Taurus men are romantic spirits who adore being in a relationship. But what are the signs of a Taurus man falling in love with you? The thing is, you might not be able to tell how he feels because he usually keeps it hidden…
Taurus men are some of the loveliest guys around, trust me, I know, I married one! There is just something special about the sensual way they know how to love a woman. They just tick all of the boxes and know how to make a girl feel special.
However, they do take their time to fall in love. They want to be 100% sure that they are making the right decision because when it comes to love and a Taurus man, they are all in and fully committed.
When they love, they love hard, and they also want to love forever. This isn’t the type of guy who wastes his time dating around casually. He takes his relationship seriously and wants it to work out in the long term.
It may be hard to land a Taurus man but if you know what he likes, you could very well have an amazing chance with a very solid, protective, loving man. Here are some ways the Taurus man can be lured to love.
Does A Taurus Man Fall In Love Easily?
Generally speaking, a Taurus man does not fall in love that easily, and this is because he is so careful about putting his heart on the line. Stability and security are the two things that make him feel most content in life, and love has a way of destabilizing everything.
Of course, this is generally truer when a Taurus man has his Venus in Taurus as well. Did you know a man’s Venus, Mars, and Moon signs can really change the way he approaches love?
A man with all of his planets in Taurus is going to be super traditional and conservative when it comes to love. He is going to take things especially slowly.
While a Taurus man with Venus in Aries is a lot more likely to fall in love at first sight and be completely smitten from the get-go. This is really a tug of war for him; on the one hand, he really wants the stability and security he craves, but on the other hand, he may become really bored really quickly when it comes to his relationships.
The same can be said for a Taurus man with Venus in Gemini who needs a lot of mental stimulation to feel truly connected to someone. He isn’t as likely to fall in love as easily as a Taurus man with Venus in Aries because he may find an attraction with multiple people at the same time.
Whoever is most interesting at that moment may take his fancy, but he is probably the most non-committal out of the three options. This just shows you how important the Venus sign is when it comes to love and relationships. It has such a major influence on the men you date.
Read also: Venus in Taurus Man (love traits, attraction signals, and compatibility)
This Is What Makes A Taurus Man Fall In Love…
A Taurus man in love is generous, affectionate, and extremely supportive, and these are some of the qualities he is looking for in a woman as well. He wants to get what he puts out; he needs his relationships to feel equal in the effort, or else he may feel resentful.
A Taurus man will fall in love with a woman who shows her worth and how serious she is about the connection with him. But any lady who takes her chances on a Taurus man is going to have to be patient and resilient because it does take a while for a Taurus man to open up his heart to a relationship.
He is the type of guy who seriously wants love, but there is a big part of him that is scared and hesitant about opening his heart up to love. This is why a Taurus man takes things slow and steady.
Here’s more on what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman.
7 Obvious Signs Of A Taurus Man Falling In Love
1. His Passion Increases
If your Taurus man is falling in love with you, he will want to be more physical with you. Not just in a “hey, let’s have sex” way, but in a deeper soul connection type of intimacy.
A Taurus man wants to show his woman how he feels, and as such, he will heat things up in the bedroom with you if he’s falling for you. He won’t be able to keep his hands off of you.
If you’re looking for a guy to give you PDA, this is the guy who has no qualms about it in any way. He doesn’t care who sees him kiss you or grab your ass, for that matter.
In fact, he likes to do this in public because then everyone will see that this beautiful woman by his side is all his. It’s a territorial thing but also a thing of beaming pride to show off the woman he loves.
You may also want to read: Taurus Man In Bed — Your Unrivaled Guide To Taurus Man Sexuality
2. When A Taurus Man Falls For You, He Becomes Protective
A Taurus man likes to make his woman feel exceedingly safe. Even if you aren’t the type that wants to be protected, he’ll still want to make sure that you are because he’s in love.
So if you find yourself in a situation where he’s being overly cautious, like making sure he’s the one walking outside on the sidewalk, your Taurus man is falling in love with you and wants to keep you safe.
He may insist that you text message him to make sure you’ve made it to your destination safely. He may also want to escort you to where you are going because then he can see it with his own eyes. Keeping you safe is an instinct that Taurus men feel for their families and loved ones.
3. He Takes You To Special Places
The Taurus man will normally have places that he frequents that have meaning for him. If you find him taking you to these places, then it means you mean enough to him to share them with you.
Taurus doesn’t like to open up, so when he does, he will do it in a ceremonious way by taking you to places like his childhood neighborhood or favorite restaurants.
Anything that means anything to him will now be shared with him. This doesn’t mean you can go pick up his tools and use them, though. Goodness no. He’s still possessive over his things, and it’s best to leave them alone.
You can ask him, of course, and sometimes he’ll give you the go-ahead, but be careful not to touch his things without permission!
Likewise, if he teaches you something he finds important for everyone to know and puts his tools in your hands, then he is definitely trusting in you, which is a clear sign a Taurus man is falling for you.
4. He Wants To Teach You
Taurus men think they know the fundamentals of life, and if they see that you perhaps don’t know what they do, they will want to teach you. Remember I mentioned using his tools?
This guy may want to teach you how to change your own oil on your car, how to hang up pictures in the most effective way, or how to fix an electrical issue in your home.
He is so used to being handy and a man who can fix anything with his hands that he wants you to have the same power. If he is falling for you, he wants you to make your life the best it can be.
In this, he’ll want to teach you all he knows. If you want to make him happy and feel appreciated, do yourself a favor by taking him up on his lessons. He’ll eat it up!
5. He (Finally) Shows You How He Feels
A Taurus man doesn’t always have the right words to say when he’s falling in love. He’d rather show you how he feels by adorning you with gifts, treating you special, or fixing things for you.
He will hold your hand often, he will kiss you more often, and he will want to be around you more than he did before. This is a very clear sign of a Taurus man falling in love and being ready to take things up a notch.
He will often want to keep you all to himself. If he stops spending as much time with his friends and makes more time for you, he’s in love with you. Taurus men do not play games. If he wants to be with you, he’ll prove it!
Just as he wants to prove his emotions to you, he’ll want you to do the same with him. Though everyone likes to hear “I love you,” he wants to make sure it’s expressed; otherwise, the words mean nothing.
When a Taurus man says he loves you – Can you trust him? Find out here.
6. A Taurus Man Falling In Love Will Become Softer In Bed
When he is trying to impress or win you over, he will do his very best to be a sex god in bed. But once a Taurus man is in love, he will want to kiss you more and will become much softer and more vulnerable.
A Taurus man is incredibly sensual and one of the best lovers you could ever imagine. He will go out of his way to make you feel pleasure, but he will also be deeply intimate and stare into your eyes as he makes love to you. It will be quite a moving experience for you both.
Enjoy it; this is just the beginning of what he is when he is in love.
Learn here how a Taurus man expresses his love for you.
7. He Will Make Expensive Gestures
A Taurus man is very much defined by material luxuries, and when he really falls for someone, he will make gestures that give away how valuable you are in his eyes. One of his love languages is definitely gift-giving, and he will shower you with presents as often as the mood takes him.
When a Taurus man is falling in love with you, he wants you to feel special and know how much you mean to him. The more he gives, the more he cares about you.
These gestures are not always expensive in a financial sense; he may invite you to visit his senile grandmother, which, in his eyes, is a step closer to marriage. He’ll be very generous with his time and his energy when he thinks you are worth it.
4 More Signs A Taurus Man Is Falling For You
8. He Will Show Concern For Your Safety
Taurus men are possessive and obsessed with security, so one way they show love is to be very concerned with how safe and secure you are. This is expressed in being protective and even bossy about the risks you take and the choices you make.
Take it as a compliment and show your appreciation, because if you fight him off or show that you don’t need him, he will find it harder to come to terms with being head over heels in love. He just wants to know that you are okay and will do anything to ensure it!
9. He Will Boast About You Or Quote You When He Talks
A Taurus man secretly in love may go to a lot of trouble to look like he doesn’t even care, but he won’t be able to resist dropping your name or quoting things you say into his everyday conversation.
Listen to how much he loves you and how much he weaves you and your opinions into his everyday communication. You are probably more on his mind than you realize! When a Taurus man falls in love, a lot of his energy is spent thinking about his woman.
10. He Will Turn Up The Sensual Heat
Love, for a Taurus man, is an expression of tantalizing tastes, sounds, and smells. Watch for subtle signs like a few more candles, fresh flowers, or a specially prepared home-cooked meal.
He may take more care with his appearance or get a new haircut, and all of these are hidden signs that he is madly and badly in love.
If he runs a big hot bath and lights candles or fills the house with exotic smells, take that as your cue to be willing and receptive to his brand of enduring, faithful love. This is another clear sign that a Taurus man is falling in love.
Read next: When A Taurus Man Decides You’re The One (Signs He Is Ready To Commit)
11. He Will Confide In You
Trust is a major issue for a Taurus man, and he will only confide his most deeply hidden, shameful secrets to someone he completely trusts and loves.
When he does this, you need to take him seriously and guard his confidence in you as you would your own life. You need to create the conditions where he will feel secure enough to bare his heart and soul, so don’t react to his mixed signals; just stay interested and available to him, and this will coax him out of his shell.
FAQs On Taurus Man Falling In Love
How can you tell if your Taurus man is falling in love with you? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship. Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with your Taurus man.
How Long Does A Taurus Man Take To Fall In Love?
You have probably figured out by now that a Taurus man isn’t one to get swept up in romances and fall in love at first sight. His approach is much slower, as he sees romance as a lifelong commitment.
He is the type of guy who will first be attracted to a woman because of her looks. His sign is ruled by Venus, so beauty and appearance are extremely important to him. He loves to look at pretty things, and he needs his woman to be an absolute babe.
If he likes the look of a lady, he’ll definitely slowly make his way to approach her, but that doesn’t mean he’s smitten with her from the get-go. He needs more substance than that. He needs to be able to see if she would make a worthy commitment to him.
This is why a Taurus man prefers to take things slow and see what can develop over time. What he wants is a woman who is stable, loyal, and devoted to the relationship. This takes a lot of trust, and when it comes to trust, it can only be built slowly over time.
How Does A Taurus Man Express Love?
When a Taurus man is in love with a woman, he is so loyal and devoted. He will shower his woman with all the love and care in the world. He just adores being in a relationship and giving his woman all of his attention.
A Taurus man in love is extremely affectionate, tender, and supportive. He’s the type of guy to shower you with gifts, make scrumptious meals for you, and provide a lovely home for the two of you to live in.
You can expect sweet kisses, lots of hugs, and physical affirmation. He is the type of guy who will want to walk side by side with you and take your hand to show the world that you belong to him. A Taurus man will go out of his way to support you and take care of you in whatever way you need.
Normal Dating Advice Can Backfire With A Taurus Man
It can be SO painful to worry about how to make things work with a Taurus man who won’t commit.
I know. I’ve been there… I remember crying myself to sleep worried about whether my man would EVER commit to me.
And there were a TON of nights when I just couldn’t sleep at all. I lost hours of time from work and doing things I loved…
All because I couldn’t figure out how to capture his heart… How to get him to see what a catch I am… And to finally commit to me.
It made me feel incredibly insecure… And I’m an extremely confident woman. I’d never had a man not fall for me quickly. EVER. But… I KNEW how good he was for me, so I didn’t want to give up.
All my friends kept telling me to just move on. They couldn’t see what I saw…
That he was the most INCREDIBLE man I’d ever met.
How could I just give up on that???
I couldn’t!
And now, looking back, I’m SO grateful that I DIDN’T listen to my friends.
He is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met.
And now we’re happily married.
But it wasn’t easy…
It took a LOT of work.
I had to learn how to speak a different language… his love language.
And it worked!!!
So if you are ready to sleep like a baby… Knowing your Taurus man is MADLY in love with you… And never feel anxious about him again…
Click here and learn to speak your Taurus man’s love language.
Sending you love and light,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach x
Hi I’m in love with a Taurus man who acts like he wants me one day and the next he acts like I don’t exist.
His birthday was last week n I gave him an awesome gift and we were all happy chappy till Sunday. But I have been calling(I do ALL the calling) and texting since Monday and he hasn’t even replied once.
What did I do wrong now?
I don’t think u did anything wrong maybe he is isn’t happy anymore or he doesn’t want anything to do with anyone. That is usually the first sign when they stop replying back to texts and phone calls and etc.
Damn i have the same situation my Taurus man act same after spending 2 days eacheder the next day he start acting like nothing happen like no more love
He does follow me around the house but he never grabs my butt or anything so does that mean he still loves me? Inam with a Taurus man and he is amazing
I have been in an unconventional loving relationship with a Taurus man for 3 years now, and I’ve never been attracted to a Taurus before, especially being that I am a Taurus myself. In the past 3 years, I discovered a lot about not just him, but also in myself. Understanding him more meant understanding myself more in many ways. Hot and cold behaviors are common, but in some cases do NOT mean what they seem. There are many triggers that affect the hot/cold behaviors, and the triggers depend on those who do this and what their motivations are. Taurus often hide their emotions, and some can and do for years. He and I have been playing hide and seek with our personal feelings for each other for longer than we have been “together”. I say together in quotes because being “together” with exclusivity and restrictions is what he and I fear the most. He and I do not place any restrictions on each other and we are happier for it. Relationships feel like miserable traps for a lot of people. Take great care with yourself and your significant other that your relationship is based on reality and liberty. The sooner someone starts saying that they don’t want you to do this or that, is when people should RUN from that person. Relationships aren’t limitations, they should be viewed as limitless potentials.
If you aren’t a “slow and steady wins the race” kind of person, then Taurus lovers especially at their purest are not for you. Taurus are known less for their patience than they are about known for being stubborn. It shouldn’t be this way, because patience is what can and does make us stubborn. Patience is the vehicle that goes to the place where stubbornness begins.
Hi Lisa! Thank you for sharing your Taurus man experience with everyone. Taurus men always seem so tough and strong to everyone. While they are an Earth sign, they happen to be a bit more vulnerable than one would ever imagine. That being said, once someone starts to see their flaws, the more uncomfortable they become. This is absolutely normal for a Taurus. The other thing is, they are NOT the most patient though it is hard to piss them off. They are steady and in control much of the time but they are not impervious. They are set in their ways and what they believe. That is true. There is so much one can learn about Taurus that is highly invaluable. In fact, perhaps you may learn that much more by taking a look at my book “Taurus Man Secrets” as it gives a great deal more information than my blog.
Hi Anna!
I’m a Scorpio and I’m interested in this taurus guy. We shared a group of friends a few years ago but we didn’t talk for two years. Last week, out of nowhere, he followed me on instagram and dm me that “we should hang out”, I was on a trip at that time but I said, ok, sure!” And that was the end. Now I’m back and I’m really interested in him. I come from a messy long aquarius-scorpio relationship and I feel very insecure about myself, I cant even remember how to flirt! Because you can’t look desperate with an aquarius, I learned to ignore this kind of messages.
Anyways, what about Taurus? Is he serious? Is he really interested? or he was just trying to being nice..
Sorry if this question is kinda silly but I’ve never met a Taurus before. Thank you!!
Hi Nazaret!
Reach out to him and find out if he’s still interested in getting together. Sitting back and waiting for him to reach out isn’t going to win the prize. He needs to know you’re into it and you want to get to know him. When he is sure of that, he will do more with you and start forming more of a bond. Give it a try!
Hi Anna,
I have the longest crush on a Taurus man, we hanged out a few times because we share the same group of friends. We never really chat or when we do we always have awkward talks and simultaneously stare at each other when we see each other.
He does Dm me sometimes commenting on something funny i posted or wishes me on successes and birthdays but don’t pursue long convo’s.
Sometimes I get the vibe that he likes me, but sometimes just feels he not interested cause he doesn’t make effort to show he likes me?
Also… he is Acquainted with my ex… they not close but also share the same group of friends.
I really really like him and never felt so attracted to someone (i’m an Aries btw) so being the person I am i usually go for what I want… however i’m afraid it will scare him off completely.
It bugs me not knowing if he likes me or not how will i know if he does like me at all?
Hi Catherine!
It sounds like you two have somewhat of a friendship if he’s messaging you or commenting. If you are into him then you need to let him know. Taurus men do not chase after a woman unless he knows she’s into it and wants him to. He doesn’t want to be rejected and waste his time. Tell him you like him, flirt with him, tell him you’d like to get to know him better. He should take the lead after you do. If you need more info, please check out my book “Taurus Men Secrets”.
Hello Anna
I will start by thanking you on each and every one of your articles about the Taurus Man; they have been very helpful and interesting to read and apply !
I’m a Gemini woman who loves communication, adventures, flirting, witty talks and romantic love/ care
I am liking a Taurus man, we work in the same company but we don’t see each other often at work; we’ve been flirting for months by text and we are both very attracted to each other ever since we first met but when we talked openly about what we’re looking for, I said I was looking for something serious whereas he said he was not looking to be in a relationship right now since he had just got out of one which was pretty consuming so it was a bit awkward but we continued talking from time to time both still standing for what each wants but still flirting and caring. He asked me out once but we didnt actually go out or specify a date to not get into something that one of us does not want (as I understood from him), so we decided to go with the flow and take it easy and find a middle ground. Problem is he is being a bit hot and cold by not initiating the conversation himself but when we talk it’s amazing and fun and he showed care and compliments me on many things so what should I do to keep the conversation going and actually reach somewhere? I’m not sure if he will really find a middle ground or stay as he is or just wants to be friends with Benefits. Should I give up on all of it or give ourselves a chance because I really do not want to get into a relationship that’s not serious or which will hurt me. And should I be the one initiating the communication even though I don’t like to do that?
Thank you for your help!
I am an Aquarius woman and my boyfriend is a Taurus. We’ve been dating for about three years. One thing that I do not like about him is that he is very sassy and also likes to have the last word and can be very petty. There has been times where he has went. Ghost on me has times where he has put me on do not disturb there has times he has blocked me. On top of that I have my doubts about him going behind my back and just either chilling with other people, and being so secretive of it, but when it comes to me, it’s like he hast to have all access, which I think that’s not fair. Well, if you do not know that acquires women are very territorial, and stand on a word and very solid, and do not like people playing with them, nor Lying to them. Long story short, my Taurus boyfriend stated that he had an assistant that was a female and had lied about being with her previous before me which I understand he told me it was not any of my business what he did before me, which is true, but at the same time I felt like why would you have me meet Your assistant knowing that you fucked her before me. But anyway, he kept using my car to go places because he didn’t have a car but at the same time when he wasn’t with me, he was with her using the car. Now I do not know if they were in a relationship or not because at the same time I did ask her if she had a boyfriend or a girlfriend and she said no and then , he actually called her on the phone and told her do we go together and she said no. I end up causing a reaction to get a reaction from her by messing with her property and she did nothing at all. I felt to myself that anybody who would damage my property I would want to call the police on them, or want to beat their butt. She did not. Long story short he went ahead and basically alienated me from coming to his home, and also telling me where he moved at. So what I did the typical Aquarius woman we are private investigators, and you will never know what we know. I end up moving five minutes away from him literally , and told him where I lived at, and he told me that I could not come over to his home until things die down because I like to mess up peoples property which was not even his property I messed up which is crazy so I felt like the tourist kept me on a string and then also he was very adamant about him being needy it’s almost like him being hungry I had to , give him money for food or him bring up that he was hungry to indicate that he wants to go somewhere or whatever and I just couldn’t do it at all like I love him but I love him enough to let him go and on top of that, he kept breaking up with me like over multiple times for stupid petty things. It got to appoint to where he even blocked me a social media, and said he was actually taking a flight and didn’t even take a flight had posted the old video and I called him out on it and that’s why he blocked me so just be careful dealing with a tourist mail because they’ll act like they’re into you and wanna have sex with you want to spend time with a lay with you and behind closed doors. They’re probably dealing with somebody else.
Hi Esme,
When a Taurus man is in love or wants to be with someone, he will go to the ends of the earth to show her. When he’s not doing this, he’s not invested yet and you should be wary.
A Taurus man loves to love and will go out of his way to show the person who has his affections how much they mean to him. If he’s radio silent, then he’s probably got his attention elsewhere. When a Taurus man doesn’t want a relationship with you, it will be pretty obvious. He won’t go out of his way to make you feel special and he will be kind of icy towards you, in fact, he may flat-out ignore you.
He won’t ask to spend time with you and he will keep saying he has other plans when you try to see him. He kind of hates drama and he is going to try to avoid a confrontation with you about his feelings. If this happens, I recommend moving forward with your life. He doesn’t deserve you. Best of luck to you!