Taurus men can be very stubborn and inflexible, so you can only imagine what he is like when he is angry or upset at someone. This is why it is so important to learn how to apologize to a Taurus man and how to get a Taurus man to forgive you.
You might wonder how long does a Taurus man stay mad when he is upset with you and how you can shorten the time for him to forgive you. But like I said, these guys are stubborn so when they are mad, they like to stay mad.
Knowing what to do when a Taurus man is mad at you is very important if you want to have a successful relationship with him. He isn’t very good at compromise and sometimes he ends up spiting himself because he can never seem to let a grudge go.
But, there are a few tips and tricks you can learn to get the Taurus man to forgive you in no time. Keep on reading if you would like to learn how to apologize to a Taurus man when he is mad at you.
When A Taurus Man Is Mad At You — 3 Possible Reasons
When a Taurus man is mad at you, you definitely see him at his worst. This guy is incredibly stubborn and will hold on to every little transgression and make you feel terrible about what you have done, even if it wasn’t that serious.
An angry Taurus man will probably ignore you and ice you out for a while, and then when that is over he will continue to bring up what you have done to make you feel bad. Although Taurus men are usually pretty chill, they can also be very hectic when they are mad.
It is really tough for a Taurus to let go of feeling betrayed or hurt. They hold on to things far longer than they are supposed to. This is probably one of their worst traits, but little do they realize that this actually ends up hurting them a lot more.
Here are some possible reasons why a Taurus man would get mad at you:
1. Broken Communication Between You
Whether or not a Taurus man will forgive you is really going to depend on what it is that has him so upset. Communicating correctly plays a huge role. If you’ve said something in a bad way; this could cause him to get upset but can forgive.
However; if you’ve lied to him or told him something really upsetting that will cause his life to change abruptly; he may be very pressed in forgiving you. In fact, he may not be able to.
First and foremost, Taurus always wants the truth from you even if it’s not a truth he likes. Secondly, if you make some kind of major change without talking to him; he will be non receptive.
So again, it depends on what you’ve said to him and what set him off. A lie is nearly unforgivable but even with a lie; it will depend on the severity of what the matter is you fabricated.
Be prepared for him to give you the silent treatment for a while. He will want to go cool off and think about things for a while. If it was something mild, he will return and tell you that you’ll have to prove to him you won’t do it again.
Taurus men do not like to hear “I’m sorry” because those are just words. They want to see and know that you will absolutely not take that road again. This will take time to prove but if you have the patience; it may work.
2. You Have Been Unsupportive
Taurus men require lots of security and stability in a relationship. If you aren’t able to provide this for him, he will become frustrated and possibly at times angry. However, this isn’t an unforgivable sin in his book if it’s something you can work at.
If you’re able to really talk about things and allow him to let you know what he needs from you; you may still be able to keep him. He may also forgive you for your misdeeds of not being there for him.
In the case of you not being able to be the provider of the stability he seeks, it may be a good time to fess up and move on. Otherwise, he’ll feel you’ve wasted his time and THAT is always unforgivable.
You’ll need to really think about this before you make your choice but be warned that one way could earn you forgiveness and the other may earn you a forever cast out status. It’s up to you.
Here’s more on what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman <<
3. You Have Crossed One Of His Boundaries
It actually takes a lot to push a Taurus’ button for most things in life. He’s tolerant and has much patience with lots of things. Though he may be jealous at times and a bit controlling; he’s otherwise a rock.
As long as you’re faithful to him and tell him the truth; it’s hard to really get a Taurus man to a point that he would be so angry with you that he cannot forgive you. Think about it; it would be hard to push a huge bull over a line right?
Think about your Taurus as that huge bull that is hard to push over the wrong line. He’ll be a rock of stability for you but there are things that get to him and can hurt him in ways you cannot even imagine.
If you slight his family in some way; he may become very angry but it’s not an unforgivable sin. If you say something horrible that you cannot take back about them though; he may not be quite so ready to let it go.
He wants everyone in his family to be able to get along. Intervening in his relationship with his family would be grounds for dismissal and stone walling. This man feels deeply about his family.
Loving him; you must either accept his family or don’t say anything. That would mean you not mentioning that his family isn’t your cup of tea. Could you live with it though?
If he knew you didn’t like his family; it may hurt him deeply or disturb him to the point of re-evaluating his relationship with you. Anyone who isn’t willing to try to get along with those he loves most; may not last.
This is a man that will go above and beyond to make sure that the ones he loves are well taken care of. If you intrude on that or become a problem, you can bet he will likely let you go.
Even if a Taurus man really loves you; he will never sacrifice everyone else he loves just for you. You will need to decide if this is something that you can deal with going forward with your Taurus.
Saying something in the heat of the moment may be forgiven but if you say something to pick or hurt him; he will not be able to let it ride. He will likely shun you or let you go.
If you want to make your Taurus man feel special, you need to know all the things to avoid. Check here for everything about what a Taurus man considers a turn off <<
How Long Does A Taurus Man Stay Mad?
Because your Taurus man is a Fixed sign, he tends to really know how to hold on to grudges like no one else. He can stay mad for a very, very long time. You may think he is over something, but then months later he will bring it up again.
Forgiveness is really something he struggles with, it is probably a Taurus man’s biggest flaw as it is so easy for him to hold on for months on end and punish you unfairly. He is a lot like his sister sign Scorpio in ways.
But, eventually, he will get over it, it just takes a lot of time. He likes to know what to expect, and when things go against his plans it can really mess with his head and sense of reality.
How To Apologize To A Taurus Man
The first thing you really need to do is figure out how ticked off he really is. To do this, you will be able to tell via his actions. If he ices you out or will not speak to you at all; he’s pretty peeved.
If he talks to you but sounds a bit standoffish; he’s mad but not something he cannot overcome. So which one of these is he displaying? Taurus is pretty obvious with how they feel much of the time.
It takes an awful lot to really send them over the proverbial “line”. You’d have to really push one of his no-no buttons. Once you determine how mad he is, then you can begin to try to get him to calm down and possibly forgive you.
However, if he’s pissed off past the point of no return, he may be done with you. You’ll know if he is because he will simply break it off and there will be no going back.
Say Sorry And Give Him Time To Calm Down
The Taurus man needs time to calm himself and gather his thoughts after he’s hurt or pissed off. It will be determined by him how long that may take. He may not even truly know.
It always depends on what happened and if it’s something he can work past. If it’s not; he’ll let you know and probably break it off for good. If it’s something he can work on though; he’ll just ask you for some space.
Loving and really knowing your Taurus man; it’s a good idea to offer up time and space on your own. If you do this, he’ll appreciate that you’re being considerate. Otherwise he’s going to be candid in telling you he needs it.
It will take him time to process what happened, why, and how he feels. After he reaches a certain point, he may ask you to talk to him about why you did what you did or said what you said.
In the event it’s salvageable, be honest with him. Lying can only make it worse and could make him break it off. He wants the truth and if he’s the one wounded; he will need to know in order to put the pieces together.
If you’re struggling with finding ways to connect with your Taurus man on a deeper level, then you need to check out the 21 Questions to Ask a Taurus Man to Share His True Feelings and become emotionally available. These questions will set you on the right track with your Taurus and make you two feel connected like never before.
Give Him Space By Becoming Scarce
I mentioned giving him some time but ultimately a Taurus needs to be alone to mull it all over. If he’s not too mad, he may not ask for space. However; if he’s really upset or angry; he will want the space.
It may be best to make yourself scarce by going to stay at a relative’s or friend’s house in the case that you two live together. If you do not live together then it’s wise to just wait awhile before you suggest getting together.
Taurus takes his time with everything and healing from being angry or hurt is just another facet of him that will also take some time. If he asks you to leave or he leaves; try not to be too alarmed.
Most Taurus men will calm down in due time. Unless of course you really did him dirty. If that is the case; he may not be back or he may cut you loose. Either way; he will let you know.
It really will depend on how deep his wounds go as far as how much space you should ultimately give them. He will let you know in some way what he will require of you.
If there is any hope at all for him to forgive you; you have to give him what he asks even if it seems harsh. He knows best what he has to have in order to set things right in his mind.
Allow Him To Brood
Taurus hold grudges. They also hold onto the information of what happened that hurt them or pissed them off. So even if he forgives you (or so it seems); he will not soon let it go.
He will want you to prove to him over time that you will never do it to him again. He’s one of action anyway so he’ll expect that you are able to prove yourself to him so that he knows you’re really sorry.
Honestly, most Taurus men don’t even like to hear “I’m sorry”. They want to hear “I’ll do my best to make sure that doesn’t happen again”. Sorry is like a pie crust promise or an empty word that they’d like to avoid.
This isn’t to say that you can’t say it but be prepared for him to not feel very empathetic to you uttering the words. He will look at you like you’ve just murdered his dog.
Do What You Can To Make It Up To Him
He may not tell you but he will secretly want you to work as hard as you can to be a better person, a better partner or spouse. He will want you to change the actions that led you to do whatever it is that you did.
“Proof is in the pudding” is truly the right quote for these men. Taurus will never forget a sleight or hurt. Even if you’ve done everything you can to prove you’ll never do it again; it’s still stored in their memory bank.
It may never resurface but then again; you never know. It could show up at a most inopportune time such as on your wedding day right before you say your vows.
It’s not that a Taurus wants to stick it to you so much later on after what happened. It’s just that it comes out to them when they think about committing themselves to you entirely.
How To Get A Taurus Man To Forgive You
It may feel like it is quite impossible to get a Taurus man to forgive you. It is likely that you have never met someone who is quite as hard headed as him in your life. He will hold on to a grudge forever if he could.
But luckily, sooner or later Taurus men usually calm down and end up letting things go, but this does take him some time. All you can do is continue to apologize to him by saying sorry and that you know you have made a mistake.
You just need to keep repeating this and showing your Taurus man that you have learned your lesson. Make it up to him in any way that you can. Your hard work and effort will absolutely end up paying off when he sees how sorry you are.
Taurus men may be very stubborn, but they are also quite chill and down to earth. When he sees how sorry you are he will end up forgiving you, but you need to grovel a bit. He is very scared of getting hurt again and that is why he has put up a wall.
Do Taurus Men Forgive Easily?
Taurus men find it very difficult to forgive, but they struggle even more with forgetting. They can really hold on to any transgression against them. Holding a grudge is a Taurus man’s forte. Their stubborness is quite something to observe.
If you have hurt a Taurus man in some way, he is going to take his sweet time to forgive you. Feeling hurt and betrayed is something the Taurus man really struggles with. He really values reliability and dependability in his life.
This is why he has such an extreme reaction to feeling hurt. He really hates feeling out of control and not knowing what to do about it. He’ll get there eventually, but it will take a lot of time and effort for this to happen.
FAQ About Angry Taurus Man
Do Taurus Men Forgive Cheating?
If you have done the dirty deed of being unfaithful; good luck. Taurus does not respond well to this at all. He is already jealous and somewhat possessive. As such; you are his and if you break that trust; you’re gone.
He will ice you out fairly quickly and you can bet that there is no going back and fixing things. There is no second chance and no hope for him to ever get past it. This is his one area of inflexibility.
A Taurus man is loyal when he’s fully committed and expects you to be the same way. If you cannot do this then you’re with the wrong guy. A Taurus man will not accept you sleeping with anyone else or giving anyone else your love.
It doesn’t matter what your reason is; it’s unacceptable for him. He will not be forgiving you. It’s highly likely he will carry this grudge around his entire life span and think of you regretfully. This is something a Taurus man can’t forgive.
Do Taurus Men Accept Apologies?
Accepting apologies can be quite challenging for some if not most Taurus men. They really struggle to make sense of being betrayed or hurt by their loved ones. The Taurus men who have done some work on themselves will find this a lot easier of course.
Forgiveness and accepting apologies really don’t come easily to Taurus men, but it isn’t impossible for them either. It may just take a very long time for them to get to this point. You need a lot of patience with him.
What To Do When You Hurt A Taurus Man?
You may feel quite frustrated not knowing how to say sorry to a Taurus man when you hurt him. The best thing you can do is simply to say sorry and let him know that you’ll never do that again. You can also try your best to make it up to him by doing nice things for him.
Just be persistent and patient with him. It will pay off eventually, but some groveling is necessary when it comes to getting your Taurus man to forgive you when you have hurt him. It isn’t impossible, but it will be difficult.
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Stop Crying Yourself To Sleep About Your Taurus Man…
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And it worked!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Taurus man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…