There is no such thing as a peaceful break up for any couple. However, when it comes to Taurus men, this process can become a bit complicated to be understood.
So, how does a Taurus man feel after a breakup?
How Men Think and Feel
First of all, you have to understand that there are some significant differences between thinking and mainly emotional processes going on in males and females bodies. We are all driven by our hormones, and men have higher levels of testosterone than women.
This has a powerful impact on the way men perceive reality and adjust their actions. Everything is a struggle, and everything which has some value must be taken by fight or overpowered. This is the basic way men, in general, conquer their physical and psychological territories.
For you, this means that he has to be the one to pursue you and to invest some efforts to win your heart because this will be the only way to value your relationship.
If you act like an easy target or even pursue him, then your bond won’t be healthy and being the easy target you will also be someone who is easy to let go.
Generally, this rule applies for most men, but Taurus guys are known as conservative lovers and tend to stay with women who were somewhat hard to get in the beginning.
So, if your “value” is high, then you are the “investment” which is precious and worthy of his pride and fight. So, how does a Taurus man feel after a breakup will depend on what you had?
Easy Connection – Easy Separation
In the case the relationship, or better to say, romance, started too fast, Taurus guy didn’t feel like he was genuinely rewarded for his efforts and he got something for nothing.
“Something for nothing” usually is not worth at all, because there is no free lunch, as we all know, and after he satisfied his instincts and desires, he felt relieved to leave without any explanation.
Situations like this seem very logical to understand, but still, many women fall into the trap of modern ways of seeing relationships, and this causes them to feel hurt and confused later on. There is nothing modern or conservative when it comes to bonding between male and female.
Everything is biologically induced, and the whole game of seducing is played for the best genes to be carried to the next generations. He will have to be her protector and provider to spread his genetic material. If she is easy to get, then her genetic material is not so valuable either. This is what our cell programming is telling us all along.
If he didn’t respect you right from the start, then breaking up and moving on won’t be a spectacular event in his life. He had some excellent experiences, and now he is ready to find another target or to find the special woman for his future family.
Hard times for Taurus man After Deep and Devoted Love
In the case the relationship was committed, at least determined from his side, Taurus man will be out of his mind when everything ends.
And usually, he won’t be the one to leave first. In the spirit of a Taurus guy, you are his “investment,” and this is not perceived just in a material way.
He invested his emotions and time also, building something precious in his life and now everything crashed down just like that. This is a horrible situation in any man’s mind, but it’s especially heightened for Taurus guys because they are extremely territorial.
He might be able to understand the fact that you are leaving him because he wasn’t good enough or he has some problems with harmful habits, for instance, but he won’t ever be able to understand that you are leaving him because you feel like you have to start something new, change your life or merely sense that you shouldn’t be together.
The depthless and confusion of a female mind is the horror scene for him and his whole world, his plans for the future and happiness disappeared in a second for no reason. In his heart, this is the end of the world.
After a great love, how a Taurus man will feel after a breakup is: anger. On the contrary to women, who will instantly feel deep pain, men usually feel rage, and they are ready to crush everything on their way.
So, to release it, Taurus guy will immediately go to the gym, practice martial arts and by night, he will be frequent in clubs, perhaps even overdoing alcohol, and certainly chasing other women, hoping that they will help him to prove himself as a great lover.
Conclusion
The initial impression could easily be that he is having the time of his life going out; mingling with so many girls every night, but this is so far from the truth. He will need some time to release this inner pressure to be able to feel the pain and finally heal.
Few months down the road, this big, sexy Taurus heartbreaker will wake up one morning and start to cry, and this will be his way to make a closure. Of course, he will need some time more to overcome the past, but day after day he will feel better and ready to find another special girl.
What do you think? How does a Taurus man feel after a breakup?
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My Taurus man decided to break our relationship off.. we where together for 2yrs.. we worked together and we became intimate, due to a previous relationship I was end wasn’t working out.. the first yrs or so we didn’t spend much time cause I was in a relationship with some else. So he said I had to chose. And I chose him…so for almost a yr he has been at my apartment… so a few months ago I asked him did he love me.. he said NO and loudly.. but I stayed.. he said he care about me.. and I thought we where bonding since I backed off the subject…and last Thursday he said it was over… I admit that I was clingy, didn’t trust him, and so.. but I do love him…sometimes he could be so cold towards me.. and my question is.. so I hope and look for better days.. is it really over, do he just need time… my heart is hurting so bad.. and I just wanna die..
Hi Kay!
There is no way to know at this point if he may come back to you or not. All you can do is focus on yourself and your life. If he does decide he wants to be with you, he will certainly let you know but you shouldn’t wait around for someone who clearly told you he didn’t want what you want. That being said, you need to decide if he’s worth waiting around for or if you’re ready to let go and open your heart for someone who will come in and give you the world. Wishing you the best!
Kay, what ended up happening?
My Taurus man also said he didn’t love me and that it was over. Just like that! After a 4 year relationship and three years of marriage!!! I, like Kay, am also looking for answers. That’s why I am reading this page. Trying to figure out how someone could do that. How someone could treat their wife, whom they claimed was the “love of their life” like that. I would appreciate any additional insight into this matter if anyone has it! Also, I am an Aquarius. that might be helpful information. 🙂
Thanks!
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As Taurus man who was dating an Aquarius woman, idk where y’all problems were but wit me and her we argued damn never every time we disagreed but tbh the argument was never over the disagreement. We argued how it was handled. One thing I can tell you that I was tryin to get thru to her is with both of us being set in ways for a long time, we have to find balance on things. So my advice is seek balance. Compromise with each other. And oh God listen to him like you want him to listen to you. Truly communicate to understand and not to just be heard. Treat em how you want to be treated in every area. And make sure he knows he’s secured.
I broke up with my Taurus man over a week ago, but we didn’t part ways because our relationship is not working. We’ve been dating for 7 months and everything is going well for us. I know a lot will say that the bull and the archer is not a good match but we do. We love each other so much. We never had a fight ever but would always calmly discuss problems and work on it as a team. Our relationship is one with love, trust, understanding, loyalty, stability, consistency, time, and effort. No drama. No bullshit.
I had to let him go because he is being forced into an arranged marriage. He is from an influential family and public image is very important for his family. He fought for our relationship, he said that I am the one he wants to be with for the rest of his life and could not imagine a life without me. But even so his family did not budge to the extent that his grandma started to manipulate him emotionally by not eating properly and taking her medications. I know how a Taurus values their family and friends and though it was really hurting him, still he was refusing the loveless marriage.
I assured him that no matter how difficult it gets I will stand by him, but I cannot do it alone. He needs to be firm with his resolve as well as it takes two to tango. He said that he is very determined and his decision won’t change. However, last week he admitted to me that he feels that he might not be able to stand his ground if his grandma would continue putting her health on the line like that, apologizing to me. That’s when I decided to end our relationship. I told him that I don’t want to let him go but I have to because I know he already made his choice and it’s not me. Continuing our relationship would only hurt us more. He cried and kept begging me to stay, not accepting the break up.
For a week after the breakup he kept on messaging me telling me that he doesn’t want to lose me, he doesn’t want me to leave him but he doesn’t know how to convince his family. He even sent me a handwritten letter professing that his love for me defies words, he is in agony knowing that we cannot be together, our separation torments his soul, and that his love for me is undiminished. He said that he is still holding onto the hope that one day fate will smile upon us again. That letter broke me into tears. My love for him did not change either.
I called him telling him that I wish it was me who gets to spend forever with him and that I hope and pray that his future wife makes him happy in all the ways I wish I was given a chance to. I pray that she loves and supports him the same way I do, even more and that his happiness is always and will always be important to me. I love him, and if fate will smile on us again, he knows where to find me.
I am grieving our relationship. I feel so lost and confused.
Dear Rhian,
I am sorry this happened.
It is certainly hard being selected for marriage where both him and his bride are selected by family members other than themselves.
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about it.If he cannot find the strength to resist the strong family’s influence, then you should let him go.
Try focusing on yourself and making your life path successful. When you do that you’re healing your own wounds and learning to make yourself happy. When time elapses you will find a way to let another man into your heart.
Stay strong!
Hi Deanna!
Yikes! It sounds like h had things going on in his head that he didn’t share with you. They don’t just pull this out of thin air or randomly even though it really feels like it when they do it. They act relatively normal but if you look back, I bet you were small red flags you didn’t notice because of your love for him. They plan this type of things months in advance because they want to do it right and because they want to be sure for themselves that they really do want out. They don’t like hurting anyone but when they’re unhappy with themselves, they often will project onto the partner what they don’t like or find flaw with. Personally, I’d totally ask him what the hell happened and why he ended it. Ask him for closure. Perhaps it can still be fixed but then again maybe not. You won’t know though unless you get your answers darling. Go get them!
Same here…my Taurus was my best friend … we weren’t in a committed relationship due to come complications, however our feelings were shared & he even said he had fallen in love with me – that he loved me on multiple different occasions…. then right before Christmas he got mad cause I ask some questions when he wanted to be left alone. Sent me a message & said he had had a crap day, things weren’t going well & was a little pissed I kept asking things when he went quite… I apologized & waited. The holidays rolled around & nothing… so I tried reaching out & messaging again. He deactivated his FB & told me to stop messaging him… I’m at a loss. I miss my best friend & love him. I think some heavy stuff went down & he is lashing out…retreating into his shell… I don’t know what to do.
I don’t want to make things worse, I want to be there for him & I also want to shake the ever living crap outta him. This is what friends are for, this is what being in love is about…being there for one another, not shutting doors & breaking my heart.
So yes, what do I do?
I’m a Leo…if that helps
HI Kay!
Yikes, Leo wants love and attention. Taurus avoids drama and pressure whenever he can. He probably felt you were pressuring him by asking questions he didn’t want to answer. Then by continuously messaging him when he was quiet made him get very annoyed and he just decided you were filling his world with drama thus him cutting you off. Once they tell you to stop contacting them, they’re pretty well done and it would be VERY difficult to win them back. You may have to let him go as much as I hate to say it. If he ever did care, he may come back on his own terms later but I wouldn’t bank on it. I’m so sorry sweetheart. You deserve a lot better!
My man is a Taurus we been together for a year and a half but he is argumentative and he likes to accuse me of things I am not doing he is also controlling so I packed up all my stuff ready to move then he looked crazy so he wanted to work it out but it’s no better it’s the same bull I am confused I don’t think he wants to be in a relationship but he doesn’t want me to be with anyone else
Hi Shakia!
He sounds very insecure which would mean that he was likely burned by someone badly which is why he’s terrified now. What you need to do is find out what his fears are and where they come from. It’s quite possible a past relationship really messed him up which makes it hard for him to trust. Clearly he wants to be with you as per him telling you he wants to work it out. Be patient and try to talk to him. Ask him why it is that he accuses you of things you aren’t doing. He should open up and talk to you about what has happened to make him that way. Maybe you can find a way to make him feel more secure in the relationship you two share by letting him talk to you. I wish you the best!
Your time is precious ladies (especially if you want to have kids). Don’t waste it on a man who doesn’t know how to care for you as he should. Trust me, I wish I had an experienced woman in my life to tell me this when I was younger.
I’ve spent over a decade and a half (mainly all of my youth) trying to work it out with an insecure Taurus man who continued to stab me in the heart over and over again. These were important years I could’ve spent doing better on my own and attracting everything I wanted in life. Instead, I’m now over 40 having to rebuild my entire life from the ground up because I accepted this treatment.
Taurus men are a completely different animal than Taurus women (I’m one). And an insecure, immature Taurus man will tear your heart and soul down and drain you emotionally until there’s nothing left. Mine was not damaged from a previous relationship but from childhood emotional neglect (that he still has no self-awareness of and refuses to work on).
Shakia’s comment is right, this kind of man will freak out when you’ve had enough and want to leave but it’s only because he doesn’t want you to be with anyone else, not because he’s truly emotionally ready to be in a healthy relationship.
Focus on loving yourself, pursuing your dreams, and living your best life FOR YOU. If he truly loves you, you won’t have to do anything else. He’ll see your value and do his best to show you that he’s serious about opening his heart to you.
Let the lyrics to Madonna’s “Express Yourself” play on repeat in your head every time you consider letting him back in without proof of his commitment to an equally supportive partnership.
And forgot to add that my experience with my Taurus guy was the same as Shakia’s. He was argumentative, controlling, and projected his issues onto me (accusing me of negative behavior that he was actually doing). I even went to therapy to try to understand and learn more about myself, something to this day he won’t do for himself.
Hi Holly!
A Taurus man with baggage doesn’t know how to operate properly in a relationship. He should always work on his healing and letting go otherwise when he gets into another relationship, he tends to screw up big time. That’s no secret. Not all Taurus men are this way though. Only the ones who have not released their baggage will tend to be this way.
yes my taurus man went and divorced me after 10 years and a child im gemini im reading this trying to figure how his mind works trully heartsore
Hi Jacqueline!
Thank you for writing in. I’m so very sorry you’ve gone through this hard time honey. Clearly there is much to his reasoning for having done this and you won’t know until he actually tells you. I’d demand he tell you the reasons because you deserve to know so that you can find closure and be able to move on.
Hi,
My ex was a Taurus. At the time of dating which is last year he was 24 and I was 27. Yes a huge difference in age. I was also his first real relationship. But we were both each other’s first love. He was my second real relationship and something felt right. I don’t date to date or haven’t felt this way to make it serious, my first relationship was when I was 21? My first boyfriend was not my first love. This one I knew we had a connection and we both knew it felt right. Yes we jumped quickly, he is from Zimbabwe. Before we made it serious, I agreed to do the half marathon in South Africa with him and his family. So the tripped was booked. I was the first girl he brought home, he did a whole trip for me from South Africa to Zimbabwe. Meeting most his family and friends. We went a week sailing together which he loves, so we got to know each other really well and I even took a poop in the bush with him. Say I was comfortable. I bungee jumped for the first time. So many firsts for us both in the relationship. Well during this depression hit me hard, I avoided it for a while. I wasn’t myself and he knew and we were open. I kind of pushed and had our fights and all.
Well when I got home, we had more fights. But we still had love and friendship or so I thought. I decided to get help and therapy because I was done feeling this way and it was time. I guess I loved him more at the time. He gave up on me. But he obviously wasn’t willing to wait some more and couldn’t even end it with me, he “led” me on and etc. He was a coward and immature.
His family, his mom still talks here and there and likes my things. His best friend and I still talk. Goes to show you, I wasn’t all that bad. I had moral character and someone his mom liked. She is a tough woman in a good way, I think her and I were a like in many ways. Weird I know. I think they all knew my battles and it’s normal.
Well two weeks later after our official break up, he got into another relationship with the first girl he saw. Blonde but total opposite. She worked on the yacht he was working. He could have anyone in the yachting industry and could’ve waited but no he needed that love and attention. She gave it to him and maybe even while we were dating. She is his age. He took no time to heal and learn. He likes to take care of someone and I knew he didn’t like my independence.
I learned it takes TWO to be in a relationship. Ever relationship regardless has lessons. He gave me he loves me but not in love with you (he has her in the back), he said he never lied but so many lies.
We didn’t end on good terms. i had to make me block him on Whatsapp to avoid contact. He did not normal things on social media he never did with me, re posting her posts and posting about her. When he never did about me, he barely posted. Showed signs of Grass is greener and showing someone can love him. He wasn’t a man. He has a lot of growing up to do. It was such a long battle comparing, etc and the fact he took her home and still is with her. I know when he went home he thought of me, he even retagged himself in photos I forgot to delete on social media when we dated but yet he is with that new GIRLFRIEND..weird?! Never heard of that. So when life hits and they have to deal with normal and struggles, is he going to run from her? Who knows. I will never know. He will learn and he will grow, he is still a the time we had together. A first love I will never forget, a relationship I learned from, and memories to keep.
I know one day he’ll realize what he lost, what we had was real no matter what. He disappointed me. Thanks for this article. I believe what they have about your signs and characteristics are mostly true. Thanks for this article.
I’m a Leo, well you can tell why that didn’t work besides the age. But everyone’s relationship is different and scenarios. Some want love and to be loved. Some don’t know what love is until they are by themselves and love themselves. Some need someone to feel good. I believe what comes around comes back around.
HI Sara Sully!
I absolutely agree with you honey. I hope you don’t write off all Taurus men though because they’re not all the same. Yes, karma will take care of business for sure. Take care of yourself sweetheart and be sure you’re giving yourself love as you need it. You should stay open for someone wonderful to come sweep you off your feet!
Me and my Taurus broke up 2 weeks ago… he was becoming very distant and didn’t seem to have any time for me and spent more time staring at his phone screen than talking to me. I tried to reason with him. But in the end as a cancer woman I couldn’t handle this and broke it off with him. I apologised after I calmed down explained my ‘issues’ but I woke up to the ‘goodbye text’ I replied with ‘Goodbye’ because let’s face it, how do you even get through to a Taurus man?? But then he seemed to message every 3 days to tell me he loves me, misses me etc.
He then asked to meet up at the weekend. But on the Thursday he messaged to say can we meet up ‘after the lockdown’ has ended as he wants to win me back by dating me and wooing me again.
He also said that he’ll always love me. And dropped it in ‘I understand if you’ve found new love or want someone else’ not sure if that’s his way of seeing if ‘I’ve moved on’ I again told him I I don’t work like that he might but I don’t. Reassurance obviously needed. He said he don’t expect me to wait around for him. But he loves me and will probably always love me. You know the normal things men do to keep you at arms lengths. But I am so confused by all of this, because he says one thing, but does another? Do I wait around and wait until ‘he’s had his moment’
Is he wanting to sort this out? Or is he simply just keeping me at arms lengths just incase he doesn’t in his words ‘I’ll never find another you, I know I won’t’
Any advice?
Hi Becs!
He was definitely checking to see if you still love him and if there is still room for him. I think your Taurus guy probably is dealing with other stuff that has nothing to do with you and he doesn’t want to burden you with it. His checking his phone could be checking for family, friends, work, etc to make sure things are running smoothly. You can try to talk to him and express your concerns and see what he wants to do about yet. Yes, he’s trying to see if you’ll give him another chance otherwise he wouldn’t bother. Give it a chance!
its been 2 years.. still cant get over here . i have beautiful new lover standing next to me .. still my ex is always there 24*7 pain in heart and i love her alot
still despite of my wish.. if she wants to be happy without me.. she is already.. but cant acept the fact small factory will overpower more percentage of good memories 🙂
Hi vipsweb!
You need to work on letting your ex go so you can move forward with your new lover. You are short changing her by not giving her your all. It’s not fair. You need to start cutting ties and focus on what is ahead instead of what was. If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
I am Pisces women and my ex is a taurus male i am 6 years older then him .. We where together almost 2 years we hit it off from the first day we met but he broke it off with me after i lied about something stupid.. But 2 weeks later he just moved on with a Aquarius women younger than him and she as well just came out off a relationship . they are together 6 months now.. before we broke up we cried together and he told me he loves me very much and then he just left .. We had contact 3 months after the breakup still talked everyday while he was with his new gf he will tell me daily he misses me even on weekends while she is with him always asked if i am oky and if i need anything and ppl spread untrue rumours that other men and different cars is always infront off my house and stuff like that he still got angry and upset about it and always asked me if it was true or not even thou he left me and has a new gf …. he told me over and over i must always remember that he loves me very much and always will.. She found out that we chatted but she didn’t know the context she made him change his number after that he isnt allowed to jave any contact with me ..we didn’t chat anymore but i still needed to sign his bail slip for him after his court case was done .. And each month the date moved on to a new date the next month .. And 2 months ago he stoped infront of my house after not talking for a month to tell me the date got moved again on the same day his sister sent me his new number after he left and we chatted again but every second day or so ! for bout 2 weeks and he told me i looked good and asked if iam chatting with anyone and seeing anyone i lied and said yes chatting but not seeing anyone that made him a bit upset he wanted to know who is it where he lived and everything but i change the subject everytime … Then he just got quiet again for bout 3weeks and then i thought of him and just send a msgs again we chatted the whole day and he told ne they broking up i still said i hope they can fix things between them and was supportive towards him we stopped chatting and 2 days later he sent me a msgs they back together and i must not bother him again and then he blocked me. His family his own mother couldnt even get hold off him and they asked me if i know how he was doing witch i did not ..they all love me to bits and chat regularly .. Couple of weeks went by and his court case finished up last week ppl that he is living with contact me to please go to court to sign the slip and get the money back for him so i went and that is the first time we saw each other in 2 months again when he saw me he smiled and looked me straight in the eyes he asked how i was doing and so on bit of small talk … i caught him stairing at me a few times and smiling when i asked what it is he just said nothing after a few second s i could feel he wanted to say something but he didnt when we left i walked to my car and he towards his he said thanks for everything and hope to see me again soon witch i replied i dont think so he then asked why not then i just looked him in his eyes and said goodbye and left … I still love him very much .. I would like to know if he realy loved me at all and what does everything mean will he come back or is he just playing with my emotions .. in all our chats he would say he wishes things could off been different and that every thing will be oky .. What should i do just block him out off my mind or should i still be hopefull
Hi Soso!
I wish I could tell you whether or not he ever really truly loved you but there is no way for me to know that. I’m an Astrologer so I don’t have psychic ability. Even if he does come back, could you trust him not to do this stuff to you again? Think about it. A Taurus man in love isn’t going to keep screwing around and doing the things this guy has done. You may want to let go or find yourself another Taurus man. If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hi Kay,
I am an Aquarius/Pisces cusp (or so I’m told. Born just before midnight on 13/2. I’ve always described myself as an Aquarius with Pisces tendencies.)
I recently told my Taurus man (of 14 months) that I was worried that he wasn’t happy with me (my insecurities I think) and that I was worried he still had feelings for his ex (Mother of his 9 year old Virgo daughter) He insists that they hadn’t been “together” for a long time, but she is a friend (who he says he wouldn’t be friendly with if it weren’t for his little girl) I struggled with the fact that he spent time, as a family, in their home of 10 years, and would stay over on the sofa. I know I am probably being unreasonable, but with no chance of ever having children with him I guess I was jealous that she could give him something I couldn’t and it hurt.
Anyway, I am truly wishing I hadn’t “let him go”, as I put it to him. Is there any hope of reconciliation, or have I ruined everything?
Hi Emma!
I am sorry that you felt insecure about him. Yes, you probably can get him back by building your own confidence and let your fears go. Show him why he is important to you and that you’re working on taking a different path with your life. Apologize to him for having worries like you did and that now you’re ready to show him that you trust him and will believe what he says going forward. It’s not an easy thing to prove but you definitely can do it over time. Reach out and tell him you cannot get him off your mind. If he still cares, he’ll bite and come back. I wish you all the luck of the stars. Check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” for more helpful tips.
Taurus men are so confusing 🙁 I have been dating my Taurus man for 8 months, (we wrote to each other for 9 months before that)… he is separated 3 years but still in family home with ex (he is sorting things soon). He goes from sweet love and being the most beautiful, kind caring man, to deep anger and disgust with me, often times very quickly. Half the time I don’t know what I have done. Its like treading on eggshells sometimes. I love him deeply, we have bonded. He has told me he loves me many times, we plan for the future, we talk. But his moods are depleting me spiritually, emotionally.
He is Taurus, Virgo moon, Gemini venus, I am Taurus also! Not sure on my moon (Capricorn or Aquarius) with Taurus venus. I have read Taurus Man Secrets over and over, infant, with out it I would not have gotten this far!
We only see each other at weekends but he calls every day. We have had big arguments (due to his being so ready to be offended at everything, or in his eyes ‘disrespected’, he is very very difficult)…..he will ignore my texts consistently if he is upset with me, ignore me for a couple of days; though we have so far worked through things. After can then be super loving, almost to the opposite degree for a few days or weeks until BANG! same again.
I’m exhausted. I texted him today to say I was not around for a chat tomorrow… I’m so tired, drained, I need space to think….as we had an argument tonight, when I called him a pet name that he found offensive (even though it was said with love and nothing derogatory in it).
How can he go from so loving, being kind and sweet, to then so sharp and cold, argumentative even? Is it his situation at home? Are Taurean men selfish? Sometimes he doesn’t even ask how I am! I wonder if he is ready for a relationship, he has admitted he is sad that his marriage didn’t work (while I value honestly, its troubling).
I am trying not to worry what he thinks about me taking a day out… no doubt he won’t call me the day after to punish me… I hate uncertainty. Taurus women are VERY different to Taurus men, thats for sure. I feel so unhappy. I love him, he’s so amazing in so many ways, I feel like I will never make him happy.
Hi Robyn!
You are in a sticky situation with your Taurus man. I’m not sure anything will change for the better if he’s still living with his family. They are still priority which makes you less than a priority. I don’t see him doing anything to change his behavior unless he gets his own place. Yes, Taurus men can be mean and selfish. The are one of the signs that do have potential narcissist tendencies. I think that you should let go of him. Go quiet and if he wants to be with you, he will do what is necessary. He will leave the house he’s in and get his own place so that he can be with you. Until then, your energy would be best spent working on your path and your future. If you want more Taurus information, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
So my question is different. I’m a Taurus man and my Aquarius GF of 6 years just ended things. I’m crushed to say the least. It’s the longest relationship I’ve ever had. I am now 44 and she is 31 so there is am age gap but she is very mature. We’ve had our issues but I thought have worked through them together. We discussed marriage in the early years and she was pretty opossed to it and she had kept that stance for most of the relationship. Over the last year she had made comments about me getting a ring and us settling down, kind of in jest, so I’m not sure if this is something she really wanted. She would go back and forth about it if I brought marriage up. I had some insecurities In the relationship, she’s much younger and is genuinely absolutely gorgeous. She gets ALOT of attention from other males. I’d say I’m a tall good looking guy but she was definitely in a league above me. I was always a bit insecure about the amount of attention she got from others but she was very good about addressing it and telling me she loved me. I’m also getting to the age where I’m getting stuck in my ways and habits while her Aquarius personality is always ready to try the new thing or adventure. I’m more of a stable, “boring”, lower energy guy that’s only gotten worse with age. Anyways, I know where the problems are and I’m willing to change. I understand I’m in panic mode and would do just about anything to keep this amazing woman, especially after 6 years together. I guess my question is about Taurus men and change. My heart is broken and I want her back so badly. Can we Taurus change? Is it common to just say whatever is needed to keep the person only to fall right back into our old ways? I’ve never been through a breakup where I was losing someone I loved. I don’t want to promise her the world, not deliver and be right back here again down the road. I know I’m rambling. This split is days old so it’s been a lot of soul searching. Any insight into Taurus behavior related to my situation would be great. Please help this broken hearted Taurus.
Hi Chase Hayes!
Thank you for writing in. I love hearing from the men sometimes as well. You can change if you really want it, yes. I wouldn’t tell her whatever she wants to hear though. Aquarius wants to know the truth. Be forthright and honest. Compromise with her in doing fun things here and there if she’s willing to accept that you also love to be home. You absolutely can find a middle ground. You both have to want it and you both have to actively practice it. Soul searching is fantastic! Take steps to heal your heart so you can be open again. My suggestion is finding a meditation that works for you. There are plenty online. Find a subliminal one or guided one. Do it once a day for a month at the least. You will notice change over time. I would say it’s good to use meditations such as “letting go of fear” and “better communication” or “be the best you”. I wish you all the best!
I’m a Taurus female together with a taurus male…he is the typical boring chill food and crafts loving but also funny type of guy, I’m the opposite,I need sport action fun adventures everyday or I get angry and I’m not really that funny, or witty like him. But(!) Taurus in general needs to learn to pay attention to their partners…it’s like…yes we hear you but we don’t react…we react too late. I know it from our relationship and other Taureans and their relationships. Also Taurus needs balance…we either do too much in a relationship,or too less…pay attention taurus….don’t act slow…shy unsure or insecure. Let love in but give love back too
Good luck
Hi Silver!
Thank you for chiming in and sharing your Taurus on Taurus relationship. I love finding out all I can as it helps me help others. I’m glad you figured out a great formula between two Taurus lovers. Fantastic! I appreciate you and wish you all the luck of the universe!
Hi, I need to know your opinion on my case. Thank you.
I’m Taurus. I was single and 14 years apart when I met another Taurus coworker. I’m married to a Capricorn old friend a couple of months later to fulfill my parents wish.
On the 5th years of my marriage I was getting so close with the Taurus coworker, while my husband was starting to show his materialistic and rude side. Although he’s kind of thorned with the fact that I’m older, married, and with the differences in our cultural background there’s no way for us to even thinking of getting married, but with the extreme chemistry we’ve got we decided to hook up.
After a couple of months indulging the great chemistry we’ve got, the Taurus coworker later on left me and broke me up but asking to keep the communication as he still want us to be friends. We keep the communication alive while I’m falling out of love from my husband who even said that he met my deceased father, telling me that my father couldn’t make it to the heaven yet.
Months later the communication with the younger Taurus coworker who moved away to another island was getting me tired, for all he did was pointing out how wrong out relationship is and that I should get back to my husband for he doesn’t want to ruin my marriage as it is forbidden by his religion.
So, I decided to cut the communication between me and the younger Taurus, while I still couldn’t get rid of the annoyed feeling when dealing with my husband.