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What Every Taurus Wants From A Relationship

Taurus is a feminine, earth sign which makes men born in Taurus both gentle and fierce, strong and insecure. Ruled by Venus, a Taurus man revels in luxuries of all kinds and he will not stay in any relationship that doesn’t make him feel appreciated, loved, useful and adored.

He needs to feel comfortable and secure in a relationship, so faithfulness is a big deal to him. He also wants a comfortable, even luxurious, home and a partner who supports his practical ambitions, understands his insecurities and shares his need to be surrounded by beautiful things.

Unquestionable Loyalty

Your Taurus man may appear to be confident and even arrogant but he is an insecure soul whose jealousy can become extremely destructive and even violent if you give him reason to doubt you. He may imagine you are flirting with other men, or spy on you to be sure, so take time and make an extra effort to reassure him and make him trust you.

Any sign that you are restless, bored or looking outside the relationship will eat him up for days and can turn your loving and attentive partner into a surly, calculating and highly manipulative adversary.

Stability and Pragmatism


The sign of Taurus rules possessions and the accumulation of personal wealth. A successful relationship for a Taurus man is one where both partners are committed to long-term comfort, success, and security. Any threats to his routine or his possessions will be met with fierce and stubborn resistance.

He needs a partner who lets him take the lead and make decisions and one who appreciates his efforts to make your shared lives secure and comfortable. If you are careless with money or his stuff, he will brood over your thoughtlessness and become resentful. Don’t count on him changing, he won’t change and if you oppose him be aware that Taurus can nurse a grudge for life!

Romantic Sensuality

Your Taurus man is a sensual, demonstrative lover who needs to eat from a richly laden buffet of sexual and sensual pleasures to feel he has a healthy and rewarding sex life. He will pamper and adore you but don’t take him for granted. Make the effort to do the same to him, and don’t be scared of expressing deepest emotions as he will appreciate your effort and protect you in your most fragile moments.

Sharing your secret fantasies with the bull will excite and please him, as long as he doesn’t feel threatened. If you hide secrets or seem to be holding back, he will become anxious and insecure. You need to be truly naked with a Taurus man, to reap the full rewards of his immense capacity for love.

Traditional Roles


Taurus men are traditionalists at heart and in a relationship they expect the man and women to follow rather old-fashioned rules and roles. A Taurus man wants to be deferred to and appreciated as a leader and provider. He expects his woman to be loving, feminine, pretty and demure. He wants a woman who shares his ideas for a beautiful and comfortable home.

He may think nothing of admiring other women but if his wife or girlfriend appears too independent or free, he will brood and become insecure and jealous. The secret here is to give him lots of affirmation and make sure he knows that you love him and do not want anyone else.

Emotional Maturity

As long as he feels his partner is completely committed to their relationship, the Taurus man will work very hard to make it succeed. He dislikes conflict, although once he is in one, he will be very hard to beat as he is extraordinarily stubborn. He is comfortable expressing his emotions but he prefers to do this in a serene and calm way. If you are given to emotional outbursts you will see his colder side.

He wants to know that both of you are comfortable and that your relationship provides a safe place for both of you to thrive and be successful. If he feels you are keeping secrets or holding back he can be quite merciless and even devious in getting to the truth. Open up to your Taurus man and tell him all your fears, and you will be surprised at how mature, loving and supportive he can be.

There’s SO much more I can teach you about your Taurus man. That’s why I’ve created the Taurus Man Secrets program, the bestselling guide to develop a BULLET-PROOF cosmic connection with your Taurus man!

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17 thoughts on “What Every Taurus Wants From A Relationship

  1. I recently broke up with my boy friend in October who happens to be a Taurus, he says I’m not emotionally supportive.
    I have tried talking to him but it seems his mind is made up about the break up.
    There’s still hope in me that things will work out.
    What advice can you give me.

    1. Hi Dumile! If he totally stops talking to you after telling you that he doesn’t want to get back together then you’ll know for sure he’s done. If he still talks to you however, the door is still slightly cracked open. You’ll have to start as friends again and try to build his confidence back up regarding you. After time if he thinks that maybe there IS another chance, he’ll motivate toward that. So for the time being, you may want to try to be friends with him and show him that you ARE emotionally supportive. Send him sweet memes that indicate you care, when he tells you something about his life, show him your empathy, and just basically let him see your presence is still there for him. There is a lot more to learn about Taurus man and what to do in order to win him back. If you’d like to know more, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  2. Dear Anna, I happened to view your website, I sure would like to see if you could answer a question for me, I am 67 years of age, male, I did while going to high school have had a
    lot of good women friends, though I hardly ever dated or had sex, because I always had to
    work hard in service stations and never had no time for a woman, my mother was a nurse
    and my father had a service station where I was busy, now since they are both gone, I am
    still working hard at 67 years of age, so it seems like all my high school woman friends are all married now and I am still in the background, now that I am in retirement and older now
    I would like to have a relationship,truelove and some sex in my life, I am taurus myself,or would I have to be a loner all my life and keep working,since I am not rich, though I need a love or woman in my life, could I get a simple answer from you if I could, you look like
    a respected person to ask, thanks

    1. Hi Dennis! Thank you for writing in about your situation as a Taurus man. While I know a great deal on how Taurus men are and what to tell women, I’m afraid I’m not sure what to tell you as far as how you can proceed to find a relationship or love. That being said, you may try going to places of interest to meet someone who has common interests or you can try online dating. Just take your time because as a Taurus, you need to be sure that the women you find interested in are women that you could have a future with not just a “right now” situation. Even at 67, you should take your time to cultivate something special. There are plenty of dating websites you can try I think “Our Time ” is one that helps people over the age of 50 to find someone. Hope that helps!

  3. Hi Anna, wanted to ask a question … If you are in a relationship with a person and you had intercourse with a taurus man while the person and you are still dating, how will he be towards them? He sent to tell that person he has moved on because he knew it won’t last. But he told the person he was falling in love with them, that’s why he look for someone. Will he still change his mind and try to go back seeing they told him they’re no longer in a relationship with the person anymore?

    1. Hi Princess, a Taurus man will have trust issues if he slept with you while you were still in a relationship with someone else. It’s a double standard but he will think that you are capable of doing the same thing to him and so he may not want to be with you even if you aren’t with the other person anymore. Then again, maybe with time and patience, you can show him that you weren’t working out with that other person and it wasn’t the reason you messed around with him. It’s a sticky situation and I think you would benefit from reading my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  4. hi, A taurus man said he love me and talk about his future with me, but suddenly he change and him being no time for me.He barely text and he dont ask to meet me even we are just 5 minute walk from his house to mine, When I ask him if he is ignoring me, he said he is just busy with works,. I don’t feel he is serious. but before that, I told him i am not ready to be in relationship. But now I think Im falling for him. what should I do? and why he is doing like that.

    1. Hi Kaka!

      Either he’s gotten cold feet because he jumped in and got serious too fast OR he’s truly busy with what he says he is. Taurus prioritizes when they have things going on in their lives which can sometimes result in love being on the back burner. He really should learn to tell you exactly what he’s dealing with and why he’s being reserved with his texts. You’ve fallen for him and I think it’s important that you are honest with him so that he can decide if it’s something he wants and that you’re on the same page of if he’s changed his mind. Talking is VERY important so go ahead and open that door!

  5. Hi Anna,

    Need your advice, I am Scorpio female and recently i met Taurus guy and on our first date we had sex and being a Scorpio i am emotionally attached to him and i felt same feeling from him too, after a week i asked him for marriage and future plans, he said right now is not looking for marriage and want to be in relationship, he said i’m stressing him so soon for marriage and everything goes in a flow and on the same day he stopped talking to me and after a day i tried to talk and said sorry and accepted how he wants to be in relationship we will be and will not force him for marriage and let goes in a flow, he forgave me but not talking like before, this kind of nature is hurting me a lot, will he remain the same or will he come back to me, please suggest whether we have future together. I don’t want to force things on him but want to wait for the right time ,please suggest

    1. Hi CuteScorpio,

      You may have gotten into bed with him too quickly. Sadly Taurus man is a slow mover and if he actually wants a relationship, he’s going to be very cautious and take his time. If he’s telling you that you’re stressing him too soon then that means he’s not ready to be where you are. If you want it to work with him you’re going to have to slow down and let things flow a bit more naturally. I know that’s not easy but if he’s worth it, you’ll be glad you did. Patience honey!

  6. I am a cancer woman ,i was dating my taurus man since it was 2013(now 2020).so we were so much in love .and he told me several times that he want to marry me.though he is stubborn, i noticed a lot of time,he changed himself to comfort me.i love him more than anything.but he once started flirting to other woman who was attractive, and i came to know and me being cancer woman(sensitive) cut him off.still he came to me several times.and i too went to i am talking to him from 4 days.he asks me about future plans.i don’t know what is going on his head.what if he will fly away again..leaving me depressed ! All i can say i love him so so much.

    1. Hi Wuora!

      Alright, just like I’ve mentioned to many other women, you need to talk to him. You need to ask him what he wants and where he sees things going with you. He will not tell you unless you ask. You won’t be able to find out what is going on with him unless you talk to him. Do yourself a favor and get it out on the table so you will know one way or the other and can then either let go or hold on. If you need more help, check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  7. Dear Anna.. I happen to date a taurus man.. I show him all the love and supports a woman should show her man… But he acts colder by the day, each time i try to approach him about his cold acts, he says it’s nothing that he’s just busy but i feel he has another woman that’s why he’s acting cold, and he rarely calls me.. Does it mean he doean’t love me anymore or he’s no longer excited about us?

    1. Hi Cherish!

      If he’s telling you he’s just busy then it’s a good chance he is telling you the truth. If things weren’t right he’d probably fess up. I wouldn’t assume anything yet. Look for other red flags before you decide it’s another woman. Taurus men are old fashioned. They prefer talking about important stuff face to face typically unless he has no other choice than to do it via the phone. Tell him you need more attention from him tough. Tell him you’re a big girl but you still love the way he was with you before he got so busy. It sounds sweet and he may pick up the pace again with you. Check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” sometime honey.

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