Taurus men are extremely likable and make some of the best partners a woman could ever ask for. These guys are sweet, kind, and nurturing, and love to make a woman feel safe and secure. But how can you TELL if a Taurus man ACTUALLY likes you in that romantic way?
Now let me tell you something… it’s worth figuring out the signs if a Taurus man likes you or not. I mean, if YOU are interested and you want him to like you, too. That’s really worth it because being loved by a Taurus is one of the best things in the world. And falling in love with a Taurus is so easy, too. They’re sweet and kind, and they’re always thinking of ways to please you.
But getting them interested requires UNDERSTANDING him on a deeper level (don’t worry we’ll talk more about that later). For now — let’s look at the 20 signs that you already caught his attention.
Just so you know, it’s okay to be a bit confused — Taurus men usually hide their emotions unless something else is making them (maybe he already has someone or is afraid of being rejected by you since he doesn’t think YOU like him).
They can be shy and hide things from people who they feel can let them down (trust and comfort are a MAJOR factor), so these signs may help you know if that Taurus guy is into you.
How To Know If A Taurus Man Likes You
When you are first getting to know someone, you can never quite tell if they like you or not, and this case is especially true when it comes to a Taurus man. He is quite shy and coy actually, so he may be playing it cool.
A Taurus man does this weird thing when he is actually interested in a woman, he will kind of pull away, and this is because he is so afraid of getting hurt.
You need to be patient with him and let him warm up to being more vulnerable. So, how do you know if a Taurus man likes you? Here are some of the signs a Taurus man likes you:
6 Clear Signs A Taurus Man Likes You
1. He Asks You Some Personal Questions
Taurus men aren’t the type to go around getting to know everyone on a deeper level unless maybe he was born right on the Taurus/Gemini cusp. As a general rule, though, these guys aren’t super chatty and they prefer to avoid “filler conversation.”
That said, if you find yourself in the company of a Taurus man who just can’t seem to get enough of hearing about your childhood and those slightly fuzzy college days you reminisce about now and again, you know he wants to deepen your relationship.
He may not be as open and giving with his own history right off the bat, but in time he will open up and share his hidden side with you. When a Taurus man asks you personal questions, it is a very good sign that he enjoys spending time with you and may want to take it further in the future.
Here’s more on what every Taurus man wants in a relationship <<
2. You Make Him Feel A Little Nervous
It’s usually pretty obvious when a guy is nervous around you. He will fumble with his words, become clumsy, maybe even start sweating a little. Taurus men are generally confident and are not easily shaken…unless his crush comes in and shakes up his world, at which time he may momentarily show signs of being nervous and unsure of how to act around you.
This isn’t something that will last very long, but in the initial stages of your relationship (like the first couple of times you meet), if your presence seems to be intimidating to him or make him nervous, it’s a safe bet that your Taurus guy is totally into you.
If he acts a little awkward and nervous then you know that your presence does something to him that drives him crazy. He likes you and spending time with you makes him a little nervous. How sweet!
3. He Laughs At Your Jokes
Taurus men tend to have a great sense of humor and they enjoy a good joke. If you are the type to tell jokes or if you just have a feisty sense of humor, there’s a good chance that’s a big part of what attracts that Taurus guy to you in the first place.
When you find someone whose sense of humor matches up with yours, it’s a really awesome kind of connection and not one you want to lose.
So, if you notice your Taurus guy is always laughing at your jokes, even the ones that aren’t all that funny, it’s safe to presume that he wants to be more than friends. He likes being around you because you make him feel good.
What’s awesome about this sign is that you kind of already know this relationship is going to be fun, being built on humor and all. Who doesn’t want to be in a relationship where there are constant laughs and a good time?
4. He’s Investing His Time In Building A Friendship With You
Taurus guys do just about everything slowly, or at their own pace, and they really do value their time. Time is money, and money is king, so if a Taurus man is investing his time in getting to know you and building a friendship with you, you know his intentions are genuine. You have the potential to mean something special to him.
The time he’s investing now in getting to know you and becoming closer as friends is something your Taurus guy is hoping will provide a positive return for him (i.e., your companionship in the future). He doesn’t like wasting his time on people and seems to think that you are a worthy investment.
This can be a really sweet gesture, but if you aren’t that into him, you should probably let him know before he invests too much time in a relationship that’s headed nowhere. A Taurus man will always respect you for your honesty and truthfulness.
5. He Singles You Out When You Are In A Group
If a Taurus guy likes you, he will do his best to separate you from others you may be hanging out with. He is more of a one-on-one type of person and hates the awkwardness of others watching him when he is into a girl.
Whether it’s an invite to watch the sunset on a balcony or maybe a dock outside, or if the two of you smoke and he asks if you want to go out back with him for a smoke, if you’ve been crushing hard on him this is your moment to shine!
It can be especially hard to know how your Taurus crush feels about you when the two of you are friends and hang out in the same circles.
When he pulls you away from the group, you get the chance to get to know each other a little better, and it’s a clear sign a Taurus man likes you and is interested in more than what is happening between you right now. This is your chance, but let him take the lead!
6. He Holds Your Hand In Public
Handholding is one of the sweetest things a couple can do, especially those little old couples you see walking down the street hand in hand who’ve been married for 57 years or something crazy like that.
I always stop and ask those types of couples what it is that’s held them together and not all that surprisingly, I seem to always come back with the same sets of answers.
One of the things I’ve been told is that the fundamental keys to building a solid relationship that will last the span of your life together are actually hand-holding, believe it or not. There is scientific research that indicates holding hands with your partner does everything from lowering your blood pressure to relieving anxiety and just making us happier, overall.
If you’re into him and he reaches out for your hand, take it. This could be the start of a long and prosperous relationship.
Not only all of that but hand-holding can actually extend your lifespan when you’re in a happy relationship…there is more than you thought to this sweet romantic gesture!
Taurus men have one of the most specific love languages of all zodiac signs. I have covered his entire astrology love profile in my Taurus Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.
4 More Signs A Taurus Man Has A Crush On You
A Taurus man is known for being shy, despite the confident mask he wears to the world. And this is especially true when he finds himself crushing on someone he really likes. He doesn’t just go for her, instead, he takes his time and patiently waits to make a move.
This can be a little frustrating and leave you feeling like you don’t know where his mind is at. But just remember that men go at a different pace than women and Taurus men go even slower than all the other guys in the Zodiac, but here are a few signs a Taurus man has a crush on you:
7. The Way He Looks At You Says It All
If you find your Taurus guy making eye contact and generally acknowledging your existence, this is a good indication that he’s at least a little bit intrigued by you. By looking a little deeper into the way he looks at you, it can reveal so much about your Taurus guy’s feelings and intentions toward you.
His ascendant (or rising sign) will have a lot to do with how your Taurus presents himself, especially at first. He may have Aries rising and be confident, excited, and full of energy and passion, all of which will come out in the way he looks at you.
Or, he may have Capricorn rising and be very reserved, shy, and perhaps even a bit apprehensive in how he examines you with his eyes. Once you’ve gotten past his initial “look,” take a moment or so to really visually connect with him. Then, trust your intuition.
When a Taurus man likes someone, he gets a sort of sparkle in his eye, you can tell he’s excited and wants to know more. A Taurus man loves to covet things, and you might be one of them! Pay attention!
8. He Will Pay Attention To Details About You
Let’s face it; most guys have the tendency to zone out from time to time, or in some cases, all the time. It’s really no big deal until you run into miscommunications where he’s telling you, “You never told me that,” when in all actuality, you know very well that you did.
This happens in just about every relationship and you learn how to deal with it in your specific situation the more you get to know your guy and how his mind operates.
When a Taurus guy is into you, there is none of that zoning out, in fact, he will be dialed in to you and what you’ve got to say 100%. This can be nice if you aren’t used to it, and it is a huge signal that he has feelings for you, otherwise he wouldn’t be nearly so attentive and communicative.
That said, be careful what personal stuff you share in the early stages of your relationship because the odds are whatever you say to him now will stay in his memory banks pretty much forever. He notices things that others don’t and unfortunately, a Taurus man can get turned off pretty quickly if he doesn’t like what he hears.
This Taurus trait can be especially wonderful when he surprises you by getting your favorite super complicated coffee order correct without even having to ask!
9. He Takes Time To Develop Your Relationship Slowly
There are few things in this world greater than that feeling of falling hard in love with someone at first sight.
That rush of emotion and the feeling of being so intricately connected to this other person is a huge rush and, some say, it causes you to lose all concept of logic for a moment or two.
With a Taurus man, you may get this rush of feeling, but you won’t often find a Taurus who’s all about rushing into a relationship. He needs to go at his own pace or else he may feel rushed into something he isn’t ready for.
Taurus guys take their time doing everything, and rushing is simply something that isn’t done. This is especially true when it comes to meaningful relationships.
With that said, if you feel like things should be moving more quickly, but you’re still pretty sure he’s into you, look at this slow progression as his way of ensuring your relationship is built on the sturdiest of foundations.
This means he really likes you and wants to take his time savoring every detail of getting to know you. You’re a lucky girl because when a Taurus man invests his time it means he is pretty serious.
If you would like to look out for the surefire signs about Taurus man intentions about you, check out my recent blogpost.
10. He Shows His Flirtatious Side To You
I know, I know…that one is obvious, but is it, really? Taurus men have a flirting style all their own–One of the things about bulls that fascinates me still is that you are never sure if he is actually flirting or if he is just joking around?
Does what he just did mean he digs you or did he just have something in his eye? The world may never know, and you won’t know if you don’t take action!
Don’t get me wrong, Taurus men can be so sexy and very seductive when they want to be, but they can also be nervous and unsure of themselves.
After all, Taurus does rule the 2nd house is astrology, meaning your bull is probably pretty financially savvy, but he may also have some self-image/self-esteem issues deep down in there to deal with. These can come out sometimes when he’s trying to flirt.
Those failed flirting attempts come across as adorable, yet confusing actions that all amount to him having a crush on you. There are times, too, that your Taurus guy might do something like telling you to just keep his stapler & he will get himself another.
That way you don’t have to worry about not having one anymore (this takes place in whatever setting you may be in where you would ask him to borrow a stapler). This simple act of kindness is a form of earthy Taurus flirtation…I swear it is.
A Taurus man flirts by giving and being generous. It is actually quite endearing! Learn more on how to flirt with a Taurus man effectively <<
What Does It Mean When A Taurus Man Teases You?
This takes us back to elementary school when that mean little boy who threw rocks at you would torment you all because he had a crush on you. Taurus is just the second sign in the “lifecycle” of the zodiac, so there is a part of him that will always and forever think like a little boy.
If he picks at you in a flirty kind of way, it’s usually a sign that he’s way into you. And, what’s nifty about Taurus guys is that being a kind of conservative earth sign ruled by Venus, he isn’t going to take it too far.
A Taurus man is totally the little boy who is mean to the girl because he likes her. He wants to show you affection but might feel a little awkward doing so. He’ll never be malicious, it is not his style, but he will tease you about something to make you more vulnerable to open up to him.
In other words, he’s hoping to get positive attention from this, and the flirty back-and-forth banter can be really fun!
5 Obvious Signs A Taurus Man Is Sexually Attracted To You
One of the nicest things about a Taurus man is his sensuality. He is so affectionate and shows his feelings through being physical. He loves touching his woman and making it known to her how much he adores her.
Here’s all you need to know about Taurus men specific love language <<
If a Taurus man is touching you or getting physical with you, then he most definitely likes you. But let’s explore some of the signs your Taurus man is sexually attracted to you:
11. He Gently Places His Hands On The Small Of Your Back
This is, I think, the universal signal for “she’s mine,” and all men out there recognize it. Women, too. This is one of the nicest feelings in the world.
It can be a very comforting sensation when your Taurus guy comes up and places his hand there on the small of your back, it makes you feel desired and feminine and protected all at the same time.
It’s kind of weird when you think about it, how one tiny gesture can create so many feelings and emotions in an instant. You might feel like you belong and are safe around him.
Now, you may or may not want him to be so hands-on so fast, and if this is the case, you’ll want to set your boundaries for physical contact as soon as possible.
If you are into feeling his hands on you at this point, this is your signal that things can go further if you want it to happen. The ball is in your court now, it’s time to show him how you feel.
12. He Finds Little Reasons To Touch You
This one may sound a little creepy at first, but there is a method to my madness, I promise. There are a lot of different situations where you brush up against someone or your hands bump into someone else’s throughout the day, and as long as you don’t make it awkward, it isn’t.
When a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you, he’ll find extra ways to brush up against you or have his hand bump into yours. If you work together, he may take up the same schedule or routine as you, or do things that place him in tight spaces where you’ll be.
This still sounds a little weird, I know, but it really isn’t. You can trust that if he is finding reasons to touch you, he definitely has it bad for you.
Taurus men are SO HOT in bed and oh so sensual… but also raw. They like the physical and if you can push his buttons — wow. He will be so drawn to you, not just thinking about you but having that kind of raw, animal desire for you, and only you.
A Taurus man needs touch to feel an intimate connection with someone. It is of the utmost importance for him, he is touching you because he wants to see how you respond and if you are open to his advances or not.
13. He Tries To Get Close And Physical With You
Taurus men are respectful and gentlemanly guys, but they are still guys and, when you get down to it, they are a sensual lot who really enjoy the pleasures of the flesh…preferably your flesh (I didn’t realize until I typed it how creepy that sounds, but you know what I mean).
A Taurus man will wait to try and take things to the next level until they are relatively sure that you are into it, and until he’s sure that he’s totally into it.
Once this has been ascertained, however, he can be quite the sexual force in the best possible way! It seems rather obvious, but physical intimacy is a huge sign that he’s way into you. It means that he likes you enough to want to get closer to you. Enjoy!
14. He Texts You Something A Little Saucy And Risqué
Taurus guys may not be super vocal about their feelings and desires, but via text, you might find that he is totally into sexual innuendo and getting his flirt on with you. He definitely knows how to get a little spicy from time to time.
It may be easier for him to be sexually suggestive or make sexy comments in person, so pay attention to what your Taurus guy says via text.
If a Taurus guy sends you something seductive, he is definitely interested in you on a sexual level. He is planting a seed and seeing if you are going to water it. The next step is up to you…
Find out right here how to flirt with a Taurus man over text (with cute and clever examples) <<
15. He Makes Note Of The Chemistry Between The Two Of You
You can tell when there is chemistry between you and a guy, you may not be able to describe it, exactly, but you know it when it’s there.
Chemistry is what attraction and lust are made of and finding someone you share perfect chemistry with is both rare and incredibly amazing.
If you feel that spark of chemistry between you and your Taurus man, consider yourself one of the lucky ones. If he makes mention of it, consider yourself one of the incredibly lucky ones!
You won’t have to question his feelings for you with all that Venusian energy combined with the chemistry you both notice. Just be careful with this kind of connection and guard your heart.
It’s easy to fall so deeply in love because of the chemistry that your heart gets set in a position where it could easily be broken. Don’t rush things. Enjoy the experience!
Taurus Man Can Be A Little Shy — Here’re The Signs He Secretly Likes You
16. He Makes Very Apparent Eye Contact With You
Taurus men are usually pretty shy and they often will avoid making eye contact with people in an effort to get away without having to engage in meaningless small talk.
On the other hand, when a Taurus guy wants to get to know you better, or if he’s just mesmerized by your energy, you’ll notice him making intentional eye contact with you more than just once or twice.
So, what do you do when you find a Taurus guy locking eyeballs with you? If you’re into him you’ll definitely want to acknowledge his existence and look him right back in the eyes. Not in an aggressive way, but in a sexy, come-hither kind of way.
Now that you’ve locked eyes with your Taurus guy, it’s important to notice the way he looks at you. Is he looking at you with desire, is he looking at you with passion burning in his eyes, or is he looking at you tenderly with love and possibly imagining a bright future the two of you could have together?
17. He Shows You How He Feels About You
Taurus guys are tactile creatures who, unlike their Gemini neighbor, aren’t always so great with words. A Taurus man is a lot of things, but when it comes to verbal communication it definitely isn’t his strong suit.
He can speak eloquently and if you give him enough time to formulate a response, he can drop the mic on almost anyone, but when it comes to going through the process of sharing his feelings, your Taurus man would probably rather just show you through his actions.
Anything, when done with the right intentions, can be a show of affection or attraction.
From washing your car to refilling your coffee cup or giving you a ride home, when a Taurus guy likes you, he will make sure to be available when the time comes that you could use someone coming to your rescue, even if he is rescuing you from a dirty car or an empty coffee mug.
All of this is in the hopes to show you that he wants to get closer to you and that he feels something deeper for you. Don’t listen to what he says, pay attention to what he does.
Learn more on how to communicate with a Taurus man <<
18. He Invites You Over To “Chill”
You may not realize from his hard work ethic and practical sensibilities that your Taurus guy has a definite lazy streak. I have yet to meet a Taurus, male or female, who didn’t. He loves to relax and just be comfortable.
The time your Taurus guy spends doing nothing and being lazy is like sacred time to him. It’s his time to decompress and just chill, as is true with most of us.
If your Taurus guy invites you over for some Netflix and chill, he may actually just want to Netflix and chill. Of course, lazy time is an indulgent time and there is a good possibility that one thing may lead to another, and there’s an even bigger possibility that this is his plan.
However, it is a big green flag if he invites you over to his place, this means he is really comfortable with you and that he accepts you as a part of his life. Netflix and chill definitely mean more… It is up to you about how far you want to take it.
How To Tell If A Taurus Man Likes You — FAQ
There is no simple answer to this because Taurus men, in general, like to take things slow, especially when it comes to a relationship. If the two of you have just met then I would keep your expectations really low and just assume that he only wants friendship.
If you have too high expectations of a Taurus man then you are going to be sorely disappointed because he moves at a much slower pace than other guys. Just be yourself and let him take the lead.
But seriously, heed my advice and view him as just a friend at first, this way you won’t be sad or disheartened when he takes things a lot slower than what you would like him to.
How Can You Tell If A Taurus Man Doesn’t Like You?
A Taurus man is pretty difficult to read, especially if he doesn’t like you because he is a pretty friendly person and will never be nasty or malicious to anyone. But you may also take his slow-moving actions as disinterest as well. This is a tricky one.
However, if he never reaches out and is quite short and one-worded in his responses to you then the likelihood of him being into you is pretty low.
A Taurus man will always invest in what he cares about, and if he doesn’t, well you know where you stand. Don’t take it personally, just realize he isn’t the one for you and move on.
Related: Warning Signs That A Taurus Man Has Lost Interest
What Is A Taurus Man’s Love Language?
Being such a sensual sign, it is pretty obvious that a Taurus man’s love language is physical touch. Ruled by Venus, he needs that affection to feel like he is loved. He also shows he cares by being tender with his woman.
If the lady he is dating is quite shut off and is unwilling to get physically intimate often with the Taurus man then he might quickly lose interest in her. He needs to be able to express himself physically!
I strongly recommend you explore more about your Taurus man’s love language, in my new guide Taurus Love Language where I reveal plenty of useful insights as well as exact examples on which phrases will make him crazy for you.
Will A Taurus Man Wait For You?
Absolutely! One of the best qualities about a Taurus man is his enduring nature. He is so patient and wouldn’t want to rush anyone into anything. A Taurus man will wait for you!
Normal Dating Advice Can Backfire With A Taurus Man…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Taurus man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Why???
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Taurus.
You see, Taurus men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with a Taurus, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you.
Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.
He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches! They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Taurus is NOT like other men… at ALL.
So go here now to find out the specific things your Taurus man needs to hear to melt his heart.
Wishing you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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I am a Taurus man myself.I think signs are pretty accurate to me.It is true that we will make our partner feel like a princess.We are very generous and we love giving flowers to the ones we love.So overall I give this website 5 stars.
Ok… so I stumbled on this and I’m wowed by what I’ve read so far. I’m a Taurus lady too. I’m glad that I’velearnt more ways in which I can. Communicate with my man and react when need be…cos these Taurus man are fun of surprises
I love my Taurus m an we are courting its a most beautiful thing the way he looks at me his eyes says it all he is so shy and manly we are both taureans the chemistry is amazing
We usually talk for hours everyday but all of a sudden he didn’t reply my text reading “hi”…. I even asked him if he’s OK but no reply….for 2 days now we’ve not spoken …ion know what’s wrong….we’re friends but there’s a romantic touch there, I know cause I’ve been reading signs a Taurus man like you by you Ana
This crush I’ve had for about…4 months is pretty much the most confusing thing ever, so I appreciate you affirming that. My issue is, I keep thinking he’s interested, but then I become unsure, and I don’t want to ruin the friendship we’ve been building (or make it awkward, even), so I back off completely and act like I’m fond of him but not actually interested in anything more.
Usually I’d have just asked by now, but we are friends, and I’m afraid doing that would be a mistake, so I keep hoping it will become more clear in time. I’m not someone who wants or needs a relationship to happen asap (aside from wishing I knew how he felt), so I’m trying to focus on friendship for now.
Hi Anonymous!
Taurus men tend to not chase a woman if they think the woman isn’t into him. Doing that may cause him to turn away from you. I think that flirting with him and letting him know you’d like to know him better will make him understand that you’re into him and that will open up the door for him to step inside if he sees the same in you. If he doesn’t, he’ll probably tell you he isn’t into a relationship or that he’s not ready. At least you’ll know where it is and can proceed with friendship at the very lest. Give it a try!
Well a Taurus man told me he was in love with me. But den he was so close and good to me. Which made me fall in love with himenilla. Buh things drastically changed. He dusnt communicate with me like bfr.. And wen I ask he says he is busy. So then I went ahead to accept his proposal. Buh den. He tld ne he needed me to calm down for him. I am totally confused.
Hi Eniola!
That means that moving quickly scared him and he now needs to analyze the relationship, if you’re the right one, is he doing the right thing, and if he should proceed with it or not. He’s in need of some time and patience so he can figure things out unless you don’t feel he’s worth it. You have to decide whether you want to wait him out or not. If you do then just be patient and supportive. You may find you end up with him unless he decides he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. Hang in there sweetheart. I wish you the best! If you need more Taurus pointers, you should try reading my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hey there
Can anyone plzz help me
In my case Taurus man is in a relationship but her GF is somewhere else … Still he looks at me with his intense eyes nd tries to gain my attention everytime … He also crack jokes to make me laugh nd always listens to me carefully …. He shows up almost every moment … He was angry on a boy who was misbehaving with me … But the problem is that he never talk much…. He just do the above things… I m confused whether he is seriously into a relationship or he wants to commit with me … Shall I take the first move ??
Thanks is advance for taking up my query ❤️
Hi Tanu!
If he has a girlfriend, you need to probably only be friends with him. If you hear that they have broken up then you can go for more but don’t do it until he does declare himself as single otherwise if he’s willing to mess around on her then he may do the same to you later. Be very careful. Make a move as far as being his friend and see what happens from there. If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hi there,
I was seeing a taurus guy for a short time, and he displayed many of these signs. Its amazing how accurate some of these are! I really thought the relationship was going to become exclusive soon. His brother then unexpectedly passed away. At this time he pulled away from me and became very distant, before telling me he is not ready for a relationship right now. He didn’t say anything else and doesn’t say much when I try to reach out, but does reply or answer my calls. I’ve only called twice to check in. This was a few weeks ago. Do you think he will come back to me in time? Or would he have wanted me around for support and not pushed me away if he truly wanted to be with me?
Hi Verna!
Yikes, he put relationships on the back burner to grieve no doubt. That’s a normal Taurus thing to do. I think you could probably check on him again. It may take him awhile to get past everything though. Once he does, I think that there is a good possibility that you two could get back on track. Just be patient and loving. Text him and tell him he’s in your thoughts and you hope he’s doing well. Doing that once a week for a bit should help. If you want to know more about Taurus men, you should check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hi the Taurus man I have a crush on also happens to be my manager. I’m really confused because I can feel the Chem I know he does too in fact others sense the sexual tension at work.
He doesn’t straight up flirt with me but he makes it a Point to stand really close to me and well I with a Taurus moon I am fully reciprocating. I’m confused because well He was supposed to help me set up some work apps over the phone one night and he said he was busy and he would text me at a certain time. The time came and went and no text.
When I text him a about helping me he said sorry he was still at his brother and that he would help me the next day the next day cake and went and nothing… when I text him saying “hi ☺️ Are you free today to help me” he said jokingly “lol awkward I’m at my parents”… then the following day he shows up at work on his day off to pick up a package and tries to make eye contact that I didn’t return… then the next time I worked with him he was playful and again stands close to me. He even asked about a Bouquet of flowers that I walked into work with.
He didn’t ask who gave them to you… but he immediately went out of his way to go to the back and subtly ask “who did you bring flowers For” I said no one since I had bought them myself to help the people who where selling them at the freeway entrance.
Then as the day when by he subtly gets close to me or close proximity to where I’m at.
But then nothing no text no nothing. I mean does he even like me or am I just seeing things where there is non?
Hi Libby!
Hmm… I think you may have to flat out ask him. Ask him if you two can meet up for a coffee or something like that. Then you’re meeting in a public place where you two can sit down and talk about things outside of work. This way you’ll find out a bit more as far as figuring out if he’s interested in you or not. If it does seem that way, you can suggest getting together again and see what his response is. Find out more by reading my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
Hi Anna,
I spent a month getting to know a Taurus man, we hit it off pretty quickly and enjoyed our time together. We would hangout and be active together, and he would spend the night and have breakfast and long lazy morning. I got to meet some of his friends casually and even spent the night at his place.
He told me about a recent ex who was really emotionally abusive and how that has made relationships hard. She was amazing but really toxic and he was head over heels so it’s been hard not to either be scared of new relationships or comparing people to when his ex was at her best. Anyway, he brought up the convo to make sure I knew where he was at and to be mindful of me. A week passes and I realize I am starting to have more feelings. We had been taking it slow but I knew if we keep hanging out I will get hurt if he’s not ready to date.
So I check in with him, and he says no he’s not ready and apologizing for not being emotionally available as he was hoping something would happen that would make him ready. Also we had been sleeping with each other and only each other but he was honest that he thought about sleeping with someone else. Anyway I told him we could not see each other like this anymore if he doesn’t intend on dating me. We ended on very good terms and even the first time we talked about it we decided we like each other as people and will still be friends or at least friendly.
So my question is, was this a right person wrong time situation or does it seem like maybe he realized he didn’t like to date me and it was an easy way out? Or maybe after some time should I reach out again and see if he’s ready? When we are together he is very sweet and attentive, always watching me and saying caring things and helping me. Sometimes I see in his eyes he gets a little jealous if someone is talking to me but tries to keep his cool. But I understand that his ex was hard. Was it the wrong move to tell him I needed to be done? Should I have asked him if he wanted to keep trying for longer. I didn’t want to become emotionally invested and get hurt but I told him if he’s interested and ready to let me know in like a serious joking way. Also, I don’t want to come off as clingy but I want to let him know I’m still around as a friend or if he’s ready.
Tatiana, it is best NOT to stay friends with him. Let him miss you, think about you, and want to come back. If you make it easy and stay friends, he knows he always has you on the sideline, don’t boost his ego. Tell him to meet in person, have a fun discussion and at the end hold his hand and tell him you deeply care for him and when he’s ready to have a meaningful relationship with you, he can contact you then and believe me he will be thinking about you and when he’s ready he will. Remember a strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted. She won’t fix it or beg, she’ll just walk away and if he doesn’t chase you now or come after you later, keep walking. If a man wants you in his life he will put you there, you shouldn’t be fighting for a spot.
Or I worry, was this a test to see if I will stick with him?
I made it clear that I’m interested in him and only him and he even said he knows that’s how I am. Can I show my loyalty and interest without being clingy or is it a lost cause and I need to do my own thing and possibly date other people and one day if he’s ready either I or he will reconnect if the stars align?
Hi Tatiana!
I think that he was very honest in saying what he meant. He isn’t ready to be in a relationship with all that he’s been through. He probably needs more time to work on his own healing and his life. When he’s ready and feels everything is in order then he may change his mind. If you want to stay friends in order to keep the door open for the future then simply text him and tell him outright that you’d love to stay friends if he’s alright with it. If he says he is then you can continue to be a friend. There is no way to know if he’s your person with all of this. Only time will for sure let you know what is meant to be for you. Right now until Fall, the retrogrades are making HUGE changes for everyone. Hang in there but if you’d like more information about Taurus man, check out my books on Taurus Man Secrets!
Thank you for all of the hints. I am having the hardest time deciphering my Taurus crush. He takes me on the most amazing and romantic adventures and makes me feel so important, unlike anyone I have ever been with, despite that we are not even ‘together’ or sexual with each other. But he is holding back and pulls back constantly, giving so many mixed messages. He is much younger than me and I think that bothers him as it may mean that we don’t end up long-term as it’s unlikely I’ll have more kids and he REALLY wants to have a family. But we get along so well, and have spent quality time together almost daily for the past month. I have never felt so respected, despite that he’s not been perfect by any means, and I have never appreciated a man more than I appreciate him and all that he does. Hoping he figures his stuff out and goes either one way or the other soon.
Hi Sandy!
If he is taking you on amazing and romantic adventures then the answer is YES, he likes you and he respects you enough not to dive into bed or try to push hard for commitment. He is taking his time and making sure that this is something that can work out. Just be patient with you. You’ll be fine!
a taurus guy employed me recently, in a start-up company. I’m 21, he’s roughly 25. In just a week I catch him staring right at me, coming to work at my space to do his tasks, long hand touches while passing me stuff, and also he kinda laughs or smiles when he’s in my corner of the office. I feel like he might be in to me, but I think I have a lot to risk. I need the job and if something goes wrong I think I may have more to lose. He is kinda like a spoiled rich kid, and it seems he could easily find a replacement. super confused!
Hi x,
I wouldn’t make any moves or say anything quite yet unless you are actually interested. If you think it’s not a good idea then just let it go and don’t play into his game. Be professional, do what you need to do, and focus on your needs. That’s the best thing you can do. His intention may be revealed in time. He may just be a flirty guy. Wishing you all the best!
Can someone please give me advice. I’ve known this guy for10 years we met at work and became friends. I was divorced and he was married, he broke our friendship because he started having feelings for me and worked on his failed marriage which ended in divorce. He emailed me 2 years later, close to his divorce period and I dove right in because I didn’t want him dating other women and I knew we had feelings for each other, but I was ready for a relationship and he was coming out of 18 year marriage. Our relationship sadly lasted 4 months and during that time he exhibited ALL 88 signs above. I broke it off when he told me he wanted to date other people. He started writing me 2 page emails every 2 months and last one he told me he has “A Love Interest” whatever the heck that means. I asked to meet with him, we each drove an hour, met half-way and I told him we cannot be friends, He said I was hoping we’ll stay friends maybe in the future we’ll get back together, I said no, the only time you can email me is if you’re single and I happen to be single and you want to have a meaningful relationship with me. He told me, he had butterflies in his stomach when we were together and his smile was from East to West every time he used to see me. Did I do the right thing? Should I have stayed friends? Why would anyone end a happy perfect relationship that flourished from great long-term friendship? Did he get scared because he was falling in love with me and the best way to deal with it was RUN? I love him so much and cannot bare the thought of him being with someone else. I wonder if he loved me too?
Can someone please give me advice. I’ve known this guy for10 years we met at work and became friends. I was divorced and he was married, he broke our friendship because he started having feelings for me and worked on his failed marriage which ended in divorce. He emailed me 2 years later, close to his divorce period and head first I dove right in because I didn’t want him dating other women and I knew we’ve had feelings for each other, but I was ready for a relationship and he was coming out of 18 year marriage. Our relationship sadly lasted 4 months and during that time he exhibited ALL 86 signs above. I broke it off when he told me he wanted to date other people. A few months passed, then he started writing me 2 page emails every 2 months reminiscing the times we had together and telling me what’s happening in his life and in the last one he told me he has “A Love Interest” whatever the heck that means, a relationship I presume. I asked to meet-up, we each drove an hour, met half-way and I told him we cannot be friends, He said I was hoping we’ll stay friends maybe in the future we’ll get back together, I said no, the only time you can email me is if you’re single and I happen to be single and you want to have a meaningful relationship with me. He told me, he had butterflies in his stomach when we were together and his smile was from East to West every time he used to see me. Did I do the right thing? Should I have stayed friends? It was too painful for me whereas for him our time together was a blast. Why would anyone end a happy perfect relationship that flourished from great long-term friendship? Did he get scared because he was falling in love with me and the best way to deal with it was RUN? It’s been 2 years and I still love him so much, cannot bare the thought of him being with someone else. Taurus have difficult time expressing how they feel, I wonder if he loved me too?
Hi Vi!
Well, he came out of a marriage and if he had stayed with you, you would be the rebound and 9 times out of 10, rebounds do not end up being the Taurus man’s “endgame”. I think he was trying to save you from that. Also he probably did want time to be single and enjoy himself instead of going from one commitment to another. It wouldn’t be healthy and he knows that. I do believe he has all those feelings for you and does like you but if he’s telling you he’s not ready then he’s telling the truth. He wants time to be without a relationship so he can breathe and heal from his past one. They do want friendship that develops into more which is what he was trying to do with you but since you said you cannot stay friends then he doesn’t know what else he can do without commitment that he’s not ready for. If you really want to know if there is still a chance then you need to reach out to him and try the friendship route to see if it develops. If that hurts too much for you then you may need to let go and find your own way forward. Maybe someone else will come along and give you what you want. I wish you all the best!
But Anna, he went into a relationship with someone else after 1 year, so it was a slap in the face for me, as he’s telling me he wasn’t ready and finding someone else to be in a relationship with who happens to live in the same town. So for me to have stayed friends with him, I was the side girl that if things didn’t workout for him, he knows he still has me on a string and can come back, not a great position to be in. A Taurus loves to be in a relationship as you know. Besides, I politely kept the door open and as stubborn as they are, if in the future he is really determined to be with me, he will come back. Like I said we were friends for 10 years and I thought he would welcome me into his new life for he’s the one who reached out after 2 years of no contact and it’s because he was thinking of me the entire time.
Hi
I am in a relationship with this Taurus guy who is 10 years older than me for a year now. We are both divorced and have kids. He has been sending me mixed signals since the start of the relationship and has opened up a couple of times about being afraid of marriage. I told him from the start that I am looking for a serious relationship and by that I mean getting married. At first he agreed to this and now and then he points out that what’s wrong with us staying like this? I get angry and irritated by his confusing comments and him not totally opening up. He also insists that we live apart and that he hasn’t made any plans to move to my city as we live in different places. At times I really feel like I am not his priority and he doesn’t tell me how he feels on a consistent basis. I love him but it makes me unsure if he is the one I should marry. What do you think? Should I continue? Be more patient or move on?
Hi I’m Kendra and I just want to say I appreciate the tips you gave in this article. I want to talk to you a little bit about my Taurus guy. We have been dating for a little over three months, we hit it all from the start. We had a lot of things in common and we always enjoyed each other’s company via FaceTime text message or in person when we had the time. He is a single dad raising two daughters under the age of 10. And also has two full-time jobs at home, so because I am entrepreneur my schedule was flexible enough where I can make time when he had availability. He showed so much interest in me, he welcomes me into his home and always had games and stuff to play for entertainment. The things he knew I like to do he made sure he had if it wasn’t already there like karaoke and ice hockey, he even told me that he was going to change his office and put Jimmy equipment in it because he know I like to work out. We talked about everything other son, he told me he prayed with someone like me and I said the same for him, He also told me he feel like things were too good to be true between the two of us and I also felt the same. When did he even asked me why him out of all the guys I’ve dated why did I choose to date him…… I met his mom his brother & some his family and friends but just not his two little girls because he do not want to introduce another woman to them unless he knew that she was she would be in his life for the long-haul. Because of his limited time to be available to hang out that was kind of a problem but I was very understanding and didn’t take it personal. After well things started to get kind of the cold between the two of us and I really didn’t know why because I thought all the time we shared even holidays and me spending the night at his house and us sharing emotional and intimate moments together he also met my family friends and children so I couldn’t understand what was really going on. Even in the mess of ham starting to get a bit distant, we had plans to spend Valentine’s Day weekend together which was also my mom‘s birthday weekend and we were celebrating her Life because she had passed away less than a year ago. Prior to this event him and I had a small falling out over me being disappointed because I couldn’t see him. He felt stress from that and wanted to kind of pull back because he feels like he already has a very stressful life of raising two young girls and two full-time jobs and also attending to his family. So after that I felt like he wasn’t gonna show up for the weekend event but he did and I feel like that spoke volumes without him saying anything. The following week we had a conversation because I was wondering steel why he was being kind of distant. Whenever I text to him he would respond but things just seem so different and it seems like he was making excuses for everything. Eventually we had a conversation and he told me he think we should just be friends. I really couldn’t understand why he would say that because we had a conversation about how he did not believe that a male and a female could be friends after pursuing each other in a relationship. So when I asked him why did he choose to do so he told me, and these are his exact words : it was more than I was willing/wanting to deal with at the time – you’re a great person and attractive – but with my limited time to spend seeking out a relationship – especially in the earlier stages in getting to know each other I didn’t want/need the additional stress…. And basically I just say OK I understand. So my question to you is I still have a chance if so what should I do to go about making sure he comes back around, And I’m wondering if he just chose to be friends to kind of slow the pace of things. I do remember him saying that he felt like he was moving too fast and he always moves fast and he wanted to slow down to make sure that everything would be exactly what it is for him…. I have completely fallen in love with this man and since we decided to be friends I am giving him his space. After we decided to be friends maybe four days have passed and he reached out at 7 AM in the morning to say hi and ask me how was I doing…. I just need to know if I still have a chance because I love this man…. The things he have said to me in regards to an even including me in future endeavors with using the word us an our in conversations even one day saying I’m going to tell our kids that the first meal you cooked for me was a grilled cheese lol I don’t know if he gets scared or just needed to take a step back to process everything but do I still have a chance my Taurus man is my question to you?
Hi Kendra!
Thank you for sharing your story to help other women relate to what you’re going through with your Taurus guy. If he still talks to you then he’s leaving the door open for what could still be in the future. Just play it cool and don’t bring up fortifying a relationship. Just be you and giving him space is excellent unless he asks to hang out or spend time with you Go along with it otherwise keep doing your own thing and being friendly. When the door is still cracked open, it does leave possibility. I hope this answers your question. I wish you all the luck of the stars!
Ok hi again I don,t know why but I keep going back to this well web sight as werid as it seems I really am beggining to understand why I had a talk yesterday with my boyfriend and soulmate Victor and yeah he is a taurus and I am a Capricorn it was nice he well I realized that he was nurturing the relationship it is kinda like when you get closer and closer and than well it has been a very tense love and yes I have seen his dark side yet he is being very tender about it after I stopped talking to him he even let me fall asleep and well it was nice and here I thought maybe it was gonna be scary but so far it has been sweet I have a feeling and honestly yesterday I felt like something really big really exciting was going to happen kinda a werid gut feeling I geuss I was right Victor told me he told me honestly that well basically he loves me and we talked for a while the point is I am both nervous and happy ok by.
Hi Victoria!
You keep coming back because you know there is plenty of good information for you to gather up and help yourself with. I think though if you’d like an actual consult with me then you should give it a go. Click here to book a VIP consultation if you would like. I wish you the luck of the universe!
I have been in an online relationship with a taurus for almost 5 years now. Things started off looking like a relationship and then he put a hold on it. I started dating someone locally and then he starts being more sexual with me online. He is hot and cold, doesn’t talk to me much unless its about topics other than his life. He knows I am in love with him and he won’t tell me he loves me because we haven’t met in person. I am going to his state to visit a friend and I made him aware of it and I am hoping to be able to meet him in person. This breed of man is hard to deal with but with the heart entangled, it is hard to just walk away. I think we are soulmates or twin flames, we get along so well and we talk to each other daily and a few times a week on the phone. Taurus’ are confusing.