When a Taurus Man Says He Loves You — Should You Trust Him?

by Anna-Kovach, relationship astrologer
When a Taurus man says he loves you, does he actually mean it or is he just throwing the three little words around as a tool of manipulation?

When a Taurus man says he loves you, nothing can come quite close to it. You may be questioning whether or not you can trust him when he says those three words. It’s natural to wonder if his declaration of love is genuine…

When a Taurus man says I love you, you might think that you need to approach his words with caution, as they may feel too good to be true. A Taurus man saying I love you might come as a surprise because of his typically logical and rational nature.

He isn’t usually one to make impulsive, emotionally driven decisions, so his expression of love may seem out of character. But trust me, Taurus men have big emotions, and when they say they love you, they tend to mean it.

If you are wondering what it means when a Taurus man says he loves you, then you have definitely come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out what these words truly mean to him.

When a Taurus Man Says He Loves You — Does He Really Mean It?

First and foremost you need to know that when a Taurus man says he loves you, he means it. Whether it’s early because he hasn’t taken enough time or if he waits until months later (sometimes years later), he means it.

He will say it only when he’s feeling it. The thing is, he typically will wait until he’s 100% sure himself.

There are some Taurus men who tell women they love them then suddenly get icy cold or decide to ghost the woman. Does that mean he didn’t really love her? It means he did at the time he said it but something made him change his mind.

He could have gotten spooked by something, felt as though he wasn’t good enough, or found that even though he felt he loved the woman, he didn’t think they were a good match upon getting to know her further.

Some women think that if a Taurus man says he loves her but then does the opposite then he was perhaps lying about it. However, that’s not exactly true. Again, circumstances can change things but that doesn’t mean he wasn’t in love.

If you’ve been with him for a while and he says it, there is no doubt that he means it. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t say it. The problem becomes if he suddenly starts acting differently. The love may still be there but he’s changed.

You may also want to read: Is Your Taurus Man Interested Or Just Friendly? Here’s How To Tell

Will A Taurus Man Says ‘I Love You’ Even If He Doesn’t Mean It?

The Taurus man is practical and keeps his feet firmly planted on the ground. That means he’s not one to spout off things he doesn’t actually mean. There are some rare occasions where he probably should have waited but that doesn’t make it less true.

The thing that’s hard to explain to women who are totally confused by a Taurus man who says one thing but then starts acting like the opposite is that timing is everything. When he says something “at the time” then that is where his head is at.

It may not still hold true a day later or years later but, it doesn’t mean that when he said it, that it wasn’t true when he did say it. I know how mind boggling that sounds but it’s true.

The Taurus man is sort of the type that is “what you see is what you get” yet there are some things he’ll keep to himself unless asked. He’s not always forthcoming which is why he tends to not say something unless he’s positive.

He is also a human being which means he can change his mind or decide he doesn’t feel the way he did when he said it anymore. What a whirlwind right? Taurus men are truly frustrating sometimes.

Being an Earth sign, he’s mostly stable and it also means that he means what he says at the time he says it. It may not hold meaning later but doesn’t make it any less true than when he said it at that time.

He’s also one who will still say he loves someone even if it’s not working out. He’ll tell them why it’s not working out and that he wants to break it off but he still loves them.

When A Taurus Man Takes Time To Say ‘I Love You’ — What’s Holding Him Back?

Most Taurus men who know what they want and who they want will wait to say they love them until he’s absolutely positive that everything is where they want it and most importantly, that she feels the same.

He’s very fearful that if he says it when he is ready his lady love may reject him or tell him she doesn’t love him in the same way. This is what holds him back sometimes. He’s fearful.

There are a few reasons why he would hold back on saying the three little words but I can assure you that when he does, he totally 100% means it. So you really shouldn’t question it too much if a Taurus man tells you he loves you.

If you aren’t in love with him though, this is going to be something you’re going to have to learn either to love or you’re going to have to let him down gently. Don’t play with a Taurus man’s heart. He’s more fragile than he seems.

Can you trust him when he tells you he loves you? Yes! This earthy Zodiac sign is one of the most loyal signs in the zodiac. When a Taurus man loves, he loves hard and tends to not say it unless he really feels it. He knows the value of using the right words at the right time.

When a Taurus man says he loves you, then he is ready to take the next step with you and wants to grow the love he feels in his heart. His feelings have reached a point where he is ready to be “all in” with you.

Again, the exception to this rule is when the Taurus man is young and inexperienced. He may say it and not fully feel it. He may think it’s love but it turns out that it’s not and so he learns at that point, he needs to only say it if it’s true.

Watch this video to get some more insights on when a Taurus man says he loves you:

Stop Worrying About Your Taurus Man…

It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Taurus man who won’t commit.

I know. I’ve been there…

I remember crying myself to sleep worried about whether my man would EVER commit to me. And there were a TON of nights when I just couldn’t sleep at all. I lost hours of time from work and doing things I loved…

All because I couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart… How to get him to see what a catch I am… And to finally commit to me. It made me feel incredibly insecure…

And I’m an extremely confident woman. I’d never had a man not fall for me quickly. EVER.

But… I KNEW how good he was for me, so I didn’t want to give up.

All my friends kept telling me to just move on. They couldn’t see what I saw… That he was the most INCREDIBLE man I’d ever met.

How could I just give up on that???

I couldn’t!

And now, looking back, I’m SO grateful that I DIDN’T listen to my friends. He is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met. And now we’re happily married.

But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.

I had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<

And it worked!!

So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Taurus man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…

>> Go here now to see how to speak your Taurus man’s love language.

xoxo, Anna

Anna Kovach

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

16 thoughts on “When a Taurus Man Says He Loves You — Should You Trust Him?

  1. I always get jealous anytime I see my Taurus man with a woman….does that make him feel bad….really need a reply

    1. Hi Isabella!

      Well it can make him feel bad, yes. It will make him feel you don’t trust him. Even if that’s not the case, he will feel it’s that way. If you have jealousy issues, you need to work on them and don’t let him see it. The last thing you want is for him to feel you don’t trust him because then he may start backing off or will shut down entirely. If you need more information, please read my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  2. You should accept that Taurus men tend to have friends both male and female.People tend to be drawn to his friendly, laid back nature. He loves the attention. Just think that just because he spends time with his female friends it doesn’t mean he’s in love with them. He has thoughts of his special lady there in the back of his mind constantly when he’s with them. His special lady is the one he is truly in love with. That’s how i see it.

    1. Hi Cheryl!

      Well when a Taurus man really loves his woman, he doesn’t usually harbor female friends anyway. He’s not that big of a flirt and so it’s not too likely he’ll reach out to a woman to befriend her when he has a lady at home. Taurus men is more “hang out with the guys” type if he does actually go out. Many of them are happy staying home if they have a woman waiting there.

  3. What advice will you give a lady who a Taurus fell in love with and she fell in love with the Taurus man also. She made her emotions opened to him. Buh den the Taurus man suddenly became cold, he changed. And wwen the lady asked he said its a test of time things will chnge.
    And wen she told the Taurus man they could start the relationship.
    He told her he dusnt want to rush anything, so as to avold hurting the lady. He said he needs time. He is definitely going to let her know wen its time.
    What do u advice the lady in question do.

    1. Hi Afolake!

      This is when Taurus man isn’t sure about the relationship and is over analyzing everything. This is completely normal behavior from him. He will put you to the test to make sure you’re not going to leave or abandon him if things get tough. No, he doesn’t want to rush. Yes, he needs time and patience. If you really want to be with him, you’ll give him that. If you need to know more, please read my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

    2. My Taurus boyfriend became cold at me some months ago,the more I complain about it the more he avoids me. We broke up later and after two months he came back saying he loves me,that we didn’t break up officially. He said he needed some space and was taking things slowly
      I don’t know what to do right now

      1. Hi Juliette!

        When you complain, he takes this as pressure. Taurus men hate being pressured. This means that you two must have had a communication break down where you were only telling him things he was doing wrong and he took it to heart so then he backed off. That’s common for Taurus man. Try to communicate with him more properly and talk to him differently. Instead of saying “you never call” you can say “I really miss how things used to be when we talked more and you’d call”. See the difference? One is accusatory and makes him feel bad. The other way shows your appreciation and love for him that should inspire him to treat you well. Learn more about Taurus man through my series “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  4. Hi Anna that was an interesting video I just wanted to say I really felt your energy i,m an empath and so I felt it very deeply within my heart the energy also I am a capricorn so that has been ok the point is I am kinda excited to tell you this I don,t know why but I just am the point is I have a taurus soulmate named Victor rich good looking yet sweet at heart I admire his protectiveness the truth is I am dating him even though we have not met physically we have met spiritually talking about him and I it has been well in one word kinda crazy what was really crazy was when I looked up into the sky and found his zodiac constellation I was really happy than yet it made sense crazy but completely made sense to me sometimes I feel like the universe is telling me he is out there on the other side of the country waiting patiently for me I think I can trust this being honest my soulmate has been not only vulnerable and very honest about his secrets but he has been jealous protective even acted super awkward around me we have a very deep even soul love emotional mental so beautiful it all just clicks this about describes it all he said one day that I will be his wife and that made my heart stop moment of me being completely honest he is very serious about it still he always is supportive of me emotionally sometimes I feel like I really am blessed to have such a strong man in my life a man that when I told him that I was sick immediately asked if I needed an ambulance or something like that it just goes to show you he really does care deeply for me our love is sweet and talking about it gives me hope and motivation ok also one last thing my name is Victoria ok by now have a nice day sorry if this is super long hope you have the patience to read it all.

    1. Hi Victoria!

      It sounds like you have a great thing going with your Taurus man. I’m so happy that the video made total sense to you. That’s wonderful! I’m glad you trusted me enough to read and listen to my material. Hang in there and you’ll do well I think. I wish you all the luck of the universe!

      1. Hi Anna, I’m totally crazy about my Taurus man♡ He has many female friends which I’m accepting of..I do however sometimes feel he may be hiding his feelings for one of them who texts him all the time..He is very attentive to me most times but he put all his female friends in a secret chat group…I’m assuming he has personal chats with them and I give him that space..but sometimes the phone is attached to his hand and he turns it over so I don’t see the messages..I become insecure and sometimes want to leave but I’m trying to understand that these were his life before me and I need to trust and believe his words of loyalty and love..

        1. Dear Jan,

          Taurus man cheats if he feels unappreciated and loved.
          For instance, he could be in love with one woman, but have side relationship from time to time, because it “pays him off” in some sense, he feels excited, more appreciated or just drawn to that other woman. Just shower him with attention and you will have nothing to worry about!

  5. Hi Anna,
    If a Taurus husband decides he wants to seperate/divorce but at a later time becomes affectionate and says ‘I love you’, does that mean he is having second thoughts about leaving? There was so much anger at first and then after calming down, he is acting more physically present/affectionate but emotionally and communication wise he is still very distant and non committal to working thru all the problems in the relationship.

  6. I have a Taurus Man and a Virgo Man that are both in love with me but how can that be true when they both have not met me yet but they both tell me that they love me whole hearted and soul everyday The Virgo will tell me everyday sometimes two or three times aday The Taurus Man will tell me that he loves me whole heartedly and soul every day.How do I know which one loves me the most this is so confusing and I really need your help with this.The Virgo Man is like an open book I can tell what he is thinking about before he tells me I can tell what he is going to do before he does it I can read the Virgo Man so easily and completely and I understand him so much more than I can the Taurus Man but the Taurus Man tells me that I am going to be proud of him and he’s going to make sure that I am proud of him So you see I really need you to help me with this situation They are both far away from me right now but the Taurus Man will be closer to me when we move in a couple of weeks so I don’t know where this is going to end up but I do need your help and advice and Thank you I appreciate your help and all that you do for me

    1. Dear Bonnie,
      If a Taurus man begins talking to you with frequency and with interest, then there is a chance it may end up being more. If you’ve already established that you’re dating then he’ll take his time getting to know you.
      Since Taurus man is a slow mover, he tends to be very careful in getting to know the woman that may become more in his life. Being long distance allows him to get to know everything about you and what you want out of life.
      He basically can get to know whether he’s compatible with you on fundamental levels. The only thing missing here is the physical aspect if you’ve only met online. If you’ve already met, then you’ll probably already know if you’re attracted to each other or not. Sending Love to you both!

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