been doing is texting (barely) and I needed to know if that statement was meant in general or meant for me. Got my answer, he meant dates with me…but “if/when” it happens? He then flys out later that week to spend Christmas and the new year with family. Again, I had not reached out to him because now I’m beginning to get discouraged. To my surprise this Taurean texts me on Christmas Day and he opens up about his trip again and how it’s been somewhat stressful. The conversation is kept short from my end. Since he reached out to me for one holiday, I thought I would reciprocate for the new year. Since then we haven’t been in contact. I’m assuming he’s back in town.
I’ve been direct once about whether or not he wants to continue dating yet that seems highly unlikely at this point. I am impatiently patient with this Taurean, but I’m not sure if I should be direct again about his intentions.
How do I know he’s sincerely interested and not looking for something casual? He’s new to the area so I know he’s probably dating other women as well. I just want to know if I’m wasting my time.
Thanks!
Hi Rachel,
Thank you for sharing your Taurus man story with me! Frankly the only way to know for sure if it’s casual or something more, you will have to be bold and ask him what he wants and where he sees things going. That way he can tell you directly what it is that he wants so that you two can decide where it will go from there. If you need more tips, check out my series “Taurus Man Secrets”.
It is absolutely correct about the taurus,married one for 36 years he was absolutely the best of everything you could hope for, we married our last child we were left alone and I think he got bored,he met with a old friend and started an affair she divorced her husband and he divorced me they were together for about 2 years, he came back to me and we are now on 7th year after the divorce,but recently she called him and now he started this affair again,I am a Leo and I know we are both stubborn sign’s but we have always worked things out,before this woman came into his life,we are now up in age and he won’t give up this friendship as he calls it up,I love my husband,don’t know whether to let go or fight
Hi Calm!
Wow… your husband is calling your relationship a “friendship?”. I don’t understand him friend zoning his own wife. That isn’t a good sign honey. I think you need to do some soul searching. I think you also should read my series “Taurus Man Secrets” and get yourself a free consultation with me. I’d love to dig into it more. You get a free consultation when you purchase my books.
Hello Anna!
I’m glad I found this site. My sign is cancer. Currently 32, with a livein partner of 10yrs and a daughter with him of 6yrs.
My Taurus man messaged me back in October or November 2020. We were just good friends playing the same games. Come January 2021, it felt more than that and became a couple. We never met irl yet since we are so far from each other. We wanted to but it was hard for my part. We are also intimate with our online relationship.
He would call and chat me the whole day even until 6am even of he still has work. He is only 21 (he initially lied being 25 because I don’t want underage men). He is not yet stable. I told him I want someone stable. He told me if I can wait 2-3yrs he can.
We talked about meeting up after a year. And he said he was applying for work abroad. He wanted me to go with him once he’s settled so we can build our own house in the future.
The thing is, I was always breaking up with him because I thought it was the right thing since I have a family though I want to get out of my relationship with ny livein partner but can’t because of responsibilities and financial issues.
He would hold on to me no matter how much I hurt him. One time I got angry, I told him I don’t need him coz I have a partner. Didn’t talk to him for 2 days. When I unblocked him, he was cold and distant.
He wanted to chill. I didn’t give him that. I lashed out. He was surprised with my attitude. He said he was doing it for my daughter’s future. I begged and lashed out to him to comeback. We broke up last March 2.
He would still respond to my calls and text. He said he already gave me closure and wasn’t happy with our situation. I was really angry I contacted his ex (he has a 2yo son with her). I asked her a few things. We hit it off (the ex). But my Taurus man got mad and would curse me everytime I would talk to him.
Last closure I got, he told me he really was serious with me and looking forward but all I did was hurt him over and over. He told my friend I broke his trust. And will not be getting back with me. He blocked me.
Recently, didn’t know he unblocked me. My message was sent when I informed him it was my daughter’s birthday April 13. He gave his greeting and never responded anymore. I would chat him to ask to meet up but he ignores it. No longer cursing though.
IDK what to do. I want him back. Please help
Hi Nyca,
Sounds like he only unblocked you to see what you were up to but then still didn’t want to get back together thus he didn’t contact you after giving his greeting. No he won’t meet up because he’s not healed yet. It will take him a long time if ever. Taurus men hold wicked grudges. All you can do is try to be friends with him but don’t ask him to meet up. He will shut you down at every turn if you do. If you can get the door back open to you with friendship then there may be a possibility of healing with time. I wish you the best but if you want more info, you can read my books on Taurus Man Secrets.
i am a taurus women,who is dating a taurus man. I am with him from past monderstand every singre then 3 years. I know him very well i do understand every single unsaid things of him ,butt he is just not ready to marry me beause we belongs to different culture and he’s family will not allow him to marry me and he says he is not a guy who will leave his family to marry his H love. I really pissed of this situation. He respects every thing which i have did for him but don’t know why he is behaving so cowwardly. He says that he is ready to marry anyone his parents will want him to tve a,and that hurted me like hell. I have decided to leave him but he is not ready to get seperated now he say that i am his one and only love and he can not change . But i cant ruin my life and my future by being with him without commitment. I am totally broken inside out.
Hi parinita!
If he is telling you he cannot leave his family for someone then that’s a pretty big Taurus man thing. They are loyal to their family even if they aren’t particularly happy with their spouse/partner or family members (mom/dad). That being said he pretty much told you what he felt and what is going on. It hurts you, I understand truly I do. The thing is he knows it won’t work due to culture difference. I am so sorry you’re going through this but they say what they mean when they say it though he should have told you sooner instead of dragging you along. If you’d like to know more about Taurus man and how you can try to get him back, you can check out my books on Taurus Man Secrets.
Hi Ana,
I need advice in a very sensitive situation.
I am a Capricorn women having an affair with a Taurus men. We have met online, 8 months ago. I am married and he has an 8 years relationship with a Gemini women. He said from the beginning that he wants a long term extra relationship without having to break-up with the one he is already together. We had a special and interesting connection and we felt in love deeply and madly. Not to mention the sexuality aspect, that was simply amazing between us from the first moment. He said that the things went in a direction that he was not thinking about and he is feeling much more than expected. Even if he started to be possessive and jealous on my husband, he maintained his initial position regarding the relationship he has. I’ve been very jealous and possessive myself too, several times I told him I’m done and I leave him, I provoked intentionally fights just to see how far he can go for me, I was frustrated because we were so happy together and he was not able to be fully mine. He tried each and every time to make things work again, tried to understand me, listened me and gave me as much of his time and affection he could. (when he was not with the Gemini women) However, for me was never enough and I continued until for him the glass was full and said that he cannot continue and he’s done. Even if he said he’s done he still wanted to see each other and discuss about the situation between us, but he was very cold and distant, no physical touch and sweet words anymore. There have been passing 2 weeks from that moment, we have reconnected in the sense that he started to say again that he loves me and we are physical again but I feel that the things are not the same anymore. I initiate more, I say I love him more often, I feel that I am the one who tries more the things to be fixed and to continue. I am not sure if I am for him just someone who is filling the emptiness of his official relationship..or he is connected with me for real. I do understand the stability and comfort he has in his relationship but I do not understand why he continues if he is not happy there. Because he is not. He is Taurus Sun, Capricorn Raising, Scorpio Moon and Mars and Taurus Venus. I am Capricorn Sun, Capricorn Raising, Virgo Moon, Sagittarius Mars and Aquarius Venus. Thanks in advance!
Hi Ellie BM!
Sometimes a Taurus man will stick around in a situation even when he’s not happy because he made a commitment. It’s a red flag that you are his second choice sweetheart. He can tell you anything he wants about his relationship and you are sort of forced to believe it because you don’t have evidence otherwise. You do know that she’s priority though because that’s the commitment he made. If he really wants to be with you, he will leave her and he will be with you. My guess is that it’s not as bad as he makes it out to be but either way, he needs to choose or you need to walk away and concentrate on yourself for awhile to give him time to think about you. You may find more help by reading my book Taurus Man Secrets.
I like a Taurus guy, I’ve known him 2 years and we have been friends. He is hard to read. Lots of mixed signals, I couldn’t tell if he was interested or just being nice. I do think he liked me as he always went out of his way to do things for me, gave me compliments etc. We talked/texted all the time, Usually him reaching out to me first. Anyway fast forward, We were having a conversation one day and I took something that he said wrong and got a lil upset about it. I don’t know why it went over my head and I felt so stupid. I have apologized a few times and wanted to drop it however he just will not talk to me. He’s giving me the silent treatment and it’s killing me. I’ve read that they hold grudges, I really care for him and hope this isn’t the end. I have given him space and have been keeping myself busy. It is frustrating and I wonder if I need to let it go or if maybe there is a chance. I didn’t betray his trust or do anything terrible. I have read they are stubborn but this is killing me. I don’t understand why he can’t just drop it. It was just a misunderstanding. He looks at my social media but not one word. So confused. Should I give up? I am a Gemini btw.
I recently started dating a Taurus man, everything was hot and heavy and amazing until we had a disagreement. It wasn’t a huge disagreement but the emotions for both were very much in there. The subject matter was super small.
We both said it felt different and we were giving it time, in the meantime he still told me he loved me, was super affectionate and loving, but then all of the sudden said he didn’t want to date anymore. He didn’t delete me off social media or anything, and said that he still loved me and cared.
Question I have is it possible to repair this because there was so much love there and I am in disbelief that it is over. I don’t necessarily know what to do right now other than give space, and wait till he reaches out if he will actually reach out. I am an Aries and my instincts are to reach out to him, but I don’t know if that will push him away. Advice is needed
Lucky for him I’m a Virgo! Love him but never tell him; He’s difficult, but a great lover. Let him think he’s in control always. Rages it’s over !!! I walk away crushed ; but mark my calendar,
And there he is….. knocking at the door ; twice now . So yes I take my trips to family out of town or stay away, don’t call him( dying to) two weeks max, he’s casual; “you need to come rub my back”
And yes” when you leaving jokingly, leave me your panties” he loves his time alone; I give him plenty of it” but our get togetherness is for the books!
My Taurus boyfriend finds out I’ve been cheating on him, doing hookup with men, he’s so angry with me right now.
I know I’ve messed things up and I regret every bit of my actions, I love him so much. Please what can I do to bring him back.
I’ve change my ways,,I’m ready to be better girlfriend I need help to get him back to me.
I’m a taurus moon, my son is a taurus
My crush is a taurus my ex that hurt me a taurus
My ex that hurt me is a liar, cheater, user
My son lies to me alot of the time but he’s a good kid too
I know myself and how I am
So in all honesty all of this has me concerned about my crush, he’s living with his ex keeps saying there’s nothing going on but idk if I should believe him I once accidentally dated married taurus he first told me he was single then told me later on that he was married and that’s why he couldn’t spend more time with me. I cut him out he blows up my blocked list. I just don’t know what to do/think about my crush everything was going great till he asked me if I wanted to be intimate with him and I told him he had alot going on which I guess offended him because he asked me what I meant and I just said I don’t want to get hurt again. He called me later to tell me more of his problems and I gave him advice I want to rescue him but ik I can’t he’s a grown man he knows what he’s doing. I’m just really scared I love spending time with him but idk if he’s lieing to me & just looking to be intimate or what
Dear Brooklyn,
Taurus men can be clear to the point of being curt or seeming unkind. They usually can be trusted but there are always exceptions. I would take this to mean he is not open to being in a relationship and is not trying to commit to any specific path in the relationship, since he is living with his ex, if I were you, I would not consider him for a relationship. He may be trying to keep a door open for intimacy if you are already sexually involved, but it seems he is not setting the stage of being in a serious relationship with you. I would not hold high expectations of romance with this person.
All the best to you.