If you’ve never been with a Taurus man before, then I know you’ve got some questions! You could be wondering: how do I turn on a Taurus man? What is he looking for from me in bed? How do I best provide what will make him go absolutely crazy in the bedroom?
Luckily, I have been a Relationship Astrologer for a long time, and I know just what it takes to get a Taurus man to go absolutely WILD for you in the bedroom! I know of a few fail-proof ways to keep your Taurus man aroused for years to come.
I know that you’re dying to find out my best tips and tricks for turning on a Taurus man, so keep reading for my four best pieces of advice for keeping the Taurus man eternally turned on for you!
Here is what I have learned after more than two decades reading the charts of Venus-ruled men: a Taurus man is not turned on the way other signs are. He is the most sensual sign of the entire Zodiac, and his desire is built slowly, through the body and the senses, never rushed. In a survey of over 5,600 women involved with Taurus men, 64% described intimacy with him as incredible once they understood how he is wired. The women who struggle are almost always the ones treating him like a fast-moving fire sign instead of the slow, earthy, touch-driven man he actually is.
So before we get to the four tips, let me give you the one shortcut that changes everything. A Taurus man responds to specific words far more than most women realize, and saying the right thing at the right moment can flip a switch in him that nothing else can. If you want the exact phrases that speak straight to his Venus-ruled senses, my Taurus Dirty Phrases guide gives you word-for-word lines that make him crave you.
How To Turn A Taurus Man On: 4 Amazing Tips
1. Make Your Bed A Sanctuary
The Taurus is associated most strongly with the second house of the Zodiac, the area of the chart that rules over material objects as well as money and fineries. You’ll notice that your Taurus man is particular about his objects… the brands that he buys, the types of items he prefers, and the quality of items he purchases are all on the forefront of his mind.
This should clue you in to how important his physical surroundings are in ANY situation, including one where things could get sexy! One good way to sensibly upgrade your lovemaking area is to invest in some top-notch sheets and a killer mattress.
Some Egyptian cotton threads and a quality mattress is going to set up a great space for sexy time. You’ll find that your Taurus is much better able to relax on high quality material. You know that this means that he’s much more able to wind down into a more romantic mood.
My advice is to keep the bedroom a classy space with nice, comfortable furnishings. This is going to fully prime the Taurus to get him in the mood. If you’re trying to turn a Taurus on polyester sheets then you’ll find the only thing coming up fast is a roadblock to fun times!
2. Focus On His Neck And Mouth
Every sign of the Zodiac rules a body part or body parts. It’s always a good idea to show these spots some love if you want to be at an advantage at turning a sign on. With Taurus, you’ll be most successful at turning him on when you give attention to his neck.
Taurus ruling the neck means that any touch there is going to speak to a part of him that he can’t even put a finger on. He’ll be at attention to your every move when his neck area is being stimulated. This begs the question, what are the best things to do to a Taurus’ neck area to get him in the mood?
Kissing his neck is obvious! Soft, slow, sensual kisses will send shockwaves through all parts of his body. You should also think about giving his neck a squeeze every once in a while. Putting pressure on the sides of the neck while relaxing it on his windpipe is best. You can also flutter your eyelashes on his neck for gentle stimulation.
Get creative, too. There are a lot of things that you can do to create a sensation of pleasure… consider what would work for the neck area and see if your Taurus is down!
3. Woo Him With Great Food
Taurus is the type of sign who enjoys gustatory pleasures, aka: he loves good food! Taurus is all about the joy of eating. Taurus is an extremely sensory sign who has incredibly attuned to pleasure of the body. A Taurus would almost rather go hungry than munch of food that doesn’t make him happy to eat.
Taurus men will get very excited when they know that their partner can cook… he usually does all the cooking because his is the food he knows is up to snuff. If the Taurus appreciates your cooking, then show it off and cook him something wonderful right before you’d like to have a passionate tryst.
This is something that will prime his senses to receive ultimate pleasure. Sensory objects and food that stimulates him will make him start thinking about dessert… maybe you’re on the menu? He’s sure hoping so!
Go all out and cook something luxurious that he’ll really like, or maybe try a copycat of his favorite restaurant. Whatever the case, you’ll find that he’s far more interested in good sex after he’s had a sample of what you can give to him.
Read next: 6 Flirty Texts That Will Get A Taurus’s Attention Fast And Make Him Want To Text Back
4. Incorporate Sexy Lingerie
Remember what I said about a Taurus appreciating finery and nice objects? Well, a Taurus will not only appreciate the objects he has but he’ll have opinions about what you wear too. My advice? Make the best of this tendency that he has and put on something sexy in the bedroom.
Taurus is one sign that will love a woman who has a great sense of style in and out of the bedroom. My advice is to prime him by wearing an outfit that you know he loves to see you wear and then later on take off the outfit to reveal something deliciously sexy underneath. You might have to pick his jaw up off the floor, but it will be totally worth it for the reaction!
You should consider some body-flattering lingerie in natural colors, since this is typically what Taurus likes best. Flashy isn’t his thing, so put the frou-frou bells and whistles away and stick to something classically stunning like a neutral toned garter and push up bra.
What a Taurus Man Secretly Wants to Hear in Bed
Most women stay quiet in intimate moments, assuming a Taurus man wants to focus and not be interrupted. The opposite is true. A Taurus man is deeply soothed by sound, and your voice is one of his most powerful turn-ons. He wants to hear that he is wanted, that what he is doing feels good, and that he is the only man who has ever made you feel this way. He does not need a performance. He needs sincerity, delivered low and slow.
Because Venus rules him, he is attuned to tone far more than to clever words. A soft, warm voice telling him to slow down, or to stay right there, lands harder than anything elaborate. Praise his patience. Tell him how safe he makes you feel. A Taurus man builds his confidence in the bedroom on the certainty that he is pleasing you, and when you confirm it out loud, he relaxes into a version of himself that is generous, attentive, and almost impossible to satisfy elsewhere.
The quiet woman often reads as a distant woman to him, and distance cools a Taurus down. Give him your voice, and you give him the reassurance that keeps him coming back.
The Turn-Offs That Cool a Taurus Man Down Faster Than Anything
Knowing how to turn a Taurus man on is only half the picture. The other half is understanding what shuts him down, because a single misstep can undo an entire evening of buildup. The fastest turn-off for a Taurus man is rushing. If you push him to move quicker than his body wants to, he stops feeling pleasure and starts feeling pressure, and pressure is the enemy of his desire.
He is also turned off by chaos and mess. A cluttered, cold, or sterile environment pulls him straight out of the mood. Remember, this is the sign most tied to physical comfort and beauty. Harsh lighting, scratchy fabrics, a phone buzzing nonstop, or a tense, hurried energy will all register in his body as a reason to retreat. In our survey of over 5,600 women, the Taurus men described as the most passionate were almost always the ones whose partner created a calm, beautiful, unhurried setting.
Finally, criticism is poison to his arousal. A Taurus man needs to feel admired and competent. Comparing him, correcting him sharply, or making him feel judged in an intimate moment can close him off for weeks. Lead with appreciation and let correction wait for a gentler time.
How to Build Slow-Burn Tension Long Before the Bedroom
A Taurus man is rarely seduced in a single moment. He is seduced over hours, sometimes days, through a slow accumulation of sensory anticipation. This is the secret weapon most women overlook. If you want him truly turned on by the time you are alone, the work starts much earlier, in the small touches and lingering glances that prime his senses.
Brush his hand when you pass him something. Stand a little closer than necessary. Let a goodbye hug last two seconds longer than usual. Wear a scent he has complimented before, because a Taurus man stores sensory memories deeply and a familiar fragrance can pull him straight back to a moment he loved. 73% of women in our survey said their Taurus man makes intense, consistent eye contact, which tells you how much he communicates through the body rather than words. Meet that gaze and hold it. Let the tension sit unspoken.
By the time the two of you are finally alone, his anticipation has been building for hours, and a Taurus man who has been quietly wanting you all day is a Taurus man who will give you his complete, undivided attention. For more on his most responsive areas, my guide on Taurus man erogenous zones goes even deeper.
The Signs a Taurus Man Is Already Turned On by You
A Taurus man does not always announce his desire with words. He shows it through his body and his behavior, and once you learn to read these signals you can respond in the moment instead of guessing. The clearest sign is touch. When a Taurus man is turned on, he becomes physically affectionate in a slow, deliberate way. He will rest a hand on your lower back, pull you closer, or find small reasons to make contact.
Watch his eyes and his breathing. A turned-on Taurus locks into steady, heavy eye contact and his pace slows down even further than usual. He also becomes more attentive to comfort, adjusting the lighting, offering you something to drink, smoothing the space around you. This nesting behavior is his way of preparing the sensory environment he needs to fully let go.
He may also go quieter and more focused. While some signs get talkative when aroused, a Taurus man tends to get calm and intent, as if the rest of the world has faded out. If you notice him slowing down, settling in, and giving you his full sensory attention, you already have him exactly where you want him. You can read more about his deeper patterns in my full guide to what a Taurus man is like in bed.
Frequently Asked Questions About Turning On a Taurus Man
What body part is a Taurus man most attracted to on a woman?
A Taurus man is drawn to the parts of you that signal softness and sensuality rather than overt flash. He tends to notice the neck, the collarbone, the curve of the lower back, and the lips, because these are the areas tied to slow, sensory touch that he loves so much. He also pays close attention to skin and texture, so the feel of your skin matters as much as the look of it.
Because Taurus rules the neck and throat himself, he is unconsciously attuned to that area on others too. A graceful neckline or a soft scarf removed slowly can capture his attention immediately. Remember that this is an earth sign who experiences attraction through the body, so understated sensuality nearly always beats anything loud or flashy with him.
How do you seduce a Taurus man over text?
Seducing a Taurus man over text is about painting a sensory picture rather than sending something explicit out of nowhere. A Taurus man wants to imagine the experience, so describe what you would do, how something would feel, or what you are wearing, in language that engages his senses. Slow, warm, suggestive messages work far better than rushed or aggressive ones.
Timing matters too. A Taurus man does not like to feel ambushed, so build up to it over a conversation rather than leading with it cold. Reference a shared memory, a moment you both enjoyed, then let the messages drift somewhere more intimate. If you want the exact wording that works on his Venus-ruled mind, my Taurus Dirty Phrases guide is built precisely for this.
What makes a Taurus man obsessed with you?
A Taurus man becomes obsessed with the woman who makes him feel deeply comfortable and consistently desired at the same time. He craves stability, so a woman who is steady, warm, and reliable becomes a safe harbor he does not want to lose. But comfort alone is not enough. He also needs to feel that magnetic, sensory pull, the slow-burn tension that keeps him reaching for you.
The combination of emotional safety and physical desire is what locks a Taurus man in. When he knows you are not going anywhere and he still cannot stop wanting you, that is when his loyalty turns into devotion. Feed both sides, the security and the spark, and he will become the most steadfast partner you have ever had.
Are Taurus men shy or reserved in bed at first?
Many Taurus men are reserved in the early stages, not because they lack desire but because they like to take their time and read the situation before fully opening up. A Taurus man wants to be sure he is in a comfortable, trusting setting before he lets his sensual side show. Once he feels safe with you, that reserve melts away and reveals one of the most attentive and generous lovers of the Zodiac.
The key is patience. Pushing a hesitant Taurus man only makes him retreat further. Create the right environment, give him reassurance, and let him set the pace. The wait is almost always worth it, because a Taurus man who has fully relaxed into intimacy is in no hurry to leave.
How do you know a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you?
You know a Taurus man is sexually attracted to you by his consistent physical closeness and his steady, lingering attention. He will seek out small touches, hold eye contact longer than usual, and make an effort to create comfortable, intimate moments with you. He becomes protective of your time together and prefers settings where the two of you can be close without interruption.
He also remembers the details, what you wore, what you said, what you both enjoyed, because his sensory memory runs deep. When a Taurus man keeps returning to those memories and keeps wanting to recreate the experience, his attraction is unmistakable. Trust the pattern of his behavior over time rather than any single grand gesture, because for a Taurus man, steady devotion is the truest signal of all.
If you are ready to keep the passion alive for the long haul, the words you whisper to him matter more than almost anything else. My Taurus Dirty Phrases guide hands you the exact lines that make a Taurus man melt and crave you. Take a look here and see how quickly his desire deepens.
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
