Taurus men are generally uncomplicated creatures. They know what they like, and know what they don’t like. But it isn’t always easy to know if this guy is actually interested in you, now is it?
You might wonder how to text a Taurus man or how to attract a Taurus man over texts to make him yours and make him fall in love with you. You might think it is more difficult than it is, but when it comes to a Taurus man you can be straightforward.
If you follow this guide then you’ll know exactly what to say to a Taurus man to get his attention. You’ll soon be a pro on how to turn on a Taurus man over text. So keep on reading if you think this is exactly what you need to get your Taurus man.
Taurus Man’s Texting Profile – What’s His Texting Style?
Taurus men are generally pretty laid-back and chilled-out guys. Often they keep to themselves and can be a little slow to warm up and reveal much about themselves.
However, this often is very dependent on his Mercury sign. If a Taurus man has Mercury in Taurus he will be a lot more introverted and shy than say a Taurus man with Mercury in Aries or Gemini so it would be a good idea for you to know what his Mercury sign is.
A Taurus man with Mercury in Aries will be straight to the point and very honest. You’ll never have to guess what he is thinking. While a Taurus man with Mercury in Gemini will be extremely chatty and love to communicate with you.
One thing that you will notice is that if a Taurus man likes you he will be extremely consistent in his texting. You’ll probably hear from him every day because the one thing you can count on with a Taurus man is his stability and reliability.
If you want to make sure you get his attention through texts and make him desire you like never before, then I highly recommend learning about a Taurus man’s texting style in my Taurus Text Magic guide.
How To Text a Taurus Man? – 5 Rules to Follow
When texting a Taurus man it is good to keep things easy. This is a man who isn’t too fond of drama and he can get easily overwhelmed if he feels like there is too much pressure on him to perform.
He can have fun while he’s texting someone, but it is also important to know that he has a lot on his plate and won’t always be available, however, he will definitely be consistent.
If a Taurus man likes you, you will hear from him!
When texting a Taurus man, keep things light and follow his lead. Let him set the pace, but do make it obvious that you are interested in him. He needs to know this for reassurance. Here is a list of things to keep in mind when texting a Taurus man:
- Avoid small talk. Keep things interesting and make the text exchange count.
- He is a man of few words, so don’t take it personally if he is short or not extremely chatty.
- He likes to keep things short and sweet. Try not to go overboard by texting him long messages.
- He likes to get flirty and sexual at times, just follow his lead.
- He would much rather get to know you in person than over text. Don’t be hesitant about his invites to meet.
I understand you might think the rules are counterintuitive for anything romantic. But here’s why you should consider doing it anyway. A study from 2018 revealed that similarity in texting styles results in higher relationship satisfaction. So, adjusting your texting style to meet his (in the next stage, he might adjust his too) might be a great start to set the perfect ground for your relationship.
How to Attract a Taurus Man with Texting – 5 Texting Ideas
If you have just started dating a Taurus man then you are probably full of excitement as well as anxiety! There is nothing like the highs of a new relationship.
But, knowing women, you’re probably trying to figure out all the ways you can keep your Taurus man happy and satisfied, especially when it comes to texting. Here are some ideas on how to text a Taurus man:
1. Keeping it Light
The Taurus man doesn’t like to feel pressure or pursued. Read more about it in Does a Taurus man like to be chased. He likes to be the one to do the pursuing. So if you’re going to maintain a healthy flow with a Taurus man; you should keep it light.
What I mean by light is keeping it fun and easy flowing.
Just saying something like “Hey there, hope you’re doing well” or something like a friend would say. This will be enough to make him smile.
At that point, he will then decide if he wants to say something more romantic to you or if he will text you back in the same light way. Either way, talking is something you want him to do.
Ask him how his day is going or wish him a happy day. Doing things like this make you look considerate and easy to talk to.
2. Don’t Panic
Taurus can sometimes become very busy with whatever they are doing and may not text you back right away. It doesn’t mean that he’s necessarily ignoring you. If all seemed well the last time you talked, there is no reason to panic.
If there is something wrong, you’ll know. It’s not at all unusual that he will go hours without saying anything. Have trust in him and he should text you back when he is able to.
If you panic and send him text messages indicating that you’re concerned or that you’re not sure why he hasn’t responded yet; he will take this as you trying to rope him in or control him.
Again, it’s about making the texts easy-breezy for him to feel appreciated and thought about. He loves feeling that way and will want more of it.
However, once you’ve texted him the initial texts, don’t try to monopolize too much of his time. Plus being a little less eager will make him come running to chase you down more.
If you’re more interested in the exact “lines” you can text him, I talk more extensively about that in my Taurus Text Magic guide where you’ll get plenty of ideas on how to react and what to text depending on the situation. And this is especially useful if you’re not dating yet, but just trying to put your spell on him and make him fall for you.
3. Be Flirty
While keeping it somewhat easy-going; you can still flirt. You can even send him a really cute photo of yourself. He’ll enjoy that!
Maybe you’re doing something and you send him a picture of what you’re doing, just to give him a glimpse into your life — of course, don’t seem TOO forward, this is only if you notice that he’s already interested in you. It’s just that you’re already in the “flirting phase” of your relationship.
He’ll imagine what it will be like the next time he sees you. It helps build anticipation. Doing something as simple as “busy day” and sending the photo will make him feel wanted.
This will get his gears going and allow his mind to wander in a very good way. Even saying something like “hello handsome, have a great day” would be great! He’ll likely respond to you in kind.
You can send him a little compliment and then not text him for a few days and see if he texts you first. If he does, that’s a great sign that he’s thinking of you and maybe even misses you a bit.
When you’re being flirty, remember to just keep it down a notch so that it’s enough to make him curious and enough to make him feel he can pursue you to be his. It’s a fine line. You don’t want to turn off his chasing instinct, trust me.
Of course, this doesn’t all have to go by texting him on the phone… it can be on Facebook, or even Instagram. This is, by the way, a great way to start a conversation via text with a Taurus guy.
If you’re friends on Instagram, post a picture as “bait”, so he has a “conversation piece” to use…then if he likes your picture, you can like one back (so he knows you check his profile even though he didn’t post anything new), and this may prompt him to start texting you. He just needs some “bait” to make the first move and a clue that you’re open to being pursued.
4. Fact Finding
I know this is going to sound weird but; if you text him some random fact of the day, he will not only find it intriguing but it will appeal to his intellectual side. He will think how thoughtful you’d share that with him.
He will also see that you’re an intelligent person and want to get closer to you. Even better is to turn him on via things you know he likes. If he’s into animals, dazzle him with the new latest species of frogs.
Seriously; he will fall for it and think it’s amazing that you’re researching these things and are sharing it with him. Whatever it is he’s into, find a way to give him new insight or input. But make it casual, like you “heard about so and so…” and remembered he mentioned that.
Again it’s always good when you have the end goal in mind — is it him asking you out on a date? It’s easier to push in that direction when you have something to talk about.
Texts like these will make him seriously interested in figuring out how much knowledge you’re willing to learn and share with him. That turns him on in a very unique yet special way.
5. Be Sweet and Caring
Try to be very sweet and feminine, but if you aren’t serious yet, don’t be pushy or “too caring” as it will seem oppressive to him. He wants to take his time and so he’ll look for a nice balance to maintain.
What I mean by sweet is by saying “I hope you have a wonderful day, handsome” or something that will appeal to him in a way that indicates you care but without any sort of attachment.
If he detects you’re becoming dependent on him, he will not like it. He doesn’t want a dependent partner until he’s really ready for it. You could also tell him next time you see him, you’d like to get some dessert.
Dessert is literally very sweet and will probably appeal to him. Taurus loves food and extravagance so he’ll appreciate it. It’s also a great way to “bait” him via text to get asked out on a date, if you’re still in that phase of your relationship.
The suggestion of FOOD alone will probably make his mouth water. Even better, text him back (if he asks what you’re up to), that you’re thinking about what to cook for dinner tonight. Maybe you can make it a date. And a Taurus LOVES a woman that knows how to make delicious food more than any other sign.
All in all, find ways that you can be creative, helpful, caring, and interesting. These types of texts will make him feel as though you’re really going all out but not being too aggressive which is perfect.
He wants to be the one pursuing you and making sure he’s being the man he knows he needs to be. It will make him more comfortable.
If you’re ready to dive deeper and start your journey to unconditional love with your Taurus man, first you have to learn how to communicate with him.
What To Say To A Taurus Man To Get His Attention?
Taurus men don’t need a lot. They’re pretty happy with the simplest things in life. What they really desire is peace, harmony, beauty, and stability. Much of this has to do with the fact that Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus.
Venus is the planet of love, beauty, aesthetics, romance, and money. If you can zoom into any of these themes you will be golden and make your Taurus man feel really comfortable around you.
Talk to your Taurus man about art, music, culture, galleries, food, gardening, bitcoin, investments, and ask him about the things that make him feel most secure in life.
Your Taurus man will instantly think that the two of you have a lot in common if you focus on these subjects. However, a lot of this is determined by your Taurus man’s Mercury sign. But the above subjects will intrigue any Taurus man.
There are some things you can say to a Taurus man to make him curious about you, if you want to know more check out this link about a Taurus man’s communication hooks and what gets him addicted to a woman.
Don’t be too aggressive and pushy with a Taurus man over text. You want to warm him up slowly like an oven and not a microwave. He really takes his time to get his guard down, so don’t take it too personally if you feel like you’re not getting through to him.
Watch this video if you want to learn more about his communication style.
Can You Make a Taurus Man Fall In Love With You Over Text? – How To Do It
Taurus men may be simple in their desires, but when it comes to their ideal relationship a Taurus man expects a lot and has very high standards. This guy is looking for someone who can tick all of the boxes. There is a certain energy you need to project for a Taurus man to fall for you. How to do this? Easy! Just follow everything precisely in this article.
A Taurus man desires certain behaviours in his ideal partner, he wants to be with someone who is loyal, reliable, stable, beautiful, and sensual. It is pretty easy to project these attributes if you know what you are doing.
It is important that you show your Taurus man that you know how to be loyal to get him to fall for you. An easy way for you to do this over text is to make him understand that you only have eyes for him (I would suggest only doing this if the two of you have established a relationship together because he might feel too much pressure otherwise.)
Taurus men are slightly insecure as well and this is why security is so important to them. This is why it is a good idea for you to reassure him of your feelings over text. If he compares himself to other men then you should let him know that you can’t think of anyone better than him. Make him understand that he is the only one for you.
He is a big lover of beauty, meaning he usually has pretty good taste when it comes to things like art, film, design, interiors, etc. Pique his interest by expressing the things you love when it comes to art. He needs to know that the two of you have many things in common.
How to Seduce a Taurus Man Over Text – Turn Him On With These 3 Hot Texts
Taurus men are big softies and very romantic. They really appreciate it when a woman makes the moves and shows that she is interested in him. However, sometimes you need to be really obvious with your Taurus man to make him understand that you want him.
It is good to make your Taurus man associate you with sexuality and sensuality. It’ll get his mind spinning and make him see you in a new light. This is why texting can be so powerful with a Taurus man because it builds tension and makes him feel intrigued and curious by you.
Here is what you need to text a Taurus man to seduce him. These are some of the different scenarios you might find yourself in. You’ll drive him crazy if you know what to say to him.
1. If You Want to Spice Up Romance With Your Taurus Man
If your Taurus man has not been physically affectionate or you want to really grab his attention, say something forward like this:
“I’ve been thinking about how fun it would be to get away to a romantic cabin in the woods with you for a weekend.”
That’s it. Let his imagination fill in the details.
You’ll probably get a response that he is free this weekend. A Taurus man loves romance. This text is a good option if you had a few dates but things just never seemed to heat up. You may also want to use this if you’ve hit a stale spot in your romance and you want to spark a flame.
2. If You Want to Reignite the Passion With Your Taurus Man
If you’re looking to stoke passion with your Taurus man who has fallen into a routine, here is a great text to remind him what he’s missing:
“I’m getting a new sexy outfit to wear for you.”
I know this type of message works for Taurus men. It’s simple and appeals to their ruling planet, Venus, which is all about beauty.
Think about celebrity Taurus David Beckham. He sought a woman who looks like a Greek goddess because, let’s face it, Taurus is into aesthetics. When we appeal to the sensual nature of a Bull and his love for romance, it taps into his core values.
3. If Your Taurus Man Is Not Emotionally Available
If your Bull is getting over someone else or just not sure he is ready for a relationship, this is a good text to shoot to him:
“I know you’re not looking for a serious thing, let’s just relax and have some fun this Friday.”
This can help your Taurus man feel that his emotions are valid and that you respect where he is right now without pressure.
If you don’t force him into something, he will see that you care for him, and maybe one day he will be ready. Respect is important to a Taurus man, and he needs you to show him that.
3 Texts that make a Taurus Man Melt
Knowing what to say to your Taurus man can make or break your relationship. Texting isn’t his forte, but if you know how to text well then you can grow your relationship in leaps and bounds.
It is so important that you learn to know exactly what to say to a Taurus man to get his attention. He is a lot simpler than he thinks he is, you have all the power in this situation, girl!
1. “I’ve been thinking about you”
A Taurus man always wants to know that you’re thinking of him. Whether that means it’s in friendship or in a romantic way. He will think you’re very considerate and sweet.
Always try to keep it light with him via text message, because he’d rather talk about the important stuff in person or over a phone call. He isn’t one to want to text a whole lot.
This is why you have to keep your texts somewhat low-key and devoid of drama. Don’t come on strong and don’t ever repeat yourself, if you can help it.
A simple text such as, “I’ve been thinking about you,” or, “you’ve been in my head,” will warm the Taurus man’s heart for sure. It lets him know that he means something to you. It may also intrigue him enough to ask you: “in what way?”
A little mystery is a good thing! Getting him to ask you questions is a form of flirtation with this brainy guy.
Taurus men are a different breed. They are the tough exterior with a huge heart they don’t want anyone to know about. They’re really just big tough teddy bears.
When a Taurus man starts to fall for a woman, he wants to know what he crosses her mind often. When he commits, he wants her to prove he’s the only one.
You’re covering a few bases when you’re letting your Taurus guy know that he’s on your mind.
To make it even better, you can send that message with a sweet photo of yourself. He’ll love that!
That puts you fresh on his mind. You absolutely want that to happen.
When I say “sweet,” I do mean a wholesome photo of you. Spicy photos will only put him into sex mode if he even replies at all.
Keep it nice and tidy. You’ll find he gives you a far better reaction and will pay attention to you. It makes his teddy bear side come out!
2. “Have a great day, handsome!”
This text lets him know you care about how his day will go and you’re complimenting him on being handsome. That’s a win/win type of text.
You can also say, “Have a great week, handsome,” if you don’t want to text daily. Personally, I think doing this every other day is a good practice if you want to show interest in your Taurus.
Sending this every single day may seem too eager or needy but if you send it every other day or every couple of days, it sets the tone of a healthy connection.
The idea with this approach is that you’re letting him know you are thinking of him, you care about him, and you think he’s good-looking. If that doesn’t melt his heart then nothing will!
He likes compliments but not too often, so mix it up a bit when you tell him to have a great day or week.
I wouldn’t throw around ‘sexy’ too often, as that will make him think you only want him for sex which is alright for a fling but not for long-lasting love.
The Taurus man wants to hear from you even if he’s not initiating texts to you. He’s one of the worst at initiating.
Even if he starts out being the one to do it, he will start to slack off eventually. Don’t let it hurt you or confuse you. It’s nothing personal; he’s just getting comfortable enough to let you take the lead.
Your sweet-hearted texts will absolutely make a Taurus man’s heart melt. When you’re caring, then he knows he means something to you.
3. “I need your help with something”
The Taurus man does like to help a woman in need. It brings out his hero mode. It also makes him feel good if you’re asking him for advice. It doesn’t matter what it is, go on and ask him!
He really feels valued when you ask him for his expertise or help. The Taurus man wants to be the man in your life. I wouldn’t do this too often, otherwise, it makes you seem weak and needy.
The idea is that you’re asking him for his guidance or assistance with something. It makes him feel wanted and appreciated by you. This text is something that always gets the Taurus man’s attention.
It is definitely a text that will make a Taurus man’s heart melt. He gets to be a man who is taking care of a woman. That’s his favorite role in life!
Think of things that you can ask for his help with. Tell him about the fact that you want a raise but aren’t sure how to ask for it at work.
Trust me when I tell you that Taurus men LOVE to give advice. I kid you not, they sometimes give you advice that you didn’t ask for… but that’s another story for another time.
When you’re trying to get closer to him and build a lasting relationship, you should periodically ask for his input.
Have a problem with your car? Ask him what he knows or if he can help you with it.
Buy a piece of furniture and ask him if he can help you move it into your place. That way you’re inviting him into your home and he’s having the satisfaction of helping you.
When you do that, make sure that your home is very comfortable for him. Have some kind of vanilla scent (candle, incense, perfume), as that is a perfect scent for him.
It’s also a great way to have him there to chat with him for a while. This works great if you’re not dating him quite yet. This may make him open his eyes and heart up to you.
7 Texts That Make A Taurus Man Chase you
There are certain things you need to learn to drive a Taurus man completely crazy. What you want to do is to have him thinking about you all the time. You have that power if you know how to text a Taurus man.
If that is what you want, then memorize these texts and you’ll have your Taurus man eating out the palm of your hand in no time!
1. If He’s Barely Communicating
If you’re struggling to get inside his head, send this and watch how it gets him to respond:
“Hey there, I just wanted to say I’m really glad you have your own life outside of our relationship because I know how valuable friends and family are to you. I’m glad they mean so much to you, and I’m looking forward to our next date when we can both just relax.”
Notice how this text doesn’t put him down but compliments him for being a loyal friend and family member. You are adding positive energy to his day and not trying to boss him around. There is no pressure, and you’re honoring his need to nurture his other close relationships.
2. If Your Taurus Man Is Too Busy
If it seems like your Bull never has time for you, remind him how fun it is to set aside time for romance. These Earth signs take pride in their thoroughness and helping others, so sometimes they just need a reminder to not be all work and no play. Try this:
“Hey there, I know you’ve been working hard, so when you’re ready to reward yourself, let’s go to your favorite restaurant and unwind with some drinks xoxo.”
This message shows him you have respect for his work ethic and that you want to celebrate his natural diligence—and it doesn’t put him down for being himself. It also draws on his natural love for food and fun with a hint that you want to kiss him at the end.
3. If You Had an Argument With Your Taurus Man
If you’ve been giving each other the cold shoulder after a disagreement and you’re ready to melt the ice, appeal to his love of building things and invite him to come help you with a home project. Send him something like this:
“Hey there, I’m baking some delicious treats and working on a home renovation project this weekend if you want to lend your expertise.”
This compliments his skills and appeals to his sweet tooth.
Think of something you want to do to make your home a more enjoyable place, and there you go—you have a romantic date! Your Bull doesn’t tend to hold grudges, and he loves being helpful, so instead of dwelling on the past, create a fun future where he can feel good about himself—with you at his side.
4. If your Taurus Man is Stressed Out
If your Taurus man has been stressed and it’s making him avoid you, here is a text to send positive energy into his day—and he’ll trace those positive feelings back to you:
“I know things have been stressful. I recently found this hilarious movie and would love to watch it with you sometime to take your mind off of things.”
This is a simple offer of friendship, which all good relationships are built on. Taurus values this bond and needs to feel like he has that it with you to feel safe. If you act needy or shun him for not being as into you as you’d like, it’ll only make him more uncomfortable. This text will bring some positive rejuvenation to the dynamic between you two.
5. If You Have Been Texting Frequently
This might not be that pleasant for you, but if you have been texting your Taurus man quite frequently and have a good thing going with him. It wouldn’t hurt for you to just slightly lean back a bit and perhaps leave him on read for a bit.
You need to sometimes shake things up and make him feel what it would be like if you weren’t always around. This is simply a tactic to make him miss you and wonder where you are.
Of course, don’t take it too far and make him super insecure because that might backfire. Just leave him guessing for a few hours and you will notice him being more attentive than usual.
It is good to show him that you are independent and have your own life or he might start becoming too complacent. Make him realise he needs to work for it and that you set high standards for yourself.
6. Complement His Best Qualities
A Taurus man is a lot more insecure than you or him might realize. This is a guy that takes very long to open up and let his guard down because he is deathly afraid of getting hurt. Reassure him by saying this:
“You’re really interesting, this is why I enjoy talking to you so much.”
You’re giving him a compliment and making him feel good. It is necessary that your Taurus man knows that you find him interesting and want to know more about him. This should help him to open up more and show you who he really is on the inside.
7. Appeal To His Sensuality
A Taurus man is very aware of the best of the best. This is what he strives for in life. He wants to know that he has the best things money can buy or experience. This is especially true when it comes to food. To get him really excited, text him this:
“Have you tried this new restaurant? I just went and it was incredible! Perhaps we can go there for a catch up?”
A Taurus man can never give up on good food. This is what drives his passion in life. You’re appealing to all his senses by texting him this. And it is the perfect opportunity to arrange a sexy date with him.
If your Taurus man pulls away, DON’T do this…
I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Taurus man is AMAZING when they are in person with him…
So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!
But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.
It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.
“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”
“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”
And most importantly…
“What can I DO about this?”
First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation…
- Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
- Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
- Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
- Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
- Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.
- Don’t stalk him on social media. Give him space.
- Don’t get upset with him or freak out. This will only push him away.
- Don’t ignore him so he can “see what it feels like.”
- Don’t get needy, jealous, or beg for reassurance.
So what SHOULD you do instead?
- Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
- Date other men if you aren’t exclusive. Don’t lock yourself down with him if you aren’t yet in a committed relationship with him.
- Give him space and time with zero pressure. He might be overwhelmed with work or not be feeling well.
- Focus on your own life. If you don’t have an epic life filled with hobbies and time with friends or family, you need to build that.
Your Taurus man should be the sprinkles on the cupcake of your awesome life, not the cupcake itself.
- Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Taurus men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
- Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or a even day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
- Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
- When your Taurus man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.
- When you are in person, let him know (kindly) the things that make you feel valued and adored.
Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.
I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Taurus man is pulling away.
And there is no need for you to do that.
Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with his heart through text messages…
Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology…
He WON’T be pulling away anymore.
And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Taurus man through text anymore.
Go see what I mean here now so he never pulls away again.
Wishing you love and luck,
Your Sister and Relationship Astrologer,