Are you confused on whether or not the Taurus man you like is playing hard to get or is just plain not interested in you? I have some suggestions that could help you to make some headway on this situation.
Oblivious Behavior
When a Taurus is not interested in you or flat out doesn’t like you; he’ll act as though you do not exist. Literally he could walk by and not even notice you sitting there.
You may wonder if he’s doing that on purpose but most of the time he isn’t. He’s just really not paying you any attention and doesn’t notice your existence. Strange I know but that’s how they are.
Now if he doesn’t like you because you’ve done something to make him ice you out; you can expect that he will avoid you like the plague. He will not want any chance of confrontation.
It’s the matter of being able to know the difference in if he is upset with you or if he just doesn’t “see” you.
Focused Intention
In most cases, Taurus doesn’t like to waste time with people they feel may not be good for their lives. Even if he thinks you’re attractive; if he feels you probably wouldn’t be a good match then he will not bother.
After he figures this out, he will likely pay you no attention like I mentioned before. This guy is really good at tuning out his surroundings. He is one that can at times; have very selective hearing as well as sight.
When this man is focused on what he wants, he will easily start making plans to get what he is trying to achieve. If he isn’t into someone or doesn’t like them, he will waste no time, he will just move on.
Typically Taurus’ behavior is something that is easily noticed and shouldn’t be confusing unless his Moon sign is one that makes him a bit more elusive like Scorpio.
No Mystery
There isn’t much mystery when it comes to the stead Taurus. Unless he has an interesting moon or ascendant sign, he is typically an open book. There are a few that may be secretive.
Most of them however, are truth tellers and much like Sagittarius will tell you what the truth is even if you don’t like it. They’re blunt and razor sharp.
In fact sometimes they aren’t meaning to be mean but, come off that way with how the tell you something. It seems harsh but perhaps it’s something that needed to be said.
As such, they are the same way if they aren’t interested in someone or don’t like them for whatever reason. You become a distant memory if you’ve ticked them off or if they don’t even know you; they will keep that up.
They do not want to take the time to get to know someone they aren’t really drawn to or for whatever reason, want nothing to do with. They easily exclude people from their lives.
What he may sense
Whether they will admit it or not; they are sometimes naturally aware of energy. They can sense if someone is good or if they have ill intention. They can also sense if someone is right or not.
If he feels a tension or some kind of vibration he doesn’t like or isn’t comfortable with, he will turn his back on you. If he’s known you for a while and it seems he’s suddenly done this; it’s been building.
Taurus harbors things for awhile before they finally cut it off. They may seem hard at times but they really don’t like hurting people’s feelings. If they don’t like you then all bets are off though.
They have no trouble telling you how you wronged them or what your flaws are that make him not want to be around you. If you don’t know him though and he avoids you, it’s a sign he isn’t into you or interested in knowing you.
Body Language
If you still aren’t sure if that Taurus you’ve been watching likes you or doesn’t like you; watch his body language. His actions will always speak loudly about his intent and what he wants.
If he shows you his backside often, he doesn’t like you. If he won’t walk anywhere near you or acts a bit awkward, he probably doesn’t like you. There isn’t any gray area with these men.
Taurus is going to let you know via his body language. If you get him to talk at all, he will likely cross his arms and look nervously around instead of looking directly at you. He’s trying to hurry up and get out of there.
When he’s into someone or likes them as a friend, he will be more warm and generous with his time. If he doesn’t like you; he has no time for you.
His body will reflect how he feels. If you try to reach out to touch his hand while handing him something, you’ll feel his awkward pull back. If he does indeed act this way then it’s likely he does not like you and has zero interest.
Again, this all goes back to whether you wronged him in some way, perhaps you are around people he doesn’t like, or he just doesn’t know you and has no desire to; the Taurus man is transparent.
It’s hard for him to hide his feelings. Even when he’s mad, you can tell but you’ll never know what it is until he finally calms enough to let you know. In some cases he won’t even ever let you know until it’s too late.
If it’s too late, he’ll tell you as he’s breaking up with you or telling you he isn’t interested in being anything with you. Taurus men can be real heartbreakers but not all of them are.
I cannot stress this enough; which direction a Taurus will go with you depends also on what their Moon sign is or Ascendant. They are not all the same but what does remain the same is their body language and actions.
Taurus men are fairly clear but there are other things that they don’t always want to share. If you want to know as much as possible about them, you may want to check out my book. In Taurus Man Secrets; there is plenty of pointers and information to help you decipher who this man really is.
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I am a cancerian woman and was chatting with a taurean for about over a month. We did have a few arguments over his interest as he kept quiet many a times and wouldn’t reply. On his birthday I even tried sending him a surprise cake but he managed not to take the delivery. The next day he told me it was not going to work out between us. Although it was only a month since we chat and I have never met him, but I am unable to move on as he didn’t tell me the reason why it wouldn’t work out. Earlier he was flying to come see me and there were other things that he said to me like he was getting addicted to me chatting to him, he was waiting to see me etc. I am unable to understand that when I have developed some feelings for him he is saying let’s end this without even telling me the reason. Moreover, he has not blocked me from watsapp and keeps checking my status everyday. I don’t understand if he is playing or is really not interested. Any help will be appreciated. Thanks.
Honestly you probably did something or your energy that you gave to him was untrustworthy to him. Us taurus men love security and honesty at all times. We can’t take when someone is being moved and motivated by their emotions all the time because people who are very emotionable, end up being toxic in a sense and we hate that because we are emotionable but for the right things.
Hi there..Jesus , I met this Taurus guy online we are talking for a week every day he said that I make him looking forward to my sms.. last week he went for thanksgiving and visit his friends.. then he sent me a message online asking for my WhatsApp I send it to him we spoke for hours and shared pictures of our kids and he told me that he missed me.. he was back home on Sunday but never said nothing again..today I send him a sms asking if he is ok .. and he replied me saying Hey I think it’s not going to work out.. good luck with your search.. I’m completely shocked because he was the one making the move on me online and I did liked him we had a good or I thought myself that we had a good connection like he said.. do u think I should try and talk to him?? Or just move on? Pls advise by the way I’m pisces
Aries woman here. A few years ago i dated a taurus man. Suddenly he broke it off. I walked away as if it didnt hurt. Even though i was heartbroken. Now here it is (3years later) and he is back and they way he treats me now is so different from the first time. He is involved and interested in me. He if very physical with me. Always touching and rubbing me. He calls and texts all day and night long even at work. I feel like he really cares this time. Im gonna give him a chance because i always thought he was the one. But i will never let my guard down until im sure just because i know how fast he can flip and turn ice cold.
My Taurus man and I have not physically seen each other, we have just been talking on the phone and are planning on meeting face to face soon! We are very attracted to each other’s voice! We have seen pics of one another! Surprising enough he is still interested! How do I keep him? By the way I’m a Scorpio female….
I have know a Taurus man from 2 years we went on a date once and then we met again . But I was really insecure after a year when we met again we went for a movie and then we headed to his place , we kissed and ended up having sex with him , he was very generous cute and I was scared I said I feel like soulmate and he said who knows this could be forever but then I said no yes no yes , we met again and he was very sweet he was just holding me so tight he won’t let me go, but then he will sit away from me and I had no other option then to leave . I told him how I feel and he would say tell me what do you want me to do teasingly, and I am not sure where I stand . Plz help
He even invited me on his birthday and I was not sure what to do so I dint tell him how I feel that time . Please help me
I am an aries woman here. I get very confused with this taurus man i met a couple months ago. I want to know if he likes me. He always asks me for a ride home and i always give him one and he is very nice and respectful and tells me all about his family and life. He always smiles at me in a really sweet way. Lately i have been telling him he is handsome and stuff. And he talked all night once. But at like 3 am he told me i should go to bed. And the next day, he stopped messaging in the middle on the conversation and hasnt talked to me since. I dont know
Taurus Men are too…guarded, stubborn, and manipulative. Many Taurus Men are Clases and Controlling. They want Women for Sex and can be very cheap when it comes to dating or taking a Woman out. All these ways don’t seem to interfere with trying to get into a Woman’s Panties or putting t he Woman he dates on a Clock while they are out together. Yes Taurus Men are Sensual, and can be a Freak in the Sheets. Too controlling for this Sagittarius.
I’m in a really weird situation with this Taurus guy. We’ve never officially met, or talked. I’ve kind of had really strong feelings for him and I’m a socially awkward introvert, so of course I had to embarrass myself in front of him and get all awkward around him.
I think he noticed, because everytime he noticed I saw him, he’d walk away from the place, just like that. I observed that he didn’t immediately walk away as soon as he saw me, he would wait until he realized I knew he was there, then he’d make sure I was watching when he did his whole walking-away-and-acting-like-i-don’t-exist thing.
I’ve caught him staring at me a few times, but never with a smile or anything. A couple of his friends notice me too, and one of his female friends started being REALLY mean to me (she wasn’t before). And one time, I heard him tell his friend to actually PUSH me down the stairs, as they passed by. I got the hell out of there, wondering why he’d do that if he’s never even spoken to me! It’s not my fault I fell for him, we don’t choose that!
Exactly one year later, he sends me a friend request on social media the very next day I join.
I’m really, really confused. Why did he do what he did? I’ve never felt like this about anyone and I’d really appreciate any insight.
Hi Raven Black!
Sounds to me like he probably likes you or is interested. I don’t think he’d friend request you after all this time if he didn’t. As far as the push you down the steps thing, I’m pretty sure he was kidding honey. Remember when boys used to throw rocks at girls when they were young because they liked them but didn’t want anyone to know about it? That’s essentially the same thing. If he friend request you then accept it and talk to him. You may just find out what his intention is. With time you can let him know you like him and he should let you know whether he’s into that or if he’s not. Take the chance!
Hi,
i’am a Scorpio woman I meet a Taurus man and everything was going smooth about 3 weeks after meeting Taurus man tells me that he is catching feelings for me .I was surprised because it was too early for feelings to be involved I ignored him and slowly by shortly the communication stopped and now he doesn’t talk to me at all and I want him back, he said I waited to long but I just didn’t want to jump into a relationship
What do I do ? I want him back but he won’t communicate with me it’s been 2 months
Hi Ciera!
It would seem that by you ignoring him, you sort of told him you’re not interested. Taurus is all about action instead of words per say. They don’t like being ignored and not taken seriously. I understand your not wanting to go fast but you should just tell him that. Tell him you’re sorry you scared him off (in a joking way to make him laugh) and tell him you’d like to talk. Hopefully he’ll engage with you and you can explain that you didn’t mean anything by it before but you are someone who needs to take it nice and easy to make sure it’s going to last.
Well ladies…I fell for a Taurus man real hard and after on again off again, on again off again
communication, I decided to dump him. Got news….I’m important too. I don’t know how
damned wonderful they think they are…but they hurt people and in my opinion, no matter
what anyone says…they have no right too.
Hi Janet!
Some Taurus men act that way simply because they are actually quite insecure about themselves. They try to hide it. They act all weird and cold because they don’t want anyone to know that they’re sensitive and deep. They’re afraid of being hurt. Not all Taurus men are arrogant either. Some are very caring, loyal, and amazing (like my husband). It just takes time to work out the bugs in a relationship but I tell you what, communication is either the key or the destroyer if not done properly. I wish you well and hope you find a fantastic guy to give you all the love and respect you deserve!
Hi. Ms Anna Kovach, just wish to know if what is your zodiac sign. Sure thing, you and your Taurus man are really compatible. Hoping from your response. Thank you.
Hi Angelyn!
I myself am a Gemini and I am very compatible with my Taurus man. I hope this helps sweetheart. If you’d like to know more about Taurus, you may want to check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”. Blessings to you!
Hi I’m a Scorpio and I’ve been talking to this Taurus guy for about 3weeks now and everything was going smooth…. we never met in person yet but we just FaceTime all the time he Alway text me first to see if I’m good… now he stopped texting me and I’m so scared to message him cause I feel like he dislike me because of my personality what do I do? Do I leave him alone.
Hi Lamera!
It sounds like he wants to test you to see if you will initiate now without him doing it. He wants to see how much you like him. That being the case, go ahead and initiate. I think you’ll find that he probably will respond and things will seem like normal. I don’t think he just stopped liking you out of nowhere. He wants to see effort from his lady. If you need to know more, please check out my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.
I’m an Aries woman and I met a Taurus man about a month ago. Everything was awesome has been texting me every morning and every night. We’d go for walks and the conversation came so easy. He told me about his doctor finding a spot on his kidney and that he would have to have a CT scan. He also said that he would didn’t want to involve anyone in his problems if it turns out bad. I asked him flat out if he didn’t want to see me again. He told me that he didn’t mean it that way and that he still wanted to see me that the news was just a lot to deal with. If it’s cancer he doesn’t want me to get hurt. We continued seeing each other. Tonight the night before his CT scan he told me again that if his doctor finds out it’s cancer he doesn’t want me to get hurt. That he’s really confused and thinks he deserves to be alone. My biggest issue I want him to be okay but why bother with me. I gave him a chance to walk if he wanted to and he waits. I really liked him and I thought he liked me.
Hi Jennifer!
Ouch that is a lot to deal with for your Taurus guy. Think about what you would do if it were you in his shoes. Would you be focused on a guy you like or would you be freaking out? My guess is you’d be really stressed and love would probably be on the back burner even if only a short while. Tell him you are there for him and that you’re not giving up. He needs someone to make him feel loved and secure. He feels insecure about himself right now and he won’t feel like loving until he feels comfy again. If you need more info, read my book “Taurus Man Secrets”.