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Is A Taurus Guy Interested Or Just Friendly: 6 Telltale Signs To Look At

If you are trying to figure out if the Taurus you are interested in likes you or if he’s just being nice; this article may help you to see what the truth may be. Though Taurus men are typically forthright in what they want.

1. Talkative Mannerisms

A Taurus man that is interested in you; he will talk to you more than most other people. He will find excuses to be near you. He will also try to figure out where you’ll be so that he can show up there.

You’ll notice him coming around you and trying to hit you up with conversation. If he works with you, he may come by your desk or find reasons to walk by where you are as often as he can.

Basically this is their way of trying to get your attention without actually telling you exactly what it is they want.

If you find he’s doing this, it’s most likely that he actually likes you and would perhaps like to be more than just friends.

On the other end, if he’s just nice to you when you see him, it may just be friendship or courtesy that he’s after. You should be able to tell the difference.

2. Intensity Differences

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When the Taurus man is interested in someone, he will go out of his way to make sure she gets lots of attention. The intensity that comes from him will be different.

If he likes you for more than a friend, you’ll feel the intensity that radiates from him to you. If he wants to keep things low key and be friends, he won’t feel quite as wired up.

Watch him and see which level of energy he presents to you when he’s around you. It should be fairly noticeable which one he is and by that alone, you will know whether or not he’s interested in more than plutonic conversation.

3. Clear Flirting

When a Taurus man is interested, he will definitely flirt with you. He will do this quite often actually. If he isn’t doing this with you then he may just want to be friends.

Taurus men will not likely ask for your number either if they aren’t interested in you for more than friendship. The caveat to that is if you are co-workers and possibly meet up for lunch occasionally.

Taurus men lay it on when they want someone. They look into your eyes when they talk and make you feel like you’re the only person in the room. If he isn’t doing something like this then it may just be friendship.

By truly paying attention to how he acts around you, you should notice if he’s flirting or not. He certainly likes to let a woman know when she’s wanted.

4. Physical Boundaries

Taurus men are very physical and if they are into someone, they will find ways to touch them whether it’s brushing their hand across yours or putting their hand on your shoulder; they let you know.

Being physical is one of the ways they show affection. While they may still touch you like this as a friend, you’ll notice that they tend to linger a bit longer if they are interested in you.

There is also a difference in their energy when they touch you that will let you know if it’s friendship or if it’s romantic. It’s a palpable difference that you’ll feel from him.

5. Eating Together

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Here is where it could get a little tricky but still; he’s normally fairly transparent when it comes to him liking someone. If he asks you out for dinner rather than lunch, he may be interested.

If he invites you to lunch, this could be construed as a friendly gesture. However; if he looks at you a tad bit too long or wants to find a way to touch you then it could be more.

Pay attention to his body language when he asks you out to eat. Does he seem nervous and a bit shy like a little boy? Is he blushing? If so then it’s a sign that he’s asking because he is into you.

If he seems very calm and solid about asking you to go eat lunch, this could be a friendship scenario where he isn’t thinking anything other than getting lunch.

You have to really watch his actions with what he says. Remember that actions often speak louder than words. If he acts like he likes you, he probably does. If he acts like he’s a friend, that’s probably what it is.

6. Simple Ease

This man is typically laid back and easy to get along with. This is the reason he probably has many friends or co-workers that think he’s really fun. He may also have female friends.

Keep it simple with him though. Even if he wants to be friends right now; he may want something more later on. Taurus men move a bit slow because they want to be cautious.

If you still aren’t sure about the boundaries, give him some time and see how he responds. He will let you know one way or the other if he wants to explore more with you or if he doesn’t.

Taurus men are to the point and easy to see right through. Their behavior is the tell tale sign of how they feel as well as what they want.

Going for a Taurus man can seem like a hard maneuver but really if you give him time and patience, you could develop something worth keeping in the long run. Even if you are friends, wait and see.

Something much much more could develop out of the friendship if given time. After he gets to know you more, he could decide that you are someone he wants to have in his life far more than friendship.

Ultimately the Taurus man will likely make his feelings fairly clear for you if he wants to date you or not.

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13 thoughts on “Is A Taurus Guy Interested Or Just Friendly: 6 Telltale Signs To Look At

  1. Heyyy ima gemini and the boy i like is a taurus. We get along and he says we’re friends but we’ve never really talked in person/face to face well we barely did when we had a class together but now we don’t.Its this weird vibe between us we kind of copy each other like one time we were dancing to apple bottom jeans and i usual drop low into a backbend and i saw him doing the same thing then he’d kind of hover around me in cheer.One time he asked me where did i go during lunch but i dont but we didn’t have lunch together.This year he helped me with my Spanish hw out the blue then he would dance around me whenever we’d see each other he always laughs at my jokes,one time he was banging on the wall and i said who’s that banging on my window and he finished the verse of the song i was singing.Recently i told him that i liked him over the break and he texted me back saying thank you for telling me then but when we got back to school he rubbed my hand.For some odd reason I just can’t bring myself to talk to him in person im shy but i feel like my shyness is pushing him away because there was one day where i could’ve clearly said hey to him but i didn’t and since then he’s been acting a bit different like usually we would pass each other in the hall now we don’t even see each other. Am i just missing a sign or something?

    1. Hi Taleah! Thank you for writing in about your confusing Taurus man situation. It sounds like communication is really a weak point between you and is why you two aren’t pushing forward. You need to be very clear and upfront with what you want with him and where you see things headed or rather, what you want. If you cannot express this to him then you’re always going to be sitting on the sidelines wondering if he will ever come forward and be with you. Taurus men won’t pursue unless they are certain that they have someone who truly cares for them. You’ve told him you like him but you’ve got to follow up and you’ve got to be bolder when it comes to being in person. Your actions have to match what you say otherwise he won’t take you seriously. You really should check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” to help you learn more about how to interact with him.

  2. Hi Anna! I have a feeling my Taurus friend does like me but I’m still being quite cautious in his feelings about me, because our friendship is long distance and online so it is hard to tell how he would react physically in real life! But he does flirt very often, and he has told me many times how bad he wants to meet me and how happy he would be to see me, although it does make me quite nervous because I wonder if he would feel the same way if I really do meet him in real life one day. And he has also asked if I would come if he paid for my plane ticket! And he has also offered to let me stay at his place, and eat his food. Although, I do wonder if he’s bluffing when saying some of that hahahaa anyway we are very good friends, it’s just quite wishy washy to figure out some things he says like that because we’re long distance. Thanks if you do get to my comment!

  3. Hi Anna, The Taurus man I am interested in is my boss and that is a very tricky situation and I feel like all of the things you’ve described about how to know if he’s interested is definitely the vibes he’s giving off. I just don’t know if he will ever make a move to ask me out because of our predicament. I’d like to go out with him it seems as if our chemistry is off the charts. I am a Gemini like yourself and would like to explore this possibility and see where it goes. Should I make the first move and ask him out.

    1. Hi Tara!

      Yes, often Taurus men will not chase or approach a woman in fear of rejection. They wait until the woman indicates their interest so that he knows he has a chance. If he’s showing you signs then you should so something really simple like ask him out for coffee. If he accepts then talk to him like friends and let him know you really would like to get to know him better if he’s up for it. If he agrees then he will be the one to set up an actual date. I say go for it!

  4. My Taurus guy never proposed, it started as a friendship and bam! We had sex after one date and then things started slowing down. Now we talk but not frequent and when I pull back too he will be the first to hit up on me. When I start to hit him up, then he slows down

    1. Hi Mary Ferni Quainoo!

      Your guy jumped in to quick and was hasty to dive into sex. He regrets it and is now pulled back. Yes, sometimes they will react when you pull back as well but that’s only if they actually really like you. It sounds like he does but he’s afraid of what it may lean to if he gets too close to you. I wouldn’t have sex with him again until he agrees to exclusivity or a dating relationship. Otherwise he would be keeping you around for “friends with benefits” which is something you probably do not want. Talk to him, get to know him, and be patient.

  5. Hello Anna,
    I am really confused. I can’t really tell if the Taurus man I like, likes me back.
    Things I have noticed/he has done:
    1. Sometimes shy and smiles a lot
    2. Proposed to drop me to my car since its was dark
    3. Comes to talk to me sometimes and smiles a lot(However is very chatty with everyone)
    4. Asked me for my birthday
    5. Not very chatty on social media(I messaged him first)
    6. I noticed that he wanted to walk beside me but I was busy talking to someone else so he moved forward
    7. Seen him glance at me few times
    8. Asks me questions about if I smoke, if i know those places, where exactly do I leave…
    9. When I look away or down while talking to him, he will kind of bend to try to look at me
    10. Talks about food a lot
    11. Waits with me until my car comes and then goes to take his bus
    12. Has imitated my gestures a few times
    13. Remembers things that happened with me or I have told him before
    Are these signs enough to know if likes me? Also how should I flirt with him? (I am a gemini woman)

    1. Hi Annie!

      This definitely sounds like he likes you. He is trying to take care of you and look after your safety which says that he really cares about your well being. They only do this when they like someone or want to get closer. Yes these are signs that he likes you. I think you should tell him point blank that you like him and you’d like to get to know him better. It gives him the nudge he needs. He won’t try to be with someone if he thinks he could get rejected. Initiating the first move gives him clearance that you’re good to go with him. Go for it Annie!

  6. Hello Anna!!! I love your book. And thank you. My Taurus man is long distance. He professed his love for me, gave me a ring and introduced me to his family. But i found out recently he texted a girl he never met.
    Gave her his Facebook name and phone number and nudged her to go on whatsapp so he cam see her face. He also told her he loves his girlfriend. He didnt say fiance or wife. He said girlfriend. He’s flirting!!! What is your take on this please? Because women know that fliritng can lead to bad things. Im devastated. How should i handle this ? He doesnt know that i know about this. Thank you very much. Im a libra

    1. Hi Elizabeth!

      Yikes! Taurus men are not fully committed until they are. You are long distance so some part of him isn’t all the way committed. They are always keeping their eyes looking around in case there is someone else who may be better or closer. That’s my guess. He’s trying to explore whether or not the grass is greener on the other side or if he should stick with what he’s got. I would flat out tell him that it’s not acceptable and either he’s with you or not but he needs to choose so you don’t end up hurt. If you need more Taurus man help, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  7. Hi am beth,my friend Taurus man, .,im a crew in the burgershop.we first meet he is my customer.then we talk many thing until we got friends each other…im 9 years older than him..I have a part-time day he invest money for business..because he was busy ,I’m the one who stand by his part.its like we are business partner.he trust me so fast at that time ,..88,888 Philippines money.that is his investment… Until one day we have miss understanding…. I’m angry with him because he don’t have time for our business ..I like his present ,..I don’t know also at that time if I’m angry because his present is not there or I just miss embarrassing of my part because I’m older than him ..then until one day I told him …that I love him so suddenly he told me frankly that he is just treated me as business partner…I’m so hurt at that time ..but I have to accept all whatever he will say to me even so hurtful.still go on our business. .the more he doesn’t like to come with me ….if I need him he never come .until one day ,I have to stop our business…weve got big fighting at that time because it seems that he never care his money or I had just love him …maybe I’m falling with him because he trust me then first he is very sweet to me if he got sick he will tell .its been a year we never talk ..then his money id just keep to the bank …he will get his money or not I don’t care!!! Even I try to forget him but deep in my heart I really love him I think .one day he text on my #,like he ask me if I still angry.then I’ve found out that he unblock me on Facebook suddenly ive blocked him back after he unblock me on Facebook.. Then I never reply I also block him in my # …then one day he come in burgershop try to talk to me then I just said comeback tomorrow for your money in the bank ..then he never back …then he comeback again and say that we will friends again ..he try to give an explanation to me that’s why he change because I told him ,I love I never dis-aggree that we friend again ,I like only we strangers to each other.until I withdrew his money and give to him ..some of his money to somebody I never get ..his investment he got not all because of our fighting.after I gavevhis money ,he go without say something because I’m angry but deep in my heart I miss him so much.until one day I gave him a message then he reply…I told him ,he need to come with me for his some money left..because I need to gave him his money back ,I don’t like to get not my money ..he is very surprised for my message to look for him ..and he is answer quickly and he is willing to come with me ..then we talk like stranger ..I offer him coffee and gave him some gifts ,I both him 2piecs of perfumes until he is comfortable with me ,and he feeling guilty of what happens to our friendship and me too..he ask me about when I will get a boyfriend ,he tell also about his side …we are both single now…I’m happy to know that he is still single …you know I told him that I’m so happy that he is back and I think my feelings more and more …because now when I inviting him ,he will come not like before ,I cooked for him I get some compliments from him..I gave him food f he will go home to his boarding house….I love to take care of him …I only sent him how are u feeling now !? R you OK ? Take care always ,just only like that…sometimes only he will text back maybe 2days after.or sometime nothing..I just understand because he is busy..and I started to search about his signs .and now we talk about business …he still wNt me to be his business partner …he still offer a business and he promise to invest for our business and I told him I can’t take care a business alone anymore because he is busy and now he promised he will gave time…you know in my mind why ??? Why he is like that my heart so happy asking why he still want me to his business partner..and he let me keep his money ,I don’t know f he like me or just friendly to me…I keep only my feelings to him because I don’t want he will change again …and one more thing …when I inviting him we talk so happy ,we share our experience.. Then he got sick he asks help then I gave him massage then I boiled ginger for him ,I’m so worried about him …and I’m so happy to take care of him…then one day I invite him to come and eat I cooked for him….suddenly weird ,he become silent it seems that he doesn’t to touch me ,touch like friend …not happy then say a word …I’m sorry I can’t stay longer because I have something to do…I feel lonely because hes mood suddenly change ..maybe he feel that I like him that’s why he suddenly became serious …I don’t understand what he feel …now I’m very lonely after 2days I try to cooked for him then I invite him …then UE response maybe he can’t come because he still at work because of overtime …I feel so bad because last time he acts different …I don’t know why ….even I feel so bad I still understand and give him him space and time for himself now…I try to move on about last time he act different …please advise me to feel better do I have to forget my feelings to him for the sake of friendship?

    1. Hi Lelibeth!

      If you want to keep the friendship then yes, you need to walk away from your feelings and set some boundaries. However, if you want more then you’re going to have to take the risk and go for it. Tell him how you feel and what you want. Only then will you find out if he wants to be with you or if he wants to just stay friends. You owe it to yourself to find out. Take the risk! If you need to know more about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

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