Do you have a crush on a Taurus man but aren’t sure how to talk to him? Taurus man communication style is not hard to decode. You will learn how to talk to a Taurus man in a way that blows his mind and brings great value to your future.
What do Taurus like to talk about? Taurus is calm, affectionate, patient, stable, determined, practical, stubborn, and highly resistant to change. At first appearance, Taurus men can seem very manly and macho, but don’t be fooled, as Taurus is a feminine sign and he is an emotional creature at heart.
Have you been watching a certain Taurus guy but aren’t sure what to say to him to get his attention? Maybe you’re nervous and uncertain about what he’d really like to hear. I have some pointers that may help you get up the nerve to communicate with him.
Born under a fixed earth sign, Taurus men are a delightful combination of the sensible and sensitive. On the surface, Taurus men are practical and solid, but beneath their calm surface is a romantic dreamer who longs to be understood and appreciated.
In my years as a relationship astrologer, I have worked with thousands of women who love a Taurus man, and the same worry comes up again and again: “I never know if I am saying the right thing to him.” If that is you, take a breath, because his communication style is far more readable than it feels right now. In my survey of over 5,600 women involved with Taurus men, nearly 1 in 5 described their situation as “it’s complicated,” and almost every one of them traced that feeling back to one thing, not knowing how to reach him with words. Once you understand how his Venus-ruled, earth-sign mind actually processes conversation, the guesswork falls away.
If you want the exact phrasing that speaks to his heart, my Taurus Text Magic guide gives you word-for-word messages calibrated for how a Taurus man reads and responds to texts. But first, let me walk you through the foundations.
So, here’s how to communicate effectively with a Taurus man:
- be straightforward
- look into his eyes
- be daring and flirtatious
- talk about stability and security
Taurus Man Communication Style – How Do Taurus Men Communicate?
Taurus man communication style can be defined as practical, grounded, and straightforward. He is direct and non-confrontational.
When Taurus man commits, he wants the person who is going to be his best friend to always be there for him as he is for them. So when you’re getting to know a Taurus man, pay attention; talking to a Taurus man is not hard.
Over time, you’ll know what he really likes and perhaps what he doesn’t like, but he will communicate about it. The more you show him that you have been paying attention, the more you won’t regret it.
Here’s more about what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman <<
Taurus man appreciates honesty and expects you to communicate your feelings and thoughts directly and openly. His communication style gives him the ability to blend in and understand others. He has outstanding communication skills and a good memory.
Taurus men are intelligent, and can talk out of difficult situations. They are able to communicate clearly about their ideas and feelings. They are also an effective listeners.
The Secret Reason Your Taurus Man Goes Quiet Right When You Want Him to Open Up
Here is something most women never realize about a Taurus man. When he goes silent in the middle of a conversation, it is almost never because he has stopped caring. Ruled by Venus and grounded in the fixed earth element, a Taurus man processes his feelings slowly and privately before he is ready to say them out loud. Pushing him to talk in that moment feels, to him, like being rushed off his own solid ground, and the harder you push, the deeper he retreats into himself.
The women who reach a Taurus man are the ones who give his silence room to breathe. If you ask a question and he pauses, resist the urge to fill the gap. Let him think. A Taurus man will circle back to a subject hours or even days later with a fully formed answer, because he has been quietly turning it over the entire time. When you show him you can sit comfortably with his quiet, you become the rare woman he can relax around, and that safety is the doorway to everything he does not yet know how to say.
This is why so much standard dating advice works against you with him. The scripts that suit a fast-talking air sign only make an earth sign feel cornered. Meet him at his pace, and you will watch him open in ways he has never opened for anyone.
What Do Taurus Like To Talk About?
A Taurus man loves to go camping, hiking, or doing anything that involves being outside in nature. If you’re a natural person, you’ll easily mesh with him and gain his interest. How do I communicate effectively with a Taurus man? Simply do it in nature!
If you aren’t so much of a nature person, it may be a little harder to discuss things like this, but if you do your research, you could use your charm on him with what you learn.
Knowing where some amazing camping spots are or places to go on long hikes may be, you could get him interested in perhaps going to have fun in the outdoors with him.
He also loves good food. It’s easy to strike up a conversation with him by discussing delicious cuisines. If you talk about the meal you cooked last night, even better!
Brag to him about the things you like to cook. He will be intrigued because one of the things he covets most is a woman who will cook for him. His heart is literally in his stomach. Taurus man communication is much easier when there is food involved.
If you don’t know how to cook, you could ask him if he’s been to the new restaurant down the street that has excellent tacos. If he hasn’t and he takes the bait, he may then ask if you want to go with him to check them out.
How To Communicate With A Taurus Man – 4 Effective Ways
Be Straightforward
The Taurus man really appreciates honesty and if you’re interested in him, you could just indicate to him that you are. He will love the fact that you took the time and courage to let him know.
When you talk to him, try to slide your hand across his or slide it onto his shoulder. The physical contact while you’re talking to him will excite him and possibly spice up his ideas of you.
This guy isn’t one of the signs that are complicated. It’s easy to read a Taurus man and even easier to talk to them.
There are exceptions to the rule of course; depending on their moon sign. Most are very easy to communicate with and get to know. They’re funny and fun to be with.
I’ve found that if you just flat out let him know you’re interested, he will respond in kind. Just keep in mind, they do tend to be truthful so if you aren’t someone they are interested in; they will let you know.
If he is interested, he will also respond to you in a way that there is no way you can mistake what he wants. This is one of the more stable signs of the zodiac with the men.
Look Into His Eyes
The Taurus man will love a woman to look at him seductively while she speaks to him. He’ll notice and it’s very likely he’ll know what you’re after. Believe it or not; Taurus men love pretty eyes.
He’s a sucker for a pair of gorgeous eyes to look at him in. Now combine that with touching his hand, arm, or shoulder. This will drive him wild and make him want to come back for more.
Talking to a Taurus man is pretty easy. They’re very cool and go with the flow. If you are able to pay attention to how he talks to others, you can pick up what he likes fairly fast.
Use it to your advantage and make conversations out of things you know he likes. You can also let him know what you like and how you’d love it if he went along with you sometime.
Taurus men have a very specific love languages. Actually, I have covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Taurus Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.
Be Daring And Flirtatious
The Taurus man likes to hear how handsome he is or how good that blue shirt looks on him. Compliment his smile or his eyes. He will be impressed by you having the nerve to speak up.
He will see it as spontaneous and probably pretty hot. Taurus men are typically very good looking and know that they are. They don’t normally have tremendous egos but they do like being complimented.
If you’ve seen how he works, compliment him on his technique or his ideas. He will eat it right up and want to see what else you may have to say.
Give him attention. He isn’t one to ask for it or necessarily need it but he will accept it nonetheless. He’s still a guy and most guys like being told they’re good at something or look amazing.
Learn here how to flirt with a Taurus man like a pro <<
Talk About Stability And Security
Taurus man is very loyal and committed to you but is in no hurry and wants to take things slow. He is best suited with a partner who is looking for something that is long-term. Earth signs are famous for long-term planning and goals.
Talking about stability and security including long-term goals, plans for the future is something that Taurus man can resonate with. He likes a secure and comfortable lifestyle and if you like long-term planning then you are on the same page!
You could offer your perspective and he’ll be interested to know why you would include him in your plans. He loves a woman who thinks about the future.
Make sure whatever that whatever you tell him is honest. He’ll really appreciate it.
My Taurus Man Doesn’t Talk Much – What Could Upset Him?
First of all, you have to understand that there are some significant differences between thinking and the mainly emotional processes going on in a Taurus man’s head.
This has a powerful impact on the way men perceive reality and adjust their actions. Everything is a struggle, and everything that has some value must be taken by force or overpowered. This is the basic way men, in general, conquer their physical and psychological territories.
In the case of the relationship, if he doesn’t feel like he was genuinely rewarded for his efforts and that he got something for nothing, he is not going to talk much and will be upset.
Many women fall into the trap of modern ways of seeing relationships, and this causes them to feel hurt and confused later on. There is nothing modern or conservative when it comes to bonding between you and your Taurus man.
Your Taurus man will need some time to release this inner pressure before he can finally heal
How To Emotionally Connect With A Taurus Man
Be really affectionate with him. He may not take well to trying to bed him down, but he will take the hugs, kisses, and tenderness you can provide him with. These are the types of things that make him feel “at home” with you.
Out of everyone he knows, he seeks you out to be the one to comfort him in his time of need. You’re his safety blanket, as he sees it. If you’ve not progressed enough to this point, you can start now.
Stability is something that Taurus craves and strives to build. Help him with this by doing your part and being the partner he needs. He needs a strong woman who knows how to lift her man up when he needs her.
By doing this, you may win his heart for the long haul, if you haven’t already. This type of action proves how you feel about him, which will far outweigh telling him the words “I love you”. He wants to see it rather than hear it.
Learn more on what a Taurus man needs in a relationship <<
What to Text a Taurus Man to Get Him to Respond (And What Makes Him Go Cold)
Texting is where a lot of women lose their footing with a Taurus man, because his written communication style is even more measured than the way he speaks in person. He is not a man who fires off a dozen quick replies. He reads your message, sits with it, and answers when he has something real to say. A short delay is not a warning sign with him, it is simply how a fixed earth sign operates.
What gets a Taurus man to respond is warmth with a clear point. Send him a text that references something specific he mentioned, a plan you can picture together, or a real compliment about something he did rather than how he looks. He values substance over flash. In my survey of over 5,600 women, 73% said their Taurus man makes intense, consistent eye contact in person, and his texts carry that same quality once you earn them, focused and deliberate.
What makes him go cold is the opposite: a flood of messages, pressure for an instant reply, or anything that feels like a test. If you have been watching your texts go nowhere, the problem is rarely the man, it is the rhythm. Slow down, say something worth answering, and give him space to reach back. For the exact words that work on his Venus-ruled heart, my Taurus Text Magic guide lays them out message by message. You can also learn how to flirt with a Taurus man over text for the lighter, playful side of reaching him.
How Long Should You Wait for a Taurus Man to Text Back?
This is one of the questions I am asked most often, and the true answer surprises people. A Taurus man can take hours, sometimes a full day, to respond, and it usually means nothing is wrong. He is not playing games and he is not losing interest. He simply does not treat his phone as an extension of his nervous system the way many people do. He answers when he is settled and has the attention to give you a proper reply.
My advice is to match his rhythm rather than fight it. If he takes six hours, you do not need to answer in six seconds. A woman who is comfortable in her own life, who has her own world going on, is deeply attractive to a Taurus man. It signals the security he craves. In my survey of over 5,600 women, nearly a third said their relationship with a Taurus man felt slow, not because the feelings were not real, but because he moves on a timeline no one else can rush. His texting pace is that same steadiness in miniature. Trust it, and you will save yourself a great deal of unnecessary worry.
Taurus Man Communication: Your Questions Answered
How does a Taurus man communicate when he likes you?
When a Taurus man likes you, his communication becomes warmer and more consistent, though rarely loud. He remembers the small things you tell him and brings them up later, which is his quiet way of showing he was paying attention. He makes steady eye contact, leans in when you speak, and starts folding you into his plans for the weekend or the future.
He is not the type to shower you with poetic declarations early on. Instead, he shows interest through reliability. He texts when he says he will, he shows up when he says he will, and he slowly lets you into the parts of his life he keeps guarded. If a Taurus man is being consistent and steady with you, that is his love language speaking, even before he says the words.
Why does my Taurus man go silent for days?
A Taurus man goes quiet for a few common reasons, and most of them are not about you. He may be under stress at work, wrestling with a decision, or simply recharging in the solitude that every fixed earth sign needs. When a Taurus man feels overwhelmed, his instinct is to withdraw into his own comfort zone until he feels grounded again.
The mistake many women make is chasing him during these silences, which only makes him retreat further. The better move is to give him space while staying warm and available. A light, low-pressure message that shows you are steady, not anxious, reassures him that he can come back without walking into a confrontation. Nearly always, he does.
Do Taurus men prefer texting or talking on the phone?
Most Taurus men lean toward whatever feels most personal and least demanding in the moment. Early on, texting suits him because it lets him think before he answers. As he grows more comfortable, many Taurus men come to prefer hearing your voice or, best of all, being with you in person, where his sensual, touch-oriented nature can fully engage.
If you want to deepen the connection, gently move the relationship off the screen when the timing feels right. Suggest a call or, even better, a relaxed evening with good food, which is where a Taurus man is most at ease and most himself.
What should you never say to a Taurus man?
Avoid ultimatums, public criticism, and anything that pressures him to move faster than he is ready to. A Taurus man responds to security and respect, and threats or rushing trigger his famous stubbornness. Once he digs in his heels, it is very hard to move him.
Equally, do not play games or send mixed signals to provoke a reaction. He values honesty and consistency above almost everything, and manipulation reads to him as instability. Say what you mean, kindly and clearly, and you will always have his ear.
Understanding how a Taurus man communicates is the first step. Knowing the exact words that reach him is the next one. My Taurus Text Magic guide gives you the specific phrases, timed and worded for how a Taurus man actually thinks and feels, so you never have to wonder what to say to him again.
Normal Dating Advice Can Backfire With A Taurus Man
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Taurus man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there.
I remember crying myself to sleep worried about whether my man would EVER commit to me. And there were a TON of nights when I just couldn’t sleep at all. I lost hours of time from work and doing things I loved…
All because I couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart… How to get him to see what a catch I am… And to finally commit to me.
It made me feel incredibly insecure…
And I’m an extremely confident woman. I’d never had a man not fall for me quickly. EVER.
But… I KNEW how good he was for me, so I didn’t want to give up.
All my friends kept telling me to just move on. They couldn’t see what I saw…
That he was the most INCREDIBLE man I’d ever met.
How could I just give up on that???
I couldn’t!
And now, looking back, I’m SO grateful that I DIDN’T listen to my friends.
He is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met. And now we’re happily married.
But it wasn’t easy. It took a LOT of work.
I had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language <<
And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Taurus man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…
>> Go here now to see how to speak your Taurus man’s love language.
xoxo, Anna
I would love to hear your story. Have you struggled to talk to your Taurus man, or found something that finally reached him? Share your experience in the comments below, and I will do my best to help you figure out your next step. I read every single one.
I have been seeing this Taurus guy for a year now. I am an escort and I’m a Scorpio. I met him at work and he’s been seeing me excl
usively for an year now. a month ago he told me that he loves me and he’s never said it again. he’s all over sudden gone silent on me. I see him on a weekly basis, but this week he hasn’t texted nor called me…. is he bored with me or what is happening? can he truly be in love with me or he just said it to please me? kindly help me out.
That’s all Taurus, like myself.Once we open up, something you won’t see often, we’re afraid of being rejected by expressing our true feeling..text him back,call him and you’ll see the joy he’ll get..
Hi fatmah omar!
Not speaking to you for a week isn’t abnormal for a Taurus man. If he’s busy or has things going on, he prioritizes. It doesn’t mean he’s suddenly lost interest in you. If he’s not reaching out to you then you should try reaching out to him. He may be comfortable with you and doesn’t feel the need to chase after you anymore. Ask him about it. He’ll tell you!
Ma’am my taurus man is very irritated and now hates me,he misunderstood me, help me please
Am a Taurus everything you said is right
Hi Anna,
Love your book and I think I’m starting to understand my guy more, but I’m still confused… I met him at a conference this past October, and he lives in a different state. We immediately connected and hooked up, and didn’t really make anything of it, because I didn’t think I’d ever see him again. But we still kept in contact and always says how sweet and sexy and romantic I am, how much my soul feels good etc…We’ll, he came to see me on the way home from a business trip, and then a few weeks later, I flew out to see him, and th chemistry is still so there!! I’m starting to really like him but I get so many mixed signals from him…like he introduced me to his friends which I think is a big step, then he recently invited me to a wedding with his family, but then changed his mind, saying it was too big of a step. I’m a bit heartbroken… he’s going through a lot right now with trying to find a new job, looking for a new place to live, and getting things in order., and said a relationship is the last thing he needs right now, but he still wants to keep in contact, and if it’s physical, that’s fine, but he just wants to be platonic for now.
What does this all mean? I care a lot for him but don’t want to wait around too long, is he just stringing me along? How do I get him to commit?
Any advice would help!
I’ve known this Taurus guy for months now! And there are days where he shows interests and days where he just ghost me, he likes teasing me, we’re throwing shades on each other all the time but in a fun way! And myself i’m mot an easy one to flirt or spak up first! So what to do
I’m an aries and I met my Taurus guy and we went out a couple of times, I told him I liked him and he said he loved me. But then we have very boring conversations and he said we don’t connect. I’ve tried like real hard to make it work, he is working and am still in school so we don’t really have a common ground but recently he uploaded our picture online. We had a call again and he is like he connects with other girls more. Please what do I do, I really love him?
Hi Gift! Thank you for sharing your confusing Taurus man situation. It seems that he’s unsure what he wants. He should never have told you he loved you before he knew for sure. He rather fell for the idea of love because most likely, he found you to be a beautiful woman. This is what happens with Taurus men, they can open up their mouths far too soon then end up regretting it when they realize it was foolish of them to speak out before knowing for sure. They back peddle and then this type of stuff happens. Sadly, if he’s told you he doesn’t feel a connection, then all you can do is be his friend and give it time. Maybe he’ll change his tune with a bit of time under his belt. Taurus men typically do take a great amount of time figuring out if someone is right for them or not. There is much more you need to know and I can help if you would like to read my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
This is for sure going to help out any Libra’s out there that like a Taurus man. I read a lot of articles about Taurus men and it’s completely natural for them to show signs they like you but then give you the ‘silent treatment’. Like Anna says, its all about paying attention and if you do and he’s giving you signs, give them back.
Hi Ana, or any Taurus man if you can please help to understand.
Why would a married Taurus man cheat ? Is it true if he says they are living like roommates, and that the romance aspect is dead?
Is he says he misses “me” and likes me a lot is it true?
Any clarification you can provide will be sooo greatly appreciated. You
Hi Sonja!
Well, no man is perfect and all Taurus men are not the same. How they grew up can have an impact as can other astrological aspects in their chart. However, if he’s trying to lure you in while you know he’s married, there is no way for you to know if he is even telling you the truth. He may be dishonest in saying he and his wife are living like roommates. If that was how it is, why wouldn’t he move out? I wouldn’t trust it and I would be very cautious. If he’s doing this with you, he may do it to others. Stick with the single ones sweetheart.
Hey Anna
I’ve been seeing a Taurus man for a month or two, and we are really getting along. I’m a Virgo and I identify quite strongly with my zodiac sign, and the guy I’m seeing resembles a Taurus man in pretty much every way possible.
We’ve gone a week without seeing each other, and as a Virgo I need reassurance frequently – which he is not giving me. Once we are togehter, everything is so good. But then we saw each other last night, and I was really in a weird mindset – not talking and pushing him away. Probably because I’m scared that he is not interested. I know that Taurus men wants to take things slow – so how do I tell him, that I’m keen without pushing him away – and how do I get to know if he’s really interested or just seeing me for shits and giggles?
Hi Carla!
It sounds like you need to tell him what you’re feeling honey. Taurus men have no clue something is wrong unless someone tells them. They do like to take things slow but they also like if you’re honest with them about what you feel so they don’t have to try to guess. You get to know if he’s interested by simple honest communication. If you two get along really well there is no reason to think it’s not happening. Read my series “Taurus Man Secrets” for more information.
Hi Anna – I have been talking with a Taurus man for roughly 7 months but am struggling. I am a scorpio. His company did work for a business that I own, which is how we met. At the time we met I was married and so nothing transpired. After seeing each other over the course of a few months, I actually reached out to him to ask him if he would be interested in dating a friend of mine (a genuine request as I figured if I couldn’t have him, someone great should) but he was not interested. Given my marriage was on the outs, he and I started texting, realized we were both interested in each other, and decided to meet. As you could imagine there was an immediate sexual chemistry between us and we started seeing each other about once a week. During this time he made it very clear that, until my marriage was done, nothing with us would further beyond where it was. I know he liked me a great deal though as he would verbally tell me, especially when we were being intimate. A few times I tried to break it off, knowing that it wasn’t right until my divorce was done; however, I couldn’t. He would say that once my divorce was done he wanted to give this a true try; however, as I move through the motions of the divorce, he seems to pull away more. I push, he says he’ll try, he doesn’t (as quickly as I need him to, which is something I need to work on), I get frustrated and pull away/break it off, and the cycle continues. It is important to note that his ex wife cheated on him and he was beyond devastated, to the point where it impacts him greatly, event 4 years after the divorce. She’s still with the guy. He kept saying that once I was available that he wanted to give this a try but, now that I am (almost divorced), his walls are still up and seemingly getting worse. He says he’s scared. He says he doesn’t know what’s wrong with him as he’s normally the type to shower someone he cares about with love (he doesn’t do this with me – e.g. flowers, time, romance, etc. – his examples, not mine). He’s frustrated that he’s still this walled up but can’t seem to change it. These are things he says to me. He’s confused because he knows he cares and hasn’t let anyone else in this much in 4 years (I helped him pick out paint colors for his house, he calls when he’s frustrated at work, etc.) but he says the “spark” isn’t there for him. One minute he’s excited to see me and the next he just wants to be alone so he’s confused and frustrated by this.
I care about him a great deal and know he does too; however, we just keep being off in our rhythm. Another note, he has been FB messaging with a girl he met online a few months ago when he and I were paused from talking (he hasn’t seen her in person). He says there is nothing there but I don’t like it – their messages are very sporadic and not sexual in nature. I know a Taurus tends to do this as a “safety net” but it doesn’t set well with me. After finding that out, I told him about 2 weeks ago that I couldn’t do this anymore unless he gave more and he said he wanted to do that because I’m worth it to him. Actually he said, “so if I tell her I’m talking to someone and communicate better with you, you will let me give this a try?”. I told him yes, that’s what I needed. But, he didn’t (well, again, not as soon as I thought he should) so I ended it (again, ugh) but I can’t seem to stay in that place.
I want this to work. I asked him if we could talk, he said he needed a day or two to process so I took about a week and didn’t contact him at all and then asked him if we could talk and he said yes and that he’d let me know when (still hasn’t and it’s been 4 days) but he still answers my calls and offers to help me with things (he’s going to look at a house with me today that I want to buy because I need someone that knows about houses to look at it to make sure it’s a good house and my family is all over 2 hours away). Taurus men are known for doing things for others so, is this just part of his personality? Or, is it a sign he still cares? I read your book (and the “how to win a Taurus man back” guide) and understand my approach needs to change a bit (key note: be patient and don’t take it so personally when “he’s busy”) but, I guess I just need to know if there’s still a chance or, did I push him away for good? And, if there is, what is my next move? How should I approach it. I clearly need to reassure and show him I’m in this for the long haul and show him stability to build his trust but, what’s the best way to get him on board too? Do I wait wait for him to come to me and say he’s ready to talk (give him space) or, pursue a time for us to talk (Taurus men are known for avoiding hard conversations)? I need to know I can trust him too. If he says he’s going to stop talking to this girl, should I believe him? Just not sure where to go from here.
Sorry for the long-winded message but, I really look forward to your response.
Hi Karabeth!
I think that if you’re still not divorced then he isn’t sure if you will. He’s being overly cautious. I think he does care very much for you but until you’re free to be with him, he sees it as a time that he should keep his options open just in case you don’t ever break free. If you are separated then he’s using the divorce as a vice to keep things from getting more serious. He may not be ready for a relationship yet. Time and patience is all that I can suggest for this to work honey. There is no fast tracking with Taurus. If you need more help, check out my books on Taurus Man Secrets!