For those of you who have followed me for years now, you know how much I love Taurus men! I love them so much that I ended up marrying one and I couldn’t be any happier! My Taurus man is everything I could ever want in a relationship and more.
Taurus is a feminine Earth sign, which makes men born in Taurus both gentle and fierce, strong and insecure. Ruled by Venus, a Taurus man revels in luxuries of all kinds and he will not stay in any relationship that doesn’t make him feel appreciated, loved, useful, and adored.
He needs to feel comfortable and secure in a relationship, so faithfulness is a big deal to him. He also wants a comfortable, even luxurious, home and a partner who supports his practical ambitions, understands his insecurities, and shares his need to be surrounded by beautiful things.
A Taurus man thrives in long-term relationships and prefers a stable and steady commitment over short-term flings that leave him feeling empty and unfulfilled. He wants to be with someone who is just as dependable as he is. A Taurus man is truly the perfect partner.
Things A Taurus Man Wants In A Relationship
There are a few things every Taurus man needs to feel happy and fulfilled in a relationship. And these qualities always center around what will make him feel most stable, secure, and comfortable in his life.
At the end of the day, all a Taurus guy really wants is peace and harmony in his life and he is looking for a woman who is going to bring him tranquility, not someone who is going to add chaos and disruption to his life.
Keep on reading if you would like to see if you have some of the qualities a Taurus man is looking for in a partner.
- Stability And Security
- Romance And Sensuality
- Traditional Roles Between Man And Woman
- Emotional Maturity
Are Taurus Men Insecure? And How To Deal With Them
A Taurus man is definitely an interesting beast to understand. These guys can seem super confident and like they have everything together, but beneath all of this, there is actually quite an insecure little boy.
A Taurus man seriously hates change, and this is why he is always trying so hard to control everything around him. He wants things to stay the way they are because if something changes then it means he fails and it can leave him feeling quite terrible.
Breakups are especially hard for Taurus men. They struggle to get over that person and it may take them a really long time to recover from the heartbreak. Taurus men have a really hard time surrendering and going with the flow.
They believe if they can be in charge and control a situation then, they won’t get hurt and this all stems from their feelings of insecurity and instability. A Taurus man who doesn’t work on his problems and faces his shadow side is always going to struggle with relationships.
This is when the nasty and manipulative side of him may come out. This is definitely something to look out for when dating a Taurus man. He needs to be encouraged to work on himself so that he can get over these feelings of insecurity.
But you can help him by reassuring him and telling him how much you love him and that there is no one else for you but him. He needs to see your loyalty and understand that you are in it for the long haul, just like him. Pay him compliments and let him know how amazing you think he is.
The more effort and patience you put into him, eventually it is going to pay off and he will understand that you are in it with him. Be his source of peace and he will love you forever.
Do Taurus Men Often Have Trust Issues?
You may have noticed that Taurus men actually have quite hectic trust issues. They are always second-guessing you or acting suspicious and this all stems from experiences in the past where women have deceived them in some way.
A Taurus man hates to get hurt, and that is why he is always on his guard because the times in his life when he did trust easily, he was really hurt and he never wants to feel like that again. This is why he becomes so controlling.
He also has a tendency to become quite jealous because he thinks everything is conspiring to unsettle his stability and security in life. This is why a Taurus man needs a woman to make him her top priority, this is the only thing that can really appease him.
This is probably why some Taurus men tend to be a little misogynistic and why they like traditional gender roles so much. “Being a man” makes him feel safe and like he is the boss.
The Taurus Man In A Relationship – Things To Know
If you are looking for a love that is totally devoted and loyal then look no further than a Taurus man. Being in a relationship with one of these guys can be a truly amazing experience. These guys are so wonderful at making a woman feel loved and cared for in a relationship.
They are super affectionate, stable, romantic, sensual, and above all, very committed to their relationships. A Taurus man goes above and beyond to make his woman feel loved and cared for. She will be his number one.
This relationship will feel super comfortable and you will quickly notice yourself falling into some type of routine because there is nothing your Taurus man loves more than knowing what to expect from his day.
Imagine fun evenings cooking together, cuddling up by the sofa watching tv, and then followed by some sweet and sensual lovemaking. When the relationship between you and your Taurus is good, it is amazing!
But when he gets jealous and possessive it can feel a little intense and like you might be trapped. And that he is taking control of your life as well. It is a tricky balance the two of you need to find in order to find the bliss you are looking for in this relationship.
How To Support A Taurus Man Emotionally
There is a lot you can do to make your Taurus man feel loved, appreciated, and stable. His needs are truthfully quite simple, and he needs the very bare minimum to be happy. The good thing about a Taurus man is that for the most part he is extremely chilled and doesn’t often get riled up.
But there are moments where he might get a little sulky, and this is simply because he feels insecure and out of control. Here are a few things you can do to show him how much he means to you. This will certainly have your Taurus feel supported emotionally and make him see that you are the right woman for him.
Your Taurus man may appear to be confident and even arrogant but he is an insecure soul whose jealousy can become extremely destructive and even violent if you give him reason to doubt you.
He may imagine you are flirting with other men or spying on you to be sure, so take time and make an extra effort to reassure him and make him trust you.
Any sign that you are restless, bored, or looking outside the relationship will eat him up for days and can turn your loving and attentive partner into a surly, calculating, and highly manipulative adversary.
He wants your loyalty. He wants you to admire him and make it seem like he is the only man who can ever exist for you. He needs to know that he can trust you and that you won’t disappear the moment things get a little difficult.
A Taurus man needs a woman who can stand by his side and be there for him at every moment.
Stability And Pragmatism
The sign of Taurus rules possessions and the accumulation of personal wealth. A successful relationship for a Taurus man is one where both partners are committed to long-term comfort, success, and security. Any threats to his routine or his possessions will be met with fierce and stubborn resistance.
He needs a partner who lets him take the lead and make decisions and one who appreciates his efforts to make your shared lives secure and comfortable. If you are careless with money or his stuff, he will brood over your thoughtlessness and become resentful.
Don’t count on him changing – he won’t change, and if you oppose him, be aware that Taurus can nurse a grudge for life!
Your Taurus man is a sensual, demonstrative lover who needs to eat from a richly laden buffet of sexual and sensual pleasures to feel he has a healthy and rewarding sex life. He will pamper and adore you but don’t take him for granted.
Make the effort to do the same to him, and don’t be scared of expressing deepest emotions, as he will appreciate your effort and protect you in your most fragile moments.
Sharing your secret fantasies with this Bull will excite and please him, as long as he doesn’t feel threatened. If you hide secrets or seem to be holding back, he will become anxious and insecure. You need to be truly naked with a Taurus man, to reap the full rewards of his immense capacity for love.
Taurus men are traditionalists at heart and in a relationship, they expect the man and women to follow rather old-fashioned rules and roles. A Taurus man wants to be deferred to and appreciated as a leader and provider. He expects his woman to be loving, feminine, pretty, and demure. He wants a woman who shares his ideas for a beautiful and comfortable home.
He may think nothing of admiring other women but if his wife or girlfriend appears too independent or free, he will brood and become insecure and jealous. The secret here is to give him lots of affirmation and make sure he knows that you love him and do not want anyone else.
As long as he feels his partner is completely committed to their relationship, the Taurus man will work very hard to make it succeed. He dislikes conflict, although once he is in one, he will be very hard to beat, as he is extraordinarily stubborn.
He is comfortable expressing his emotions but he prefers to do this in a serene and calm way. If you are given to emotional outbursts, you will see his colder side.
He wants to know that both of you are comfortable and that your relationship provides a safe place for each of you to thrive and be successful. If he feels you are keeping secrets or holding back, then he can be quite merciless and even devious in getting to the truth.
Open up to your Taurus man and tell him all your fears, and you will be surprised at how mature, loving, and supportive he can be.
How To Pamper A Taurus Man
What they say is true, a Taurus man loves to be doted on like royalty. He wants to know that he is special and cared for and this makes him feel loved and accepted more than anything else you can imagine.
If you just go all out and do special things for your Taurus man, then he will be super happy and devoted to you for a very long time to come. You may notice that when a Taurus man is in love with you, he goes all out and probably showers you with a lot of gifts and attention.
He may not say it, but he actually wants you to do the same for him. He wants you to make a bit of a fuss over him and express your love in ways that go further than just words. Show him how sensual and romantic you can be and do something special for him often and he will be elated.
If you can’t think of anything you can do to make him feel special, then check this out to get some more ideas on how to make him feel like a King.
My Final Thoughts
And there you have it, ladies – here are some of the things a Taurus man wants in a relationship and ways to learn how to be the perfect woman for a Taurus man. I hope you have learned something useful to bag the man you have been dreaming of.
All you truly want is to be in your happy place with your Taurus man.
But you never know which mood you are going to find him in.
The Taurus man can be really amazing, he has such a sweet character and gives so much love to the people he cares about.
He can also be spaced out at times and so worried about things like money and what the future will bring.
If you are a strong woman who can stand up for herself and still be patient with him, then you will have a rewarding relationship with your Taurus man.
A Taurus partner is very caring with his loved ones and will do what he has to in order to make them happy.
He isn’t typically a go-getter, but he does know what he wants, and sometimes he will only accomplish his dreams if a partner will inspire him.
As his girlfriend or wife, you will be his queen, his baby mama, and the woman he turns to when he needs to talk or even to cry.
You’ll be his rock and reason for fighting.
But how do you reach this point?
How do you make him see you as his queen?
Is there anything specific you can do to always put yourself as number one?
Fortunately, I always have a couple of tricks up my sleeve…
Be a fearless leader who shows her Taurus lover the way, and you’ll have a worshiper for life.
Be his guiding light and help him move through the world with grace and love.
Don’t be afraid to take the plunge and build this beautiful life together.
The two of you can do anything because you are together.
Enjoy your time with your Taurus man! This is a relationship meant for the record books!
But it is up to you to make it happen…
If you truly want to make a breakthrough and make this relationship a success, then you are
going to have to work for it…
Don’t be disheartened if he doesn’t commit or show his feelings right away.
Taurus men need to be sure they’re not being played, they need to be completely sure about the woman they are committing to because for a Taurus man, any relationship is for life and he needs to know 100% that you are in it with him.
Show him that you are serious, but just be patient because this may take a while.
Wishing you all the luck of the Universe.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,