When a Taurus man is obsessed with you, you will know without a shadow of a doubt. Taurus men are known for their determination, loyalty, and sensuality, this is a man who loves love. But how to make a Taurus man addicted to you when you aren’t sure what to do?
Building a strong emotional connection is key to making a Taurus man addicted to you. This is just one of the things you need to know how to make a Taurus man obsessed with you.
Understanding his love language is crucial in making a Taurus man addicted to you. Here, you can learn how to speak a Taurus man’s special love language and make him fall crazy in love with you.
And when a Taurus man is addicted to you, he is one of the best partners you could ever imagine. When a Taurus man is obsessed with you, he will shower you with love, affection, and loyalty. But more on that later!
Do you wish your Taurus man was addicted to you? But don’t know how to make it happen? Then you have definitely come to the right place. Keep on reading to find out my 11 secret tips to make a Taurus man obsessed with you.
How To Make A Taurus Man Obsessed With You (7 Ways)
Understand His Values & Interests
To make a Taurus man addicted to you, take the time to understand his core values and interests. This will show him that you genuinely care about what matters to him and that you share common ground.
His values are quite strong and he likes to live by a set of principles that guide his actions. By understanding and embracing these values, you will be able to connect with him on a deeper level and make him feel understood and appreciated.
Taurus men are simple creatures and if you can understand everything he is about, then it should be much easier for you to worm your way inside of his heart. Listen to him when he speaks, remember what he is passionate about, and make an effort to engage in activities or conversations related to his interests.
Be Patient
Taurus men are known for their slow and steady approach to relationships. What a Taurus man wants in a relationship is stability and reliability, so rushing things or pressuring him will only push him away. To make a Taurus man addicted to you, it is essential to be patient and allow the relationship to develop naturally.
Give him the time and space he needs to feel comfortable and secure in the relationship. Taking things slow with a Taurus man is always the best approach as he needs to feel right about the investments he makes in his life, and yes, a relationship is an investment in his opinion.
He has a lot of experience going into relationships that aren’t right for him, which can make him cautious and hesitant to jump into something new.
If you can treat him with patience, and understanding, and don’t put any pressure on him to move faster than he is comfortable with, he will start to see you as someone who respects his boundaries and values his need for stability.
Read also: Is Your Taurus Man Interested Or Just Friendly? Here’s How To Tell
Show Loyalty & Consistency
Loyalty is highly valued by Taurus men, so it is important to demonstrate your commitment and reliability. Showing loyalty and consistency is paramount when trying to make a Taurus man obsessed with you.
Taurus men crave stability and want to feel secure in their relationships. Most Taurus men are a little insecure, and because of this, they need to be with someone who can be loyal and consistent. They want to know that you will be there for them through thick and thin and that you won’t abandon them when times get tough.
This is really an important aspect to consider if you want to make a Taurus man addicted to you. If you can show up, time and time again, and be reliable then you have a good chance at making his heart melt. He wants to be with someone who he can depend on and who isn’t going to disappoint him every time the relationship gets tough.
Here’s more on what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman.
Make Your Taurus Man Feel Secure, And He Will Be Totally OBSESSED With You…
Taurus men value stability and security in their relationships. They want to feel safe and certain that their partner is trustworthy and committed. One way to make a Taurus man addicted to you is by making him feel secure in the relationship.
By reassuring him often and consistently showing him that you are there for him, you can help him feel at ease and build a strong bond. He needs to know that you won’t leave him as this is his greatest fear.
A Taurus man wants his relationship to be his rock in life, the one thing he can depend on. He doesn’t want to doubt your loyalty or commitment. He needs you to make him feel secure by giving him reassurance.
Create A Comfortable And Cozy Environment
Taurus men appreciate comfort and enjoy indulging in their senses. Creating a comfortable and cozy environment is essential when trying to make a Taurus man obsessed with you. A Taurus man seeks a harmonious and comforting atmosphere where he can relax and enjoy the pleasures of life.
He will feel more connected to you if you create a space that is inviting, cozy, and aesthetically pleasing. Additionally, pay attention to the details that matter to him, such as soft lighting, comfortable furniture, and soothing scents.
Make sure there is always a cool soundtrack playing in the background as music is a powerful tool to set the mood and enhance the overall ambiance, plus your Taurus man loves good music.
Be Affectionate And Warm
Taurus men are sensual beings, they love to be touched and need a lot of affection. Being affectionate and warm with your Taurus man is essential in making him addicted to you. Showing physical affection, such as holding hands, hugging, and cuddling, will make him feel loved and desired.
You have no idea how much he wants to be touched and feel your warmth. This is how you make a Taurus man addicted to you. Physical closeness and affection are the way into a Taurus man’s heart.
Don’t forget to be kind and nurturing either. A Taurus man responds really well to a woman who really embraces her feminine qualities, as this brings out the masculine side of him. When you are soft, you give him the permission to be strong.
Build A Strong Emotional Connection
Taurus men crave deep emotional connections in their relationships. They want to feel understood and connected on a soul level. Although it takes a Taurus man a really long time to open up and trust someone, building a strong emotional connection is crucial in making him obsessed with you.
By actively listening to him, showing genuine interest in his thoughts and feelings, and being empathetic and understanding, you can create a safe space for him to feel like he can open up his heart to you. The key to building a strong emotional connection with a Taurus man is to be patient, consistent, and reliable in your interactions with him.
And don’t be afraid to be vulnerable with him and share your own emotions either as this will make him feel more comfortable to open up to you. Sometimes a Taurus man can struggle to trust and be open, but if you go for it first, it might be easier for him to open up.
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A Love of Nature
Taurus is a practical Earth sign; not all Earth signs love nature, but Taurus sure does! He is everything that signifies the Earth’s element: immovable, grounded, and solid. Taurus is most associated with plant life out of all the signs. This makes sense when you consider that the planting season begins as the Taurus season revs up in April!
Taurus works hard, but they rest even harder. This means that the Taurus makes relaxing to the max their top priority! Where can you catch a Taurus man chilling his absolute hardest? Outside, likely with a cold one in his hand.
So how can you use this Taurean tendency to your advantage when making a Taurus man obsessed with you? Show him how much you adore nature and bring your inner flower child out to play! For example, if you went on an impressive hiking or camping trip, you want to capitalize on that.
Take advantage of his love of the natural world by mentioning all the things you do outside in a casual tone. You can say something like, “I am in the middle of this great book! I was reading outside and when the book got good, I found myself clutching the grass!”
Even if you’re not a hardcore nature chick, think about how you can reference the outdoors. You’ll give the impression to the Taurus man that you share his fascination for the wild. It takes practice, but I have seen it done!
Great Work Ethic
I know there is this myth that floats around about the Taurus being lazy. In my years as a professional Astrologer, (and with a Taurus husband at home) I have never found that to be the case. In reality, you’ll find that the Taurus man has a great work ethic. The Taurus man also takes his downtime seriously, which perpetuates this slanderous myth.
Since the Taurus is a guy who appreciates a day of good work, he’s interested in hearing about yours. This is great since, so often, your potential partners appear bored by your work stories. How nice will it be to have someone who has an obsession with you who actually enjoys hearing about your day?
This is a practical dude who is always interested in what you do for a living. Taurus is the most money-oriented sign in the Zodiac, so he will have a lot of respect for someone on her grind. The Taurus is one person who’s impressed by your side hustles. Tell him all about the things you do that make you a little extra coin, and he’s enthralled.
Knowing that his partner is a go-getter with money on her mind will comfort the Taurus man. This makes him the ideal partner for entrepreneurs and career ladies. While you shouldn’t drop how much you make on day one (Taurus’ hate a braggart!), you should mention your money goals and interests and how you’re getting there. This will endear him to you immediately!
Natural, Simple Beauty
Taurus men are associated with the planet Venus, the planet of beauty and aesthetic pleasure. Venus-ruled people concern themselves with how things look, feel, smell, sound, and taste. They are rarely seen looking dumpy or frumpy. Yet, Taurus’ are not fans of artificial beauty… they like a more natural look (does this surprise anyone? I didn’t think so).
Save those sweet neon double eyeliner looks you’ve saved on Pinterest for another love interest. Taurus is all about more organic looks. Colors found in high volumes in nature are more the Taurus’ speed! Even then, less is more with the Taurus man.
Consider finding some neutral Earth tone palettes instead of your glow-in-the-dark ultraviolet fave. The Taurus falls hard for understated makeup looks. Highlight the natural beauty that you already have!
The Taurus will become obsessed with you FAST when you show that you have an organic beauty style on top of a stellar personality! Pair this with a botanical (herbal specifically) scent, and you’ll find him at your door sooner than you can say “aphrodisiac.”
Relaxed Attitude
Taurus is the type of guy who wants authenticity. He does not appreciate big emotional displays of over-the-top reactions. And he will find himself digging for a lady whose nature is tranquil.
What’s wrong with taking your own problems seriously? Well, nothing, until it begins projecting outwards too much. Taurus can appreciate emotional pain; they’re not immune to it themselves.
However, they WILL have a hard time sympathizing with someone constantly calling into work for it, crying over spilled milk, and throwing tantrums over inconsequential things.
The truth is, even if the Taurus is into you, he may hightail it when he realizes that you’re a little too high maintenance for his liking. You’ll do your best to stay cool, calm, and collected with the Taurus man. He’ll thrive in a relationship with a woman who matches his own serene energy.
You’d be better off having a controlled vent sesh with a Taurus. He is always there to listen!
You’ll find that he falls MUCH faster for you when he realizes you’re a chill person who’s self-possessed enough to handle her own problems. I know that the Taurus will see this side of you once you become aware of his preference for a subdued girl.
You may also want to read: Taurus Man Communication Style (How To Talk To A Taurus Man)
Do Taurus Men Easily Get Obsessed With You?
Taurus men have the potential to become obsessed with someone, but it is not guaranteed. When they fall in love with someone, it tends to happen quite deeply and it can be all-consuming to them.
However, falling in love with a woman takes time for a Taurus man as they are a little cautious about giving their heart away. When a Taurus man becomes obsessed with someone, they are likely to prioritize their relationship above other aspects of their life.
It will become totally all-consuming for a Taurus man. But knowing how to make a Taurus man obsessed with you is the difficult part. However, I would always suggest approaching relationships with authenticity and genuine connection rather than trying to manipulate someone into becoming obsessed with you.
You cannot force love, and it will come if it is meant to happen between two people. Be yourself, show genuine interest, and let the connection develop naturally.
Are Taurus Obsessive In Relationships?
Taurus men can become pretty obsessive in relationships, especially when they are deeply in love. They will put you first and prioritize their relationship above all else. Taurus men tend to lose themselves in their relationships as their deepest desire to feel safety and security in their lives, and when they fall in love, losing the person they care so much about can be terrifying to them.
This is when they become obsessed, as this makes them feel like they are in control of their world and that everything is stable. They want to make sure that everything is perfect and that everything stays the same as change is an aspect of life that a Taurus man tends to struggle with.
The notion of Taurus men becoming obsessed with relationships stems from their deep love and desire for stability. If you make him feel safe, held, and loved you give him permission to love you without control or obsession
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I fell in love with my taurus guy but get mixed messages from him. He tells me he loves and that I have grounded him and make him feel content but they I don’t hear from him for weeks which breaks my heart.
Hi Debbie!
I can understand your frustration and pain that you feel when he doesn’t reach out for spans of time. The thing is, it’s alright for you to reach out to him instead of waiting for him to reach out to you. Taurus men don’t like to text very much sweetheart. Try to reach out to him more. He might appreciate you making the effort when he’s buy or doing something else. Give it a shot. You can also check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets” as it could help reveal more for you to learn about Taurus men.
My gorgeous Bull man: 10 months writing to each other, 13 months together and in love… ups and downs because of his ASD…we had a beautiful 1st holiday together , with a couple of arguments. He flew back (still living with separated estranged ex), he told me he needed 10 days space via text…. ‘leave me alone’ he said, and blocked me on WhatsApp. We’ve spoken everyday for 2 years almost.
Devastated. He said he loved me, and wanted to be a father to my son (he already has kids). I stayed on, on holiday (with friends that he’d met and loved)…. suddenly no contact, leave me alone?? Then blocks me as admittedly I did kick off a bit. I was SO shocked and shaking? How could he do this to me. He is Aspergers, I have made allowances, but this has crossed the limit. No concern for our welfare, or how we are? He would never to this to his estranged wife.
I’m SO upset. I love him so much, I am heartbroken. But his actions show he doesn’t value me. I’m a Taurean woman, heartbroken. I won’t contact him. He obviously wants me out of his life. Why?
Hi Maria G!
It sounds like something made him doubt things. Something must have happened or something was said that threw him into the overanalytical side that a Taurus will do. Since you don’t know what that may be, you may need to go ahead and give him that time he asked for because if you don’t he’s going to pull back more and stop talking altogether. After the time has elapsed, reach out and tell him now that you’ve given him time, ask him what is going on because you miss him band are confused. He should tell you at that point. I wish you all the very best sweetheart!
To Maria,
I never comment, but this is such an important lessonto learn. I do hope that things worked out between Maria and her gorgeous Bull. Unfortunately, he was still living with his wife under the same roof, which means she was neither “ex” or “estranged”. That period of separation before and just after a man legally divorces is always fraught with risk, no matter what astrological sign the man is born under. In Maria’s case the risk was even higher. There is no real reason for a man to continue to live with his estranged wife. Until he permanently leaves the house, a couple like this is still very much married.
Hi Charlotte!
I absolutely agree with you. There are some circumstances in which it may be easier for them to continue living under the same roof. Much of this can come from not being able to agree who will sell the home and who will stay. They both want to have what they invested in. In some cases the spouse who needs to move out cannot afford to do so and therefore the one staying decides to help them out until they get on their feet. I am not making any excuses for it really but I do think that he shouldn’t be dating until he gets out of the house as well. Thank you for chiming in Charlotte!
Anna, you are right. I can certainly understand how it could be convenient or necessary for a divorcing couple to remain in the same house. What TORTURE, though! Any girlfriend of a man in this situation must understand and accept that he is not truly free until he is physically, legally and financially independent of the wife. I did date a legally separated man once years ago and never did it again. The wife remains in the picture until the papers are signed, and if there are children-she’s thereFOREVER.
I am an aries woman and he is a taurus. He told me what he liked about me then is my humor and personality and that is above my looks! 🙂
Hi Maica!
That sounds lovely! I’m so glad you shared this with me and with all the other women who are unsure. This may help them. I love it! I appreciate your feedback. I wish you all the luck of the stars!
Cancer girl Seeing a Taurus guy I met at work. We still work together May 2024. Found we liked each other Dec 2022. Got together after I broke up with ex (we were flirting towards end of relationship with ex anyways) Then went back and forth between ex and Taurus guy. Finally chose right(my Taurus guy). I did break him Dec 2023 though and it took him a while to get to where we are at now. Since things settled We’ve texting everyday between us, we steal kisses at work he, buys me desserts when I’m down at work or just because and I adore his whole persona. He appreciates my emotional texts . We talk a lot about sex and what it would be like. We’ve not rushed into it apart from the one impulsive time in the office. He gives the best massage. We’ve talked a lot about him coming to my place but not taken the plunge. In the beginning after 1st time breakup with ex we met to have a coffee date but his friend fell off bus so I escorted him to her and date never happened. He’s since never asked for another date amongst the back and forth though. Is that because he doesn’t see us dating just sex work buddies? He’s met my kids and bought them desserts a couple of times. But just don’t understand why he’s never asked me on another date. Doesn’t have to be flashy just coffee would be fine. We have gone for a drink or two after work but it was at work with people from work . Both Greek as isn’t. But he did show pda when they were there which I loved. I just wish I get him more
Dear Dee,
I’ve got to admit, this is a near perfect match. No couple is 100% perfect as everyone is different and there will be issues that must be addressed to make it work.
Taurus man always seems so tough and impenetrable. However, he’s not as tough as he seems. He’s secretly somewhat insecure. He struggles with self worth and sometimes thinks he’s not good enough when he finds a good woman.You can tell him your viewpoint, ask him how he sees this relationship going. Make him feel in control, talk to each other about important things, and eventually, he will start to open up to you. He just needs to deal with his insecurities and whatever is holding him down emotionally. Give him time.
I hope all goes well for you both!