Are you crushing hard on a Taurus man and wondering how to make him obsessed with you? Are you wondering what parts of you you should be playing up to the Taurus? What is on a Taurus’ wish list when it comes to love?
I’m Anna, a long-time Relationship Astrologer! I’ve encountered a Taurus man in the throes of romantic obsession a time or two! I’ve noticed that the Taurus becomes preoccupied with the same few traits in a woman. What are they, you ask? I’ve listed my four core observations right below for you!
Keep reading to take full advantage of everything that I’ve learned and to get to the heart of the Taurus man. IF you encapsulate the things that turn on a Taurus’ potential to go gaga for you, I know he’ll be putty in your hands! Keep reading to see which traits YOU have that will enchant him!
4 Things That Will Make A Taurus Man Obsessed With You
1. A Love of Nature
Taurus is a practical Earth sign; not all Earth signs love nature, but Taurus sure does! Taurus is everything that signifies the Earth element: immoveable, grounded, and solid. Taurus is most associated with plant life out of all the signs. This makes sense when you consider that the planting season begins as Taurus season revs up in April!
Taurus works hard, but they rest even harder. This means that the Taurus makes relaxing to the max their top priority! Where can you catch a Taurus man chilling his absolute hardest? Outside, likely with a cold one in his hand.
So how can you use this Taurean tendency to your advantage when making a Taurus man obsessed with you? Show him how much you adore nature and bring your inner flower child out to play! For example, if you went on an impressive hiking or camping trip, you want to capitalize on that.
Take advantage of his love of the natural world by mentioning all the things you do outside in a casual tone. You can say something like, “I am in the middle of this great book! I was reading outside and when the book got good, I found myself clutching the grass!”
Even if you’re not a hardcore nature chick, think about how you can reference the outdoors. You’ll give the impression to the Taurus man that you share his fascination for the wild. It takes practice, but I have seen it done!
2. Great Work Ethic
I know there is this myth that floats around about the Taurus being lazy. In my years as a professional Astrologer, (and with a Taurus husband at home) I have never found that to be the case. In reality, you’ll find that the Taurus man has a great work ethic. The Taurus man also takes his downtime seriously, which perpetuates this slanderous myth.
Since the Taurus is a guy who appreciates a day of good work, he’s interested in hearing about yours. This is great since, so often, your potential partners appear bored by your work stories. How nice will it be to have someone who has an obsession with you who actually enjoys hearing about your day?
This is a practical dude who is always interested in what you do for a living. Taurus is the most money-oriented sign in the Zodiac, so he will have a lot of respect for someone on her grind. The Taurus is one person who’s impressed by your side hustles. Tell him all about the things you do that make you a little extra coin, and he’s enthralled.
Knowing that his partner is a go-getter with money on her mind will comfort the Taurus man. This makes him the ideal partner for entrepreneurs and career ladies. While you shouldn’t drop how much you make on day one (Taurus’ hate a braggart!), you should mention your money goals and interests and how you’re getting there. This will endear him to you immediately!
3. Natural, Simple Beauty
Taurus men are associated with the planet Venus, the planet of beauty and aesthetic pleasure. Venus-ruled people concern themselves with how things look, feel, smell, sound, and taste. They are rarely seen looking dumpy or frumpy. Yet, Taurus’ are not fans of artificial beauty… they like a more natural look (does this surprise anyone? I didn’t think so).
Save those sweet neon double eyeliner looks you’ve saved on Pinterest for another love interest. Taurus is all about more organic looks. Colors found in high volumes in nature are more the Taurus’ speed! Even then, less is more with the Taurus man.
Consider finding some neutral Earth tone palettes instead of your glow-in-the-dark ultraviolet fave. The Taurus falls hard for understated makeup looks. Highlight the natural beauty that you already have!
The Taurus will become obsessed with you FAST when you show that you have an organic beauty style on top of a stellar personality! Pair this with a botanical (herbal specifically) scent, and you’ll find him at your door sooner than you can say “aphrodisiac.”
Read next: 5 Things That Kill A Taurus Man’s Desire For You
4. Your Relaxed Attitude
Taurus is the type of guy who wants authenticity. He does not appreciate big emotional displays of over-the-top reactions. Save this behavior for a Leo cause the Taurus will not be obsessed with someone who is over-selling her issues and concerns. Now, a Taurus will find himself digging a lady whose nature is tranquil.
What’s wrong with taking your own problems seriously? Well, nothing, until it begins projecting outwards too much. Taurus can appreciate emotional pain; they’re not immune to it themselves. HOWEVER, they WILL have a hard time sympathizing with someone constantly calling into work for it, crying over spilled milk, and throwing tantrums over inconsequential things.
The truth is, even if the Taurus is already into you, he may hightail it when he realizes that you’re a little too high maintenance for his liking. You’ll do your best to stay cool, calm, and collected with the Taurus man. He’ll thrive in a relationship with a woman who matches his own serene energy.
You’d be better off having a controlled vent sesh with a Taurus. He is always there to listen!
You’ll find that he falls MUCH faster for you when he realizes you’re a chill person who’s self-possessed enough to handle her own problems. I know that the Taurus will see this side of you once you become aware of his preference for a subdued girl.
If you’re in a relationship with a Taurus man, then you’ve got to tell me what you did to never leave his mind! What techniques, tips, tricks, and traits did you use to get on the Taurus’ mind forever? Let me know in the comments below!
Want to really turn on the Taurus man of your dreams? You’ve got to check out these dirty phrases that will have your Taurus man absolutely crawling out of his skin for you!
And if you’re looking to grow your love with Taurus guy to greater heights, and want to make him wildly attracted to you, then check out my guide Forever Love With A Taurus Man to find out how to sustain your love with him for all time!
Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
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I fell in love with my taurus guy but get mixed messages from him. He tells me he loves and that I have grounded him and make him feel content but they I don’t hear from him for weeks which breaks my heart.
Hi Debbie!
I can understand your frustration and pain that you feel when he doesn’t reach out for spans of time. The thing is, it’s alright for you to reach out to him instead of waiting for him to reach out to you. Taurus men don’t like to text very much sweetheart. Try to reach out to him more. He might appreciate you making the effort when he’s buy or doing something else. Give it a shot. You can also check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” as it could help reveal more for you to learn about Taurus men.
My gorgeous Bull man: 10 months writing to each other, 13 months together and in love… ups and downs because of his ASD…we had a beautiful 1st holiday together , with a couple of arguments. He flew back (still living with separated estranged ex), he told me he needed 10 days space via text…. ‘leave me alone’ he said, and blocked me on WhatsApp. We’ve spoken everyday for 2 years almost.
Devastated. He said he loved me, and wanted to be a father to my son (he already has kids). I stayed on, on holiday (with friends that he’d met and loved)…. suddenly no contact, leave me alone?? Then blocks me as admittedly I did kick off a bit. I was SO shocked and shaking? How could he do this to me. He is Aspergers, I have made allowances, but this has crossed the limit. No concern for our welfare, or how we are? He would never to this to his estranged wife.
I’m SO upset. I love him so much, I am heartbroken. But his actions show he doesn’t value me. I’m a Taurean woman, heartbroken. I won’t contact him. He obviously wants me out of his life. Why?
Hi Maria G!
It sounds like something made him doubt things. Something must have happened or something was said that threw him into the overanalytical side that a Taurus will do. Since you don’t know what that may be, you may need to go ahead and give him that time he asked for because if you don’t he’s going to pull back more and stop talking altogether. After the time has elapsed, reach out and tell him now that you’ve given him time, ask him what is going on because you miss him band are confused. He should tell you at that point. I wish you all the very best sweetheart!
To Maria,
I never comment, but this is such an important lessonto learn. I do hope that things worked out between Maria and her gorgeous Bull. Unfortunately, he was still living with his wife under the same roof, which means she was neither “ex” or “estranged”. That period of separation before and just after a man legally divorces is always fraught with risk, no matter what astrological sign the man is born under. In Maria’s case the risk was even higher. There is no real reason for a man to continue to live with his estranged wife. Until he permanently leaves the house, a couple like this is still very much married.
Hi Charlotte!
I absolutely agree with you. There are some circumstances in which it may be easier for them to continue living under the same roof. Much of this can come from not being able to agree who will sell the home and who will stay. They both want to have what they invested in. In some cases the spouse who needs to move out cannot afford to do so and therefore the one staying decides to help them out until they get on their feet. I am not making any excuses for it really but I do think that he shouldn’t be dating until he gets out of the house as well. Thank you for chiming in Charlotte!
Anna, you are right. I can certainly understand how it could be convenient or necessary for a divorcing couple to remain in the same house. What TORTURE, though! Any girlfriend of a man in this situation must understand and accept that he is not truly free until he is physically, legally and financially independent of the wife. I did date a legally separated man once years ago and never did it again. The wife remains in the picture until the papers are signed, and if there are children-she’s thereFOREVER.
I am an aries woman and he is a taurus. He told me what he liked about me then is my humor and personality and that is above my looks! 🙂
Hi Maica!
That sounds lovely! I’m so glad you shared this with me and with all the other women who are unsure. This may help them. I love it! I appreciate your feedback. I wish you all the luck of the stars!