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How To Make A Taurus Man Fall In Love With You

On the surface a Taurus man is a simple creature who loves nature, art and all beautiful things, but how can you improve your chances of making him fall head over heels in love with you?

For a start, don’t bend yourself into a pretzel to be his ideal mate, as he doesn’t have a fixed idea of who or what that is. You can, however, accentuate the parts of yourself that he is bound to appreciate. These include; femininity, practicality, and reliability.

He needs to be given time to think things over and he appreciates being consulted on big decisions. He loves creature comforts, home-cooked meals, and fine foods, as well as being pampered with sensual gifts.

Be Beautiful

Stubborn, earthy Taurus is a feminine sign so even men born at this time are more than usually attuned to all things female and pretty. He doesn’t have a set idea of what body type or style he is looking for, but if you take care of your appearance and let your best attributes shine, he will notice the effort and shower you with compliments and affection.

Wear dresses and heels and take care to present a clean, caring personal image, as well as a comfortable and thoughtfully decorated home, and half your work is done. The Taurus man loves art and anything that excites his sensibilities, so sharing that interest with him will help to cement your bond.

Be Trustworthy

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He may seem calm and unflappable to you at first, but you should be aware that Mr. Taurus needs to feel secure to open up to love. He needs to know that you support him completely and will always have his back. Any sign that he cannot trust you, or any interest you show in other men, will be locked away in his vault of grudges for forever and a day.

He also appreciates a sense of knowing that you have a clear plan for your life and that you can be practical and support his plans. He can be very generous and supportive when you are in a crisis, but if his first impression is that your life is a mess, he may not stick around for long.

He is at his worst when he feels unappreciated or undervalued, and trust me, you don’t want to see how manipulative or cold he can be when he feels hurt or deceived. You need to constantly reassure this man with lots of compliments, affectionate attention and silly little gifts that prove your love.

Be Sensual

A Taurus man responds very well to old-fashioned romance, as long as you let him think or feel that he is in control. Sex is important to him, and if you let him know just how much he turns you on, he will blossom and thrive. If he is not sure of your affections, the opposite will occur and you may be left wondering if he likes you at all.

Win him over with lovely flowers, fresh sensual fragrances, massages, and candles and make sure you give him lots of affection and pampering. He needs a constant supply of good old-fashioned romance and reassurance, and who doesn’t?

Pamper him with attention and food

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The key to unlocking a Taurus man’s heart is through feeding him delicious homemade meals, surrounding him with things of beauty, and playing his favorite music. He prizes quality over quantity to being thoughtful, and researching what he likes will always score you lots of points.

Show genuine interest in his work, his goals, his interests, and his long-term plans and resist the urge to talk only about yourself. This will get him to relax, let down his defenses and start the process of falling completely in love.

How to make him run away

Taurus men like partners who are stable, practical and trustworthy, so if he senses that your finances or personal life is a mess of tangled and disorganized threads, he may lose interest quickly.

If you try to make him jealous by flirting with other men you run the risk of losing him completely. Similarly, if you don’t enjoy the same music, art or love of food, he’ll take much longer to find common ground.

Being messy, uninterested in pleasant surroundings or not caring much for your appearance are things he may try to change if he really likes you, but brushing up on these areas is a very good idea.

Anna Kovach is an expert astrologer with remarkable insight into what lies beneath the skin of a Taurus man. Her in-depth book: The Secrets of a Taurus man is your secret weapon if you want a Taurus man to fall, and stay, in love with you.

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50 thoughts on “How To Make A Taurus Man Fall In Love With You

  1. Hello Anna,
    I’ve dated my Taurus man twice and he stood me up on our third date today and won’t answer my calls or messages. Our last two dates have been him taking the lead and even in the bedroom. I’m a Leo woman, but i appreciate being taken care of in the hands of a capable man. I’ve pretty much ticked the above boxes you’ve suggested even without realising it!
    I’ve bought your book to understand him bit better because i recognise a quality man when see one.
    But his behaviour today is quite rude and he’s usually good with dates/times/appointments up till today.
    Can you advise me if it’s worth pursuing him or just forget it? I’m a Leo and i suppose I’m a bit forward with my attentions? He has verbalised how much he enjoys my affectionate behaviour.
    Should i forget about my ego and ask him point blank what the heck is going on, despite your recommendation that Taurus men should take the lead?

      1. Hi Sadie!

        Compatibility relies on more factors than just sun sign alone. You must also consider moon sign, rising signs, how their charts line up and how the two of them are together. While some Leo women don’t do well with Taurus men, some do very well. It’s all in how much they care for each other and how much work they are willing to put in.

    1. Hi Gail!

      I think that if he’s been fantastic all up until this incident that you should realize he’s a human and he’s going to make mistakes sometimes. Yes, give your ego a check and weigh the pros and cons with your Taurus man. I think you’ll find far more pros than cons sweetheart. Enjoy the good about him and when he messes up, remember that everyone does. Always be honest with your needs and desires with him. Communication is important even if he’s not good at it. In time he’ll learn how to do it properly with you.

      1. Im a cancer woman and im dating a taurue man. I just want to know if we’re compatible because he’s been cold and aloof lately.

        1. Hi Michekle!

          If you look up Taurus man with Cancer woman in my blog, you should find the article that explains the compatibility between you two. I will tell you this, they are typically an excellent match up. Good luck with your Taurus man as you may find the love of your life with him.

  2. Hi Anna,
    I got stood up on my third date with a Taurus man. I’m a Leo woman.
    He wined and dined me, took me to expensive bars and restaurants; then took me as his date to his best friend’s birthday party where all his other friends were there on our second date. Held my hand the entire time we were there. Had sex (strangely for me) on the first and second date. We were unable to see each other for 3 weeks due him traveling for work and i was so excited to see him when he messaged me of his return.
    We made arrangements and he was enthusiastic to meet up. But he didn’t;t answer my calls or messages and just did not show up.
    I don’t think i did anything wrong – i tried to follow your book – I wasn’t pushy, but couldn’t resist being affectionate and kiss with him; maintained perfect personal hygiene (he verbalised how nice i smell), was dressed feminine…allowed him to take care of me, etc..
    Is that a typical Taurus male behaviour to just drop me like that? Or shall i just write him off as a horrible person? That is just rude behaviour!
    We both live in Adelaide, Australia.

    1. You slept with him far too soon. Taurus like to be men and have some fun with the chase. You gave in and there is no more chase or fun, on to the next one. That is a man thing, not just Taurus thing. Taurus also when single like to date a few women at a time. Write him off and find someone more suitable and don’t sleep with someone right away.

  3. Hey Anna, I’ve been dealing with a Taurus male for 5 years on & off now. We never were exclusive, just always felt like it. We really hit it off when we first met , but a lot of people were jealous of how happy we were and created a lot of drama between us but besides that we never argued about anything. We got along very well , we’re like the same person but he would tell me that he didn’t want to be in a relationship. He would say he wasn’t ready , he would say he thinks he’ll never be able to be in a relationship blah etc. One time after we finished having sex , he told me he loved me with tears in his eyes but he took it back and said he didn’t mean it. He told me he needed me in his life and he didn’t want me to hate him. He distance himself from me but then decided to befriend me again but I ignored him. I ignored him for a week the first time then he eventually got a gf and I didn’t talk to him for a good two months. He texted me and said it really sucks not having me around. Then we gradually started hanging after his relationship was over. Everything was going great , still no title but he began to open up to me more and he verbalized that he trust me , he wants to start a few businesses together but all of a sudden he doesn’t want to hang anymore, delaying our meetings, not showing any affection towards me ,ignoring me, responding when he feels like it and he straight up told me he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me, he doesn’t have any deep emotional feelings for me , he enjoys my sex and company that’s all. But he still wants to be friends and continue working on our businesses together. Should I just give up , something in my heart just says he’s lying I know he loves me ,but what are your thoughts? Do you think he means that?

    1. Hi Sha!

      My goodness. He sounds like a very wounded Taurus man who is terrified to commit. He’s afraid that he’ll hurt you and that he’ll get hurt so he keeps pushing you away every time he gets too close. I think you may be right in that he loves you. It sounds like he does. It also sounds like he needs to really work oh himself and figure out why he doesn’t want a relationship. There is something holding him back and he’s not telling you what it is. Perhaps you should try asking him so that you’ll finally know if there is any hope between you two or not. If he’s too jaded or wounded then you may need to move on. However, if there is a reason that seems valid and you know he can work past it then perhaps you can hang in there. Check it out!

  4. well im a 24th oct scorpio n most of the guys i have been on a date with or in a srs relationship with were always aries, leo, majority of the time taureans…. n i hate all 3 to the core! im srry to my experience taurus men r same as leo n aries. they don’t f*cking know what they want!!!! they will pretend that they support u but next min the male ego bar shoots up!!!! if u don’t want to marry someone then Don’t date them with wedding bells in mind!!!!! SO DONE with this SH*T!!!! don’t cheat me, don’t treat me like an idiot, don’t take my sincerity for granted!!!!

    1. Hi Zak Zak!

      I’m so very sorry to hear of your sour experiences with Taurus men. Since you’re a Scorpio you might try to search for a fellow water sign or air sign. Perhaps they’d be better suited to you. However, you can also do well with a Taurus man who has a water or air sign in their chart that helps balance them out better. Next time you meet one, ask them what their Moon sign or Rising sign is. If it turns out they have Air or Water strongly in their chart, they may be very different than the ones you’ve come across before. Just a thought if you’d like to try something new!

    2. i met a Taurus men 1 year back in starting he is loving and caring… talking whole day was crazy to call n meet…meeting were also good at first once he shares me personal issues abt money and i thought he is looking for luxury girl so i cleared and things started falling worst from them and he distant with me and not ready to talk from then again things goes well n again fight appens and were not talking for few months and again came together but he list started talking n always think im taking him wrongly.. on n off is there but he never give me to break things n come back but gets hurts quickly on small things and never apologies even he is wrong…wen met he hold hand i can feel strongly he likes me but wont understand how to handle him.. bcz wont understand when he gets angry.. pls suggest how to make him feel secure and happy and openup with me or loves me…im sagitarrius women.

      1. Hi nivedita!

        If he is getting upset over small stuff then he has a huge problem within himself. It’s not normal at all for a Taurus man to react that way. Normally they keep things under wraps and over time you get to him but not over small stuff as you mention. Perhaps he has a Moon sign that makes him more emotionally inclined like a water sign (Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio) otherwise something is wrong within him and he needs to work on it before he is stable in a relationship. I would advise sending him uplifting memes. If you overload him with positive, he will likely feel inspired and start to make changes for himself in a good way. I wish you all the best!

  5. Dear Anna, Need to know if Taurus and Pisces are a match, we seem to have lots in common our time together seems to be great. But he seems to be withdrawn..should i spend the time and effort into something if we aren’t compatible.

  6. Hi Anna ,
    So I am a scorpio and I made friends with this taurian guy. I’ve tried to befriend him and we were barely friends for 2 weeks and he started sexting me and what-not. I very gently pushed him away and showed him that I wasn’t really interested in hook-ups. I need a serious relationship and I may have a tiny crush on him. We still talk and he’s still trying to just hook up with me , he has a reputation of being a playboy. He says that I really attract his attention. how do I get him to be serious about us ?

    1. Hi Anna!

      If he’s made it clear to you that he’s only into friends with benefits then you may not be able to get him to be serious about you. He’s probably in a time in his life where he isn’t ready for a relationship and until he is, there is much you can say or do to change that. What you can do is tell him you’re really into him and would like to get closer but you don’t want to be “friends with benefits”. He should tell you right then and there if he’s willing to try or if he’s not interested in a relationship. Better to know than not!

  7. Hi Anna. Im with my long distance taurus partner for 1 year now. Im an aries woman and we are so different creature but we appreciate each other. My life is actually a mess and my Mr. Taurus has been supporting me since i dont have job. We are in a long distance relationship for 1 year. He is from California and im from philippines. He visited twice here already. January we broke up cause he told me that he dont know wheh he can come back due to money issue plus he want to save up cause he want a new house. He told me he dont want to waste my time waiting on him. Then i cried like a kid cause of how hurt it was for me. He cried too, I was suprised seeing him cry for the 1st time. He shows me affection telling me how amazing i am and how i make him emotional since he isnt like that cause he was a marine for 5 yrs and has a strong personality. So yeah, we broke up but still it hurts for me.

    I wanna know more how to get him back. I want him so bad. I need him in my life. He makes me happy always
    Help me anna

    1. Hi Carmi!

      I’m so sorry to hear of your heartbreak with a Taurus man. It sounds like that it’s too difficult for him to maintain the relationship. He feels it’s too much for what he’s trying to accomplish in his life. While he may care for you a lot, he isn’t willing to do all the work that would have to be done to have the love with you. All you can really do is remain friends with him and maybe in time things will line up better for the two of you to try again but until then, you’ll have to try moving on in your own life or focusing on making yourself happy.

  8. I haven’t slept with my Taurus mam yet its been six months. This is solry because I don’t know where he stands with his constant Hot n cold.
    So recently I told him I was ready for sex and he said he believes I want sex because I want to please him .
    Anna help me

    1. Hi Ivie!

      If you don’t know where you stand with your Taurus man, you’ve got to be really open and honest about how you feel and what you want. He won’t know unless you tell him. Trust me when I tell you he’s oblivious about your desires and needs in the relationship unless you actually tell him. So open up and have a good talk explaining to him how you feel about him, what you want, and what you need. I think you’ll find better success that way.

  9. Hi Anna. I’m a Taurus woman and my ex is also a Taurus we just broke up 2 weeks ago.. because he fell out of love in our relationship.. and he told me that he feel unhappy.. but until now I’m still in love with him and I’m doing the no contact rule. But unfortunately our boss (we work on the same company ) assigned me to work with my ex.

    What should I do??
    Help!!

    1. Hi Lovely!

      Wow that is a strange and awkward position to be in. Well, all you can really do is be professional when you’re around each other but otherwise move on. Make it clear to him that you’re not sitting around mulling about him or crying. Perhaps when he sees you’re doing well and moving forward, he’ll miss you and want you back. If he doesn’t, it’s alright though, you keep doing you and you’ll find the happiness you deserve sweetie!

    1. Hi Eva!

      You absolutely can win a Taurus man as a Sagittarius woman! Appeal to his desires in life. Find out what he likes and then work toward showing him you’re up for a spontaneous adventure. Show him interest, give him compliments, and tell him how cool he is. He’ll appreciate the flirting and he just may show interest in you. Give it a shot, you may have a very good chance.

    1. Hi Tiffany! Thank you for writing in with your question. Never write off any possibility due to what you read on the internet. Gemini is a go with the flow type of person and can adapt to just about any type of partner. Taurus man is fixed and tends to know what he wants and is unwilling to compromise. However, if you seem to meet up with the type of woman he wants then yes, it can work. Don’t write someone off just because of their sign. Everyone has each sign in their chart in different places that makes for different quirks, desires, and goals. Therefore it’s really important you get to know the Taurus guy better. In fact, I think that my book may actually help you with that. Read it and then you can decide if it’s a possibility you want to explore. Pick up a copy of my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  10. Anna,

    So, I’m a Virgo and he is a Taurus. When we first met, it was an easy and instant connection. We have been hanging out for 2 months. He loves taking me out to eat or for drinks and paying. We always have a great time. I have spent the night with him several times. No sex because I don’t believe in casual hookups. He is very touchy feely and flirty.

    Seems to know just what to say to pique my interest. We played board games, card games, and other games. I’ve met several of his friends, his kids, and some of his other family. But he also does the hot cold thing. I like my space so I give him space. I didn’t hear from him for an entire day after spending 2 nights with him. I also didn’t contact him either. The next day, he was constantly texting me all day long. It was great. So the other night, it felt right and I slipped up and slept with him. Greatest sex ever btw and he didn’t want me to leave the next morning but I had to. Now he is cold again. No texts/calls. I hope I didn’t ruin it. His son told me he talks about me, in a good way, when I am not around. And his son says he likes me a lot. I can’t tell because he doesn’t tell me straight up how he feels. I want a relationship right now. He says he wants a relationship too but has enjoyed being single for a year after being married for many years and has enjoyed the way things have been going. We’ve splurged on each other. Giving gifts and paying each other’s way. It’s been perfect other than the hot cold business. What is a girl to do?

    1. Hi Jessica!

      Well, it would seem that when he goes quiet, he’s trying to recharge himself and think things through. Sometimes they need a little “me” time and if they feel they aren’t getting it, they’ll take it. When they get cold, it’s because something is going on with them and they may not really want to talk about it. It may have nothing at all to do with you. If he is dealing with other things in his life, he’s prioritizing and putting love on the back burner until he can handle it again basically. All you can do at this point since he’s seemingly slowing down is be patient with him. He has to feel ready to be fully committed. He’s not there yet but clearly cares for you. Hang in there!

  11. Hi Anna I am a 31 year old libra woman and I have been dating and living with my Taurus man for almost a year and half he is my first love from childhood and I am his first sexual partner from adolescence I know I had no businees being active at a younger age. Btw we’ve always been somewhat friends and have hooked up a couple different times throughout life. Anyways we’ve now been together for almost a year and half we have a son together. I love him to death and can’t imagine life without him but sometimes Idk if I’m tje same for him that he is for me. I’m doing my best to learn everything about him and to make him happy. I get nerveous because weve had some bad fights only over trust issues. He has them and I do as well still working really hard to correct them. I tell him it would help if he complimented me more and I felt wanted. He says he’s in love with me I’m all he wants but I need to stop my crazy shit cause he’s not spending his life like that. Tbh though he is 10x more crazier than I am. Hes been through a lot so he’s very damaged and has even said that. He’s self esteem is also very low. I tell him all the time what he means to me how sexy he is, and how much I love him. He barely shows affection he’s says he doesn’t know how to because he’s socially awkward and he’s sorry he doesn’t express his love the way I want him too. Tonight I accused him slightly and he made the comment when I was trying to make up for doing it haven’t I ever heard of falling out of love but he got mad when I said your falling out of love with me and said no how do you even get that he basically ment that he will if I don’t stop causing him stress. Again I love this man to death. He likes a lot of alone time and his communication is horrible. I just want to know does he really love me or is he just staying with me because he’s settling? Its hard feeling this way and I can’t say anything to him because it upsets him and he just calls me crazy because of how I’m talking. Is there more I can do to bring him closer and be completely in love with me. I feel like I’m bending over backwards and feeling this way and unable to say anything please help me!

    1. Hi Lisa!

      It sounds like the two of you need some much needed one on one time to specifically communicate. Start checking in with each other at least once a week. Ask him how he’s doing and feeling. Then you share how you’re doing and feeling. This is extremely important. If you two do not effectively talk, you may need a counselor. Don’t let things get worse!

  12. Hi Anna, there’s a Taurus guy interested in me but he’s in a relationship and he’s girlfriend is always around, what should I do

    1. Hi Emmanuella!

      You probably shouldn’t chase after a guy who has a girlfriend. You’d be his “second choice” and always waiting for him to have time for you. Even worse is if he were to ever leave her for you, he might do the same thing to you later. I’d just be friends and keep moving on. Maybe later if he becomes single then you two may have a chance otherwise, I’d leave it alone.

  13. Dear Anna
    Need to know if Taurus and Aries are a match. I’m aries lady and i love him trully. Weve been together for 5 yrs.the problem he started to change over me he become cold and distant.He told me that im not serious and played with his feelings which is not true.Hes 35 yrs.old while im 40 i am.Maybe he thinks i really cant commit because i am a working full time.We are both happy i always make him relax and laugh stress free i dont like drama at alll.I dont know know maybe he found someone younger than me.The issue before was hed like to have a baby with me but i am not ready and i admit that to myself.
    Now everything change and i want him back.Please help.

    1. Hi Marge Evangelista!

      This is a decent match up. It’s not perfect but the flaw can be hard to overcome at times if you two don’t communicate properly. That’s one of the things you two have to learn to do in order to get the proper feelings out instead of building up feelings and exploding later. In your case, it sounds like he made an excuse to exit. I think you should reach out to him and tell him how you feel and that you care for him. Ask him how he feels and what he wants so that you can find out if you two are on the same page or if you can ever get there again. I wish you all the best but you should try reading “Taurus Man Secrets” as it just may help.

  14. Hi Anna,

    I’m a Pisces woman and he is a Taurus man. We met in social media and we are located very far away from each other. He said, he has never been in a relationship with anyone and he likes me. He seems very stable, perfect and mature. I seem to be childish, sweet and also indecisive. I heard that, Taurus man loves girl who dress up well but I don’t dress up well also I don’t like to apply makeup. And he is working in a very prestigious government organization while I’m unemployed! Will he able to accept me the way I’m in terms of my appearance and my financial status in a long run? I’m confused about it. Can you please clarify my doubts?

    1. Hi Adarsha!

      It’s hard to say what the future holds with you two. Taurus men usually love a woman who actually is working to take care of herself. While he does appreciate a woman dressing up, it’s not a requirement as long as you are clean and tidy with your appearance. It really comes down to how he feels about you and what he wants for his future. This is something you should talk to him about so you can find out if he’s up for that or not. He’s the only one that can clarify your doubts. Though if you would like more tips, you can find them in my “Taurus Man Secrets” book.

  15. Hi Anna,
    I bought a couple of your books, but still have not figured out this Taurus guy. We met online and have been talking for 3 months. We have scheduled several times to meet in person, but it always gets cancelled. He lives about 2 hours away (which is actually a different state, but right on the border).
    He is not like any man I have ever dated, but I think we could be a great match. Our values line up perfectly, but not so much on how we do things. I am an Aries, but I am willing to compromise and slow down at my age (56 and he is 59). We both want to buy a camper and tour the country. We both believe in helping people. I just don’t know how to get him to show up for the date instead of “rescheduling” it.

    1. Hi Laura!

      Sounds like he’s shy about meeting in person. I think you need to tell him exactly what you just said to me about what you want and what you’re willing to do. Tell him you’re not in any hurry but it is important you two see each other in person so you can see what type of chemistry you have. If he keeps blowing you off he’s either afraid of he isn’t interested in pursuing you, just talking. Check out my series for more information “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  16. hello i have a good friendship with a male taurus but i would love to get closer he’s very physical hugging me holding my arms gently at my side and putting his hand on my head .sometimes he will stand chest to chest when he messes/teases me because i’m short i don’t know if hes just a good friend or if hes trying to show me that he loves me . i want to make a move but i get shy and submissive around him as a capricorn woman what should i do to get him to fall for me?

    1. Hi makaela!

      It sounds like your Taurus friend feels chemistry with you if he’s hugging you like that. He may not be ready to admit that but it is a sign of a Taurus man being interested. Teasing you is a very school boy type of thing to do and another sign he likes you. I think you should admit to him how you feel and let him take the reigns on what happens next. Why not?! Give it a shot and see what happens. If you need more help, please check out my books.

  17. Am a virgo and I want to date a tauras but sometimes am confused by his actions whether he is the one for me as sometimes he sends me his personal videos and all but sometimes he doesn’t read my messages I like him but am sure about his side . We are on a long distance but when we had met he used to give me attention for 24×7 but now it’s not happening. Please suggest some ideas

    1. Hi Samaira!

      If he isn’t reading your messages then you should ask him why. He’s not going to approach it unless you do. Ask him questions. It’s perfectly fine! You’ll get the answers you’re seeking from him. Then you can decide whether or not it’s worth it. Tell him you miss the way it was and would like to have that again with him. If you need more tips, check out my books on Taurus Man Secrets.

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