Being in a long-term relationship with a Taurus man and not being completely sure where it will lead can be frustrating. Yes, everything seems fine for now, and it’s not like your Taurus is giving you any reasons to feel he’s cheating. However, how can you know when a Taurus man decides you’re the one?
Taurus men are a delightful combination of the sensible and sensitive. On the surface, they are practical and solid, but beneath their calm surface is a romantic dreamer who longs to be understood and appreciated.
But how can you tell if your Taurus man is just being nice or if he’s ready to commit? He’s so stoic sometimes that it’s hard to tell what he’s thinking or how he really feels about you. Is there a future for you two? Having this in mind, you need to recognize signs a Taurus man is ready to commit.
Being calm, affectionate, patient, and stable, a Taurus man can seem very manly and macho. But don’t be fooled, as Taurus is a feminine sign and he is an emotional creature at heart, so getting a Taurus man to commit is not going to be easy.
You’re in luck because I’ve compiled a list of easy-to-read signs when a Taurus man chooses you and wants to commit to you!
Taurus Man & Commitment
First, you need to know that Taurus men are very slow to commit. They are cautious and want to be certain of what they are doing. If a Taurus man moves too quickly, he will often regret it or pull back.
A Taurus man really wants to know someone before they take the plunge into something more serious. Commitment is a huge step for him, and he doesn’t take it lightly.
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How To Know If Taurus Man Is Serious About You?
When a Taurus man decides you’re the one, this is really a big deal! He is a practical guy who wants a lifelong partner and would not want to commit to someone who is a drain on his wallet or who is lazy or irresponsible in general.
When a Taurus man chooses you, that means he cares for you. If you are consistently reliable and your presence provides a constant sense of stability in his world, it is most likely that he is going to be serious about you because this is what he craves.
A Taurus man is committed to a woman who is not prone to changing her mind often or canceling plans unless she really has to. So, don’t fall short on promises; otherwise, your Taurus will lose interest.
With all that said, here are some clear signs on how to tell if a Taurus man thinks you’re the one for him. You really should look for those signs that will reveal if your Taurus man wants to commit to you and take your relationship to new heights.
7 Clear Signs A Taurus Man Is Ready To Commit
1. He Discusses Future Plans That Include You
Pay attention carefully, because he’ll just do it as though it’s always been this way. If you aren’t listening then you’ll miss what he says. He will start talking about the future, saying “we” or “us.”
Unless he mentions someone else, then he really means “you and I.” This is a huge sign that he’s deepening the commitment, even if he hasn’t discussed it with you or told you that it’s what he wants.
A Taurus man sometimes just takes action when he’s ready, and he figures that if you aren’t into it, you’ll let him know. He’ll just assume that you two are together and that’s good enough for him!
Anytime he includes you in what he’s going to do down the line, you can rest assured that this is his way of implementing a commitment with you. You had better listen when he talks!
2. He Wants More Time With You
This seems to be true with most signs of the Zodiac. When he wants more with you, he’ll want to spend more time with you. He may ask you to stay over more often, or he’ll stay with you more often.
He will want to take you out more frequently as well. It becomes increasingly important for him to be with you when he can be. Most Taurus men keep very busy whether with work or other projects.
When a relationship with a Taurus man is ripe, he will absolutely want to be around you more and more. A Taurus in the bedroom is also quite a bit better when he is ready to commit, as he lets himself go with you.
Intimacy (not just sex) is very important to the Taurus man. Even if he isn’t the most touchy-feely type of guy. He’ll want to be near you and feel you care for him.
3. When A Taurus Man Opens Up To You
Taurus men aren’t the best at communicating their feelings, but they will do their best to show you how they feel by treating you special. They’ll show you how adored you are – that trade off isn’t so bad, is it?
When a Taurus man is in love and ready to commit, the Taurus man will start to open up to you about very personal things. He’s ready to tell you some of his secrets and desires.
He may also tell you about problems he’s had in the past with relationships (if any). It’s like he wants you to know as much about him as need be so that you know he’s serious about you.
He knows that this is the only way he can truly be close to you for the long haul. It always takes him time to open up, but when he does, you may get more than you bargained for. My husband is Taurus, so I can tell you that honestly!
4. He Wants To Share Space And Time With You
When a Taurus man chooses you, he will actually take steps to get closer. Not only by spending time with you, but he may actually suggest moving in together. Living together is a commitment in itself.
When he mentions doing this, he’s serious about you. He’s ready to take the relationship to a new level. There is no hidden meaning here! If he asks you to move in with him or for him to move in with you, his commitment is a reality.
This allows him to really be closer to you and not have to worry about your safety. Taurus man is protective when he commits. He will not let any harm come to you.
A home with a Taurus man is typically very comfortable. He sees this as your hideaway together from the world. It’s very special and he wants it to be special for you as well.
If you would like to look out for the surefire signs about Taurus man intentions about you, check out my recent blog post.
5. He Pays Way More
The Taurus man is a natural caretaker type of guy. When he’s ready to commit, he will show you by spending more money and doing nice things for you. He will take over the bill when you go out to eat.
He may also pay for your groceries, offer to do maintenance on your car, and other things that cost him money. He sees you now as his and as such, he wants to take care of you as best as he can.
The Taurus man is a family man, and when he commits, you are his family. This includes making sure you are well fed and healthy. He’ll go to the ends of the Earth to make sure you have what you need and desire.
Throwing money around to make you more comfortable is what he loves doing. Enjoy it and know that he now sees you as his queen. It’s important to him to be able to share with you his life and his finances.
6. He Isn’t Afraid For Others To Know
When a Taurus man is ready to commit, he will have no trouble changing his social media status to reflect the relationship. He will proudly post photos of you two doing fun things together.
He’s now ready to tell his friends and family about you. You are important to him, and so now he wants them to know you. He’s typically very private, so this is HUGE!
He’ll remove himself from any dating websites that he may have previously been part of. He is now on a solid path of commitment. He is yours and he sees you as his.
Although, jealousy may come up when he’s committed… so be prepared. He won’t like it if you don’t change your social media status or remove yourself from dating sites. He will expect you to do it as well.
Here’s more on what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman <<
7. He Tells You He Wants To Commit
Taurus men can be very vocal when they want to be. He will likely tell you what he wants when he’s ready to. Then again, he would probably rather show you via the other steps I have listed.
They are blunt though, and he may squeeze it into a natural conversation such as this, “so, now that we’re a couple, I think we should…” That’s a really easy way to tell you.
I have said before and I’ll say it again, pay attention to how he talks to you! He’ll verbally let you know in different ways, if not directly. He’s one of the obvious signs that will show you what is going on in his heart.
His heart opening up to you and displaying what he feels with his time, effort, and money, as well as sharing you with his family are all major signs that your Taurus guy is ready to commit.
Do Taurus Men Have Commitment Issues?
“Why won’t my Taurus man commit?”, is a question I hear a lot from my clients.
If he lets you know and you keep trying to push him, he’ll start pulling back or acting out toward you. So even though you may think you need to have him commit quickly, you may want to hold off a bit.
No, a Taurus man has no commitment issues but is very slow to commit because he takes commitment quite seriously. When you don’t pressure him, when you allow him to come to you in his own time, that’s when the real magic happens for the Taurus man!
Keep in mind that a Taurus man really does want a relationship. It’s just that he’s a little bit scared of moving too fast or rushing into something he might not be certain of.
Either way, he will greatly appreciate your patience, and you’ll see him slowly start warming up. Remember, with his level of stubbornness, this is one person who will push back very hard if he feels in any way pressured.
FAQ On Taurus Man Commitment
Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Taurus who won’t commit? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship.
Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with your Taurus man.
Why Is My Taurus Man Not Ready For A Relationship (Why He Won’t Commit)?
Something that is absolutely NO for a Taurus man, is when you are trying to force him to commit before he is ready. Taurus may not move slowly, but he may not want to move fast either.
It depends on his level of comfort, his maturity, and whatever baggage he may have from the past to determine how ready he is to commit. He’ll let you know if he isn’t ready.
Why Does It Take A Taurus Man So Long To Commit?
A Taurus man can be attracted to a woman, enjoy spending time with her, and even feel love for her, but not yet feel ready for all that comes with a relationship.
For example, commitment, exclusivity, and responsibility, even the idea of putting energy and focus into being there for her—are overwhelming for a Taurus man.
This is hard to understand if you naturally want to be with your Taurus man because you care about him. Yet sometimes it can be a matter of maturity or even just timing.
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