Can An Aries Woman REALLY Understand A Taurus man?

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Here’s all you need to know about how Taurus man and Aries woman are compatible and how you can bring your Taurus man closer

There is sizzling chemistry when the earthy sensuality of a Taurus man meets the fiery sexual intensity of an Aries woman.

Aries is a much faster thinker and prone to rapid changes in mood while Taurus is calmer and unlikely to change his views. Both Taurus man and Aries woman are passionate lovers and any spark of attraction can quickly escalate to a bedtime bonfire.

So, you’re an Aries woman and you’ve either gotten the attention of-or need to get the attention of that Taurus man.

You know at this point he’s one of those people who genuinely appreciate the better things in life, yet he appears obstinately opposed to any kind of changes that could push him forward in reaching those goals!

You might be a bit perplexed since this appears to be the opposite of what he should be doing. For some of you Aries ladies, just when you think you have him at a point of taking things to the next level- he backs off altogether. How can a Taurus man and an Aries woman ever truly get it together?

Some days, it is pure bliss. Here you have this slowly sensual man who just lavishes his attention and his affection on you. But, then, like night and day- he’s flipped the script entirely and may not even be talking to you!

This is insanely confusing behavior for an Aries woman because you are pretty clear about what you want and if you’ve got a problem with someone you have no trouble telling them!

You probably already know- even if you haven’t done the deed: at the core of this, there’s a spark, a fantastic passion too big to be ignored. So…how on earth is he seeming to do just that?

You’re one of the most primal, fiery signs in the zodiac- passion is never a problem for you, is it? And well, so is he, but it comes out in very different ways between the two of you. Were this a strictly in the bedroom deal- you’d have no problems with one another whatsoever.

Aries woman stubbornness meets Taurus man’s stubbornness

attractive man and woman in the bedroom together cuddling cute

You are both incredibly stubborn signs, very determined and apt to get what you want. Except, where you differ is in your methods and the way that it all comes out: and one big one, between an Aries woman and a Taurus man– you have no problems at all getting started when it comes to what you want and need. He, on the other hand, may need a little help with that.

The wonderful and incredibly powerful balance between you then, is that he can help you to not burn out- and you can help get him off his keister! His tenacity and stubbornness come out once things are going, but he has trouble getting them going.

For you, it may be very hard to understand him as he is an Earth sign and you are a Fire sign. Earth signs are very, very complicated people. They’re usually incredibly stable, loyal and seem almost endlessly tolerant.

However, if you believed that makes them easy to love- you might just find yourself shocked at how suddenly that Earthy behavior becomes a landslide that hurts. No one cuts someone off like an Earth signs.

And when they do it, they do it because they have a very hard time expressing the deep hurt or fear they often feel when having to rely on another person. It doesn’t matter if it’s emotionally or otherwise- an Earth sign probably doesn’t trust you right away. That has to build: and for Taurus men, showing how much they care can be terrifying.

Your Taurus male happens to be the very first Earth sign in the zodiac. And as I mentioned, a Fixed sign as well. You see, each one of our zodiac signs has an element and it has a modality. Taurus is Earth and Fixed, whereas you are Fire and Cardinal.

There are three different modalities, Fixed, Cardinal and Mutable: and a Fixed sign with a Cardinal sign can be nearly explosive! The energy he carries as a fixed sign is incredibly stubborn and very steady. He’s not going to assume leadership and move on something, though he may well follow your lead if you do.

Your leadership comes out right from the start, but you may sometimes push so hard you burn out. So, ultimately, when you two come together, you balance VERY well- however, getting there takes a bit of doing.

So how do you get to that point?

Let’s take a look at your Taurus man in a nutshell, here, as he relates to you, an Aries woman.

If you have been dating him a while, you already know: this is a guy who has to have absolute consistency. You may even notice this if you’re just stuck in the friends’ zone or even just trying to get his attention- Taurus loves the same old same old.

The thing is, though: you want something, you jump up and you get it. He wants something and it’s almost like he expects it to come walking in the door! Aries women often come to me with frustrations involving the Taurus lack of initiative- they’re just not self-starters and if you’re looking at them the same way you do things, you might think he doesn’t want you at all by his behavior!

You have a habit of getting an idea in your head- and you want it NOW, Aries! And there’s absolutely nothing at all wrong with being that assertive and getting what you want. However, your Taurus man doesn’t work like that at all. He needs time to really think on things- and is actually a bit prone to thoughtless procrastination.

One of the most obnoxious things you’ll ever hear come out of a Taurus man’s mouth is the dreaded “I told you so!” when you’ve made a mistake because you moved too fast. He doesn’t ever want to have to hear that, himself, so he may go incredibly slow with things.

He does, however, bring a certain element of reliability to the relationship which…can be a little boring to you at times, if you’re being honest- and his refusal to move as quickly as you would like may also be problematic.

Know that, if he’s interested, he’s at the very least thinking about things. If the two of you adapt to the way each other thinks, feels and acts on things- you can balance everything out and really, become quite the couple. You might think he hesitates because he is not interested.

watercolor illustration of woman Aries

This is likely the complete opposite of how he feels. If you look at his life, you’ll probably see areas where he’s just stuck in situations he isn’t entirely thrilled with. For you, that’s an alien concept- you want to fix it now and move on, but, he may fall prey to complacency. There are, however, 5 key things that if you have done them- or you’re thinking of doing them: you may find yourself stuck as well.

Let’s look at those 5 Top Taurus Man Turn Offs. Of course, I go into these and so much more in greater detail- but these are usually the things we do that turn him off and cause him to distance himself the fastest:

1. You pushed too hard- or you’re thinking about pushing

For an Aries woman, this one’s hardest. Though you know he is resistant, you may see an entirely different side of him- his back as he walks away, if you actually push.

How do you know if you have? Well, if he hasn’t responded to your attempts at contacting him- the odds are pretty good, you’ve pushed. If you’re thinking about doing this: don’t do it.

Also, if you’re waiting on a response to calls or texts you’ve already sent- just let it lie for now. If you’ve already done this, don’t worry- nothing is irreparable and I’ll explain how to fix this later on.

2. He doesn’t know how you feel- because you haven’t said

This isn’t usually an issue with you, Aries- but, if he’s not making the moves you hoped he would: make sure you’re giving him all the positive, green light signs so he’s sure about taking those steps.

3. You said something you didn’t mean

For you, this is usually something said out of anger or frustration- and the thing is: no matter how wonderful the relationship is, whenever someone lets fly with something hurtful at a Taurus: they don’t forget. They may forgive- but, you’ll need to work on repairing what they feel isn’t just a momentary outburst, but a breach of trust.

4. The mind game

Again, this isn’t one I tend to see Aries pull but it will turn even the sweetest of Taurus men into a raging bull. Or, well, the running bull- running quickly away! Always say exactly what you mean, when you say it and you’ll be fine: not typically a problem for you, right?

5. The smooshed ego

The wounded ego of a Taurus male is absolutely a sight to behold. Rather than getting upset and crying or keeping that to himself: he is going to project. He’ll imagine you think you’re better than him, or he may feel like you really ARE too good for him.

For a man who inherently believes he deserves the best- this is bad news. Don’t talk down to him and don’t make fun of his lack of initiative. Communication needs to be clear and meaningful to him.

Now, if you’ve already done some of those things to a Taurus man, don’t think there’s no hope, Aries woman!

Use the power of Aries to start taming that Taurus male

Young handsome stylish guy listing her pretty blonde girlfriend

First, though you may not think so- a Taurus man is an absolutely and ferociously loyal person though he may come across as someone who just adores stability. Both of these things can be true of him. He is a man that will take action and he will often display affection by Acts of Service- that is, he’ll do something thoughtful for you.

He will also delve into the romantic if he knows that’s what you’re into- but you’ve got to be careful, they are prone to laziness, Aries! So, if he isn’t guided a bit by you: you may not get to see that romantic, thoughtful side. The thing is, you cannot boss him around and you cannot nag- this will only end in him running as fast and as far as he can.

While he doesn’t have quite the temper you may have, Aries, you will find that once he does get angry- it’s pretty bad. If he feels he must defend himself in any way- or if he feels he’s been insulted, you may see a side of him you never thought you’d see!

The passionate fire of a bull angry is not something to play with, so it’s really best not to play mind games with him where you attempt to make him jealous- it won’t work. Thankfully, they tend to be very patient people who don’t like to get into arguments, so you don’t have to guard yourself against that. If he can avoid the argument- he will.

Because his ruling planet is Venus and yours is Mars- you may find that the sex is amazing, when it happens. He will be like a cat with catnip if you’re as assertive as you typically are in the bedroom- and his passionate heart will follow suit, so the sex can be phenomenal.

Whatever you do: do not assume that passionate sex means commitment for a Taurus. Though they are incredibly commitment minded, they’re also not one to say no to a treat- and if they think a treat is all you offer, the passion may be short-lived. Allow him to get to know you, as well, and you will find that he takes you seriously as a partner as well.

The key here is balance- if you are both working towards making the relationship work: it will and you will find that the strengths you both possess are plenty enough to create a very strong

For now, ask yourself these questions:

Were things actually going as well as you believe? Aries women are notorious for occasionally missing some subtle cues when someone is upset. Sometimes, it can be hard for you to read the signs that things aren’t going quite the way you thought- because when you get heated, you tend to drop it quickly. Taurus men do not quite work like that and some wounds go deep and are not easily forgotten.

Was he already trying to tell you something? If a Taurus man tells you it isn’t serious, or that he isn’t looking for something serious- odds are, it’s probably a safe bet to believe him. He’s not one for playing hard to get. What else was he saying to you, though? Were there issues he tried to bring up that never got resolved? You’ll need to think about those things.

Did he know where you stood and where he stood in the relationship? If the two of you have not discussed commitment- he may not be aware any such thing exists.

How were you talking to him? Or were you talking AT him, Aries? If you answer that second question with “Yes” it’s important to take a step back and correct that before you go any further. As I said, a Taurus man likes an assertive Aries woman. But, he’s not too fond of being lectured, nagged, prodded or otherwise bossed around- and sometimes, such leadership comes naturally to you.

Show, Don’t Tell

Taurus men always express their feelings through the things they do. He may not be keen on open expressions or explosive declarations of feelings, which can be confusing. He may not really want to talk about his feelings or even respond when you do. But, if he’s doing things, odds are, he is, in his way, expressing his feelings for you.

Unfortunately, the one emotion he is both uncomfortable with yet quite expressive with is when he is angry. If your Taurus male has gone there, you know there’s nothing soft and sweet about that bullish temper tantrum! For him, though, this makes perfect sense.

Let’s be blunt for a moment: when a Taurus man is acting like a jackass: he is in fact, showing his anger and, in a very real way, the hurt underneath it. The silent treatment, a raised voice or even just stomping around and making the “Taurus man grunt sigh” are all pretty typical. So typical, in fact, that I did have a label for that noise! If you’ve heard it- you know exactly what I mean.

Though he may not be talking it out with you or really, even feeling like those hollering matches make much sense- he actually does feel very deeply. Understanding that what looks like distance to you is just his way of hiding the vulnerability he feels is important.

He may be thinking about twenty different things at a time and not express a single one of those thoughts! As you get to know him, and if you have already been doing this, you know these men have layers upon layers to dig through. You can do this, but you need to turn your strength into PATIENCE.

One area where you two may butt heads in a serious way is that the Taurus man enjoys being the one running things, whereas you enjoy the same, Aries woman. You sort of like the idea of a man taking charge- yet, when he does, it really doesn’t sit well with you at all, does it?

It’s okay to admit it, we know. The best thing you can do in this situation is to allow a little give and take. Make sure that things are always balanced and always 50/50 and you’ll find the two of you are quite the powerhouse team.

Famous Taurus man – Aries woman couples

David Beckham Taurus and Victoria Beckham Aries

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What if my Taurus man is ignoring me?

If your Taurus man is ignoring you- and you have already tried to contact him a number of times, Aries woman: stop it right now. If it is a newer relationship- this is especially key. You cannot expect to inundate him with contact attempts that he doesn’t respond to: and him to respond to this positively. He won’t do it.

Give him the space he needs, Aries. If you two have been involved for quite some time, a simple letter or email stating that you are giving him space and you understand will suffice. Make sure you do add something in there about how if he needs to talk, your door is open and your ear is available.

When he’s back in touch- do not make the same mistakes you did before! For a Taurus man, a second chance after he’s decided things are not working is a rare thing- and you must use this well.

If you can show him that you respect him and how he processes his feelings, he will respond very well to that. Don’t push, don’t cajole- simply chat with him as though you are getting to know him all over again and he will come around.

So, Aries woman, how can I help you with your Taurus man?

I’m Anna Kovach. I have been a relationship astrologer to many couples, but more often to women just like you, who are floored by what seems to be a completely unreadable Taurus man.

More than that, I am not just an astrologer who can help you here, I have been right where you are with this enigmatic male and my relationship is still going strong to talk about it! That is why I offer you my 30 dirty secrets about your Taurus guy COMPLETELY FREE. You can download it by clicking here.

Final Thoughts on Taurus man and Aries woman compatibility

From our very core, we all want to connect and be heard by a partner who understands us. Your Taurus man is not unlike you in this, though his approach may be vastly different. Often, it’s our own insecurities and our own past experience which may hinder us in doing this as we build walls to keep people out. The Taurus male is notorious for this!

You can avoid this entirely and have the relationship you want, Aries woman. Using astrology, you will see a better and more clear understanding of yourself- what you do, why you do it and what you can do about that. Additionally- you can look into your partner, and better understand all those things of him, as well.

I know that often, you, as an Aries woman think that if you are patient, you may miss out on your opportunity- or that he may feel like you are not interested. Nothing could be further from the truth with a Taurus man!

Often, what we perceive as disinterest is our own projection- what we would do if that were the case: understanding ourselves first and then understanding the Taurus man can change all of this.

If you have ever seen a full natal chart, you probably know- there’s much more to it all than just his zodiac sun sign. Maybe you’ve learned about moon signs or rising signs. But, did you know that each planetary influence will play out in his chart and yours, in all sorts of different ways? Even your relationship itself can have specialized charts that detail how it will go!

However, the sooner you begin to take that first step- the better. You will find that once you look inside of yourself to see what you want, what you need, you can go from there and take some MUCH stronger, more confident steps.

After that, an intense look inside the heart and mind of your Taurus man will help you to dig deeper in understanding what makes him tick. You will find that these valuable insights give you just what you need to get started on things. So, take that step and begin to understand him better, now.

I’ve got a great opportunity for you to do exactly that without having to ask him a thing. In my book, Taurus Man Secrets, we explore the inner workings of the Taurus man and you can order it by clicking here.

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Anna Kovach

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5 thoughts on “Can An Aries Woman REALLY Understand A Taurus man?

  1. I wish I would of read this like 2 weeks ago… I pushed my Taurus bf by not being patient because I assumed he was uninterested and pushed him away. Now he is cold to me so I haven’t talked to him.

  2. I met my Taurus man almost a month ago.
    I keep suggesting we go out again, but he just doesn’t ask. I’m impatient and impulsive
    He calls or texts everyday, but has not said one thing to lead me on or to make me think he is interested. Nothing is about me, he could be taking to anyone else, that’s how platonic the conversation is.
    My patience is wearing, all I want to do is see him again, talk to him, text him- and I try to distract myself to give him space – when all I want is to be close to him. Not sure how much longer I can last without just moving on.

  3. I’m seeing a taurus man who’s in a bad marriage. We started 4 months ago, he’s been up front about not leaving the relationship until his 11 yrs old son turns 18. But, we’ve been physical on several occasions; hes told me that he can’t give more, but I’m hooked on this man for all the right reasons.

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