How To Attract A Taurus Man In May 2021

by Anna-Kovach, relationship astrologer
How to attract a Taurus man in May 2021? The planets change every month, and events in May might be significantly different then what you're expecting.

It’s Taurus season! May is made for the Taurus man. The Sun is blazing through his own sign until the 20th, meaning he is deeply rooted and grounded in his personal frequency. His energy is relaxed, self-empowered, inspired, and wise. He’s embodying a serene yet passionate vibration which is open to connection and stimulating conversation. Read on to discover the best ways to attract him this month.

How To Attract A Taurus Man In May 2021

1. Respect His Dependability

The sun is travelling through the Taurus man’s own sign until the 20th. This means he is more in tune with his own strengths. He’s dependable, reliable and grounded, he believes in strong foundations and practical responsibilities too. 

The best way to picture the true nature of a Taurus man is to imagine an ancient and rooted tree… This tree has strong roots, is connected to Mother earth, all of nature, and a life support system for the planet. This is a bit like the Taurus man.

Taurus is one of the most grounded star signs. His roots are deep! He loves nature, ecological principles and sustainability, environmentalism, and being a gem to others. He’s caring, kind, and nurturing – supportive and dutiful with a very self-reliant, yet reliable nature. 

If you don’t see or respect this part of him, you may not have too much luck earning his trust. You must share some level of similar interests, passions and ethics, at the very least. 

You might want to take this “seeing” and recognition a step further. Buy him a house plant, cacti, or aloe vera. How about a money tree?! The Taurus man loves manifesting money and abundance almost as much as he finds pleasure and solace in nature. 

Anything you do, say or gift that strengthens his bond with nature will be received with sincere gratitude. Of course, this then makes you be seen in a positive light!

2. Show Patience

Showing Patience Attracting A Taurus Man In May 2021

It doesn’t matter what you’re doing in his company, show patience. Be patient with his words, with his actions, and with the beliefs or perspectives he’s trying to convey. Patience is one of the best Taurean traits. This man is patient to a “p” – he is slow in a sensual and intentional way. He’s more than happy to wait for you to take the next step (as in, literally walking!) or express your views and opinions, so he expects the same level of courtesy back.

Because it’s his birthday month, he won’t want to be missing out in anything either. He is taking his time with life this month and enjoying each sensory experience to the max. He’s taking in smells, sounds, tastes and external sights. 

All of his senses are active and his desire for joy, connection and pleasure are amplified. If you try to rush him with, well, anything – it may not go down too well.

Remember that he’s looking for a long-term partner to attract his attention. How you act in the first few weeks and months of dating or getting to know one another reflects on how the relationship will be. He’s methodological and logical in his approach, but he’s also intuitive, which signifies he will take every instinctive and intuitive feeling he gets from you and hold onto it. Taurus season is not the time to disrespect his earthy and sensual nature!

3. Appeal To His Love Of Humor

From the 20th, the Sun is in Gemini. Gemini is one of the most excitable and high-spirited sun signs, making the Taurus man feel optimistic about himself and life. Taurus feels free to be himself in the latter half of the month. 

He’s feeling more in tune with his inner child, more innocent and completely at ease embodying a range of emotions and sensations. In fact, his spirit soars during a Gemini Sun, and his innocence makes him incredibly charming and attractive.

The Taurus man is wonderfully mature. His emotional maturity and intelligence are on a whole new level, therefore when his inner child is lit up and his innocence free to shine, his natural charisma comes out in beautiful ways. 

The Taurus man can be very magnetic. This makes his instincts, intuitive powers, and extrasensory gifts come out to play – sometimes he isn’t even fully conscious of it! They’re instinctual and ‘organic.’

The best thing you could do is to stay innocent and care-free yourself. Don’t be immature or annoying, whatever you do, but do be full of light and laughter. There’s a big difference between childlike or childish and in tune with your inner child. Laugh, tell jokes, and don’t let on too much that you see him as irresistibly sexy or charming. Play it cool. Be modest, and your natural connection will shine. 

4. Suggest A Creative Activity

Couple Doing Creative Activities

Now is the perfect time to suggest some shared creative or artistic hobby together. Plan a date or meeting around ways to connect to your inner children, think of color and the spirit of life. 

This is the month to get simple to get vibrant. Bring some water color pencils or paints, oil acrylics, or a painting set with some blank canvases, and sit together in the joy of creativity. Make sure you have some musical device to play your favorite tunes through! Less is more this month as the two seasons of May (Taurus and Gemini) both love to express themselves artistically. 

Music and art can be shared together in magical ways too. A picnic outdoors under a beautiful tree, or by a pond or lake, will allow him to take in the beauty of nature (and see your beauty!). Shine like the stillness and tranquility of nature this May, as it’s not the time for flamboyant or overly-gregarious displays of beauty or humor. 

5. Discuss Dreams & Long-Term Goals

There’s a Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in fiery and idealistic Sagittarius, on the 26th. A Lunar Eclipse coupled with a new or full moon is powerful, and Sagittarius is a sign of high energy. 

This occurs in Gemini season, with Gemini and Sagittarius being very compatible! So, now is the perfect time to talk about big dreams and aspirations including long-term goals. Be genuinely interested in his plans and life now. Also, feel free to share yours. He loves to listen!

While other men might want the conversation to ‘hurry up’ a bit (or a lot), the Taurus man is more than happy to listen to you carefully and thoughtfully share your inner desires and thoughts. 

Reflection, introspection, and thoughtfulness come naturally to him. He’s also an amazing listener, so any chance of developing his listening skills is seen as a self-development exercise for him. All in all, don’t be shy of thinking “big picture” or “visionary.” Idealistic topics merged with great and intelligent conversation are major wins this month. 

Read next: 5 Questions to Ask When a Taurus Man Sends You Mixed Signals

Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits

The Taurus man is in his element this May. Actually, he’s at one with all the elements! Taurus season is perfect for him and for any intentions you may have to develop or strengthen a bond. 

Think emotionally, psychologically and spiritually this month, not so much physically. Yes, he is deeply instinctual and connected to his body, but he’s also thriving in many other areas. He won’t be jumping into bed or into any closely intimate situation. Find intimacy through mind, heart, and spirit/emotions connection. 

Be sure to check out the Taurus man secrets for a deeper look at this sensual and intelligent man. 

Do you have a Taurus man in mind that you’ll be using these tips and tricks on this May? Let me know in the comments below! I love reading stories from you all.

Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

Anna Kovach

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

4 thoughts on “How To Attract A Taurus Man In May 2021

  1. Hi Anna

    My Taurus man is showing me signs that he is committed and have still said he is unsure.

    It’s his birthday soon. I was wondering what gift ideas you could give?

    Am in no rush at the moment as I know that he takes things slow and is patient. I am patient too and enjoying each others company for now until he is sure that he is fully committed.

    1. Hi Cris!

      I’m glad that you’re being patient. That’s excellent because there is no fast tracking with Taurus man. Birthday would inspire things that he likes. He’s an earth sign so he likes practical gifts or pragmatic… gifts he can use. Food is also a hit. If you know what he likes then go from there as far as a meal or a dessert. Just you thinking of him will make him feel good and that’s the feeling you’re going for. Learn more by reading my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  2. Hi Anna,
    Its been a rough year. I have been with my man for 4 yrs. He has been trying to start his own business in fencing, landscaping as he wasn’t happy in his previous job. I supported him through this change and have always encouraged him. We were really happy and decided to try for a baby. However the stress of mixing with the wrong type of people due to the business put a strain on our relationship as he wouldn’t listen to anything I would suggest as I could see him getting into trouble. And then this time last year I got breast cancer. As things were already strained between us I said to him that he didn’t have to be with me anymore because of the cancer. He chose to stay by my side. As I got sicker, things got worse between us as he was still getting in trouble and wasn’t there for me when I needed him. And then at my sickest point he broke up with me. I was devastated and now have anxiety issues of my own. We were apart for 4 months and are now trying to work things out together. We are not living together atm as I am terrified that I will get comfortable and he will end things again. Due to the stress he has been under I also fear that he is now on drugs of some kind. I always believed we would be there for each other and really felt that we would have a family and be happy together. I have been there for him as much as I could through my treatment. For me he is my person and im still hoping we can make it work as all I want to do is feel comfortable enough to move back home with him.
    I guess for May all I want is for him to open up so I know what he wants long term, as the uncertainty is making my anxiety uncontrollable at times.

    Kind Regards,


    1. Hi Kylie!

      I am definitely sorry to hear about everything you’ve been going through sweetheart. Please focus on yourself and get better before you worry about him and his problems. He needs to get himself together. Time may reveal a different path for you two or it may find you back together but for now as long as he’s still a hot mess, you need to worry about yourself and what is going on for you so that you can heal up and make your future. If you want to know more about how Taurus men think though, you should read my book Taurus Man Secrets. I wish you health and happiness honey!

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