Taurus Man Secretly In Love (9 Telltale Signs To Look Out For)

by Anna-Kovach, relationship astrologer
One clear sign is that he will go out of his way to ignore you. Read on to find out all about a Taurus man secretly in love signs.

Taurus men… well what can you say? They can be pretty hard to read because they are always so self-assured and calm, they never give anything away. So, how can you tell if a Taurus man is secretly in love? What signs should you look out for?

These guys are pretty incredible and make wonderful romantic partners. They tick all the boxes, especially if you are a woman who enjoys romance, sensuality, stability, and security in a relationship.

A Taurus man is subtle, especially when he is smitten because he has a lot of fears that you don’t reciprocate his feelings. This is why Taurus men will actually start to back away and ignore you when he is secretly in love with you.

The thing is, a Taurus man is deeply sensitive and hates getting hurt, so he is always going to be a little bit cautious and careful when it comes to falling in love. He is so scared of getting hurt that he takes himself out of the game completely.

Read on to find out telltale signs a Taurus man secretly likes you…

Are Taurus Men Shy When They Like Someone?

When a Taurus man falls in love with you, he will act like other men do when they are really not that interested. He will be shy and avoid eye contact and he will talk to other people while appearing to not hear a word you say.

This is just his way of trying to figure out if you are as interested in him as he is in you, and whether he can take the plunge without getting hurt. He might act a little coy and like he doesn’t notice you exist, but the contrary is true, all he can think about is you!

He just doesn’t want to appear desperate or make it too obvious that he has feelings for you. Love can be quite daunting for a Taurus man!

Let’s take a look at some of the Taurus man secretly in love signs and what you can do to help him feel comfortable and confident around you.

3 Telltale Signs A Taurus Man Is Secretly In Love With You

When you first start dating a Taurus man, you might be a little unsure as to what to expect of him. He is always so cool, calm, and collected, which makes it totally impossible to get an accurate read on him.

It can be hard to figure out what are the signs that a Taurus man is really into you if you don’t know him that well yet. Some of the things he does may leave you feeling really confused and might even come across as disinterested in you.

If you would like to look out for the surefire signs about Taurus man intentions about you, check out my recent blog post.

It is so confusing, but here is a list of things you can look out for to determine if a Taurus man is secretly in love with you:

It Feels Like He’s Deliberately Ignoring You

A Taurus man may go out of his way to avoid talking to you directly and if you are in a group, then he may find a way to never be close to you or make eye contact.

If you talk, he may suddenly become engrossed in reading the menu or staring out of the window. This means he is actually crazy about you and is still trying to absorb that fact himself.

A Taurus man is a little awkward when it comes to love and might fumble whenever he is around you.

Read alsoWhen A Taurus Man Ignores You — Here’s What To Do

He Will Seem Unaffected By Your Presence

A Taurus man secretly in love will get a strange sense of purpose and confidence that he doesn’t normally have. He may appear to you to have lost all interest and not even be aware that you exist.

Inside he is just feeling the strength of his feeling and desperately trying not to show it. Be patient and give him time. His love is worth waiting for. He’s just a little unsure of himself and unsure of how you feel about him as well. Until he is certain he is going to play it quite cool!

When A Taurus Man Avoids Eye Contact

All you need to do to know if a Taurus man is madly in love is to look into his eyes. He can’t help showing exactly how he feels, and that is why he may be avoiding eye contact and acting like he hardly knows you.

Be patient and stay open to him, he will find the courage to show his love in good time. The thing with a Taurus man is that he likes to take things slow and steady. He wants to build a strong foundation so he isn’t going to act super-hot for you from the get-go. He wants to be sure!

How To Tell If A Taurus Man Is In Love With You (6 Surefire Signs)

If you have been dating a Taurus man for a while now, you may be used to him and understand him a bit more than when you first started getting to know him. But you still might wonder if a Taurus man is in love with you yet.

Of course, as things in the relationship progress so will the way he shows his love and affection for you. When a Taurus man is in love the way he shows his love will become deeper and more meaningful. You will know for sure!

A Taurus man is deeply affectionate, especially when he is in love. Here are some of the signs a Taurus man is in love with you:

1. His Lovemaking Style Will Become Softer

When a Taurus man is trying to impress and win you over, he will try to be a sex god in bed, but once he is in love, he will want to kiss you more and will become much softer and more vulnerable.

A Taurus man is incredibly sensual and one of the best lovers you could ever imagine. He will go out of his way to make you feel pleasure, but he will also be deeply intimate and stare into your eyes as he makes love to you. It will be quite a moving experience for you both.

Enjoy it, this is just the beginning of what he is when he is in love.

Learn here how a Taurus man expresses his love for you <<

2. He Will Make Expensive Gestures

A Taurus man is very much defined by material luxuries and when he really loves someone, he will make gestures that give away how valuable you are in his eyes. One of his love languages is definitely gift-giving and he will shower you with presents as often as the mood takes him.

When a Taurus man is in love with you, he wants you to feel special and know how much you mean to him. The more he gives, the more he cares about you.

These gestures are not always expensive in a money sense, he may invite you to visit his senile grandmother, which in his eyes is a step closer to marriage. He’ll be very generous with his time and his energy when he thinks you are worth it.

3. He Will Show Concern For Your Safety

Taurus men are possessive and obsessed with security so one way they show love is to be very concerned with how safe and secure you are. This is expressed in being protective and even bossy about the risks you take and the choices you make.

Take it as a compliment and show your appreciation, because if you fight him off or show that you don’t need him, he will find it harder to come to terms with being head over heels in love. He just wants to know that you are okay and will do anything to ensure it!

When a Taurus man says he loves you – Can you trust him? Find out here <<

4. He Will Boast About You Or Quote You When He Talks

A Taurus man secretly in love may go to a lot of trouble to look like he doesn’t even care, but he won’t be able to resist dropping your name or quoting things you say into his everyday conversation.

Listen for how much he loves you in how much he weaves you and your opinions into his everyday communication. You are probably more on his mind than you realize! When a Taurus man falls in love a lot of his energy is spent thinking about his woman.

5. He Will Turn Up The Sensual Heat

Love, for a Taurus man, is an expression of tantalizing tastes, sounds, and smells. Watch for subtle signs like a few more candles, fresh flowers, or a specially prepared home-cooked meal.

He may take more care with his appearance or get a new haircut, and all of these are hidden signs that he is madly and badly in love.

If he runs a big hot bath and lights candles or fills the house with exotic smells, take that as your cue to be willing and receptive to his brand of enduring, faithful love. This is a major sign a Taurus man secretly likes you.

Read next: When A Taurus Man Decides You’re The One (Signs He Is Ready To Commit)

6. He Will Confide In You

Trust is a major issue for a Taurus man and he will only confide his most deeply hidden shameful secrets to someone he completely trusts and loves.

When he does this, you need to take him seriously and guard his confidence in you as you would your own life. You need to create the conditions where he will feel secure enough to bare his heart and soul, so don’t react to his mixed signals – just stay interested and available to him and this will coax him out of his shell.

Why A Taurus Man Will Love You Better Than Anyone Else?

Taurus men are the natural lovers of the Zodiac but they take their time to show how much they are, and they remain hard to read and strange in their behavior until they feel completely comfortable and safe.

Trust me, it’s worth the wait, and your patience will pay off because once they commit and feel OK with being in love, they are the best lovers around. There is no one who will make you feel more loved and appreciated than your Taurus man, you are seriously lucky!

Taurus Men Are Stubbornly In Love

Have you ever partnered up with someone whose love felt dependent on other things, like what you can provide for them? Are you sick of fair-weather lovers?

Well then, you’re going to want to get your hands on a Taurus man! Once a Taurus man is in love, he’s never falling out of it.

Taurus is a fixed earth sign. They are known for their ability to remain steady and faithful to their given cause (like a relationship!). They grow where they are planted and they aren’t dreaming of better things… they like right where they’re at, and if that’s by your side then all the better!

Taurus men don’t think about breaking up unless something is seriously wrong. Their affection for you is yours and only yours! They stand firm in their love for you no matter what.

A Taurus man will be incredibly loyal and want to be by your side forever. When a Taurus man commits to someone, it is for life! You’re a lucky girl to have found such a loyal and loving partner.

The Snuggles Are Out Of This World

How To Know If A Taurus Man Loves You

Taurus’ are highly physical signs. They love all things tactile and beautiful. So, is it any surprise that they want their hands all over you all the time?

The Taurus man is not the type of guy who needs physical space and who needs to take a breather from cuddles after a while. He’d rest happily in your arms and never leave if it was up to him. If you like to have your guy within close proximity most of the time then the Taurus is your dream match!

Make sure that when you’re with a Taurus the two of you find plenty of time to stay in bed and snuggle while snacking and watching TV. This is prime bonding time in the eyes of the Taurus and he’ll deeply appreciate holding you in his arms from morning until night.

Actually, Taurus men have one of the most specific love languages of all zodiac signs. I covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Taurus Man Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language.

They’ll Spoil You

Earth signs in general are associated with money and abundance, and this goes double for Taurus who is ruled by the money planet, Venus! This isn’t to say that every Taurus is rich, but they’re more likely to be well off than almost any other sign. He’s dedicated enough to stick with one line of business until it rewards him and this helps him rake in the dough.

As a result, Taureans love to show their love by giving things that they know their lover will enjoy. As such, the partner of the Taurus will know when they are on their lovers’ minds because they’ll be showered in any number of gifts. Flowers are a favorite of Taurus’ for gift giving because they grow from the Earth and have a natural beauty.

Always be appreciative of the gifts that he’s given to you so that he knows you see his effort. He’s going to always give you the objects that you desire as long as you show him that he’s your one and only. If you’re with a Taurus, you are officially the envy of us all!

Taurus’ Love Love

As I mentioned, Taurus’ are ruled by Venus. Venus not only rules money, but it’s more famous for ruling love and romance! Taurus’ are one sign that more than most, is heavily associated with love and partnership. They love coming home to someone who is happy to see them walk in the door.

He takes a while to settle into a relationship because everything a Taurus does is slow (well, most things). Once he decides that you’re his girl then that’s it! He loves being in love with you and he will go above and beyond to make you feel as loved and appreciated as you make him feel.

Taurus’ are romantic and so he’ll appreciate gestures of love. He doesn’t need anything flashy, just genuine displays of affection with real feelings behind it. Taurus looks for substance in a relationship and so whatever you say to him, back it up with real action and true intent.

Incredible Sex!

If you’ve been treating your Taurus man well and making him feel appreciated, not only will he cover you in cuddles, smooches, and fine jewelry, but he will also give you some out of this world sex! Yes indeed, these guys enjoy sex more than most things because of how sensual and hands-on it is.

Taurus men are pleasure-seeking beings. They want very much to make sure that they’re feeling relaxed and totally happy as much as possible, as often as possible. And if he really loves you then he is going to want to ensure that you’re feeling the same ecstasy that he’s feeling.

He’s a great sport in bed and he will take his sweet time giving you all the pleasure in the world. He’s motivated by real, tangible satisfaction. This means that he won’t be theatrical and he won’t be over the top… he’ll just get the job done better than most men could ever dream!

No More Sleepless Nights About Your Taurus Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Taurus man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there.

I remember crying myself to sleep worried about whether my man would EVER commit to me. And there were a TON of nights when I just couldn’t sleep at all. I lost hours of time from work and doing things I loved…

All because I couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart… How to get him to see what a catch I am… And to finally commit to me.

It made me feel incredibly insecure…

And I’m an extremely confident woman. I’d never had a man not fall for me quickly. EVER.

But… I KNEW how good he was for me, so I didn’t want to give up.

All my friends kept telling me to just move on. They couldn’t see what I saw…

That he was the most INCREDIBLE man I’d ever met.

How could I just give up on that???

I couldn’t!

And now, looking back, I’m SO grateful that I DIDN’T listen to my friends. He is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met. And now we’re happily married.

But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.

I had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<

And it worked!!

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Taurus man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

>> Go here now to see how to speak your Taurus man’s love language.

xoxo, Anna

Anna Kovach

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

24 thoughts on “Taurus Man Secretly In Love (9 Telltale Signs To Look Out For)

  1. I do all of these when it said we will protect her a “friend” said he was going to rape her so everyday I would watch out for him till I got the ok to stop (I didn’t stop)

  2. Lol I’m dating Taurus, though kinda stressful but this is all true about him and more. I love him anyways

  3. i’m dating a Taurus i love him so much he treat me like i am someone i’m get use to it i know this is true and he loves me and he cares about me

  4. I’m so confused!! I fell hard for him but feel like I got ghosted! I thought we had a connection?? Don’t know confused

    1. Sue he probably really likes you. My guy dated me 6 months, fell off the planet for 3 months then popped back up like nothing happened. I laid down the law at that point and now we’ve been dating again 2 months and it’s really progressed. Just be patient don’t bug him and move forward making yourself happy and strong. If it’s meant to be then you’ll know. They have a totally different concept of time haha

      1. CoCo,

        I’m dating a taurus man, he was my first at 15 years of age, haven’t seen him in 20 years, so we ran back into each other last year in June we actually started dating June the 13th of 2019, so when I tell you this guy knows how to get distant boy he knows how. It can be weeks I don’t see him but we text and talk over the ☎, here it is almost a whole year he’s moved in his house I haven’t been by not seen it yet should I worry that he’s interested in someone else

    2. Hi Sue!

      I think Liz is probably correct. He probably likes you and it scared the heck out of him so he went quiet. This is not a new thing for Taurus men. They are terrified of their own feelings even though they don’t seem like it. I would do as Liz suggested. It’s probably good to work on yourself and your own happiness. Give him some time and you may see a change in him. Backing off may cause him to think about things and decide he’d like to be with you.

  5. Been dating a Taurus guy for about a year. We’ve been on two cruises several trips and he still act like he’s not into me.. He pays for everything but he does exactly what you said he do he ignores me when he’s around other people he acts shy with me he won’t make eye contact and I’m like what? do the guy like me or not but I guess he must love me according to what you said I don’t know

    1. Hi Chacha!

      That does sound a bit odd and if I were you, I’d talk to him about it. Tell him that you’re feeling that he’s not really into you and that you’d like to know if that’s true or not. He should tell you the truth. If he doesn’t tell you he wants to be with you then you’ll know for sure. He should give you more effort and pay more attention to you. Not making eye contact indicates he’s hiding something. Talk to him!

  6. My husband was Taurus.Loyal beyond belief yet anger issue ever present.After dating a different men I am now dating another Taurus.Hopefully no anger problem here.Taurus men are difficult and cold they really don’t show emotions yet I missed the stability,not to worry about checking other women now it feels familiar and good to me.Taurus is not for everyone.

    1. Hi Pisces!

      Taurus men are stubborn which can lead to a nasty temper at times. It takes a lot to tick them off but when they reach that point, they are brutal. Yes, they are difficult but once you find out a formula for what works between the two of you, you’ll find success. I wish you all the best!

  7. I met this Taurean guy at an event just once, I am friends with his colleague. My friend introduced us for a bit and that was it, he left for another city the next morning. He seemed quiet and awkward, my first impression.
    Seven months later I followed him on Instagram and he followed me back. I was the first one to say “hi” and he remembered me from that night. Then we’d speak on and off. He’d reply to my stories, like my posts. Then one day he shared about his life with me, his childhood which wasn’t so good, his family, his ex gf etc. He said that he finds himself hideous and that he had a lot of self worth issues. His exes had treated him badly. Indirectly, he also said that I’m beautiful and attractive. He shows care and concern for me like if I’m not well, he’ll tell me to do this and that… I gave him indirect hints that I like him but he said to me that he is very focused on his career right now and very grateful and content in life. He had a hard time after his gf broke up with him. He also shared that he loves the idea of marriage and kids but his work is such that the financial security wouldn’t be there. He’s a freelancer but is also looking for a job now also. He keeps saying that he’s broke and he wouldn’t even marry himself. When I told him I would marry him jokingly, he said, it would be a bad decision on my part. He said you should go for a man with a good bank balance. I was kinda hurt when he said that. I was the first one to ask for a number, call him over the phone as he lives in a different city. We spoke for long. I called him again after a month, we spoke for long again he shares his intimate details and dreams with me. I really wanna tell him I really like him but I wonder if that’s gonna end up hurting me. He does kinda text me everyday. But I do wonder why doesn’t he call me? He also shared that he’s an extremely shy and an awkward person. I’m very confused with his behavior. Does he like me? If yes, why is he discouraging me to like him? Or does it mean he doesn’t like me? I also feel sometimes, maybe he’s testing me. It makes me mad sometimes. But he’s such an intelligent, nice, genuine and caring person. It’s been two months since I’ve been talking to him. I feel should stop talking to him and then he messages… I don’t know what to do. This man is making me crazy.

    1. Eve, from a taurean guy, from what you say maybe he’s afraid to fail again & hurt you in the process, our own manly conflicts too often gets in the way of our happiness but we don’t know how to overcome this situation, perfect we know we are not

    2. Hi Eve!

      It honestly sounds like your guy is insecure about himself. He feels he cannot give you what you deserve which means he actually does like you. I know that sounds confusing but if you really care for him, you’ll have to hang in there and show him with time that you’re not going to run away from him. If you haven’t heard from him, reach out! You may have to initiate more in order to keep his attention but eventually he’ll make it worth your while. If you need to know more, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  8. Hi there gorgeous soul Anna, from the depth of my heart as a Taurus man I worship your insight into Us & thankyou for putting it out there. Just read thru your 30 little secrets booklet, girl you have taught me things about myself I’ve been confused by. Ladies believe that this girl is right on the money, believe in what she’s saying. BTW Anna thanx for letting me know that it’s a bull trait re the girly side(we’d neva admit to that-fear seen as weak,yes rediculous) I laughed so hard I fell off my chair, love 2 both yourself & Frank.

    1. Hi Stephen!

      Blessings to you! Thank you for commenting and being so sweet. My husband is Taurus and so I have plenty of knowledge. I am also glad I could help a man like you. I try to help ladies but if it helps men too then it’s fantastic. Haha glad you got a good chuckle! Love to you as well.

  9. I had dated a taurus man for 5 months. Our relationship is good and we’re happy but then all of a sudden he pulls away and then he blocked me in social media without saying anything. We’re in a long distance relationship. We didn’t fight the last time we talked. After that he didnt contact me for three weeks. I just saw my messenger and fb that I was blocked already by him. He ghosted me and blocked me that I don’t know the reason why he did that. I was hurt ’cause I don’t know what to think. Does he really love me or why he ignores me? Feels like he is totally mad or hates me. This is the first time he did this to me. I don’t k know why he became cold all of a sudden and ignores me. I also message him in his personal number but he didnt replied me. So I stop talking to him but still I don’t know what his reason why he did this to me. There’s so much question in my mind but I don’t know the answer. Its been a month already and still I can’t stop thinking why?

    1. Hi Black Beauty!

      If he blocked you and didn’t tell you why then he must have met someone else and doesn’t want to fess up about it. Normally a Taurus man will plan a break up ahead of time but you’ll at least find out why he feels it’s not working unless he’s cheating or seeing someone new. Blocking you and ghosting you is definitely due to someone else. It’s possible someone told him something untrue about you also that made him have a quick change of heart. It would appear that he’s not going to answer you for awhile. I’m so sorry that this happened. I hope your heart mends quickly and you’re able to find someone who is on the same page and will stay there!

  10. Hi there gorgeous soul Anna, from the depth of my heart as a Taurus man I worship your insight into Us & thankyou for putting it out there. Just read thru your 30 little secrets booklet, girl you have taught me things about myself I’ve been confused by. Ladies believe that this girl is right on the money, believe in what she’s saying. BTW Anna thanx for letting me know that it’s a bull trait re the girly side(we’d neva admit to that-fear seen as weak,yes rediculous) I laughed so hard I fell off my chair, love 2 both yourself & Frank.

    1. Hi Book Cellar!

      Thank you so much for your feedback and sweet compliments. I really appreciate that. I also appreciate that you’ve let me know that the books have helped you as well. I wasn’t expecting men to see it as useful so much as the women. Blessings for you chiming in. You’re a gem!

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