So you’re crushing on an alluring Taurus man who is absolutely irresistible. You want to be more than just co-workers or friends. You want to have him as your lover! How can you do this?
It’s a fruitful day for you because I have information to share that will help you get that Taurus guy to be more than just someone you work with. I advise you to keep reading up on how to go from coworkers to lovers with a Taurus man!
In my years as a relationship astrologer, I have worked with thousands of women who fell for a Taurus man across a desk, a shared shift, or a Monday morning meeting, and I can tell you this is one of the most common ways these relationships begin. In our survey of more than 5,600 women involved with a Taurus man, 14 percent told us they met him at work, which makes the office one of the most fertile places a slow-burning Taurus romance can grow.
The catch is that he is ruled by Venus and born under fixed earth, so he will not rush, and he will rarely risk his comfortable routine on a hunch. That is exactly why a little strategy goes a long way with him. If you want the full picture of how his Venus-ruled heart works before you make your move, my complete Taurus Man Secrets guide walks you through every layer of him.
4 Ways to Go From Coworkers to Lovers with a Taurus Man
1. Nudge, Wink, Flirt
It never hurts to flirt with the Taurus man you are attracted to. Yes, you can do this without everyone else catching on. You can laugh at his jokes, look him in the eyes, and touch him whenever possible.
Keep the touching simple, like his hand when you’re passing him something, his shoulder when you’re laughing, or his arm. Any of these physical forms of attention will get him to notice you more.
You absolutely have to get him to notice you before he’ll even consider being something more than co-workers. He’s even picky about his friends and tends to have a tight-knit circle.
The Taurus man isn’t one who easily picks up on a woman who wants him. Honestly, he’s kind of ignorant to it, until the woman makes herself obvious. He also will not chase you if he thinks he might get rejected.
He has to have confirmation or a confession that you like him, otherwise he’s not going to bother and you’re not going to find out if there could have been something more there!
This means you have to make yourself a little more obvious (if you can). Try to get closer to him by being around him as often as you can, flirting and looking him in the eye to let this guy you know dig him!
It’s important that he knows what your intention is, so that he can figure out if his is the same or if he’s interested in giving it a try. You will never know though, if you don’t give him that nudge!
2. Dress To Catch His Eye
Taurus men typically like women who dress their very best, as though they’re going somewhere special. He loves the latest styles and expensive looking appearance.
Granted, he loves the very best, but you don’t have to go broke trying to dress for him. You can simply do the very best you can and make sure that your hair and makeup look amazing.
He is attracted to beautiful women with great style. If you start dressing this way then you’ll definitely get him to notice you, along with being cute and flirty. No matter what your actual style is, as long as it’s clean, neat, and makes you look good, he’ll like it!
Taurus men even like some Tomboy types, but only the ones who look neat, clean, and well put together. He still wants to see your feminine side in some way.
Wear something that will capture his olfactory senses as well. Wearing something like a warm vanilla perfume will get him to turn his head and remember you when he smells that elsewhere.
Earth tones are good too. Colors like brown, burgundy, forest green, dark blue, dark khaki green, etc. Everything you have on must blend nicely, so that you look fabulous.
When possible, wear heels. He’s a sucker for them. He appreciates that they define a woman’s legs, butt, and hips. Those are feminine things that turn him on. Even if you’re wearing jeans, the heels will make him weak!
3. Ask Him Questions & Soak It In
You’re going to need to learn the very basics about this guy if you want to be more than just someone who sits down across the office from him. You’re going to need to find excuses to talk to him!
When you’re able to learn what he likes in terms of music, food, and hobbies then he’ll be easier to get to know. He’ll also love you asked about him, if you happen to ask some things from a co-worker whom you know he’s friends with.
The fact that you actually did your homework will impress him. Look for intellectual conversations you can have with him. If you hear he likes talking about a certain topic then do your research so you can talk to him about it!
He loves intelligent women who are beautiful, sexy, and know their stuff. He’s impressed by the woman that goes out of her way to show how awesome she is. Don’t be cocky though. He doesn’t like that much. Focus on confidence and intelligence, not being too over-the-top.
Brag about things you’ve done that are exciting and that you are proud of but again, don’t be a braggart either. There is a difference. You want him to see how smart and resourceful you really are but that you are humble too.
One of the things you really need to find out is what type of way he likes helping humanity. Does he like helping animals or people? Does he like spending time giving to the poor? What does he do?
Once you find out things like this, you can use it as topics of conversations. These are amazing conversations to say the least. He will for sure have all eyes on you after this!
4. Go For It! Ask Him Out!
You’ve been flirting with him but he doesn’t seem to be getting the hint. Yes, that’s entirely possible. If that is the case, you’re going to have to take a very bold step to get his attention.
You’re going to have to stop skirting around and just ask him out. You don’t have to ask him on a per say “date” either. You can ask him to get together for coffee or dessert sometime.
He’ll be stunned you asked but he’ll also be happy that you took a step like this. If he is interested in you, he will absolutely take you up on this offer and will get together with you to discuss when and where.
It’s also possible he’ll give you his phone number so that you two can keep in touch as per the plans. Truly this is a scary thing to do, but sometimes this type of risk is absolutely worth it!
Either you wait around and see if he ever notices that you’re trying to get his eyes on you OR you can take matters into your own hands and win that man over right now!
You can even try inviting him to group events. If there is an event planned for your work, you can ask him to accompany you. There are plenty of ways you can make this work for you but the important thing is to actually take the step.
Find out now if he’s interested in being more than co-workers from you so that you can start to build something special between the two of you. Be a bold woman. He’ll love it!
Read next: These 4 Surprising Physical Qualities Drive a Taurus Man Wild
Why a Taurus Man Almost Never Makes the First Move at Work
If you have been waiting for your Taurus coworker to notice you and step forward on his own, here is something that will save you months of confusion. He probably will not, and it has nothing to do with how he feels about you. Taurus is a fixed earth sign, which means he is built for stability, not spontaneity. The workplace is one of his safest, most controlled environments, and he is not going to gamble that comfort on a move that might get awkward if you do not feel the same.
There is real data behind this. In our survey of over 5,600 women involved with a Taurus man, 45 percent said the relationship was moving slowly and 34 percent said there was no progress at all. That is not rejection. That is simply his natural pace. He needs to feel certain before he commits even a small piece of himself, and certainty takes him longer than it takes almost anyone else.
So when you read the four steps above and feel nervous about being the one to lean in first, remember that with a Taurus man, being gently direct is not pushy. It is the kindest thing you can do for both of you. He truly needs the green light before he will let himself want you out loud.
The Secret Signals a Taurus Coworker Is Already Falling for You
Before you take a bold step, it helps to know whether he is already warming to you, because a Taurus man shows interest in quiet, physical, easy-to-miss ways. The clearest one is his eyes. In our survey, 73 percent of women said their Taurus man made intense, consistent eye contact, and that is one of his most telling signs. If you catch him holding your gaze a beat longer than a coworker normally would, that is him, not your imagination.
Watch for the small comforts too. A Taurus man who likes you will remember how you take your coffee, save you the good chair, or quietly handle the task he knows you dislike. He shows love through acts of service and steady presence long before he ever says a word about it. He may also start grooming a little more on the days he knows he will see you.
If he lingers near your desk, finds reasons to walk the same direction, or softens his usually reserved expression around you, those are green lights. You can read more about his physical tells in 5 Signs a Taurus Man Is Into You, which lines up closely with how he behaves at work.
How to Flirt With a Taurus Man Over Text Once You Have His Number
Once he gives you his number, texting becomes your most powerful tool, because it lets you flirt with him privately, away from the eyes of the office. A Taurus man loves warmth and sensory detail, so your texts should feel cozy and grounded rather than fast and flirty. Tell him the coffee shop near work had the cinnamon rolls he mentioned, or that a song reminded you of the conversation you two had. He falls for the woman who makes ordinary moments feel good.
Keep your pace patient. Do not flood him with messages or expect rapid-fire replies, because he reads and answers on his own steady clock. A single thoughtful text that he can savor will do far more than ten quick ones. Compliment something specific and real, like his calm under pressure or the way he explained something to you, and he will hold onto it.
If you want the exact wording that speaks to his Venus-ruled heart, my Taurus Text Magic guide gives you word-for-word messages designed to make a Taurus man think about you between texts. You can also see more examples in my guide on how to flirt with a Taurus man over text.
What You Should Never Do When You Want a Taurus Coworker to See You Differently
There are a few moves that will quietly close the door with a Taurus man, and most women make at least one of them without realizing it. The first is rushing him. If you push for a label, a date, or a clear answer before he feels ready, his fixed earth nature digs in and he retreats into the safety of treating you as just a coworker again. Let him move at his pace, even when it tests your patience.
The second is creating drama or playing games at work. Taurus values peace and dignity, and he is deeply private about his personal life. Flirting that turns into office gossip, jealousy tactics, or public teasing will embarrass him and make him pull back to protect his reputation. Keep your warmth between the two of you, not on display for the whole department.
The third is being inconsistent. A Taurus man is watching to see if you are steady, because steadiness is what makes him feel safe enough to invest. Warm one day and cold the next will confuse him and read as a reason to stay where it is comfortable. Be reliably kind and present, and you give him the stable ground he needs to take a real step toward you.
Frequently Asked Questions About Going From Coworkers to Lovers With a Taurus Man
How long does it take a Taurus man to fall for a coworker?
Longer than you probably want, and that is normal for him. A Taurus man bonds slowly and on purpose. He needs repeated, low-pressure exposure to you before his feelings settle into something he trusts, so do not measure his interest by how fast he moves. Weeks or even months of friendly, steady contact is often what it takes for him to shift from seeing you as a coworker to seeing you as someone he wants.
The good news is that the workplace is the perfect environment for his timeline, because you already see each other regularly without any pressure. Every shared shift, every small kindness, every easy conversation is quietly building the familiarity he relies on. You are not starting from zero the way you would with a stranger on a dating app.
Your job is to be consistent and warm while he catches up emotionally. The more safe and pleasant you feel to be around, the faster his guard comes down. With a Taurus man, patience is not passive. It is the active ingredient that lets his slow heart arrive at the same place yours already is.
Should I tell my Taurus coworker how I feel or wait for him?
In most cases, you should tell him, gently and clearly. As you read above, a Taurus man rarely makes the first move because he will not risk rejection or disrupt the comfort of a working relationship on a guess. If you wait for him to act first, you may be waiting a very long time, even when the feelings are mutual. A small, honest signal from you gives him the permission he is quietly waiting for.
That does not mean a dramatic confession. It means lowering the guesswork. Ask him to grab coffee, tell him you enjoy his company, or let your warmth become unmistakable. Once he knows the door is open and that he will not be turned away, his interest has somewhere safe to go.
If the timing at work feels too risky, you can keep it light and private at first, then let it grow outside the office. The key is simply removing his fear of rejection, because that fear, not a lack of feeling, is usually what keeps a Taurus man frozen in place.
Are office romances with a Taurus man a good idea?
They can be, and in fact 14 percent of the women in our survey met their Taurus man at work, so these relationships are far more common than people assume. A Taurus man thrives on familiarity and routine, and seeing you regularly in a comfortable setting plays directly to his strengths. He gets to know you slowly and naturally, which is exactly how he prefers to fall.
The thing to respect is his deep need for privacy and stability. He will not want your relationship to become office entertainment, and he will be cautious about anything that could threaten his standing or his peace at work. If you both keep things discreet and dignified, his protective instincts relax and he can let the connection grow.
Go in with realistic expectations about pace. A Taurus man will not turn into a whirlwind workplace romance overnight. But if you are looking for something steady, loyal, and built to last, the slow office build is one of the most natural ways a relationship with this sign begins.
How do I know if my Taurus coworker likes me or is just being friendly?
The difference shows up in consistency and physical attention. A friendly Taurus coworker is pleasant to everyone. A Taurus man who likes you singles you out in small, repeated ways, like saving you a seat, remembering details you mentioned in passing, or finding quiet reasons to be near you. Pay attention to what he does specifically for you that he does not do for others.
His eyes are the biggest tell. With 73 percent of women in our survey reporting intense, consistent eye contact from their Taurus man, a prolonged gaze is one of his clearest signals. If he holds your eyes, softens around you, or seems a little more careful with his appearance on the days you work together, those are not things he does for a casual work friend.
Touch is another clue, since Taurus is the most sensual sign. A light, deliberate brush of your hand or a steadying touch on your shoulder means more from him than from most. When several of these signs show up together and stay consistent over time, you are looking at real interest, not ordinary office friendliness.
What should I text a Taurus man I work with to start something more?
Start with something warm, specific, and low-pressure that gives him an easy reason to reply. A message like, I saw they finally restocked those cinnamon rolls you like, thought of you, works beautifully because it shows you pay attention and it references a real, sensory detail he enjoys. Taurus men respond to comfort and thoughtfulness, not clever lines.
From there, let the conversation breathe. Invite him to something concrete and casual, like coffee after work or a bite at a place you know he would love. Concrete and cozy beats vague and flirty with this sign every time, because he likes knowing what to expect and he likes feeling taken care of.
If you want the exact phrasing that works on his Venus-ruled heart, my Taurus Text Magic guide is full of word-for-word messages built for this. The goal is always the same, make him feel good every time your name lights up his phone, and he will start reaching for you on his own.
Final Thoughts
Taurus men are sometimes hard to get because they really aren’t paying much attention to who likes them or not. They don’t see signs or hints. They need someone to come on to them directly.
He also moves slowly so if you wait on him to ask you out, you may be waiting forever until he approaches you. Save him the trouble and go for it. Let him know you’re into him.
Let him see that you want to start a friendship that can grow into more if he’d just take your hand. You are now equipped with the easiest and most effective ways to get Taurus to be more than co-workers with you.
Win him over and make him take the next step toward you. After you make it very clear to him what your intention is, he will let you know if he feels the same or if isn’t into it.
If he isn’t, you keep being you. His mind may change along the way because once he knows you like him, he’ll keep thinking about it every time he sees you and at some point, he may break and reach out to you.
Taurus men play hard to get because they are complicated men. As long as you’re pleasant and have patience while you’re doing all this, you may very well win this guy into your corner.
Speaking of winning, did you know that Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson is actually a Taurus man? You see how strong, handsome, talented, and intelligent he is? He’s a shining example of Taurus.
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And check out my Taurus Man Secrets right here to learn more about this mysterious Taurus man!
Wishing you all the luck of the universe.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
