Are you seeing or dating a Taurus guy that you’re developing strong feelings for but aren’t sure if he’s feeling the same? Is he acting kind of strange or even pulled back from you? Perhaps he’s just using you as a rebound or as a “friend with benefit”. Here are some signs you can look for to help you determine what he is doing.
1. Spending Intimate Time But Not Quality Time
This is one of the worst offenses that Taurus man commits. He has a way of roping a woman into bed then treating her as though she’s only a friend. He’ll tell her things she wants to hear in bed and be generous.
He will then turn around and not call her for days or weeks on end. He won’t take her out; he won’t have her over to his place; he won’t do anything that could be construed as dating.
This confuses the woman as she thinks that because of the great pillow talk and sexual connection; that surely he really likes her and there is a future between them. There isn’t!
Taurus man makes it very clear when he’s into someone and if he isn’t doing that with you; he’s probably just using you as a friend with benefits without having told you that’s what he’s doing.
I’m sorry to say but I’ve had numerous clients that go through this exact scenario and are hopeful he’ll change. He won’t. He doesn’t establish this type of relationship and then grows it into more. It’s just sex for him; a good time.
2. Doesn’t Talk About Personal Topics
When a Taurus man is spending time with you but doesn’t seem to want to talk about his personal life or ask you questions about yours; he’s actually not interested in getting to know you on a deeper level.
He’s trying to get into your panties and have someone he can call here and there to “hang out” with. That doesn’t require getting to know each other or talking a whole heck of a lot. It simply requires willingness and sex.
Taurus men can be rather ruthless. They should be honest about their intent at the get-go but sometimes aren’t. Then again; sometimes they DO tell a woman they aren’t looking for a relationship.
However; the woman thinks that because he’s had sex with her and some good conversation that maybe he’s going to change his mind. He’s not going to ladies. Don’t hop in bed with him if he tells you this. He means it!
3. May Call You Pet Names
Calling you by your name is a VERY personal thing and creates a bond. It’s not always the case but is in many cases with Taurus man. Not calling you by your name makes it less personal.
Also if he happens to be playing the field; he’s going to call you by a pet name because he may not actually remember your name. That only holds true if he’s seeing or screwing other women.
It’s hard to say this really but he’s calculating when he’s not ready to settle down. He doesn’t seem like the sleep around guy but he CAN and will if he’s hurt enough and realizes he’s not into having an actual relationship.
When he’s ready though; he’ll stop doing all this nonsense and start giving his heart to one woman. Some Taurus men become prudes and won’t have sex with anyone until he is actually in a relationship. There are players though and if he cannot even call you by your name or stare into your eyes, he’s using you.
4. Long Periods Of Time With No Contact
Taurus men are not all that forthcoming with how they feel. They will answer truthfully when asked. When you get involved with a Taurus man, ask him what he sees or what he wants.
If you do not do this, you will be dragged along and wondering if he will ever settle down with you or if he’s going to keep doing this weird awkward silence thing for long periods of time.
He may reach out to you and then go weeks without talking or texting. Yes, Taurus men are horrible at communication via text or calls but; he will still keep in contact unless he’s playing with you.
When a Taurus man is in love or wants to be with someone; he will go to the ends of the earth to show her. When he’s not doing this; he’s not invested yet and you should be wary.
5. Only Has Sex When He Wants To
Taurus men will sometimes use sex as a tool. He’ll hook a woman with a night or two with a passionate love affair. Then he’ll use it as a bargaining chip. If he wants to be close to a woman; he’ll have sex with her like this often.
If he isn’t into her or doesn’t see a future with her; he’ll have sex with her, get her hooked, then he’ll cut out and won’t reach out to her for a long time. Once she feels she can start to move on; he comes back and wants to dive right back into bed.
He doesn’t care anything about her other than having sex with her and screwing with her head letting her believe there is some type of chance with her. There are rare cases that he’s unsure about what could be and is why he’s back and forth.
However; when a Taurus man pops up after months of not talking and wants to have sex right away or have you send dirty pics to him; he’s not in it for a relationship. Stop him right there and move on with your life.
There are plenty of red flags here for you to consider when you’re seeing or dating a Taurus man. He will for sure show you when he’s not into it just like he will be sure to show you when he is.