What can you possibly say to a Taurus man after a break up? Did you break it off with him or did he dump you? I will give you information for both scenarios to help you do the right thing.
It’s never easy to break up with a Taurus Man. When it does happen, you need to know exactly what steps to take and how to approach and talk to him! Read all the way through to find out exactly what to text a Taurus man after a breakup.
In my years as a relationship astrologer, I’ve worked with thousands of women trying to reach a Taurus man after a breakup, and I’ll tell you what I tell all of them: what you text him in these first few days matters far more than you think. Taurus is ruled by Venus and fixed by nature, which means he feels everything deeply but moves slowly, and one wrong message can harden him for weeks. In our survey of more than 5,600 women dating a Taurus man, 7% were writing in about an ex they still hoped to reach, and another 4% were standing on the edge of a breakup. If that’s where you are right now, you are far from alone.
If you want the exact words that reach his Venus-ruled heart instead of bumping into his stubborn pride, my Taurus Text Magic guide walks you through them message by message.
Don’t Wait Too Long To Text A Taurus
If you expect to try to get your Taurus guy back or even want to continue a friendship with him, then you need to be on the ball. Text your Taurus ex a day or two after the break has occurred.
This will let him know that there are no hard feelings there. It doesn’t matter who did the breaking – this works really well either way. Taurus men don’t mind staying friends if the vibe between you is good.
The other thing you have to remember is that Taurus men typically do not reach out to someone once a break has been made. He has pride and is rather stubborn (as I’m sure you know by now).
Actually, he could be thinking about you, but you really won’t know unless you reach out to him. He wants to show you that he’s a man and standing his ground. This is even truer when he’s the one that broke it off.
In the case that it was you, he will have wounded pride which makes him cold as ice. It really will depend on what happened before you broke up and why you broke up.
When you first reach out to him after the break up, be friendly, be kind, and if there is an apology needed on your part, then go ahead and say it.
This sounds a bit odd, but if you show Taurus that you’re alright and you’re going to move forward, it’s the best thing you can do. If you display wallowing in pain, he will shut down.
What A Taurus Man Is Really Feeling In The First Days After A Breakup
Before you send a single text, it helps to understand what is actually happening inside him, because a Taurus man almost never shows it on the surface. While other signs lash out or call their friends to vent, Taurus retreats into his shell and processes everything in private. He goes quiet, he keeps busy, and he builds a wall that looks a lot like indifference. Underneath that wall, though, he is usually replaying the relationship over and over, weighing what he lost against the comfort of being right.
This is the part most women misread. When your Taurus man goes cold and silent, you assume he has moved on. More often, he is grieving the only way a bull knows how: stubbornly, slowly, and behind a closed door. In our survey, 23% of women said the connection with their Taurus man was fading without any explanation from him, and a great deal of that silence is simply him protecting his pride while he sorts through his feelings.
Knowing this changes how you text him. You are not trying to break down the wall with force. You are giving him small, warm reasons to come out from behind it on his own terms, which is the only way a Taurus man ever truly comes back.
Texting After You Broke Up With Your Taurus Man
Clearly, Taurus’ manly pride is an issue here. He will still likely be upset with you if you broke it off, unless it was a mutually agreed situation.
If you ended the relationship but you feel like you messed up, then you’re going to have to do some sucking up with him because he will require it, even if he doesn’t tell you that.
Send a text apologizing for the way things ended. Explain yourself for the reason you did it and why it may not have made sense. Ask him to forgive you with time.
A Taurus won’t do it any faster, trust me on this one!
He will drag it out and make sure that you’re telling him the truth. Taurus has to know that you’re not going to do it again and the only thing that lets him see that is time and consistency.
Taurus is one that doesn’t believe unless there is repeatability in anything including your love and loyalty.
Texting After Your Taurus Man Broke Up With You
Texting with your Taurus after he broke it off with you may prove to be quite difficult. He may not answer right away – if he even answers at all.
If he’s made the decision to end it, he’s going to stand by that decision unless he really loves you.
When there is true love there, then he may wonder if he’s made a mistake and if he should try again with you. He won’t reach out to you first though so you’re going to need to do that.
How though? I mean… he’s so sure of his decision, isn’t he?
Taurus can make mistakes just like anyone else. If you know for sure he loved you then you should reach out to him and say: “I miss you and hope you’re doing alright.”
Expressing your care for him even though he ended will actually touch his heart, believe it or not.
Basically, you’re getting to him with kindness and care. It will stand out to him that you’re even open to it after he’s hurt you by breaking up.
How Long Should You Wait For A Taurus Man To Text Back After A Breakup
This is the question I get more than almost any other, and I understand why. Every hour of silence feels like an answer. With a Taurus man, though, slow replies are not rejection, they are just his nature. Venus rules his heart but the bull rules his pace, and he will not be hurried into a response that he has not fully thought through. If you text him and hear nothing for a day or two, that is normal Taurus behavior, not a sign that it is over.
My guidance is to think in days and weeks, not minutes and hours. Send your message, then genuinely step back and let it sit with him. If you double-text him an hour later because the waiting hurts, you hand him a reason to retreat further, because nothing makes a Taurus man dig in like feeling pressured. Give him the room to miss you, and give yourself a clear limit on how long you are willing to wait so the silence does not quietly take over your days.
If a week passes with no real response, do not panic and do not flood his phone. One warm, low-pressure message is far more powerful than ten anxious ones. The space itself does a lot of the work with this sign.
The Hard Part With Texting Your Taurus Ex
Alright, so the hard part here with your Taurus ex is that you cannot continue to text him as though nothing has happened. If he’s not into you anymore then it will just annoy him and push him away further.
Taurus being a fixed sign, makes their communication slightly more rigid compared to other signs. So it’s no wonder a Taurus man’s texting habits might be a bit more strict when it comes to texting after breaking up.
If your Taurus guy broke it off with you, it won’t sit well with him for you to keep reaching out. That said, you have to pull the plug.
Tell him what you want and need to say then go quiet. You have to show him you’re not sitting around waiting on him. When you’re busy and not reaching out, he’ll start to think.
His care may surface more when you’re no longer connecting with him on a daily basis. Take it down to maybe once a week, or once every two weeks.
Despite your hurt, you’re independent and fierce. You do NOT need a man to complete you! Well, at least that’s what you have to show him. It will actually attract him.
Yep, truly strange, I get it. Taurus needs time and space to work through everything that happened in his head.
You can simply send very short and sweet messages such as: “hope you’re doing well,” or “have a great week and enjoy yourself!”
The positive energy will surprise him for sure. The thing is, the Taurus man will wonder if you really can do without him then he’ll start to think about if he can do without you.
Once he’s gotten past all his crazy thoughts, he just may realize he lost the best woman he could ever have. He will miss all your texts and conversations. If he really cares, he’ll be back.
I would give yourself a time limit on how long you will wait to see if he ever comes around and then adhere to it. However long you decide, when that time comes, cut all communication.
Ultimately, you’ve got to do what is best for you, but I am just letting you know that it does take time to get a Taurus man back if he does still care enough to do so.
Read next: How Does A Taurus Man Feel After a Break Up: Shaken or Cheerful
The Texts That Quietly Pull A Taurus Man Back, And The Ones That Push Him Away
There is a right way and a wrong way to text a Taurus man after a breakup, and the difference usually decides whether he softens or shuts down completely. The texts that work share one quality: they are warm, calm, and free of pressure. Something as simple as “I saw something today that reminded me of you and it made me smile, I hope you’re doing well” tells him the door is open without demanding that he walk through it. A Taurus man responds to steady warmth, not urgency.
The texts that push him away are the ones driven by your fear instead of your affection. Long messages dissecting the relationship, repeated questions about where you stand, accusations, or anything that reads as desperate will make him retreat behind his wall and stay there. Remember that this is a sign that needs to feel safe before he feels anything else, and panic in your texts makes him feel anything but safe.
So lead with care, keep it short, and then let it breathe. Only 29% of women in our survey felt confident their Taurus man was interested, and the other 71% were left guessing. The fastest way out of that guessing game is to text from a place of calm self-respect rather than anxiety, because that is the energy a Taurus man is quietly drawn back toward.
More Ideas To Text Your Taurus After A Breakup
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You need to decide if you want to take a step forward toward him or be pushed away by his stubborn demeanor.
Think of all the things you loved about being with him and trying to recapture it.
One more thing…
Taurus men hate texting. They are totally fine with receiving texts but to text back or discuss important things that way, they’re turned off.
They are old school and need special care if you’re going to reach him via texts.
Get to a place with him where he will actually talk to you and maybe even work things out.
Until you take action, you won’t know if he will come back or he won’t.
A client of mine told me that her Taurus guy was so hard to reach. She kept trying and was always met with silence or short replies.
He was just so cold and final. She thought there was no way he would ever return to her after they broke up.
I gave her this information that absolutely opened her Taurus guy back up and just by saying the right things via text.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Texting A Taurus Man After A Breakup
Should I Text My Taurus Man First After A Breakup?
Yes, in most cases you should be the one to reach out first, especially if he was the one who ended things. Taurus men are proud and stubborn, and that pride almost always stops him from making the first move, even when he is secretly thinking about you. His silence is rarely a lack of feeling. It is far more often a refusal to be the one who breaks.
Reach out gently a day or two after the dust settles with something light and kind. You are not begging him to take you back. You are simply showing him that there are no hard feelings and that the door is still open if he chooses it.
Will A Taurus Man Come Back If I Give Him Space?
Very often, yes. Space is one of the most powerful tools you have with a Taurus man. When you stop reaching out every day and go calmly about your life, he starts to feel the absence of you, and that is when his mind quietly turns back toward what he lost. A bull values what is steady and what he might lose, so your calm distance speaks louder than any paragraph could.
The key is that the space has to be real, not a manipulation he can sense. Live your life, let him miss you, and give him the room to arrive at the conclusion on his own. If he still cares, the quiet will pull him back.
What Should I Never Text A Taurus Man After A Breakup?
Never send him long, emotional messages that pick apart everything that went wrong, and never fire off a string of texts when he does not answer right away. To a Taurus man, that pressure feels like a threat to his peace, and his instinct is to pull further away to protect it.
Avoid ultimatums, guilt trips, and anything that reads as desperate. Keep your messages short, warm, and free of pressure. The calmer and more grounded you sound, the more room you leave for him to come back on his own.
How Do I Know If My Taurus Man Still Has Feelings After The Breakup?
Watch what he does, not just what he says. A Taurus man who still cares will keep small threads connected: he answers your texts even if slowly, he remembers little details, he reacts when you mention someone else, or he finds quiet excuses to stay in touch. He will rarely announce his feelings, so you have to read them in his actions.
If he goes completely cold and stays that way for weeks no matter how warm and low-pressure you are, that tells you something too. With Taurus, consistency over time is the truest signal, in both directions.
I’d love to hear your story. Have you reached out to your Taurus man after a breakup, and how did he respond? Share what happened in the comments below and I’ll do my best to help you figure out your next step. I read every single one.
Don’t wait too long to do the right thing or he may put you in deep freeze for life! Take the right road now!
I wish you all the luck in the Universe!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
