9 Biggest Taurus Man Turn Offs

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
These few things are the biggest turn offs for a Taurus man. Stray from these traits and you and your Taurus man might have your happily ever after.

Give and take is a giant deal in a relationship with a Taurus man. Are you wondering about Taurus man turn offs?

Taurus men are known to have high standards and good taste. They’re incredible people who will never let you down as long as you don’t let them down. When you know exactly what turns a Taurus man off, you will know what not to do to a Taurus man.

These men are some of the most beautiful guys of the Zodiac. Being ruled by Venus, they often have voices that sound like honey, and the charm and good looks of a movie star. 

As such, Taurus have some easy-to-grasp, but sometimes hard-to-avoid turn offs that remain consistent no matter who they’re dating. They are almost irritatingly predictable, but hey, that’s why we love ‘em!

What kinds of behaviors and habits should you be avoiding to stay in the Taurus’ good graces? Thankfully, Astrology can let us in on the psyche of the Taurus man! From this, I’ve been able to deduce nine things that will have a Taurus man running for the hills and away from an otherwise great woman! 

I will give you the list of the biggest turn offs for a Taurus man. Stray from these traits and you and your Taurus man might have your happily ever after.

What Turns A Taurus Man Off

The Taurus man is known for being a loyal type of guy. He loves routine and practicality and is famous for his long-term planning. He wants a woman who is trustworthy, loyal, and dependable. She needs to value security and stability in the relationship. This means that a Taurus man likes a woman who is grounded and practical.

He is not into manipulative, passive-aggressive, or capricious women who need to always be in control. It’s not that they need to dominate you, so much as that they need to be appreciated and valued.

A Taurus man doesn’t like a partner who is too dependable and who overly relies on his emotional support and attention. Taurus is not a fan of frequent texting, calling, or seeking reassurance on a daily basis.

These men need to feel important, in control and appreciated. If a woman is ambitious and career-minded, her Taurus man will get behind her and help her achieve her heart’s desire. He wants her to know that she can count on him, and in return, she will appreciate his leadership and support.

Here’s more about Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman <<

6 Biggest Taurus Man Turn Offs In A Woman

1. Playing Mind Games

Taurus are some of the most straightforward people you’ll ever meet. They are a fixed earth sign, and this pretty much means that he’s super grounded and very predictable. 

He’s not one to manipulate or attempt to gain sympathy from others. He’s pretty good at accepting things as they are unless it requires a huge life upheaval for him!

As a result, he won’t be on board with immature behavior that baits him into reacting a certain way and he doesn’t stand for emotional manipulation. 

A Taurus is what he is and his opinion is that you can take him or leave him! He won’t be changing for you or for anyone for that matter. Remember the thing from physics about an object in motion meeting an immovable force? The immovable force they were talking about was definitely a Taurus!

Some examples of game-playing could be trying to lure out certain emotional reactions from him, attempting to see how far he will go for you, or “testing” his love for you. 

He sees right through this… a Taurus rarely moves fast, but you can bet they’ll be out the door in a blink if you push his limits!

2. Being Overemotional

The Taurus is an earth sign and thus he best understands solid action and the material realm well. However, he gets along really well with water signs. After all, the water needs something to contain it or it will flood everywhere.

Taurus isn’t insensitive to emotions for this reason, in fact, he pretty much gets where you’re coming from as long as you’re self-aware. But when emotions get to be overwhelming, unending, and wallowy, he starts to yawn. 

A Taurus himself does get into deep funks but he feels that it’s his problem to deal with and he wishes that some of his water-sign loved ones would vent a little but ultimately handle their own you-know-what!

The best approach for a Taurus is to talk about your emotions a bit and even get really into it for one or two conversations… but then take the advice of your Taurus man and take personal responsibility for your emotional reactions.

Learn here how to communicate effectively with a Taurus man <<

Being grounded, the Taurus recognizes that whether or not the emotion is your “fault” or not, it’s still yours to deal with. Someone who can’t grasp that and continues to inundate the Taurus will find him inching towards the door. 

3. Behaving Erratically

I think I’ve made it clear that a Taurus likes his routine and predictability gets him all hot and bothered! So, if you’re someone who struggles to have two days of consistency in a row the Taurus may have issues relating.

Taurus doesn’t have a high tolerance for changeability. Someone who wants to do new and different things every day and has the gall to ask the Taurus to join will find one bullish guy laughing in their face!

Now, I advise that you more spontaneous ladies use your relationship with the Taurus to work on the areas of life that need more consistency from you. A Taurus would gladly help you manage your checkbook, achieve your goals, and take baby steps towards a more consistent life where it counts.

Read next: Top Reasons Why A Taurus Man Avoids Commitment (And How to Flip it Around) <<

4. Lack Of Reasoning

A Taurus exists in the now. He isn’t floating off on another planet in his mind, rather, he’s pretty entrenched in the moment. He knows how to work on the basic everyday things that need to be done. If not the Taurus, then who?

A Taurus has a great mix of tackling unpleasant necessities and rewarding himself with creature comforts. A Taurus isn’t anti-pleasure, quite the contrary. He wants to fully enjoy his pleasures and can’t do that with unaddressed responsibility looming overhead!

He takes issue with flighty behavior and a lack of mindfulness. In his mind, practicality should have been one of the ten commandments! 

Someone who drops all their money on a pair of Louis Vuitton’s when her rent hasn’t been paid yet will make a Taurus’ eyes roll, for example. 

He knows what the priorities are and he needs a partner who also sees what has to be done and does it. He respects the self-restraint involved in temporarily putting off pleasure for long-term gain. Don’t worry, he’ll be the first to suggest you reward every effort you put forward!

5. Not Being Thoughtful 

Taurus men love to give thoughtful gifts and take you out on dates that matter. The bond they feel with you when you share a sentimental moment will stay with them even when you’re not around. If you’re not a thoughtful person, they won’t enjoy your presence fully.

They love the give and take in a relationship, they love giving gifts and receiving memories and keeping them safe.

When a Taurus loves someone, they go above and beyond the standard for everything. They aren’t big fans of people who won’t reciprocate that same feeling and urge to please. A Taurus man needs to be around someone who can make him feel loved and secure and this is possible only next to a thoughtful woman.

Even if the relationship isn’t serious, putting everything out on the table that you have will give him a sense of security and he will feel good and safe around you because of that experience you two shared.

6. Being Lazy

If you’re a lazy person by nature, chances are that a Taurus man won’t pay you much attention.

Just because Taurus men aren’t into spontaneity doesn’t mean they’re lazy homebodies. Taurus men absolutely love to make something of their life. Fill your day with something fun to do together and he will keep that memory with him.

Taurus is a very driven man, he wants to make sure things get done correctly. He will also want to keep learning as much as he can in order to better himself.

He wants a woman who will do the same. If he feels you’re lazy, he will figure that you just don’t care about yourself or the relationship which could cause him to back out or away entirely.

While chilling out on the couch watching TV is sometimes OK if you do it all the time; this will definitely appear as laziness and he just cannot hang with that. He will start spending more time away from the house and you.

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7. Being Overly Aggressive

When you get to know a Taurus man, you start to learn that he isn’t the type to want a woman controlling him in any way whatsoever, especially in the bedroom. He doesn’t want to feel closed up or tied down. Taurus men are used to being dominant types of men.

He wants to love someone freely and have them love him in return, but without constraints. I’m not saying he doesn’t want to commit, but when he does, he wants to feel as though there is an understanding between you two.

In the bedroom, a Taurus man prefers to be “the man” and will want to be the one busting the moves. However, he makes exceptions for the right woman. If you try to dominate him or his life, you will be sadly dismissed.

8. Avoiding Foreplay

If you are wondering what not to do with a Taurus man, it is useful to know that he just adores foreplay. He will absolutely cherish giving you pleasure, so you should make sure he feels equally adored.

Pamper your Taurus man with some sexy undies and some stimulating foreplay. Make sure you give ample attention to stroking his ego, and he’ll make you the queen of his heart.

For foreplay, the Taurus man loves oral stimulation and will often be more than willing to reciprocate the pleasure. Your satisfaction is very important to him.

He is conservative, but he knows what he does well and will exploit it to the max after you’ve been primed for peak pleasure. So if you are not into foreplay, or feel uncomfortable in this area, your Taurus man will be turned off and will deprive you of his sexual expertise.

9. Not Caring About Your Looks

One of the ways to turn off a Taurus man is by not paying attention to your look. A Taurus man will not tolerate a woman who is not paying attention to her appearance. He is turned off by a lack of qualities like acting like a woman, not being aesthetically oriented, or not taking care of her personal appearance and hygiene.

He worships and adores all that is feminine about his lady. Taurus loves and needs to have all of his senses moved by her. A Taurus man type of woman should have a taste for beauty, be conscious of her health, and put effort into being physically appealing to her man.

Not putting enough effort into looking presentable is a big turn off for a Taurus man.

How To Get A Taurus Man Turned On Again

A Taurus man values honesty and devotion. A woman who is not honest and who is playing mind games will not win the heart of a Taurus man.

A Taurus man absolutely loves a woman who adores him. A Taurus man perfect woman will treat him with respect and kindness and take care of him. He will respond the same way.

Change your bad habits, and life will be better all around, while also avoiding turn-offs for a Taurus man you like. By doing so, you would be well on your way to making a great impression on him.

Be receptive, romantic, and sensual. This will turn him on. Don’t lack empathy. Be caring and show physical affection to deepen your connection with your Taurus guy. Blend spirituality and romance with sexuality.

Being close to a Taurus man won’t be hard at all if he’s smitten with you or already head over heels for you. Taurus men are generally open books, and they love to get close to people no matter what, but the affection comes in when you start being close to him.

How To Make Your Taurus Man Crave You

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So if you are ready to drive your Taurus man wild with passionKnowing that he will NEVER want to leave you… And never again doubt how much he adores you…

Go here now to see exactly how to turn on your Taurus man in ways you never even knew were possible.




P.S. Not all men are turned on by the same things. 

You need to see EXACTLY what turns your Taurus man on based on his specific astrology. 

If you use the same approach with a Taurus as you’d use with a Gemini, he could get up and leave instead of getting all hot and bothered.

Don’t make that mistake! 

See the SPECIFIC things YOUR man craves here now. 

Anna Kovach

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

15 thoughts on “9 Biggest Taurus Man Turn Offs

      1. Dear, according to Indian birth charts, he truly is a Taurus and I’m so sure because I’m the same.

    1. Hi dhinis!

      You are a Pisces as far as Western Astrology goes. You might want to check into the Pisces information instead of Taurus. I’m sorry but I do not write horoscopes. You might check with a free astrology site to learn more about Pisces and their horoscopes. There are plenty of free sites that do this. I wish you all the luck!

    1. Hi KT!

      We do not currently have the women’s books up as of yet. I am working on those as we speak. I hope to have all the books up and uploaded in the next couple of years. We have man projects in the works but want to be sure both sides are covered so please stay tuned!

      1. I’m a Leo woman and am in love with two tarus guys.The first I’ve known him for 10yrs now and the second for 6months.with the first I’m confused we have been on and off.The second is just a crush.

        1. Hi Mae!

          It sounds like you need to make a choice between your two Taurus men. Weigh the pros and cons of each and figure out which one you feel more drawn to and the one that has the most spiritual connection. If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  1. i’m aquarius women but i fell in love with this guy and hes Taurus. At first he approached me sitting with a random guy friend and he asked if i can help with some info and took my number. i felt he was interested in me but i never thought about it later. we used to see each other in some places and say hi to each other. he reached me a few times without being obvious and i kept it professionally and talked the way he talked to me… About a year and half i just randomly liked him he was so great looking that i first noticed and shocked how i admired him for this long time i never feel him.. Anyway, now i told him that hes a good guy and i like him and i said lets have try if we can have a relationship. He’s said he liked me already but he is afraid he can’t commit to any relationship cause hes student and so on and so on, but nothing is about me and all is about him not feeling ready. I am graduate student too however i work and kinda self sufficient now.
    90 percent at the time i approach him but i think he doesnt like/ Afraid talking to me, i feel i pressured him but this is what im feeling i try hard to control myself so i call him once every two weeks. You said these guys are physical but culturally we don’t do this so all i can do is to talk to him but in a productive way and i don’t know how to do it. Anna please help me how can communicate with him and not scare him

    1. Hi Ahlan!

      Ok so Taurus men prioritize differently. They now where they have to focus and when they do that, it often means love has to be on the back burner until he can focus less on his work and more on relationships. He has a hard time juggling which is why he told you this. You are able to juggle better than he is. I would go slowly, be patient, and let him focus where he needs to if you want to be with him. If you need more information about Taurus man, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.

  2. Hi, I have a Taurus friend, and I think he might like me but I’m not into him… I’m a Gemini

    Is there any way I can let him know I’m not interested or turn him off without hurting our friendship? I’ve known him for years, but all of a sudden he started texting me goodnight, calling just to ask what’s up, wanting me to meet his family and hang out, but I don’t want to send the wrong signals.

    Thank you!

    1. Hi Q,

      To let a Taurus man know you aren’t interested, tell him “you’re a cool friend man”. He will get the message that he’s in the friend zone and he probably won’t try to push it. If he does and flat out says something to you then at that point you can tell him “sorry but I’m just not feeling that way for you”. His ego will be hurt but he’ll get over it. Stop responding to his texts. By you responding, you’re giving him hope. I’m not saying you have to cut him off entirely if you dig him as a friend but definitely tell him that you’re not comfortable meeting the family. Good luck sweetheart!

    2. To,Q…please tell your taurus friend ..never marry a gemini girl…never!!!!! For a taurus guy..gemini girl can be best friends both ways..
      Think about it twice before marrying a gemini girl.
      Taurus likes everything about gemini..but taurus are physical ..while geminis are not..their mind needs to be satisfyed before anything..they witty ,intelligent..

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