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Taurus Man Being Hot And Cold All The Time- What To Do?

Have you met a Taurus man with whom things got hot really quickly and then he suddenly turns into a cold fish? Perhaps he’s dodging your phone calls, texts, or has stopped asking you out on dates. What is going on? Keep reading on why is your Taurus man being hot and cold all the time.

Moves Too Quickly

Taurus men are known to be slow movers. That being said; you need to know that if a Taurus man moves quickly; something is not right. They normally don’t do this and if they do; they will regret it.

In fact; this is often what happens when he comes on so strong and then suddenly disappears. It leaves many women very confused and hurt. He doesn’t mean to do this but sometimes his self-worth is involved here.

When he meets a woman who is loving, adores him, and seems to have it all together; he feels he may have found the right woman for himself. Sounds romantic right? This is when he pours his heart out and women think the world of him.

Women fall in love with his man when he lays it on thick. It’s hard to resist him. However; he begins to think about the ramifications of his actions and then he decides he needs time to think.

He’ll do this by taking the time and not letting the woman know what his mental state is and what is going on. He’ll just stop talking, will be less attentive or affectionate, or will stop talking for a while.

Some Taurus men disappear altogether until he figures himself out, what he wants, and that the woman he let go of was probably really good for him. This is when he’ll re-emerge and be all hot and heavy again.

The bottom line here is that Taurus man should never jump into a relationship quickly. He shouldn’t but sometimes he does. If you’re the target of his affection; you may need to put the brakes on yourself.

Just be careful because if you hold him off too much; he may decide that you don’t really want him anymore and will disappear thus moving on. Just ask him to go a little slower so you can really get to know each other.

Beware of the Taurus Man That Instantly Wants Marriage

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If you already read what I wrote above; you’ll understand what I mean by this statement. No Taurus man should be telling you after a very short time that he wants you to be his wife.

Taurus men need a great deal of time to make sure they have their own head together and have their ducks in a row. If he tells a woman how much he loves her and wants to marry her before he should; he will definitely shut himself down.

He begins to realize that he’s moved way too fast and that he isn’t totally sure if this woman is the right one or if he’s even really ready to open his heart to someone let alone make a commitment.

Taurus men can sometimes let their fantasies and dreamy side take over. They want the happiness they know they deserve so sometimes it’s hard for them to resist when they meet a terrific lady who has lots to offer him.

If you find that you’ve met a Taurus man who in a very short time is telling you he wants to marry you, wants to have kids with you, etc; please be very careful. Ask him to move a little slower.

Even if your heart wants to leap and do what he’s suggesting; realize that he’s probably not thinking clearly and if you jump in quick with him; you may end up getting hurt when he realizes that he needs to put the brakes on.

Maybe if you can get him to take things slower; you can really solidify the connection you have and you can actually eventually get married. It typically works out better when the two people can really get to know each other.

When He Knows it’s Not Going to Work

Taurus man isn’t the best at breaking things off. He may know or plan months ahead before he actually will say something about being unhappy and wanting to part ways.

He doesn’t want to hurt anyone and feels like he may be a bad person if he is the one to call it quits. He’ll go out of his way to seem a bit like a jerk so that the person he’s with will decide to break up with him instead.

One of the ways he’ll do this is by ghosting his partner. He’ll pull back, stop calling, stop or slow down on responses via text, he’ll keep going out without asking his partner to go, and he’ll basically live his life like he’s single.

If you find that he’s beginning to do this sort of thing to you, you really should confront him head on and ask him “how do you feel about our relationship and where do you see it going?” He will feel compelled to tell you.

It’s possible he won’t know what to say as he cannot believe you realize what is going on. If he’s speechless then tell him how you feel, what you’ve observed and you’d like clarity on where things are headed.

He will have to answer you. It may not be what you want to hear but at least you’ll know the truth of the situation. I do need you to be aware in all of this that Taurus men absolutely suck at communication.

There are times where they get very comfortable with someone and figure they don’t need to do much chasing so they stop. They get a little too relaxed.

He will neglect to answer right away, he will figure if you want to go out; you’ll let him know, etc. Again, simply talk to him and tell him what you feel and he should try to fix things unless he thinks it’s not working for him.

I hope this helps you better understand why a Taurus man can blow hot and cold as well as what you can possibly do when he does. Always stick with what your gut tells you!

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9 thoughts on “Taurus Man Being Hot And Cold All The Time- What To Do?

  1. I’ve been on four dates with my Taurus in a time span on 3 months.. There was a week that he completely disappeared and then later reappeared & apologized & told me that something very bad had happened and that was the cause behind it… I forgave him, didn’t even comment about his absence.. We went on date 3 & he planned it out, it was sweet.. We spoke and then he disappeared for like 3 days.. Date 4 came along and I think he was drunk but he asked me out and said that he wanted to see me and was in need of good company.. He picked me up at like 11 at night, we went to his favorite spot & then in his truck things got hot and heavy but no sex.. He took me back to his house and I was fully expecting sex but instead he tells me he doesn’t want to rush things cz he likes me & I ended up staying the night, brought me home at 7am.. That was a month ago.. I asked him out and he couldn’t go because he had his daughter (understandable) then the following week he was sick for two days (I didn’t ask him out that week) and then the following week he disappeared for 8 days.. Reappeared as if nothing had happened.. We planned to go to a game together a few weeks ago but it isn’t until the 19th.. I asked him yesterday if he had his daughter this weekend and he said yes.. didnt ask why, didn’t offer to look for a sitter.. nothing.. It drives me crazy because he’ll play games on the phone against me and chit chat with me until eleven at night, sometimes three in the morning but he hasn’t asked to see me and when I asked it was no.. He’s flirty… I don’t get him.. Do I give him more time? Do I move on? It’s been a month since I’ve seen him and if he does really go to this game with me it won’t be for another three weeks.. That’s a long time.. I’m ready to throw in the towel.. I don’t want to though 🙁

  2. Been seeing, hanging out with this guy for a year now, here and there. Things are great. We get along well and have a lot in common. Everything has been slow and steady and laid back. However, back in October he asked me out of the blue ‘do you love me?’ I was completely flustered that I couldn’t answer.
    Instead I replied with all the things I love about him. Then recently in January he asked again and I replied ‘i adore you’ and this last year I have grown to love you’ (meaning love you as a friend) anyways things were great when I last saw him in January and then I text him a few days ago and ask to see him and hang out and he replies, ‘what do you have in mind?’ I said, ‘that’s a loaded question, if I say anymore I believe I’ll faint for I simply wish to see you’ and he responds, ‘I need details. No bs. Otherwise not interested. ‘ So i give details , I become quite vulnerable in my response to him but it’s not what he wants to hear. He doesn’t want sex. He doesn’t want to go out bcuz it’s late around midnight or later. He wants details on what I want to do. No bs as he continues to say. I am so confused Idk wth is happening or what details he is seeking. I dont. Help me!! I really like the guy and everything was fine last time we hooked up I just don’t know where this side of him came from. Demanding details and no playing games. I am NOT playing games nor have I ever with him. So what is he seeking that I am missing.

    Would like my name/email to remain private plz. Not be posted. Thank you!

    1. He wants you to open up to the point of vulnerability. He wants you to trust him. So the question is can you with him? Does he do the same? Do you require that of him?

  3. I met a Taurus guy recently, he divorced but 44 years old, he saw me and became attracted to me ,I’m a Gemini lady, I had spent some time with him and it was great,though I was vulnerable as at when we met , he was visiting me often and we had sex and it was great one,I could not stop myself from having sex with him, but there are some…committed words he speaks that made me feel he loves me,he uses song to pass messages to me but after that night we had sex ,he’s not coming like before but he still calls me like 4 times in a days and speaks as if nothing has gone wrong..
    I’m confuse and unfortunately I have fallen in love already…what do I do? Do I forget him or I should call him and ask what the problem is? Please reply me

    1. Hi Jennifer! Thank you for writing in regarding your Taurus guy. What you probably will struggle with is having great patience with the process. Taurus men get excited about someone and may dive in but they will not commit and give their heart away to a total commitment until they’re sure of what they’re doing. If they move too fast, they may regret it and go backward. When they’re unsure where things are headed or what they feel, the go back and forth with feelings. Yours sounds like he’s trying to establish a level of comfortability which could include balance via having some space in between. You might want to check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” as I believe it would greatly help you further.

  4. So l have been seeing this Taurus guy for 5 months and he is everything..He says he doesn’t want a relationship but he includes me in his plans trips etc he says he just wants a fwb but these 5 months he has been acting like we could be more..l finally had the courage to tell him how l felt and he rejected me but we still decided to carry on what were doing..I’m so confused l DONT know if l should stay friends with him and keep being patient or just leave him alone..Now he has not texted me or won’t respond to my texts after we had fun together l dont know if l did something wrong or if he is with someone else or what… I’m hoping that everything is OK but lts killing me to have the urge to text him first etc…What’s going on

  5. I have been seeing a Taurus man long distance for a few months. The last time I saw him, he was in town for work and we had plans to hang out. I saw him for an hour and he blew me off when we were supposed to hang out later that night. The rest of the week he was too busy with work to even text to say he couldn’t meet up.

    I of course did not respond well which was out of character for me as I did not know I was having a side effect of a new medicine. I did apologize when I realized it like a week or so later that he did not deserve how I reacted that I was hurt that he could have at least told me he could not meet instead of just forgetting I even existed. He understood and said it was not a big deal and asked how I was feeling. We talked for a while and said I would talk to him the next day. I haven’t heard from him in two weeks. Should I contact him? Is it too late or is it over?

  6. I have been dating a Taurus man for 4 months and it has been nothing but a HUGE roller coaster ride. He is one of the biggest game-players I have ever met in my life. I have caught in numerous lies concerning women. In fact, he was still talking to a lot of his women in the past. This has been a living nightmare. If you are with a Taurus man run like hell!!!!!!!!!

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