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6 Negative Taurus Man Traits: And How To Neutralize Them

If you’ve been with a Taurus for any significant amount of time then you are quite familiar with all of their beautiful, positive traits. They are hardworking, have great taste, and tend to be quite caring. 

You may also be catching on to their negative traits as well. It’s bound to happen. None of us are perfect. Despite that, it’s important to know how to respond and rectify negative traits in the Taurus. 

I’m Anna Kovach, a long-time Relationship Astrologer. I’ve gained unique insight into the strengths and weaknesses of the Taurus – I should know, I’m also married to one! I’ve also been able to witness how their partners handle and correct it.

I’m grateful that you’ve found your way here, because I can help you out. I’ve outlined the six most prevalent negative traits of the Taurus man with my best tips on how to remedy them. Let’s dive in!

6 Negative Taurus Man Traits: And How To Neutralize Them

1. They’re Materialistic

Negative Taurus Traits

Taurus’ are associated with Venus, the planet of romance and resources. Taurus is famous for being creatures of comfort. They enjoy having nice things and being comfortable… physically, financially, and otherwise! 

This can be a bit overwhelming for those that are less inclined towards material items. Taurus’ spending habits in particular can drive some more frugal partners right over the edge. So how can this potentially toxic Taurus trait be remedied? 

Taurus’ can always benefit from a dose of gratitude. Taurus won’t take well to outright attempts to change them, so it’s best to lead by example. If you make a show of being grateful (perhaps you casually mention your gratitude journaling that you do every morning) then the Taurus might find themselves becoming comfortable with the concept over time. 

2. They’re Immoveable

Taurus’ are fixed signs and are represented by the bull. If you can picture how easy it is to move a gigantic beast like a bull without him being interested… yeah, that’s about how easy it is to get a Taurus to change! 

Taurus’ are rooted firmly in place. This is great when it comes to sticking to their guns on important issues, but it can cause problems when they’re unwilling to compromise with you period. Taurus’ have a tendency to be quite ‘my way or the highway.’

It’s a good thing to prime the Taurus for changes as early as possible. If you know that you’ll be asking them to make a huge change, try getting them there in baby steps if at all possible. Moving the bull an inch at a time is easier than moving him a mile! 

3. They Can Become Envious

Taurus Bad Traits

Taurus’ are very much the toddlers of the Zodiac. They believe that what’s theirs is theirs and you’ll catch a huge fit if you believe any differently. Unfortunately, Taurus’ often believe that people belong to them or that they have rights to the actions of other people. 

Taurus’ are definitely not playing around when it comes to their people! And they do mean THEIR people. But what are you to do if you’re not okay with the feeling of being owned by another?

With this one, firm boundaries are necessary. Taurus would never hesitate to set boundaries, so don’t you either! You’ve got just as much of a right to your limits as Taurus does. 

You may have to continue to reiterate your limitations to Taurus. Since they are so immovable, they sometimes expect others to be hyperflexible for them. That simply won’t do. Stand your ground and tell them the type of treatment you expect from them. 

4. They’re Biased

Taurus, as I have mentioned, is very fixed. As far as they are concerned, their way of life is the only way there is. Taurus has a tendency to only be able to see things from their own perspective. This ability to stand their ground on what they believe is admirable, but not every issue requires such staunch dedication.

This is partially why having a discussion with a Taurus is so taxing… if they disagree, that is. Taurus’ struggle to see things from any point of view but their own. Being so rooted to their own experiences has its downsides.

To combat this, play devil’s advocate with them. Show them the other side of the story. It will ruffle their feathers at first, but they might come around. A little bit of shock is sometimes what it takes to bring a Taurus out of their own perspective. 

5. They’re Self-Indulgent

Taurus Negative Traits

Taurus’ will often justify excess by having a ‘treat yourself’ mentality. And don’t get me wrong, Taurus’ work hard and deserve to get rewarded. However, anything can be taken too far. 

When you’re at your wits’ end because your Taurus is spending too much time showing themselves a great time while potentially ignoring the consequences, then it’s time to speak up and use your voice! 

Don’t be afraid to show the Taurus how they are taking their own needs more seriously than your needs or the needs of others. It’s not easy to stand up for yourself but in cases like this, it’s necessary. 

Read next: How To ‘Read’ A Taurus Man’s Text Messages: 5 Examples Decoded

6. They’re Short-Tempered

Just like bulls are enraged by something as menial as the color red, Taurus’ can be difficult to stop once they’ve become angry. If they feel their anger is justified then they become fixed within that anger. They can be downright intolerable because of this. 

Taurus’ get mad easily and have a difficult time getting over it. They stew in their emotions for far longer than a lot of other signs. This is due to their inability to pivot their stance at a moment’s notice. Just because you’ve defended yourself or made the situation right doesn’t mean that the Taurus is going to stop being angry! 

I recommend pulling some classic mom moves on the Taurus when this occurs. Tell them that you will return to the conversation once they are calm. You can also reiterate that you’re a human with feelings too and you require a relaxed conversation instead of excess vitriol coming off the Taurus. 

Taurus will be forced to calm down if they want to carry on a relationship with you (they’re stuck in their habit, so usually they do want to stay in their current situation).  

These topics are not always the easiest to talk about, but it’s important to know what to expect from the behavior of your partner. Once you can identify their slip ups then you can collaborate with them to create the relationship that you both desire.

What traits does your Taurus partner display from this list? What tips will you be incorporating to mediate some of the issues that have been brought up? I’m dying to find out, so let me know in the comments!

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12 thoughts on “6 Negative Taurus Man Traits: And How To Neutralize Them

    1. Hi Lynn J Scarantino!

      Thank you for chiming in and verifying that what I wrote is how you’re seeing your Taurus man to be. Hopefully now that you know, you know what to do or not to do with him. If you need more guidance though, you should check out my various guides on Taurus Man Secrets. I wish you lots of love!

    1. Hi Kimberly!

      I am so glad you find my information useful and have also purchased the books! I look forward to doing your one free VIP consultation as well. Until I hear from you, I wish you all the luck of the stars!

  1. Dear Anna,

    I read every post and every email I received from you and I find it very helpful. I’m a true blue Sagittarius, (main sign and ascent). I fell in love with this Taurus man 3 years back. You are my last life line for keeping this relationship afloat. He is all you describe in this post and others I’ve read. He acts like we are a couple, but says to everybody we are ”only flatmates”. We’ve been living together for a year now, after he sold his house and couldn’t find an appartment to his taste (so he said). He always says he wants to go slow, that we should enjoy the present moment, that everything is ok like that. There is no way for me to know if he loves me or not. His words are in total contradiction to his behaviour. I am distressed and unhappy, on the verge of calling it quits, even though I love him, truly and deeply. I have to protect myself and love myself more, right? Anyway… Time will tell if I’m wasting my time or not. At 62, I feel I don’t have to much time to loose, though…

    1. Hi Lyne Goulet!

      Oh boy yes… they tend to do things like this. Patience and diligence is necessary with Taurus man otherwise they get antsy in the pantsy and want to call it quits. He’s living with you and still not giving what you have any credit. I think you should actually maybe set a time limit for yourself on how long you will allow this to go on. Look at your calendar and pick a date. When it comes around to that time, ask him about the relationship. Either he’ll give you the right answer or he’ll tell you the same ole dragging the feet. Then you have to decide in that moment whether he stays or he goes. Do what your gut tells you is right! I believe in you and wish you the best!

  2. What do you do with a Taurus man that approached you first, but a few years later, they say you’re just friends (even though you know differently / also, no sex involved because they want to wait)

    1. Hi Jai Rawls!

      You cannot make him say it’s what you think it is unfortunately. He either thinks it’s more or it’s not. Years of this banter should have brought you clarity on whether or not he’s going to commit and right now it doesn’t seem likely. If you want to know for 100% sure though, ask him bluntly. He’ll tell you where he’s at and what he will or will not do. I wish you all the very best sweetheart. Always do what your intuition tells you!

  3. Anna you were definitely on point with this one. Iv been with a Taurus for 15 years and I have seen every last one of these.

    1. Hi Brittany C.!

      Thank you for writing in and confirming what I wrote resonates with you. That is absolutely fascinating that you’ve experienced all of these negative traits. You must have figured out how to deal with it if you’re still together. For that, I applaud you. Not all women can handle these things but you’re still on the track with him. I wish you all the best darling!

  4. He is short-tempered and tenacious also have fear to make big move. When he gets angry I tell him directly that you are angry how can I talk to you. Then, he will say I’m listening also calm down his voice. Sometimes we are both stubborn to make an statement. Somtimes he win sometimes I win 😀 but when I win then I will say something to support his feelings. He is tough to move so when I make sudden moves, he not only become uncomfortable but also motivated to move farther. Making sudden moves is not always good to do because he will lose his calmness. I thinks it is good for necessary decision.

    1. Hi Paris!

      Short tempered? That’s unusual. He must have a strong water sign in his chart that makes him more sensitive. It sounds like you’ve figured out a formula to make it work between you. That’s wonderful! A calm temperament from you is what he needs. It helps keep him from flying off the handle. He honestly sounds very fearful due to past things that have happened to him. He must have really been put through something awful from someone before you. Take it nice and easy with him. He’s fragile. I wish you all the very best sweetheart! I think you are doing wonderfully.

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